I'm having trouble in revising for my exams, how to deal with the stress?
Q. im 15 and i dont know what to do, i have to revise so much for my exams but i just dont have any time, im seriously stressing, help!!!!!!!!!...
A. 11 November 2007: Its very important that you knuckle down and find the time to revise for these exams. Doing well in these exams will path the way for your future, whether you want to go to college then to university, or get a decent job. You don't say why you don't ... (read in full...)
The guys in my form keep picking me up. How do I stop them without making a fool of myself?
Q. The guys in my form are always picking me up or squeezing my sides and genraly pushing me around. it never really hurts and they are always doin it as a joke and i usually just lauph and slap there arm. i do fancy one of them and dont mind when he ...
A. 11 November 2007: I think you have got to tell them in a stern way that you don't want to be picked up anymore. I think because you laugh and slap their arms they are thinking you are ok with it and seeing it as a green light to do it again. Once they see you are not ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find someone who will love me back as much as I love him?
Q. Hi - I was wondering whether anyone else would have different views to me on this. Personally I don't think I would ever go out with a boy unless I really did like him because I see that as toying with their feelings and it could possibly become ...
A. 11 November 2007: Personally i think this is a good attitude to have as you are not just going out with people for the sake of it. To wait till you meet someone who you love with all your heart, and who loves you back the same is good. You are still only young, don't ... (read in full...)
I want to get my sister into bed
Q. i am 14 i like my sister wont to get her in to bed but she it 19 and has a bf plzzz i no i wont to do soo if any one can help me on it hlep me two get my sisert into bed wat am i meen 2 she is 19 i am 14 but i no i wont 2 do this ...
A. 11 November 2007: I think you need to stop these feelings you are having for your sister imediately. Sharing any form sexual contact with a blood relative is classed as incest, and is very very wrong. She is 19 and has a boyfriend, she would be shocked if she new you ... (read in full...)
I'm 16... can I buy a vibrator? Does "everyone" own one?
Q. i am sixteen years old and want to use a vibrator but i am embarressed abouit buying one. can i just walk into a shop and buy one? and does everyone use them?...
A. 10 November 2007: I can't speak for everyone but i would say that alot of woman do use a vibrator. If you are to scared to walk into a shop to buy one then mail order is probably your best bet. Not that im into buying vibrators being a guy, but i would think you best ... (read in full...)
Is my brother correct?
Q. hi, my brother just told me that mixing fruit with pepsi or coke makes a drug and stays in your system for 70 hours and gives you illusions, the thing is i accidently did that and drank it i was wondering if its true, please help me. He also said he ...
A. 10 November 2007: Like the other aunts have told you your brother is winding you up. My brother used to do exactly the same to me when we were kids. There is absolutely so side effect to mixing fruit with pepsi, but why don't you now wind your brother back up and say ... (read in full...)
I have an inconvenient penis. What can I do?
Q. I'm 27 years old man. I have made sex since last year. Eventhough my penis size is not much smaller, my girl friends comment as it is too too small, and I am always embarrassed by this case. Does her hole is exteremely wide or is that my problem? ...
A. 10 November 2007: I think that your girlfriend was wrong to comment on your penis size, im not suprised that you were embarrassed. Im sure she would not like it if you made a derogotory comment regarding her breasts. Anyway regarding penis size its not the size that ... (read in full...)
He wants a genuine relationship but I don't. What do I do?
Q. There is this guy who I met last year. He's been very nice to me and intelligent. We started talking and eventually he told me how he felt for me but then I din't feel anything because he had no swag as a guy and was simply just there. It's o...
A. 10 November 2007: you certainly can not help how you feel, if your feelings are not there for him its not your fault. It does sound like he has got a soft spot for you, but i think you should lay all your cards on the table and tell him how you feel. tell him sooner ... (read in full...)
I want to be friends, but I'm unsure.
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. I am completely happy about it. I do want to maintain our friendship but He has said that if I keep calling him that we will never be friends. I don't know what to do. He broke up with me for a 14 yr old. He is ...
A. 9 November 2007: I can't really see why you would want to be friends with him as he has left you for someone else. And that someone else is way below the legal age of consent, and he could get into serious trouble if anything were to happen. I think you should just ... (read in full...)
Should I break up and just end the guilt?
Q. Hello i have been in my first relation for about a month now. I like my girlfriend but i like her friends too. I think i may have feeling fors one but i like my girlfriend Should i break up with my girl friend and just end this guilt? '.'.'...
A. 9 November 2007: At your age its perfectly normal to fancy lots of different people, and come in and out of relationships. If you really do like this other girl then the correct thing to do here would be to finish it with your current girlfriend. If you feel its ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date a younger guy?
