Is there something there?
Q. So theres this guy i like, we were great friends for a long time, he was always shouting me sitting with me, i honestly thought he liked me. Then one day his friend told him that i liked him, and ever since he's been ignoring me, and he totally ...
A. 11 October 2007: There could be something there, he could just be shy now that he knows you like him through this guy telling him. The direct eye contact in the hallway is another positive sign he likes you. I feel if he did not he would do his best not to look at ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher flirting with me?
Q. Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure...
A. 11 October 2007: I guess it depends on the way he says it. For instance if he said it while leaning over you and looking into your eyes then i would call this flirting. But if just walked into the room plonked a pile of books on the table and said " hows my little ... (read in full...)
After dating me for 4 months he says he is married! What should I do with him?
Q. My boyfriend just told me he is married after dating me for 4 months he said he didn't tell me because he did not want to lose me. He feels that if I knew I would leave him. What should I do with him. Keep him or throw him to the curb??...
A. 11 October 2007: Yes i agree with the other Aunts, you need to ditch this guy and move on, and find someone who you can trust.
All the best x... (read in full...)
Why do I back out?
Q. ok i really want to make out with my girlfriend I've done it before so I'm kinda nervous :S She hasn't done it before ever and she told me she wants to do it. She's not that confident probably less confident than me :S Every time i go to do it, i...
A. 11 October 2007: I think you are thinking to much about it, so its playing on your mind which is why you keep backing out. stop dwelling on it to much and it will happen when its ready to happen. You say you have done it before and she has not, so take lead and let ... (read in full...)
How can I keep him happy?
Q. how can i save my relationship he seems to get distant then all swwet and cuddly and stuff you know what i mean how do i " freeze " him in the happy side or just simply keep him happy ...
A. 11 October 2007: Relationships are not all about you making him happy all the time. Neither should you try either, just be yourself and take things in your stide, and stop worrying about making him happy all the time. People invariby get high's and lows, sure we ... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my husband that I once had an affair during our marriage?
Q. Hi. Is it good to confess to my husband that I once had an affair with another man during our married life? Or should I just forget it? I stopped it, anyway....
A. 11 October 2007: Personally i think you should tell him. Marriages are built on trust, and if you have not got trust then its doomed to fail. For this marriage to proceed there needs to be know secrets. Get everything out in the open, trel him what happened and let ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and like a guy who's 41. Love has no restrictions........right?
Q. What should I do? Im 18 and there is this guy I like who is 42. Im a big believer in age aint nothin but a number. Ive always been attracted to older guys (and country guys but thats another story). I would definitely say I am mature for my age. My ...
A. 11 October 2007: Age gaps invariably only ever become if one of the people in question have got issues with it. If any of you have got hang ups regarding the age gap then its doomed to fail. But if you are both fine with it, like it sounds like you are then there is ... (read in full...)
I'm shy! I like this guy, I think he likes me, Do I overcome being shy, or wait for him?
Q. When I was 17 I met this guy named Todd who was 23. I had a crush on him but now........Its driving me insane. Im typically a shy girl so going up and asking him out was out of the question, plus I think only guys should ask girls out. Im now 18 but ...
A. 11 October 2007: I think that in this day and age it does not look to out of place for a girl to ask a guy out, as it did years ago. I think if you don't want this love to slip away, then maybe you should overcome your shyness and arrange to meet him. Keep it light ... (read in full...)
What makes a person worth loving?
Q. what makes a person worth loving?...
A. 11 October 2007: If a person is genuine, not trying to be something they are not. If they are caring, respectful and trustworthy.
Take care x... (read in full...)
How do I stop thinking about him?
Q. I need advice! A while ago I met a guy when we were on a school trip abroad. I liked him the first time I set eyes on him. Recently he said something quite mean to me and he has a girlfriend. But I can't seem to stop thinking about him. I keep lis...
A. 10 October 2007: Hi Babygirl, It sounds like you are crushing in this guy bigtime. Is it because he has got a girlfrind why you want to stop thinking about him?. If you really want to stop thinking about this guy, then all i can say is that crushes tend to be quite ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be jealous!
Q. hey guys would like your help please Me and my gf have been together for 10months now we're both virgins n are planing to have sex for the first time. my gf told me that she loves i think i feel the same but i have a problem is that she told ...
