We've had our first date... what happens next?
Q. hi guys. so i had the first date and that went ok i think. but what happens now? shud i ask him out on a second date and should the girl ever ask a guy out? im reallly confused. i want to be sure that he wants another date but i dont know how to ...
A. 1 November 2007: I glad your first date went ok, hard part out the way, now you can look forward to the second date. Im not against girls asking guys out, infact i think its a good thing. But you have only just had your first date, how did you leave it when you ... (read in full...)
Will sucking her breasts increase the size?
Q. Does male sucking females breasts enlarge her breasts or its doesnt affect size of her breasts??...
A. 1 November 2007: I really can't see how a guy sucking a females breast's can have any impact on whether they grow or get smaller. So i would have to go with it does not affect the size of the females breasts.... (read in full...)
Reading body language - does he like me? I already told him I like him more than a friend!
Q. If a guy does these things: - folds his arms, often/contantly - is very quiet/shy suddenly when around you - laughs nervously - won't look me in the eye/avoids eye contact - looks uncomfortable - smiles slightly to himself, and looks downwards ...
A. 1 November 2007: He could be just shy, im not saying he does not like you, because he probably does, its just when you described his body language you described someone with a very closed posture. when you fold your arms that is normally a defence that says stay ... (read in full...)
I feel I may regret my choice if I break up.
Q. Ok right now I have somewhat of a problem on my hands. So I'm going out with this girl (we'll call her Karli) ok so I'm going out with this girl Karli and where kind of serious we say we love each other and stuff. But I also like this other girl ...
A. 1 November 2007: you have got no option here but to hurt one of them, unfortunately its always the way, you have to choose one, so ultimately you will have to let one go. Don't think about seeing them both because this is two timing, and this is not a good road to ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or doesn't he?
Q. hi my name is georgi, and i kinda have a crush on this man he says he likes me but in a friend way but he keeps giving me that smile look you know the one tht says i like you but i dont want others to knowi was wondering wat should i do? ...
A. 1 November 2007: Its hard to say, he could genuinly only see you as a friend, and could be smiling at you because he thinks you are a great girl. Alternatively he could just be saying he only see's you as a friend to try to throw you off the scent, for whatever ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy likes you or is just after sex
Q. how do you know if a guy likes you or is just after sex ...
A. 1 November 2007: If he is just after sex then he will be all over you till he gets what he wants, then once he has got it he will become shallow & despondant. If he genuinly likes you he will be intersted in things about you, want to talk to you, offer to do things ... (read in full...)
Any ideas of how to finish with someone who won't take no for answer?
Q. I want to finsh with my boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. The thing is I have tried so many times in the past but he manipulates me into staying with him. I'm fed up of the way he treats me. He tries to dictate my life and thinks he's ...
A. 1 November 2007: You have just got to tell him its over and be done with it, wash your hands of it all and walk away. Tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Don't be manipulated into staying, you are not doing yourself any ... (read in full...)
He's giving me mixed signals.
Q. Hi, I need some advice. This lad keeps staring at me and even when his friends try and talk to him he doesnt stop looking. My friends look over for me and when ever they do he is always looking.We always talk over msn and he described the girl he ...
A. 31 October 2007: It does sound like he like you, the fact that he keeps staring at you is a sure sign, he sound like he can't take his eyes off you. However i think he is shy of talking to you in person, i know he opens up when you talk to him on the computer, but ... (read in full...)
I fancy this guy at work, I think he likes me as well, but how can I tell?
Q. i have found myself being attracted to a male colleague, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is chatty and friendly with all members of staff,though just lately he seems to be paying me more attention,he initiates silly games,flicks me with tea ...
A. 31 October 2007: It does sound like he is attracted to you, he is certainly giving the signs he is anyway. But make sure you are just not mistaking it for being friendly, as you say he is chatty & friendly with all members of staff. Observe his actions with other ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to make the first move, I don't want to scare her off
Q. when is the right time to kiss a girl in a relationship. i don't want to do it to early and scare her away or seem pushy but i don't want to do it too late and seem uncaring or not interested. any help would be great. thanks....