Q. I like this guy for long time. We have been friends for almost 4 years and i seem to have not lost interest in him. I have tried so hard to stop liking him because he is a year younger than me but it's really hard. I even dated other guys to try ...
A. 8 November 2007: I don't think its wrong for you to date someone younger than yourself. So he is a year younger than you, 12 months is absolutely nothing atal. After all age is only a number, the love and feelings a couple share far supersede how many months or ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is cheating
Q. I think my boyfriend is cheating. well all the sign are there,he doesnt call everyday as he used to,he send people he doent know sweet sms/mms.he is rude on the phone when i talk to him,we rarely see eah other and he has changed his style of ...
A. 8 November 2007: I don't really think there is enough information here to say yes he is cheating. So he does not call every day, his style of kissing has changed, he is sometimes offish with you, this does not mean he playing away. He has told you he would never ... (read in full...)
Reason to stay in the relationship
Q. Say you were with a girl who did not find penetration pleasureable by preference or had a sexual dysfunction that prevented sex from being satisfying.could you stay in a relationship where you only had oral sex??...
A. 8 November 2007: I think it would depend on how i felt about the person in question. If i loved them with all my heart then i would stick with it a try my best to make it work. There is more to a relationship than just penetrative sex, oral sex can be very ... (read in full...)
What's going wrong.
Q. I'm a laid-back guy. When I go to high school in the morning I sit with all girls in the cafeteria before 1st class. I'm nice and I try to help people, and I'm wondering why I'm always the "nice" guy. All my friends are pairing up. It's just ...
A. 8 November 2007: You are not doing anything wrong, your time will most certainly come. You are only young, you have got all the time in the world for girlfriends and dating. So what if some of your mates are getting girlfriends and you haven't, thats just the way it ... (read in full...)
I need to control my snack habit
Q. Most nights when I get home from school I have loads of snacks and it is worrying me because I don't want to get over weight. Like tonight, I have a packet of crisps, ice cream and a biscuit. I don't intend on having so many snacks but I can't help ...
A. 7 November 2007: Reading your post took me back to when i used to get home from school, i used to have the munchies big time. I think i used to have a pack of crumpets, the maybe some crisps. Luckily i was one of those kids who never put on any weight, mainy because ... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me the way he should
Q. Help!! I am still in love with my exbotyfriend but I recently found out that he has been married for 1 year and also has a nwborn son. my heart truely belongs to him. I am in in a relationship with my two kids father but he doesn't love me the way a ...
A. 7 November 2007: Both your lives have changed now, your ex is married and has a newborn son. you are in a relationship with your two kids father. Personally i would try to forget about him and get on with your life. I feel if you persue him it is just going to cause ... (read in full...)
I can't find one that can cope with dunkin
Q. I have a Huge Problem!........................ Whenever i have a cup of tea i liek to enjoy a few biscuits but i cant find one that can cope with dunking!! Any suggestions?...
A. 7 November 2007: Im not sure what you mean here, do you mean you can't find someone that will put up with your dunkin, or are you are asking for a list of biscuits that are good for dunking. If its the later i guess it all depends on how long you leave the buscuit ... (read in full...)
Should I stop before it gets out of hand?
Q. I am 19 and have met a guy (45) who is really nice and i am friends with but latley we have started to kiss and touch each other. Is this ok or should i stop before it gets out of hand??...
A. 6 November 2007: Age gaps invariably only ever become a problem if either of the people in question have got issues with its. I am a believer that the feelings and love between two people far supesede how many number between them. Its quite a big age gap of 26 years ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me and broke up with me over the phone. I'm 13, help...
Q. My ex cheated on my with this very fat girl I used to be mates with. And he dumped me by text while i was away for the half term. I was well upset, and it only was three weeks or a months since we've been dating. Everyone keeps calming me down at ...
A. 6 November 2007: I know it hurts, nobody wnats to be cheated on, and espessially not dumped by phone. Look at it this way its better you found out he was a jerk now rather than later. The only one that lost out here is him, you know it, your mates know it, hell ... (read in full...)
We've just started dating, but we can't find anything to do together that doesn't cost a lot, help us!
Q. I've started a new relationship with a guy a month ago; this is my first romantic relationship with anyone. Over the past few weeks, my boyfriend and I have made time to see each other once a week. The problem is, we've been having so much trouble ...
A. 6 November 2007: If you both really like each other than just to be in each others company should be enough. What about a nice romantic walk around see some nice scenery, then finish with with watching the sun go down. What about getting a nice bottle of wine and a ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to him about the fact I'm scared he'll hurt me as the ex did - without him getting upset with me?
