My bf's constant calling is driving me crazy!
Q. My boyfriend likes to spend hours on the phone everyday he phones me about 20 times a day, this is driving me mad and I don't want to spend all the time on the phone he thinks it's because I don't want to be with him anymore which isn't the case ...
A. 19 October 2007: Try to explain again, tell him not to call so many times in the day. Tell him that your feelings for him have not changed, its just sometimes you don't always have the time to talk. If this does not work then maybe you should try turning your phone ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I'm actually ready.
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him but i'm not sure i'm ready yet, we've been together for 3 months now, what should i do?...
A. 18 October 2007: At this young age three months is not very long atal. If you feel you are not ready yet then don't do it. If your boyfriend is a good guy he will respect that you are not ready and wait for you. You wait for as long as you want, don't feel pressured ... (read in full...)
Need help on a pressent for my girlfriend.
Q. Ok so I need help and this is my 1st question so me(19) and my gf(16) have been together for about 4 months and we love each other a lot so this December is going to be 6 months and I want to get her something that shows how much I love her and I am ...
A. 18 October 2007: Yes i think a necklace would be a nice idea, or have you thought about an eternal love ring, or even a nice set of gold ear rings. What ever you decide im sure she is bound to love it.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How can I get her back?
Q. I recently got dumped by a girl I really liked. We was only going out for a week but we liked each other for a long time before. We had a great time together and she only dumped me because she wanted me as a friend. If she liked me once do you think ...
A. 18 October 2007: I would be inclined to put this relationship down to experience and move on, treat it as a chapter in your life and look forward torwards the future.
All the best ... (read in full...)
My bf and his mates always go to my friend's house! Does my guy have feelings for my friend?
Q. hiya xxxxxxx i'm gonna get straight to the point and skip the history!!!!!!!! haha anyway my boyfriend has bin out with his mates lately which is fine i dont have a problem with that at all. BUT the thing is him and his mates are always goin to M...
A. 18 October 2007: There is probably nothing going on with your boyfriend and this other girl. One of the other boys most likely has a thing for her and he just tags along. Like Waterloo Sunset say's why don't you invite them all over to yours and make it fun for ... (read in full...)
My friend and I love each other, but I'm afraid to get together - what if we break up and lose the friendship?
Q. My best friend says that he is falling in love with me and i think i feel the same but i don't know what to do about it because he has always been just a friend. I'm scared that if we ever did break up we would lose our strong friendship, what ...
A. 18 October 2007: I think maybe its worth taking the chance, if you don't you will always wonder what might have been, and would it have worked. Some of the strongest and best relationships stem from being good friends first.
All the best x... (read in full...)
Is my husband of 10 years gay?
Q. Hi I have been together with my husband for 14 years; been married for 10. I'm confused. I think he may be a little gay. He goes on about a lad at work all the time and he also is really homophobic. Not sure if that is a good enough reason to th...
A. 18 October 2007: I think the likellhood that your husband is gay is somewhat slim going by what you have mentioned. He has only spoken about this guy, and you also have sex four times a week.
Take care x... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my celebrity crush?
Q. I have a bad problem. I have a celebrity crush on the rapper T.I and I want to get over it very badly because I get upset and hurt and I'm tired of feeling this way. Any info would help and thank-you 4 reading....
A. 18 October 2007: Its natural to have crushes on people, espessially pop stars, film stars, and sportsmen. Eventually this crush will die down of its own accord, its nothing to worry about, just enjoy it while it lasts.
Take care x... (read in full...)
My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'
Q. My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'. How can I make myself more attractive to women or I am I taking things to heart too much?...
A. 18 October 2007: Don't listen to what she said, she was trying to put you down, when in actual fact she was probably the boring one. Don't let it affect your next relationship, or go into the next one trying to be something your not. THe most important thing when ... (read in full...)
I can't see that it's over
Q. have been having an affair with a man who i taught was my soul mate.. we meet on friday night, booked into a hotel and had an amazing loving night.. i have txt him twice since and he has not replied.. should i just move on? its very hard to be like ...
A. 18 October 2007: Invariable there is never a happy ending to affairs, someone always ends up getting hurt. Maybe the guilt of having this affair has just got to much for him to bear, which is why he is ignoring you. Like sexy says you need to speak to him and obtain ... (read in full...)
Feeling like Ozzie and Harriet
Q. Been together with my hubby 5 years but were more like brother and sister, never had brill sex life but now non existent anyone got any idea were to go from here ?????...