A. 31 October 2007: There is no right or wrong time, or to early or to late time for that first kiss. All i can say is it will happen when it happens, don't push for it, just let it happen naturally. One day or night when the time is right, whether you are in the back ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 26, we really click, should I consult my parents?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, do you think that age matters? i mean in our world which we live in, these days, you hear stories about 60 year olds having babies and 8 yer old's smoking, so is it such a bad thing for 15 year old and a twenty six year old to f...
A. 31 October 2007: Personally i don't think age matters, at the end of the day age is only a number, its more about how the couple feel about each other than how many number are between them. Having said that i don't think age matters as long as it falls within the ... (read in full...)
Is popularity the problem? Should I become more popular - for him?
Q. there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you ...
A. 31 October 2007: Never ever change to please someone else, the most important thing is that you are yourself. If this boy does not like you because you are not popular enough then i don't think he is worth it anyway. But who know's he may have his eye on you, the ... (read in full...)
How can one suddenly stop feeling the love overnight?
Q. hi, my girlfriend broke up with me last night. i was devastated. she said she see's me more of a best friend rather than a boyfriend. again, this breaks my heart.i can't bare life without her, i love her so much..i cant even describe how muc...
A. 31 October 2007: I know it does not feel like it now but things will get easier. I know its awful when a relationship finishes with someone that you cared about. You feel like your world has caved in, and you just can't seem to find any way out. I can tell you from ... (read in full...)
Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?
Q. I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets ...
A. 31 October 2007: Braces are no big deal really, so many people have got them nowdays, almost as if they are a status symble. I was on a five year waiting list to get mine, so consequently i had braces when i was like 18/19 and i absolutely hated them, i would have ... (read in full...)
Is it true that I can get HIV from a belly bar from Spain?
Q. Heya.... i got my belly pierced 8 weeks ago and i changed the bar to 1 that my sister got me from spain..... i cleaned it with boiling salt water but i am scared that i could catch HIV.... Because apprently you can?? is this true??...
A. 30 October 2007: Yes i agree with Karlos, it will be very unlikely as you used disinfectant, and also boiling salt water, so the likellhood that you have contracted something is somewhat slim.
Take care x... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like spending money. We don't ever eat out, or go on holiday. I'm starting to get fed up! Please advise.
Q. I've met a man I love. We get on well. The problem is he is very mean with money. He doesnt like eating out or going on holidays. We end up always doing the same things going to the same places so he doesnt have to spend much or no need to spend ...
A. 30 October 2007: If this is the man you love then you have got to talk to him about this, communication really is the key here. Express a concern that you feel you both never do anything anymore and that you are getting abit fed up with it. Why don't you book a ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?
Q. Hey What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?...
A. 30 October 2007: Normally this would be considered a flirtatious gesture to say she likes you. However i don't think that just this is enough to go on, as it could be just a habit. Look out for other signs too like eye contact, touches, and smiles.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I am bi-sexual. Should I tell my friend I fancy her?
Q. I have known my best friend for about two years now. She knows im bisexual and she doesnt act weird about it. I am single and so is she. I fancy her. I have fanceied her for around about four months. I have tried to give her bits of hints but ...
A. 29 October 2007: If she is not that way inclined, by that i mean she does not have bi-sexual tendences then i don't really think telling her you fancy her will go down to well. It could make things somewhat arkward between the pair of you. If on the other hand you ... (read in full...)
Do I report my boyfriend for domestic violence or not?
Q. I have known my bf for years, and have dated for a few months now. He beat me up pretty badly, all my xrays and catscans came back fine, but the police were called by the hospital and they want me to report it. i don't know what i should do, i don't ...
A. 29 October 2007: I think you should report it, and while your at it get out of this relationship while you can. He has beat you up once, so the likellhood is that he will do it again, and next time it could be worse. With wife/girlfrriend beaters invariably its not ... (read in full...)
I like her, she has a boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. I have known this girl for about two years but only about 2 months ago i realised that i really liked her. a few weeks ago i gathered up the courage to ask her out but to my huge disappointment, her reply was "sorry i have a boyfriend but i like you ...
A. 29 October 2007: I would havr respect that she is currently in a realtionship, so on this basis i would refrain from making a move. If she ever becomes available in the future then ask her out then. Good luck... (read in full...)
How do I get over my high school boyfriend?
Q. Well im in high school..and i am well aware that high school relationships dont last but you see this guy was different..we dated 4 nine months and at first he reallly showed me he loved me..then he just stopped. he was always chossing his freinds ...
