I want to tell him he is selfish in bed but not put him right off.
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year now, he's had quite a few sexual partners and no other relationships and I've just had one other very serious relationship. The thing is that he has never made me orgasm, and doesn't even seem bot...
A. 4 December 2007: I think the key here is communication, if he is being selfish in the bedroom depaertment, which by the sound of it he is you should tell him. Its not fair that he gets his satifaction, then leaves you unsatisfied. Choose a good time and broach the ... (read in full...)
We both have properties, if I move with her I'd have to sell what I own, is it not too big of a risk? What should I do?
Q. Been in a relationship for a year, and now, I need to decide whether I want to take it further by moving in with my partner. She's not interested in getting married, owns her own house. I also own a house, but if I move in, I will have to sell what ...
A. 4 December 2007: Its always a tricky one when it comes to property isen't it. I own my own house, which like all of us have worked really hard to get. Consequently i have not met the right girl yet, but when i do im sure i will asking the same questions you are. I ... (read in full...)
We've been out twice...is he my bf??
Q. hey guys!! Well ive been out with this guy twice and i was wondering is he my boyfriend? Because i dont want to go around saying hes my boyfriend while hes going round telling his mates that were just going out. weve hugged and pecked each othe...
A. 3 December 2007: I would say that at this point in time he is not your boyfriend. It is only the second date, effectively the getting to know each other period. After each date you will become that bit more comfortable with each other, and maybe after you have been ... (read in full...)
Is there a connection here?
Q. My b/f's college-aged son came home with friends for the holiday recently. The boys were mixing drinks in the kitchen and offered me and my boyfriend one of their concoctions. After I drank the second one, I realized they had been passing around ...
A. 3 December 2007: Its hard to say really, it could well have been from passing the glass around, if one of them had just got over a rotten cold then the germs would have been left on the glass and passed to anyone who consumed drink from that cup. Or it could simply ... (read in full...)
Shall I tell him myself or let her do it?
Q. i met this guy well ive known him for quite some time and i always felt something but chose to ignore it. my friend and i were talking and she thinks i like him and wants to set us up. but im not sure about him if he would want to . i would like to ...
A. 3 December 2007: I don't think you should allow your friend to set you up, he could think this is abit immature, like something you would do at school maybe. I think in this day and age it does not look to out of place for a girl to ask a guy out, as it did years ... (read in full...)
I thought he fancied me, his behaviour isn't the same!
Q. Hi There. Well, there's this guy, who I thought fancied me (he used to poke, hug and annoy me and tease). He doesn't really interact with me now, like the poking and teasing. The only thing that has changed was that I had my hair cut and it ma...
A. 3 December 2007: Maybe he was poke, prod, and tease you because he reslly did fancy you. These are normally gestures that are carried out to tell someone that we like them without actually teling them, kind of flirting i guess. I can only asume that he stoped becuse ... (read in full...)
What can I whisper in my lovers ear to turn them on??
Q. What should I whisper in my lovers ear to turn him on?...
A. 3 December 2007: Whisper delicately and softly how sexy you are feeling at the moment, while kissing and nibling around his ear. Tell him how sexy you think he looks and the things that you intend to do to him. Whisper that you feel incredibly horney and you have ... (read in full...)
What are condoms??
Q. What are condoms exactly-what do they look like and how do you get them-are they safe? Don't say I'm too young because I'm just curious and I'm not going to have sex until I'm 16 atleast anyway so I don't need a lecture. Please - don't think I'm ...
A. 3 December 2007: Im glad to hear your not going to have sex till you are at least 16.
A condom is a form of contraception used by the male and is a sheath that he puts over the penis before love making. It protects against sexually tranmitted diseases STD's and ... (read in full...)
Could he possibly fancy me??
Q. I've known a boy in school for 5 years now, and while we've never been close friends, we spoke to each other and had a laugh every now and again. He used to tease me jokingly towards the end of y11, and we had a really good laugh. Now we're at the s...
A. 3 December 2007: Its a difficult one to answer, he could just be being friendly, or feel bad for teasing you. Make a friend out him, next time he smiles at you smile back and try to catch his eye too. Get chatting to him and be interested in things he does, or is ... (read in full...)
Best gift to give your ex gf on their birthday? I want to win her back.
Q. what is the best gift to buy my ex girlfriend, her bday is in a month and we broke up last week. Im not speaking to her but i want her back. And i would like to give her a gift that would make her smile and happy...
A. 2 December 2007: If you want to win her back, then flowers with a romantic message would be nice. If you call interfora, or most florist's for that matter will deliver them to her door, or place of work/college with the message of your choice.
Or maybe her favo... (read in full...)
We both have partners and decided to become "fling" mates.
Q. I have a boyfriend in other country and now am in university and I met someone else here. He has a girlfriend back in his home town too so we decided to just be fling mates.. its been going well until recently when I figured that I am falling for ...
A. 2 December 2007: Yes i would go with the anonymous poster here, i think he gave you brilliant advice.
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Is there any way I can still be with her?
Q. Hi! I am 27, my ex-girlfriend is 24. We were together for 2 and a half years, one year we lived together and this past year was a long-distance relationship but we met on weekends. we broke up two months ago. Throughout the time I was with my girlf...
