We've been together 5 years. What is the average amount of times we should be having sex?
Q. i have been with my partner for 5 years how often does the average couples make love after being together that amount of time...
A. 23 December 2007: Yes as perioman say's i think it all depends on the guy.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Is it too early to kiss?
Q. I have a new bf we have been together for 20 day we have hugged it is to early to kiss? (we r both 13 and in 8th grade)?...
A. 25 October 2007: I don't think its to early to kiss, you have been together for 20 days. If you feel it is time to give him a kiss then go for it, and enjoy it.
Good luck... (read in full...)
The sex is great but he's married
Q. I have been seeing this guy that is 26 years older then me, he is married and has 3 kids 17,16,13. He does not like his wife and they dont sleep together or even speak. We have the BEST sex ever. I am so in love with him what should i do?...
A. 25 October 2007: When he says he does not like his wife and that thay don't speak is probably just a yarn he is spinning you to keep you sweet. He knows he is having his cake and eat it, he is sleeping with you when he can sucessfully sneak away, then crawls back to ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 she's 17, will we have enough in common or am I too old for her?
Q. I am 20 and mid way through my junior year of college. I'm trying to decide if I want to start a relationship with a 17 year old high school senior girl that lives back home. I'm worried about a few things, (1) is age a problem, (2) where we are at ...
A. 25 October 2007: Age gaps invariably only ever become a problem if either ot the people in question have got issues with it. If your both fine with it then there is no reason whatsoever why this should not work. At the end of the day age is only a number, how you ... (read in full...)
Quick masturbation - increasing the risk of premature ejaculation? Any techniques to prolong climax?
Q. If you masturbate too quickly (i.e. before 10 minutes) does that mean I will experience premature ejaculation more frequently than most guys? If so can anyone give any techniques to prolong climax?...
A. 25 October 2007: When you feel you are are the point of ejaculation, pause for a moment and grip the top the the penis with your thumb and forefinger. When you feel like the feeling has died down then start again. Repeat this process utill you feel you are ready to ... (read in full...)
What size do boys like
Q. do boys like size 6s or 4s? (English sizes) or do they prefer 10s and 12s? maybe 8s? Skinny or curvy? Wat is sexier? ...
A. 24 October 2007: Its a near impossibe question to answer as each individual person has got different tastes. Some may like skinny while others may like curvy, guess it all boils down to personal preference really. If it were me i would choose curvy over skinny, but ... (read in full...)
I want to ask this boy out, but will be humiliated if he says no.
Q. I have a big crush on this boy at school. Should i ask him out and get humilated if he says no or should i keep it a secret? But the problem is that he is friends with this girl and she will spread it if he tells her! help me... from confuse...
A. 24 October 2007: Instead of asking out straight away why don't you try to make a friend out of him. Befriend him, ask him if he had a nice weekend and what did he get up to. Or ask him what he is doing the following weekend. Throw in some light flirtatious gestures ... (read in full...)
I think she's falling for me. How do I let her down gently?
Q. Okay well im 16 atm, and theres this girl 14. I have known her since the day she was born, and we have always been soo close. See tells me everything, and can even help me out when im down. but recently she has broken up with her bf, and im worried ...
A. 24 October 2007: Maybe because you have known her for so long she feels totally comfortable with you and is just letting out her emotions the only way she knows how. If you feel it is more then all you can be is brutally honest with her and tell her that nothing can ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if I have unprotected sex during menstruation?
Q. can i get pregnant if i have unprotected sex during my menstruation....
A. 24 October 2007: I think the likelihood of you actually geting pregnant are somewhat slim considering your gender. If you did im sure you would find a place in the Guiness book of records.... (read in full...)
Is he just showing he cares?
Q. Im friends with this guy, weve know each other a while now, only he keeps putting his arms around my stomache n stuff like that and he keeps constantly hugging me. I dont mind him doing it but does he want to go further than friends or is he just ...
A. 24 October 2007: If he really cares about you and wants to be more than just friends i think he would be doing more than just putting his arm around your waist. Does he do other flitatious gestures, like give you prolonged eye contact, touch you in other areas, and ... (read in full...)
Tips for getting clear skin?
Q. Does anyone have any good tips for getting really clear skin, anything that works ? ta x...
A. 24 October 2007: A good diet, steer clear of regularly consuming fast foods, and drink plenty of water to flush you through. Moisturise when you get up, and also before you go to bed.
Take care x... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to respect my property?