A. 18 October 2007: If you really love him and want to make it work talk to him, talk about your relationship and where you think it went like this. Maybe do some things to spice up your sex life. Or if you feel the love has completely gone and you are like passing ... (read in full...)
Am confused and feel used
Q. I have just been dating a guy that i like a lot we have been together for 2 months,he has a girlfriend. But lately things have turned sour he lied to me saying he is sick he can't come to see me then i called him only to find out he is with his ...
A. 18 October 2007: I think that this guy has used you and has had a girlfriend all along. I know you feel confused & used, but think to your self that you had a lucky escape. This guy was decieving you and you are better off without him. Find a guy that does not have ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, and a 20 year old on MSN keeps asking to see me. What do you think?
Q. theres this guy i know. hes 20 i am only 15 and i dont like him in that way. he is too old, not my type and copletely the wrong guy for me but he seems to of took a liking to me. everytime i see him or talk to him he smiles at me and winks at me and ...
A. 17 October 2007: Stay away from this guy at all costs, he sounds like a complete jerk and has obviously only got one thing on his mind. If you are scared around him go to your parents and get some advice from them. And if he ever touches you inappropriately go to ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and shy. I'm too young for bars, so can anyone recommend where I can got to meet women?
Q. Hi there i'm 17 year old male looking for a raltionship... the problem is as i'm only 17 i can't go to bars to meet women. I'm a really shy guy so i was wondering if anyone could recommend any places i can meet girls? also i have a full time job wo...
A. 17 October 2007: To be honest bars and clubs are probably not the best places to meet people anyway. Invariable people who have had alot to drink tend not to be themselves. The most likely of places is at the work place, or college or university. If you have any ... (read in full...)
It's been 7 months since I last had Sex, and it's driving me mad! Any advice?
Q. Hi Aunts. It's been 7 months since I last had Sex. My girlfriend split with me about 6 months ago after dating for a year and 10 months, and I still love her and miss her and the relationship we once had. She has since gone off to college and is n...
A. 17 October 2007: I agree with Ponungalungb, its time to move on. Treat this as a chapter in your life, put it down to experience and look forward in your life and not backwards. Don't be in to much of a rush to meet someone new, go out have fun with pals and i bet ... (read in full...)
It's been a year, but I still have a crush on my teacher. What should I do?
Q. I graduated from High School last year and I've recently met my old Bussiness Law teacher at a festival in town. I had him last year and I had a huge crush on him and I still do. What I'm wondering is, if I was to go out with him could he get into ...
A. 17 October 2007: You are 18 years of age, and at the end of the day age gaps are only really an issue if you let it. No he could not get into trouble for dating you, becuause you are over the legal age of consent, and also he is no longer your teacher. If you like ... (read in full...)
Is this normal lovey-dovey stuff?
Q. right... well... i have been with my fiance for 6 years now, we started seeing each other when we where just 13 and now iam 19 and he is 20. i love him to bits and wouldnt change him for the world. lately i have been acting a bit strange, even i ...
A. 17 October 2007: I think that is really sweet, by getting the goose bumps and the butterflies says you still love him and carry the same feelings as you did when you met him when you were 13. It is a wonderful thing to have, and its a beautiful feeling inside ... (read in full...)
Everythings great, except he's lazy!
Q. hi My fiance and i have been together a little over a year .We were quite happy together about 7 months ago we moved in together and now it seems im always getting upset with him about things like picking up after himself or just helping me with ...
A. 17 October 2007: I think you have got to talk to him about this, otherwise things are going to get worse. Relationships,and owning a house together are about both of you putting in 100%. When one person is doing most of or all of the work then it can cause feelings ... (read in full...)
Relationship going on for years, worth it or not?
Q. I'm 6 years in a relationship that's not going to the next level. I didn't ever hear a word that he loves me.We're intimate, sometimes, only once a month. I do everything for him. When I tell him I'm done with the relationship he doesn't want to ...
A. 17 October 2007: I think you have got to sit your partner down and explain how you are feeling. Relationhips are about putting in 100% on both sides, so untimately when one person is doing everything can cause major feelings of resentment. give him the benefit of ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't my boyfriend contacted me for a week since visiting his sister 3 weeks ago?
Q. help i'm in urgent need of advice or else i'm gonna go crazy.well my boyfriend visited his sister and has been gone for 3 weeks,anyway he was calling me everyday but now he has stoped. i havent heard from him in a week now and i refuse to call him ...
A. 17 October 2007: Like the other aunts say its best not to jump to conclusions just yet. He may have a valid reason why he has not called so give him the benefit of the doubt. Leave one more mesage on his awswer phone stating that you are really worried about him and ... (read in full...)