A. 28 October 2007: I know it does not feel like it now, but i can tell you that things will get better. You are only young, you have got to pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on with your life. Put this all down to experience, water under the bridge, and ... (read in full...)
Do I have a Daddy Complex?
Q. I think i have a daddy complex and its really worrying me cos i don't know my dad, and now i feel attracted to older men when i was at school i fancied my teachers and now i'm at work i fancy my managers! so is it an authority figure thing or ...
A. 28 October 2007: Its quite possibe that because you do not know your father you are seeking older men like teachers and managers to replace what you are missing out on with you Dad. Age gap relationships ( within reason ) are not a bad thing, they can work, so long ... (read in full...)
How do I bring up this subject to him.
Q. HELP!!! i divorced my husband 3 years ago because it wasn't working out, we had been together since we were at school and always stayed in touch. Recently we have started seeing more of each other as friends but things are getting very close. We ...
A. 28 October 2007: I think its nice that things are going well and that you are getting close again. For the time being keep things going the way they are now with him stopping over every now and then. I think its to early to broach the subject at this stage, keep ... (read in full...)
How do I tone-up my arms and chest?
Q. Heya i am a female and i want to tone up my arms and chest because my chest is uneven.... do you no ways i could do this?...
A. 28 October 2007: LIke Vixxy says you need to pop down to your local gym and sort out a training session. Also at your PE department at school, im sure they will have some ideas and tips for you.
I think you are to young really to be thinking about using weig... (read in full...)
How can I find the right guy?
Q. Hey. well, it's been like 2 1/2 years since i had a relationship. I want to get back out there. I am ready, it's just, with the guys i've liked, it never works out. Like 2 summers ago, one guy was too far away, this summer, i lost interest i...
A. 28 October 2007: Personally i don't think the web is the best place to meet people, i know alot of people do now, but in reality you never really know who is on the other end of that keyboard. Maybe change your social setting, what are you into?. have you got any ... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend get together with her crush?
Q. My friend is in depression and needs help. I am the ONLY person that knows all of her secrets. We both struggle with some of the same problems, and this is why we are so close. She has a crush on this guy in my class, J, and wants to go out with ...
A. 28 October 2007: Are you sure she is in depression and not just a little stressed over what to do about J. Personally i don't think you should ask him to ask your friend out, i know you want to help but really i think this will not benefit your mate. I think she has ... (read in full...)
Is there any need to get married over co-habiting?
Q. Hi Whats are your views on marriage vs cohabitation. Is there any need to get married? Is marriage putting your money where your mouth is or am I just old fashioned? Thanks...
A. 28 October 2007: I guess years ago, like going back to my parents time getting married was the thing a majority of people did. And people that lived together under the same roof that was not married was something to be frowned upon. But times has changed so much ... (read in full...)
Suggestions: What would you do with your ex’s stuff? (in order to let go)
Q. After asking for answer and help on a few websites. I reach the conclusion that I have to ditch all my ex’s stuff in order to let go. Also, not to mention my father is coming to London to stay with me. I don’t want my dad seeing all the men stuf...
A. 28 October 2007: Has your Ex boyfriend said to that he does not want his things any more then?. If he does not want any of it back and its ok for you to keep it all then maybe try to sell some of it. Ebay is a good one, i often stick things on here that i don't want ... (read in full...)
How do I catch him out?
Q. My boyfriend and his friend went out clubbing one night last week. My boyfriends friend told his girlfriend that my boyfriend brought a girl back to the flat and they slept in living room all night. He doesn't know if something went on. The ...
A. 27 October 2007: Personally i think all three of them know what went on that night and thay are consealing what really happened from you. Why are you in a position where you can't say anything?. I think that you have got every right to say something, you deserve to ... (read in full...)
How do you forgive someone who keeps breaking promises?
Q. hey me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 years.Recently since he started working as a lineman he has been a total jerk. he lies to me about everything! he promises he wont lie again and the next day he does the exact same thing. What ...
A. 27 October 2007: To put it bluntly you can not trust someone who can't be trusted, and neither should you want to. Why do you want to be with someone who keeps betraying your trust,who keeps lying to you, says he won't do it again, then does it the next day. You can ... (read in full...)