A. 10 October 2007: To be honest you will be hard pushed to meet a girl who has not had past relationships or kissed guys when drunk. If all you are thinking about is her past then these feelings will slowly but surely eat you up and drive you up the wall. Instead of ... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop loving him?
Q. I broke up with my x-boyfriend nearly 2 months ago. He's moved on and got a new girlfriend the day after he broke up with me. He was my first serious boyfriend and I still talk to his brother alot. I have never felt about a guy the way I do about ...
A. 10 October 2007: He was your first serious boyfriend so of course you are going to be heart broken. I know how it feels and i can tell you that through hindsight things will get better, although it does not feel like it now they will. Time really is the healer of ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have female friends?
Q. Is it ok for married man to have female friends? No sex just talking on the phone and text messaging? ...
A. 10 October 2007: I really think it depends on the couple really. If you are not the jealous type and these woman mean nothing to him, like colleagues or girls he has known for ages then i guess its ok. But if he is meeting these girls like say in bars or on the ... (read in full...)
He likes me, he likes me not
Q. How do you no if someone fancies you and flirting with you...
A. 10 October 2007: If someone fancies you their face will light up when ever you enter the room. You will be able to tell be the way they look at you, and they will always find excuses to be near you. They may even do give you some flirtatious gestures like direct eye ... (read in full...)
Does splitting chores help the bond?
Q. ok is it a good idea to do things with my man like go do laundry together and stupid things that need done will this help our bond ...
A. 10 October 2007: Yes i think it will help the bond, because ultimately you are both working together as a unit which is good. Alternatively splitting the chores is not bad either, like say you were indoors hoovering, you partner could be out mowing the lawn. Or like ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find love again?
Q. will i ever find love again? will someone ever make me feel really special and want to stay with me forever? At the moment i feel like these things will never happen to me again and that i am destined to be alone, never to be married or to have kid...
A. 9 October 2007: I know what its like to break up with someone that you cared alot for. You feel like your world has caved in on you, and you can't see any possible way out. Well i can tell you that with the benefit of hindsight that things will most certainly get ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him I don't want to go out with him.
Q. i need help. This is going to sound like a soap opera but this is it. ok a guy from work who are hung out with sometimes has broke up with his girlfriend. So now the guy whats to date me and ex girlfriend wants to date my ex (which to be honest i...
A. 9 October 2007: I feel that you best option here is to be brutally honest with him with how you are feeling. It sounds like he does like you alot so tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Just tell him you sorry, you ... (read in full...)
What's the furthest you should go with a boy?
Q. Whats the furthest you shuld go with a boy? I mean, i like to make out with them but they always want me to go further, and im not even 15 yet. I dnt wanna giv them BJ or or toss them up, but this makje sme seem like a total virgin! Wat shuld I do? ...
A. 9 October 2007: Never ever be pushed in to something you are not happy doing. If a boy is trying to push you to go further all you have got to say is NO, end of. It does not matter what anyone thinks, just what you think is important. You are only young, and under ... (read in full...)
My husband gets angry when I'm not in the mood.
Q. my husband gets very angry when i do not give him sex is this normal or is it something i should say something about.he wants it up to 2 times a day and if he does not get it then he is in a very bad mood all day. what do i do?...
A. 9 October 2007: I think that this is something that you have got to talk to him about. You should have sex only when you want to, not when your husband wants too. I think he should have more respect for you when you say you do not want to instead of going into a ... (read in full...)
Why should I give him a BJ? I don't get anything out of it!
Q. ok it seems my man wants a bj all the time but he wants me to finish it without my getting any pleasure what should i do about this ...
A. 9 October 2007: You have got to talk to him about this, sooner rather than later. tell him its not fair that you pleasure him all the time and get nothing in return. Relationships are about give & take, not one person doing all the giving. Give him the benefit of ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone calls me 'sweetheart'?
Q. hi everyone, when somebody calls you sweetheart what does it mean,i was called it today by some boy at school for the first time, i dont even no what the word means, help ...
A. 9 October 2007: Its kind of a term of endearment, its a terminology alot of guys use with woman. Like when you say hello a guy might say " alright sweetheart " Or Cheers Sweetheart" its just a saying i suppose similar to things like love, babe, darling ect.
Take ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)
Q. Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. ...