I know better but I want him
Q. am 26 years old,am in love with a 46 year old man who is a real player,for the first 6months he was all i ever dream t off,later i found out that he was involved with many other women but keeps on denying it.he insists that they are just good ...
A. 17 October 2007: I think you should ditch this guy, not because he is 20 years older but because he a player, and i feel he is going behind your back with other woman. He clearly can't be trusted, and with this player image could you ever trust him. I think you ... (read in full...)
I like a guy but the age difference keeps holding me back.
Q. Hey I am a senior in high school and im 17. I like a guy who just turned 15 so im over 2 years older. Im more worried about the age difference for his sake because i can deal with what people say, but i dont know how it would affect him. I think he ...
A. 17 October 2007: Personally i don't think that two years is that big an age gap really. At the end of the day age is only a number, its how you both feel about one another is what matters. ANd it does not matter what anyone else thinks, only what you both think. Go ... (read in full...)
I've fallen out of love with him. What do I do now?
Q. hi i really wont help i was spose to be moving out to live with my boyfreind but knowi have fell out with him and i dont know what to do ...
A. 15 October 2007: You have got to tell him your feelings are not there for him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Tell him soon, if you don't you are effectively continuing the relationship when your feelings are not there for ... (read in full...)
Is he too tall for me?
Q. Can I date this man? He's tall, and I'm a foot shorter than him? Does size matter?...
A. 15 October 2007: I think you are drawing to much emphasis on this foot difference in height. If you both really like each other then this should not be an issue atal, its how you both feel about each other, not that he is a foot taller. Go for it and date him, and ... (read in full...)
Should I wait until he's divorced before I go after him?
Q. I fancy a man going through a divorce. Should I wait til the divorce has gone through before I start the chase? ...
A. 15 October 2007: Yes i would certainly wait till his divorce has gone through before you start the chase. Its probably going to be a tough time going through the divorce so i doubt he would welcome advances while all that was going on. So wait till its all over and ... (read in full...)
Can you know someone you've never seen?
Q. Can you know the person just by talking over the phone?...
A. 14 October 2007: I guess if you are continually talking on the phone regularly you can get a pretty good impression of what someone is really like, to a certain degree. On the phone you can't observe body language, posture ect as you would talking in person, only ... (read in full...)
My bf spends every other weekend at his ex's house to see his daughter and ignores my calls and texts for this time, and it's destroying me.
Q. My boyfriend spends every other weekend miles away from me. He goes up there to see his daughter, but he stays at his ex wifes house and he ignores my phone calls and text messages and he does'nt phone or text me. His excuse is he doesn't want his ...
A. 14 October 2007: I think you have every right to be upset about this situation as it does sound like there is something fishy going on here. He goes up there stays at his ex wifes house ( if it is his ex wife ) then he does not call you, text you, and ignors your ... (read in full...)
I don't know why all boys find me so unattractive?
Q. I really really really want a boyfriend i have wanted one for ages and its killing me inside, i want someone to talk to, to cuddle and to love but i don't know why all boys find me so unnattractive...
A. 14 October 2007: I know you are going to hear this alot, but you are so so young, you have got all the time in world for relationships and boyfriends. Who says you are unattractive, because if some boys are saying it at school they probably fancy you. There is an ... (read in full...)
We have an age gap. Will it work?
Q. I have been friends with a man for 7 months. He is 34, I am 48. We had worked together and decided that we could not be more than friends for this reason. I recently took a job in a different location, same big city. We have discussed taking our ...
A. 14 October 2007: Age gaps invariably only ever become a problem is either of the people have got issues with it. If you can both enter this relationship not worrying about the age gap then there is no reason atal why this could not work. At the end of the day age is ... (read in full...)
Does he like me too and should I make a move or should I just get over him?
Q. I really like one of my friends but i'm not sure if he likes me to. We talk for hours on msn nearly every night, he teases me and jokily calls me names, waits for me when we have classes together and whenever we make eye contact he smiles or pulls ...
A. 14 October 2007: Why would you want to just get over him, you fancy him don't you, and he is also giving you the classic signs of liking you also. I think in this day and age it does not look to out of place for a girl to ask a boy out, as it did years ago. If you ... (read in full...)
My left breast hurts really bad, it's almost time for my period. No family history of breast cancer. What could it be?
Q. My left breast hurts really bad,it's almost time for my period,but i feel like my breast should hurt evenly.I can feel sort of a collection of knots,no family history of breast cancer what so ever and I'm really young. Are there any kind of other ...