How should I feel after 5 months?
Q. I have been in a relationship with the most lovely guy for five months. The problem is I don't love him and he doesn't love me. I am not sure if I should by now? He is lovely, we get on really well and have fun together but I don't want to find ...
A. 27 October 2007: I think you have got to decide whether or not you see him as a potental boyfriend, or a best friend. You have been together for five months, and normally coming up the the half year mark you should really know your feelings. Give it another couple ... (read in full...)
I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated.
Q. I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated. She was so mad at me, and I am in tears about this. I don't understand why she thinks that it's so wrong!...
A. 27 October 2007: I think that was pretty heartless of your mum to do this, she should have took you to one side and spoke to you one to one, but to tell the family about it is out of order. You don't mention your age here, but anyway masurbating is nothing to be ... (read in full...)
How can I keepi t alive
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year, but we have been together on and off for about 5 years, 2 weeks ago he moved all the way around the side of the world. New Zealand. Right now i dont feel like hes putting enough effort into keeping us alive. How do...
A. 27 October 2007: Long distance relationships can work, as long as the people in question are strong enough to deal with the distance and time apart. He sounds like he has started a new life for himself in New Zealand. If you feel like the contact in lessening and ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and never been kissed!
Q. Hey. I'm 15 and I've never been kissed. This probably sounds trivial, but I dislike talking about any kind of lovelife because of it. I've never been made to feel pretty by anybody except my two best friends and my family. I know that I'm not ug...
A. 27 October 2007: There is nothing wrong with you whatsoever, just because you have not kissed anyone yet is nothing to worry about. You are only 15, you have got all the time in the world for all that sort of thing, i bet there are a load of boys that would love to ... (read in full...)
How can I please my man? What Sex positions do men prefer?
Q. I need tips on how to please my man. Is there any sexual positions that men prefer when having sex with their partner?...
A. 27 October 2007: I guess it all boils down to personal preference really, some guys may like it with the woman on top, while other guys might prefer the woman to be underneath. Doggy style is always a good one, and im sure alot of guys like this position. try all ... (read in full...)
13, worried because I've never had a boyfriend! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I'm 13 and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone else seems to have had one. There are girls in my form that have been out with sooo many boys. They have like 10 different ones every year and have been going out with people since they were like 8. ...
A. 26 October 2007: You are probably going to hear this alot but you are so young, you have got all the time in the world to be thinking of relationships and boyfriends. So what if people in your year have had boyfriends already. it does not mean that there are not ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to start having sex?
Q. What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...
A. 26 October 2007: Like most of the other aunts have said, when you get over 16 is probably the safest bet. When you get over this age it is then all down to when you feel ready to do it. Keep hold of your virginity for as long as possible, its a precious thing, and ... (read in full...)
Do I wait for her?
Q. Dear all will it be worth waiting for a women that I still love and she love aswell but she need to be alone we are both thinking about each other every second of the day and dont now how it will end? Take care Marco...
A. 26 October 2007: Without knowing to much about your situation here, and the limited amount of information provided here, i would say wait for her. You say you still love her, and that she still loves you as well. For some reason she needs to be alone, maybe to clear ... (read in full...)
Is this a mid-life crisis?
Q. i am very attracted to a young lady working in my office as an intern.i call her to my office on any excuse i can think of. We do have long conversations about any topic that comes up.We do enjoy talking to each other i believe. My problem is how to ...
A. 26 October 2007: There are to many reasons why not to go ahead with this. One is that you work together, and that you are her boss. Work relationships are never a good idea as things can turn very uncomfortable should something start between the pair of you then for ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if your husband doesn't love you anymore?
Q. How can you tell if your husband doesn't love you anymore?...
A. 26 October 2007: Without knowing to much about your situation here he will become very despondant and communication will lessen. he may spend more time out, in the shed, or on the computer, or staying out late ect. Intimate touches and romantic love making will be ... (read in full...)
Is it too early to kiss?
Q. I have a new bf we have been together for 20 day we have hugged it is to early to kiss? (we r both 13 and in 8th grade)?...
A. 25 October 2007: I don't think its to early to kiss, you have been together for 20 days. If you feel it is time to give him a kiss then go for it, and enjoy it.
Good luck... (read in full...)
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