Q. how do I get my boyfriend to respect me and my property? I constantly ask him not to look certain things up on my phone and computer because I find it offensive, and he just totally disregaurds my feelings...
A. 24 October 2007: Basically he does not trust you, and also sounds like he is harbouring alot of insecurities. He has got no right to go snooping through your phone and your computer, who does he think he is. I think if this keeps up then i would consider walking ... (read in full...)
How can I find out her feelings, without ruining our friendship?
Q. I've recently become more and more attracted to a close friend of mine. I'm 21 but she's 34. She's single and we always get on very well when we're together but I want to spend time with her as more than friends. How can I find out if she feels the ...
A. 23 October 2007: I feel all you can do here is ask her how she feels. Pick a good time where there is a sort of romantic ambience and say that you feel you have both been getting on really well and would like to see her as more than just a friends. Express that you ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to increase the length of my penis?
Q. hi, i was just wondering iif there are any ways to inccrease the length of your penis....
A. 23 October 2007: The only way you ar going to increase the size of your penis is to pay thousands of pounds to have a top surgeon perform an operation. There are of course lots of gimmicks, and things that you can buy that claim to make the penis bigger, but if you ... (read in full...)
I always pick fight for no reason.
Q. i have a boyfreind that i love so much and who is so complicated every time i ask what do you want to do next he says do whatever you want. what should i do? should i go on with him? should i date someone i don't understand?because i love him i ...
A. 23 October 2007: If you did not ove him i would say walk away from the whole thing and find someone else. However you say that you love him very much, ok so he is abit complicated, so what, alot of people are. I think the key here is communucation, talk to him about ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I am pleasing him.
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, he is a very wonderful guy, he treats me very good and I think we have something very special here. We have a very open relationship we can talk about past sex experiences without having any ...
A. 23 October 2007: I think in relationships it is very rare to have a couple with an equal amount of sexual experience, invariably one is always more experienced than the other. It not a bad thing by any means, infact i think its quite the norm. Personally it would ... (read in full...)
If I leave him alone, will he miss me and come back, or will it cause more damage?
Q. I would love opinions from everyone but especially want a male point of view. My partner of 2 years left me a few weeks ago to sort through some issues he has. If i leave him alone will he miss me and come back? Will contacting him really cause more ...
A. 22 October 2007: He says he has got to go away to sort out some issues he has, so let him do this and give him the space he needs to do so. I think he will think alot more of you if you don't call him, i think if you go calling him every 5 minutes leaving messages ... (read in full...)
How can I know if he really does actually like me?
Q. I have been sleeping with this bloke for about 4 months now, and a couple of weeks ago he told me he likes me and that he is not just sleeping with me for the sake it. I have started to really, really like him now. The problem is I don't know if ...
A. 22 October 2007: The only thing you can do is ask him, ask him if he really does see you as anything more than sexual partners. Express that you really like him and want more than just sex, you would like a realtionship maybe. If you get the impression he is playing ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me, after being with me for a year and a half... Will he ever love me?
Q. We've been together for a year and a half and and still says he doesn't love me. However, he is the most loyal and devoted man I've ever been with. This is his first serious relationship and besides that, I have no complaints...but I'm wondering if ...
A. 22 October 2007: Im sorry but if he does not love you why are you both still continuing with this relationship?. He may well be the most loyal devoted man you have ever been with, but at the end of the day he does not love you, and after a year and a half the ... (read in full...)
URRRGH! Everywhere I look, people are falling in love. How do I deal with my jealousy?
Q. URRRRRGH!! Please help me people. Everywhere I look, every TV show I watch, every film I watch, I see couples. Usually kissing. I'm not long out of a relationship that lasted 2 and a bit years. I thought she would be the one I'd be with, an...
A. 22 October 2007: Just look at people falling in love, and insead of generating jealous feelings be happy for them that they have found love. Ok so you have loved & lost, and thats better than never loved atal. If you have been in love before then the likellhood is ... (read in full...)
Am I reading too much into this? What do you make of my potential boyfriend?
Q. I recently moved to a new city, been here for about 4 months now, and found a new job. With this, I found some new friends. Two guys and a girl. One of the guys, and the girl have partners, so of course that left those two saying something was gonna ...
A. 22 October 2007: Genarally age gaps in relationships don't really matter a great deal, age is only a number at the end of the day, and its all about how yoy both feel for one another. Having said that he does sound like quite an immmature 18 year old. Telling you ... (read in full...)
Under a magnifying glass, what should I do?