A. 9 October 2007: Yeh congtratulations, i think this sight is absolutely fantastic and hope it continues to thrive for many many years to come.
All the best... (read in full...)
We broke up over something stupid. How can I get him back?
Q. I want to get my ex-boyfriend back. I know I love him and I feel as though we broke up for something stupid. He's been giving me mixed signals and such, but I don't know how to approach it. Any advice? By the way, I am supposed to go over to his ...
A. 9 October 2007: Ride it out abit and wait till you go over to his dorm next week. Wait till the movie has finished and broach the subject then. Say it was silly what you both broke up over and that you would like to give it another shot.
All the best & good luc... (read in full...)
Are stretch marks a turn off?
Q. Are stretch marks a turn off? I will be giving birth to my first child soon, and plan to start working out and getting back into shape, but I have horrible stretch marks on my thighs and my backside. I used all sorts of creams and lotions thorough...
A. 9 October 2007: Personally i don't find stetch marks a turn off, they are all part of having a baby and your boyfriend should realise this. Im sure he loves you loads and has probably never even noticed them.
If you are really worried about them there is a prod... (read in full...)
How can I get over my holiday romance?
Q. i met this guy on holiday and i like him soo much !! but he lives in another country and he said he cant come bak for a few years..im really sad and i cant get over him it really upsets me ='[ what should i do ??...
A. 9 October 2007: Thats the thing with holiday romances, some work out, but sadly most don't. I know you feel sad at the moment, but you will get over it, time is the healer of all things. Treat this as a chapter in your life and move on. Soon you will meet someone ... (read in full...)
How do you tell if you're in love?
Q. Short and to the point...how can you tell if you are in love?...
A. 9 October 2007: You know you are in love because its the most wonderful feeling in the world. They are the first person you think about from when you awake to when you head hits the pillow at night. You would do anything for this person and they are on your mind ... (read in full...)
My wife chats to other men in internet chatrooms. Am I right to be annoyed and upset?
Q. My wife has recently started using internet chat sites, mainly a flirting one. She can sit for hours chatting to other men most of which is of a personal and sexual nature, she has also given out her mobile number to some of these men so that they ...
A. 7 October 2007: I think you have got every right to be annoyed and upset by what your wife is doing. She is not only chatting to guys in chat rooms, but also she is exchanging phone mumbers too. If she is exchanging numbers is she also arranging to meet these guys ... (read in full...)
I've lost him - what can I do?
Q. Ive lost him! last night i met a really gr8 guy and we hit it of pretty much straight away in the club we wer in. things like that just dont normally happen to me i was totally flattered as in my oppinion he was drop ded gorgeous! Al...
A. 7 October 2007: Maybe he frequents this club you were in, maybe you should try going back on the same night you were there last time, who know's you may bump into each other again. Alternatively if you don't see him again put that episode in your life down to ... (read in full...)
I saw the boy I like kissing another girl. If she is his gf I won't do anything, but if she isn't?
Q. im confused again!!i saw the boy i like with another girl and he kissed her.if she is his girlfriend,i won't do anything but if she is not??........
A. 7 October 2007: The only this you can do is find out if they are in a relationship before you persue anything. And what sort of kiss was it, did it look like a full on snog, or a friendly kiss on the cheek?.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What does husband mean?
Q. I wanted to know what does it mean when my husband told me that another woman respected and knows that he was married? Plese help me i've been thinking about it but unsure....
A. 7 October 2007: you have got to question him to find out what excactly was meant by this. By reading what you said if sounds like another woman liked him but had respect that he was married. But ask him just to clarify this.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How many times do working couples have sex when they're married?
Q. How many times can couple have sex when they're married? Assuming both are working and they meet in the house at night only after job....
A. 7 October 2007: I guess there is no set limit to this question. A married couple, assuming they work could make love once in the evening, or keep going right through till dawn. It really does depend on the couple in question.
k... (read in full...)
How do I gain a 6-pack?
Q. Okay, well yeah i am a girl (14), but i would really love to know the best ways to gain a 6 pack. I Swimm 3x a week but thats all really and am pretty fit and good at running. But any advice on good exercises ect please. thanks x...