Q. my ex-boyfriend abused me and now im scared that my current boyfriend is going to do the same. he wouldn't hurt a fly and he is so good to me, and i want to trust him but i can't. how do i talk to him about it without him getting upset with me?...
A. 6 November 2007: Its natural that what happened in your past relationship is going to have some effect on your next relationship. But the reality is that the other guy that abused you is now gone, and you are now with a nice guy that is really good to you. There is ... (read in full...)
II would kill to get back with my ex!
Q. why can't he understnad that i love him soo much and i will kill for him to get back with me? i would really do anything to get him back if only i knew how! any advice would really help ....
A. 6 November 2007: Does your ex know the extent of your feelings for him, and what you would do to have him back?. I don't know what hapened in the relationship before, or who finished with who. But the only thing i can suggest is talking to him, why don't you ask him ... (read in full...)
He reaches the finishline too quickly! How do I slow him down?
Q. I am seeing/dating this guy whom recently we became sexually involve. The first time he came too quickly within minutes of intercourse. So I didnt say anything. Now it is our fifth times or sixth times and it is still the same. What can I do to he...
A. 6 November 2007: I don't know if you do it but foreplay can be a very effective method in postponing the finishline. Also if when he is in the middle of love making and he feels like he is going to ejaculate to soon, tell him to withdraw and maybe go back to some ... (read in full...)
We broke up and now he's running around town!
Q. Heres my question Me and My bf broke up and for someone who didn't go out much before (even before we started the relationship) seems to be going to a lot since the split. Is this his way of dealing with the split he says he doesn't want to sit at ...
A. 6 November 2007: Personally i think he is doing just what he says he is doing. For whatever reason the relationship finished and instead of moping round the house feeling sorry for himself his going out. Its not nesessarily to meet someone else, although its ... (read in full...)
We've had sex and now he wants more, I don't want to go that fast!
Q. ive been dating this guy (his 26) for about a 4 weeks now, but we have only seen each other a few times, last time i went to his house and we slept with each other, it was my 1st time (im 21) and it was ok and it felt right at the time. he seems ...
A. 6 November 2007: You move this relationship on at the pace you are comfortable with. If you want to slow it down abit then tell him you want to take it nice and slow. Don't be pressured into anything you are not comfortable doing, as you say he seems like a really ... (read in full...)
How can I make these stretch marks disappear?
Q. I am 16 and i am a virgin but for the past year i have had stretch marks on my inner and outer thigh how can i make these go and why are they there....
A. 5 November 2007: Hi there, Like a couple of the other Aunts have said Bio Oil is really good for stretch marks and scar marks. Also any creams containing vitimin E, like Palmers Cocoa butter.
Take care... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a 35 year old man I met at a party. I'm only 18.
Q. I met this guy at a party and i just noticed him because he was so cute. while I was sitting, he came to meet me and gave me his number. We've started communicating and spent some time together but the thing is he's 35 and I am 18. I look more ...
A. 5 November 2007: I don't really think age gaps matter, after all age is only a number, the feelings a couple have for one another far supersede age. However i would do abit more checking up on this guy before you persue anything serious. When he was talking about ... (read in full...)
We're virgins and she wants to have sex, but I don't want to yet!
Q. Hi. I'm in a bit of a predicament that I guess many males don't end up in. My girlfriend wants to have sex. We've known each other for over a year, so we're not just hooking up. However, we haven't done anything else involving sexual activity of any ...
A. 5 November 2007: If you are not ready to have sexual intercourse yet then don't do it untill you are good and ready. She said she respects you decision and will wait for you which is a good thing, at least she is not pushing you to do it. You are in this ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 in university and he's 14 in high school, should we be together?
Q. hi, well i am angelina the problem is that i am 17 and he is 14 he is still at the high school and i am at the university so many people think that we are in love but our age difference is the problem and for other way i am best friend of ...
A. 5 November 2007: I think all you can be for the time being is friends, he is way to young for any sort of relationship at the moment. In age terms 3 years is nothing atal, it just sound alot in this case because he only 14. In a few year's time like say when he is ... (read in full...)
I like this guy, but am I just a booty call to him?
Q. How do I know if this guy is into me? I have been seeing/dating this guy since August. We have been intimate sexually with each other. For him to contact me, I have to text him. If I dont text him, he doesnt contact me nor call me. If I send hi...
A. 5 November 2007: From what you have said this guy is showing a lack of interest in wanting to know you, but when there is a chance of a booty call he really wants to know. When you really like someone you can't wait to see them, they are always on your mind and you ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to this older guy?