Q. My friend's husband always seems to be checking me out, I feel so uncomfortable and I don't know what to do???...
A. 21 October 2007: I would pull this guy aside and speak to him on the quiet, and tell him that you feel really uncomfortable when he stares at you, and it has got to stop imediately.
Take care x... (read in full...)
Where is my Prince?
Q. Are there any good men left out there? Pretty much all the men I have ever met in my life have been terrible. They have all pretty much been uncaring, unromantic, unfaithful, shallow, and rude. Which makes me wonder, are there any decent guys still ...
A. 21 October 2007: Of course there are decent guy's left out there, i should know im one of them. I have had a couple of not so good relationships in the past, and to be honest i have been pondering on that question, but about women. Your prince is most certainly out ... (read in full...)
We've been together 5 years. What is the average amount of times we should be having sex?
Q. i have been with my partner for 5 years how often does the average couples make love after being together that amount of time...
A. 21 October 2007: I guess there is no set limit to the amount of times a couple make love after 5 years, it would differ from couple to couple. Some couples might make love every night, while some just once a week. I really boils down to what you are both comfortable ... (read in full...)
Size does matter.
Q. I have an average size penis, 5.5 inches, and my girlfriend says she like ones that aren't small but aren't too big. Can anyone help me with size, positions or really just any advice. It would be great to hear from a fellow average sized person who ...
A. 21 October 2007: Just adding to what the other aunts have already said really and that is that size does not matter in the least, more how you use it.
All the best ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend and I end up lying about it!
Q. im 14 nearly 15 and ive never had a boyfriend corse ive fancied them and stuff but ive never had an actual relationship i dont know what to do all my friends have and i end up lieing to them!...
A. 20 October 2007: You are still only very young, you have got all the time in the world for dating & boyfriends. Just be honest and say i don't have a boyfriend at the moment, you don't have to lie about it, just say " Im young free & single, and proud of it ". Your ... (read in full...)
I love her, she likes me, but we don't want to hurt anyone.
Q. i'm in love with my mates girl and she likes me to but we dont want to screw things up, wat should i do?...
A. 20 October 2007: I would not make a move on your friends girl, it could cause all sorts of unessesary complications all round. And you will also jeopardize you friendship with your mate, and a mate is worth keeping because you never know when you may need them.
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Are sex noises a turn-on??
Q. hi! This is sort of a question for males, but female input is also appreciated. im 17, not that that is really important right now, but i was wondering: do guys enjoy it when women make noises during sex? is it a turn on, or just really annoying...
A. 20 October 2007: I guess it one of those things that is a turn on for some men, and not for others. Personally i woulden't mind it, think it adds abit of excitment, but then i live on my own. I guess if a guy was still living at home with his parents and his girl ... (read in full...)
Am I misreading the signals??
Q. Hi! There's a boy who I really like at school and sometimes I think he likes me back but I'm worried in case I'm misreading the signals. When we're in class I can feel him looking over at me but when I turn around his heads buried in his textbook....
A. 20 October 2007: From what you have said he is showing the classic signs of fancying you. Looking at you in class then when you look up he looks away. Giving you direct eye contact is another sure sign he is into you, and also his dilating pupils. However i do think ... (read in full...)
Is a female who performs oral sex still a virgin???
Q. I have a curious question, if a female did oral sex once but she never had any sexual intercourse before, Would she still be considered a virgin?...
A. 20 October 2007: Yes, untill she has sex which involves penetration she is still a virgin, regardless of whether she gives oral or not.
K... (read in full...)
How do I get through these three weeks?
Q. My boyfriends in the army and going away on an practice training session He will be away for three weeks I saw him last night and had a great time with him We have been togetheer 18 months and are real happy We are so into each other But I already ...
A. 20 October 2007: Three week is not alot of time atal really. Just keep yourself occupied for the duration and keep busy. Maybe meet up with friends, go down the gym, whatever. Keep occupied and three weeks will fly by, then do something really special & memorable ... (read in full...)
Are there any signes that a girl is comfortable with you?
Q. How can i know if the girl is comfortable with me or not while i talk with her from the first time? I know smiling is a good sign, is there other signs......
A. 20 October 2007: Yes as you say the smiling is a good one, and she will open up and be chatty with you. He posture will be that of an open one and her body will point in your direction. Look out for eye contact too, if she is comfortable with you she will look you ... (read in full...)
What exactly does "taking a break mean"?