A. 14 October 2007: Yes i agree with the other aunts, the best thing you can do would be to pop along to you local GP and get yourself checked over.
Take care x... (read in full...)
How can we stop arguing?
Q. dear cupid my boyfriend and i are always arguing mostly over nothing just little things that annoy us about eachother every time we get on track something happens to upset that we have managed to stay together for a year now but the petty argument...
A. 14 October 2007: I agree with flower girl, you both need to sit down and find the route cause of why you both keep having these petty arguments. I don't know im simply assuming here, but could it be because you see to much of each other?. Seeing to much of one ... (read in full...)
How can I lose weight off my legs in just a week?
Q. Ok well i was on a diet for two weeks. and then a few days ago i had chippie. and the day after a kfc. i havnt gained any weight. but im going on holiday next week and i want to loose just abit more weight (mostly off my legs. it doesnt seem to be ...
A. 14 October 2007: The best thing is going to be diet & excersise. Consume plenty of carborhydrate foods during the day for your body fuel, and stick to a protein based dinner, as carbs after 7.00 in the evening are not a good idea if you want to lose weight. So eat ... (read in full...)
What do I get my boyfriend for Christmas?
Q. Hi Im 12 and my bf is 11 ( i know im older than him but its only like 2 months). Anyway, I have no idea what to get him for christams and b day. He supports Spurs, Likes AC/DC and other bands like that. Plz some1 help me. PS: We've been datin...
A. 13 October 2007: I guess it all depends how much you want to spend really. As he likes Spurs why not get him something assosiated with this. Like their latest football kit, or just one of their tops, or a spurs scarf, or mug. Or maybe a music CD of his favourite ... (read in full...)
When will I be ready for a relationship?
Q. when do i know im ready to start another relationship when my first true love just broke up with me i am shattered over it. in a million peices. i feel like love will never be the same....
A. 13 October 2007: I know its not nice splitting up with someone, espessially when it was your first love. You feel like your world has just caved in and you can see no way out. But i can tell you from hinsight & experience that things will surely get better for you, ... (read in full...)
When guys tell you they love you do they actually mean it or they want you to fell good?
Q. when guys tell u they love u do they actually mean it or they just want u to fell good...
A. 12 October 2007: Thats a tough one to answer, to be honest some guys mays genuinly mean it, while some guys may just be saying it to keep you sweet. Personally i would not say i love you to a girl if i did not mean it from the bottom of my heart.
Take care x... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't care to show me affection.
Q. i have been married for only 8mo and my husband shows very little affection, though i have told him he doesn't seem to care ...
A. 12 October 2007: You can't go on like this, a marriage can't thrive with one person giving so little love & affection. I really feel like you have to be firmer when you talk to him, tell him that that you are really unhappy with his lack of affection and it has got ... (read in full...)
Should I move on?
Q. together 7 months but im not sure if i love him and dont think he loves me..... do you think i should justy get over it and move on and ffind someone who loves me?...
A. 12 October 2007: If you are not sure you love him, and you don't think he loves you then yes i think it may be time for you move on & find someone who you love, and that loves you.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Is it harsh or unfair of me to ignore him?
Q. Hope someone can help me out in my hurt and confusion. I almost got involved with a married man I know but stopped myself before things got out of hand. There are still some hard feelings...perhaps more on my part. He did lead me on about his mart...
A. 11 October 2007: Personally i think you should cut all ties with this guy, nothing would ever had come of it. Invariably married guys never leave their wives, so ultimately you become the mistress or bit on the side, seeing him only when he can sneak away. Cut all ... (read in full...)
Am I being silly?
Q. Hi My names rebecca and my boyfriend works long hours. I need some help and advice as I feel very down. I am a very jealous person and always have been. I am worried as my boyfriend is going on a team building evening bowling and dinner with all...
A. 11 October 2007: He has never given you any indication or reason to distrust him, so stop thinking things that are not even there. You have got to stop these feeling of jealousy and mistrust because they are not healthy and will end up driving you round the bend. So ... (read in full...)
Is there something there?
Q. So theres this guy i like, we were great friends for a long time, he was always shouting me sitting with me, i honestly thought he liked me. Then one day his friend told him that i liked him, and ever since he's been ignoring me, and he totally ...
A. 11 October 2007: There could be something there, he could just be shy now that he knows you like him through this guy telling him. The direct eye contact in the hallway is another positive sign he likes you. I feel if he did not he would do his best not to look at ... (read in full...)
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