A. 6 October 2007: Diet plays a huge role in gaining a six pack. Eat heathily, and excersise regularly. I train quite a fair bit and i find protein shakes before and after workouts quite good, and no carborhydrates after 7 at night. If your going to eat late on make ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my first girlfriend and first love?
Q. Hi. I need some advice. My girlfriend has recently dumped me and I am devastated. I know that I can't get her to change her mind and take me back (as much as I wish I could) so instead I am wanting to try and get over her which I know will be ...
A. 6 October 2007: I know how you feel, you feel like your whole world has just caved in around you and you just can't seem to find a way out. I can tell you from hindsight and experience that things will get better, although it may not feel like it now. Time really ... (read in full...)
Should I make the first move?
Q. ok, well im a really, really shy person and there is this one guy who likes me and i like him but i dont know if i should make the first move or if he should?? and if i should make it what should i do?? i am also goin to his house today because his ...
A. 6 October 2007: I think in this day and age it does not look too out of place for a girl to ask a guy out as it did years ago. Infact there are probably alot of guys out there who would welcome an invitation from a girl/woman. Keep it light and just casualy ask him ... (read in full...)
How do I make him realise that I like him?
Q. Hey guys. Okay - I like this guy, he is really cute but the problem is he flirts with me when he is not with his friends. I have asked him whether he likes me but his answer was that he was not ready for a relationship. We still communic...
A. 6 October 2007: He obviously really likes you as he flirts with you, but is abit shy of doing it in front of his friends. Ok so at the moment he is not ready for a relationship, so continue the way you are going, maybe reciprocate some of the flirting back to him ... (read in full...)
Curvy v Skinny?
Q. Do guys like 'curvy' girls or 'skinny' girls ?...
A. 6 October 2007: Thats a hard question to answer because every guy has got different tastes and types when it comes to the female sex. Some guys like large girls, some curvy, some skinny. But personally i would choose curvy over skinny.
All the best x... (read in full...)
I've slept with a lad who has a g/f. I've ended it and now I'm devastated. Please help!
Q. I've just split up wit a lad iv been sleeping with for the past few months, we werent seeing each other, cos he has a girlfriend, i no its wrong but i cudnt help it. we admitted we were falling for each other and after a couple of weeks of tryin t...
A. 6 October 2007: This is what happens when you go out with someone to get over someone else. Effectively this is called the rebound, and it has certainly re-bounded on you in a big way. You knew it was wrong to be sleeping with him in the first place as he had a ... (read in full...)
His dad has pedophile history. Should I go out with him?
Q. Do you think i should go out with a boy if his dad's a pedophile?? I like this boy I have known a while now. He is 15 and so am I. We go to the same school etc, but his dad has been known to of had underage sex on a few occasions. Should I go out ...
A. 6 October 2007: Firstly you should not let what his Dad has done in the past affect the relationship you have with your boyfriend. And secondly just because his Dad has done this certainly down not mean you boyfriend will turn out the same as him. What his Dad has ... (read in full...)
I didn't know that a penis in a vagina could make you pregnant!
Q. Hi Everyone, I am looking for a Little help. I am 18 years old, I had unprotected sex with my BF around 30 - 40 days Ago... I did not know that just inserting the Penis can also make a Girl Pregnant. I just recently came to know about it and i a...
A. 6 October 2007: You are 18-21, how on earth did you not know that by inserting a penis into a female could make her pregnant, how else did you think babies were made. Did you not recieve sex education when you were at school then?. Anyway maybe you should go to see ... (read in full...)
How much time should I give her?
Q. me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship and we have been going out for 9 mouths now. i'm 17 and she is 15. i go and see her every school holiday. for the last three mouths i have spent with her and we got on great. when i come hom...
A. 6 October 2007: If you have been told to give her some time and space then give her this. Don't keep calling all the time, because when someone is calling and texting all the time can be very off putting. Give her the space she needs, like maybe a week or 2 to let ... (read in full...)
She is going away. What to do?
Q. My Fiance has just supprised me that She is supposed to join a College for 3 yrs in the US from January 2008.My greatest worry is, I might lose her since she will be away for that long. She might come back married to someone else. Please, what can I ...
A. 6 October 2007: If you both feel strongly about each other then there is no reason why this long distance relationship can not work. I very much doubt she will come back married to someone else, not if she feels strongly about your relationship. I would not marry ... (read in full...)
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