Q. What exactly does "taking a break mean"? She still calls me and talks to me and wants to see me and says she loves me. Very confused. Please help....
A. 19 October 2007: With the limited amount of information provided here i can only say that taking a break means she still has feelings for you but wants to put your relationship on hold for a while. Maybe she wants to clear her head and collect her thoughts, who ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to start up a conversation. Help!
Q. dear cupid, i need some help, i reli like my next door neighbour, but i hardly ever talk to him and when i do its a simple hello, what can i do to get him talk to me properly, im too shy to go up to him and just start having a random conversa...
A. 19 October 2007: Hmm thats a tough one, try this. When the postman comes and he delivers your mail nip over when you think no ones there and pop one of your letters through his letter box. He will just think the post man has made an error and pop your letter back to ... (read in full...)
Still stuck on him
Q. It's been 5 months and I still haven't gotten over my past relationship of 2 1/2 years. The problem is that my ex boyfriend goes to college only 30 minutes away from where I live. And even worse, he has a new girlfriend who he brings everywhere. ...
A. 19 October 2007: I guess it does not help things that he goes to college near to where you live. Soon your feelings for him will diminish, time really is the healer of all pain. Get back out there, have fun with your mates and forget about this guy. Sooner or later ... (read in full...)
Foot friendly fun ideas for the weekend?
Q. If my boyfriend works on his feet during the week days, I understand he won't enjoy hiking on the weekend. He would rather give his feet a rest on the weekend. What kind of fun activities that we can do together that will be healthy for both of us ...
A. 19 October 2007: Weather permitting, a trip down the beach and relax on the sand for the day soking up the sunshine. Or gather some nice food & a nice bottle of wine and find a nice secluded spot for a nice romantic picnic. Or maybe if there is is a good movie at ... (read in full...)
He's over me and I wish I could say the same about him
Q. Me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now, from our 2 year long relationship. I believe he's currently back with his ex, but I'm still feeling a sense of longing for him even though most of the pain has subsided. I still love and want ...
A. 19 October 2007: I know it does not feel like it now but your feelings for him will eventually diminish and things will get easier, time really is the healer af all pain. Sooner or later you will meet someone else that you fall madly in love with, and probably when ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to let him know I'm attracted even though he's unavailable?
Q. Is it wrong that I always stare at this guy I have a huge crush on when he has a girlfriend? I'm not 'talk-flirting' with him or anything I just always stare at him when I see him and he usually looks back. Is it wrong that I do this when he is ...
A. 19 October 2007: I think its harmless, as long as you draw the line right there and don't cross it. Have respect that he is spoken for and just admire him from afar.
All the best x... (read in full...)
How do I have him back without feeling stupid if he refuses the reconciliation?
Q. i recently split with my boyfriend over some thin stupid really but things were said and now i want him back i dont no how to do this without lookin stupid if he knocks me back...
A. 19 October 2007: The only thing you can do is arrange to meet him somewhere and just explain to him that you feel it was really stupid what you split up over. Tell him your sorry and never wanted to split up in the first place. Give him time to think about it and if ... (read in full...)
He's not entirely sure he 'got out' in time. I'm so worried! How reliable is the withdrawal method?
Q. hi, straight to the point here. I had unprotected sex recently, mid cycle. My partner and i were using the withdrawel method, we have done this before, however, afterwards he was feeling a bit panoid, leading me now to be paranoid, he's n...
A. 19 October 2007: Like Harshbut fair says it is not a very reliable method atal. Sperm comes out of the penis before the male has ejaculated, know as pre-sperm. I would refrain from using this method, unless you are ready to start a family soon.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
She hurt me so much. Why do I still want her back?
Q. My ex hurt me a lot, cheated on me, lied to me, deceived me, and yet part of me still wants her back. When she's hurt me, why does some of me still want to hold on?...
A. 19 October 2007: You have obviously got a strong emotional attachment to this person which explains why part of you still wants her back despite all she has done to you. In time your feelings for will subside and you will eventually find a woman that loves & ... (read in full...)
My bf's constant calling is driving me crazy!
Q. My boyfriend likes to spend hours on the phone everyday he phones me about 20 times a day, this is driving me mad and I don't want to spend all the time on the phone he thinks it's because I don't want to be with him anymore which isn't the case ...
A. 19 October 2007: Try to explain again, tell him not to call so many times in the day. Tell him that your feelings for him have not changed, its just sometimes you don't always have the time to talk. If this does not work then maybe you should try turning your phone ... (read in full...)
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