Q. Heya.For about a year now ive been seeing this guy and we get on really well and both really like each other. The only problem is he's 28 and im only 16. The age dosen't matter to me that much its just a few of my friends know and are really teasing ...
A. 4 November 2007: It all depends on how you feel about this guy, and how he feels about you. Your viginity is something you want to hold onto for as long as possibe, don't lose it to someone you don't think you are going to be with in a couple of months time. Your ... (read in full...)
My husband may not love me?
Q. my husband tells me that he does'nt know if he's still in love with me what will i do?...
A. 4 November 2007: With the limited amount of information provided here i feel if he has said this then the only option is to talk to him. Cook a nice meal, or go out to dinner and have a good chat, and get everything out in the open. This way you will both know where ... (read in full...)
How can you tell what love is?
Q. Ok. I really really like this guy who is 3 years older than me. He is funny, kind, shares some of the same interests as me (and as a bonus he is gorgeous aswell!!) However i don't see him very often as he is away at boarding school for most of the ...
A. 4 November 2007: I think everyones perception of love differs somewhat from person to person, but for me love is caring about someone else more than you care about yourself. The one person that is always on your mind from the moment you wake up till your head hits ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to dump his girlfriend and come after me?
Q. Right I Like This Guy, Alot. I Have Liked Him For A While, With Some Uncertain Feelings About Him. But Hes Got A Girlfriend That He Likes Alot Who Is Not As Pretty As Me, But Lives Closer To Him. We Havent Met Properly, Yet, But He Said Hed Com...
A. 4 November 2007: To get him to dump his girlfriend would not be right, if they are going to split up then it has got to be his doing and not yours. Also i would not consider him as a potential boyfriend while he is currently in a relationship with this other girl. ... (read in full...)
Should I just go for it and hope I can come to like him?
Q. em well theres this guy that really likes me.. i think he is really nice he treats me really nice but im not sure if i like him in that way and he isnt attractive, but he is really nice! should i just go for it and hope i start to like him???...
A. 4 November 2007: If you really like him and he treats you really nice then go for it and see how it goes, over time you could come to really like him. Looks are not everything, and im sure he has got so many good qualities that you have yet to find out.
Good ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys make a move on me?
Q. Hello. Im 15, and turning 16 soon. And my deepest darkest confession is, I've never been kissed. What i can understand is, why no guy makes their move? I mean, I'm smart, pretty, funny.. Jeesh, what do you want? A barbie doll? ...
A. 4 November 2007: I think in this day and age it does not look to out of place for girls to make moves on guys, as it did years ago. If you really like this guy and he does not know who you are, well he is only ever going to know you are by you going up and talking ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he truely loves me?
Q. ok. so i told this guy I love him. he said he loves me 2. but does he really love me? i mean, how can i tell it's true? HELP...
A. 4 November 2007: You can tell by the way he acts around you, by the way he talks to you, treats you. If he truly loves you he will make you feel like the most special person in the world, his eyes will light up when ever he see's you, and he will want to be with all ... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregenent
Q. On October 27, 2007 I had sex with my ex and the comdom burst and he came inside me. On the 1st of November I came on my period could I still be pregnant?...
A. 3 November 2007: Go and get a pregnancy testing kit and find out, its the only way you are going to know for sure, and it will put your mind at ease too.
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Did he break my virginity with dry humping?
Q. I am a 13 yr old old virgin and have pledged to remain so until marriage. I recently had an intimate moment with my boyfriend. I sat on his lap while he kissed my neck but he had an erection and I felt his penis almost at the entrance of my vagina ...
A. 3 November 2007: Don't worry there is no way you could have lost your virginity as no intercourse took place, and you both had all your clothes on.
Take care x... (read in full...)
How can I move on from my boyfriend of 1 year?
Q. i was dumped by my first 'real' boyfriend over a month ago, and i still can't seem to get over him, even though he has a new gf already. how can i move on?...
A. 1 November 2007: Its never easy getting dumped at any point in your life, but when its your first love it always seems so much harder. I know it does not feel like it now but i can tell you that soon you will start to feel better in yourself. You can put that part ... (read in full...)
We've had our first date... what happens next?
Q. hi guys. so i had the first date and that went ok i think. but what happens now? shud i ask him out on a second date and should the girl ever ask a guy out? im reallly confused. i want to be sure that he wants another date but i dont know how to ...
A. 1 November 2007: I glad your first date went ok, hard part out the way, now you can look forward to the second date. Im not against girls asking guys out, infact i think its a good thing. But you have only just had your first date, how did you leave it when you ... (read in full...)
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