A. 2 December 2007: The only way is to build her trust in you up again which may take some time. Although you say nothing happened, that you did not sleep with these other woman, but does your ex know this for sure?. Effectively you have betrayed her trust, and if you ... (read in full...)
Unlovable???
Q. I don't think I will ever have a boyfriend or anyone who will even "like" me. I don't know why... I'm not really pretty, but I think I've got good "brains" and am an intresting person but every time I fall for some guy they'll NEVER feel the same...
A. 2 December 2007: Believe me although it does not feel like it now your time will most certainly come, and probably when you least expect it, invariably it always happens this way. And who say's you are not really pretty, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One day ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if an ex still likes you...?
Q. If you haven't seen your ex in a while (due to his moving, which prompted the split) and he comes back for Christmas to see his family and old friends... 1) How can you tell if he still likes you, and 2) How would you try and win him back? xx...
A. 2 December 2007: If he still likes you then maybe he will try to get in contact with you, he may have mentioned you to his friends, like asked how you are doing, or what have you been up to. Why don't you post him a Christmas card wishing him a lovely Christmas. You ... (read in full...)
I NEED to know...
Q. My ex-boyfriend moved away to university recently and since he's been there he's met this girl who's seemingly very keen on him - but he's always vague as to what he thinks about her, and "doesn't know what he wants." Last night they both got ve...
A. 2 December 2007: I don't think you are ever going to know for sure what really happened that night. Whether they just fell asleep drunk, or had sex is anyones guess. You don't go into how the pair of you split up, but i really think you need to move on and stop ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her it wouldnt be a mistake??
Q. Hey! here's my question... i been friends with a girl a long time... about 5years now. Over the last couple of months I have started to like her as more than a friend. So i plucked up the confidence to just find out if she liked me back in that way...
A. 29 November 2007: I think she does like you, after all she did admit that she does. I just think that maybe she is a little scared of entering a new relationship. Maybe she has been hurt in the past, maybe she has just come out of a relationship, who knows. I would ... (read in full...)
I have a fetish which I am afraid will annoy her: I need her feet to arouse me in any sexual activity.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend on and off for the past few years..I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember and i told her about it a few months ago. She didn't mind it, in fact she liked it. But it's a problem because I need her feet ...
A. 29 November 2007: Personally i don't think its that bad a fetish to have really, i have heard of worse ones. Im sure she won't get fed up with your fetish, just try to focus on giving other parts of her body attention from time to time. Use her feet to obtain your ... (read in full...)
Will I ever be pregnant?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been trying to have a baby for the past year. its not him its me. he has two other children. is there a chance i will ever be pregnant? i hope so......
A. 29 November 2007: The time scale varies from couple to couple, some people fall pregnant very quickly, while others it can take years of trying. You are still only young, keep trying and im sure it will happen, probably when you least expect it.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Is it normal?
Q. Is it normal for couples to put up a poster of a woman in a bikini on their bedroom wall?...
A. 29 November 2007: I think its ok if he has got his own place, or lives with his parents, then i can't really see anything wrong with it. I would however think it was wrong if a couple live together and had that kind of material on the wall.
Take care x... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!
Q. Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk o...
A. 27 November 2007: I think if you really value your friendship with your best friend then i would try to forget about this guy. I feel he is playing around with you, otherwise he would have left your mate for you already. If you had to choose between the two i would ... (read in full...)
I'm stressing about leaving school, but I don't leave til 2009!
Q. ok i am 14 in year 10 and stressing about leaving school in 2009.i really dont want to leave school thinking i might not see some of my freinds again really upsets me how can i get over this i shouldnt have to worry about this for like a year yet!...
A. 26 November 2007: I woulden't worry about leaving school at this point and enjoy the time that you have left there. They say that your school days are the best years of your life, so stop worrying about something thats a year away. It is true that when you leave ... (read in full...)
She dumped me last week but she keeps flirting with me! I'm being torn apart!
Q. i dont understand why a girl i know is flirting with me, i thought she didnt like me. she dumped me last week!... please help me im being torn apart...
A. 26 November 2007: It could be one of two things, either she is trying to get you going, like tugging at your heart strings to see if she can get a reaction out of you. Or she dumped you and realised that she has made a mistake and the only way she can get it over to ... (read in full...)
What to get my man for Christmas?
Q. I need help! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months and a day. If we are together on Christmas Eve we wll be together for 4 months. I know what he likes. He likes Nascar, WWE, Baseball, Football, etc. I just don't know what to get him ...
A. 26 November 2007: It really does depend on how much you want to spend really. However i think your safest bet would be to steer torwards something he is interested in, Like a WWE dvd featuring all his favourite wrestlers, or maybe the kit of his favourite baseball or ... (read in full...)
How can I get a popular boy to notice me?
Q. this question is from my friend because she dosnt have a page on dear cupid: im 15 and i have a huge crush on this popular boy, he dosnt really know who i am, how can i get him to notice me?...
A. 26 November 2007: I think you friends best bet would be to be friends with him, to say hi to him when she passes him and try to build up some kind of raport with this guy. Maybe after a few days of saying hi she could progress further and maybe get chatting to him. ... (read in full...)
Can pre-cum get you pregant??
Q. I want to really know.. can you get pregant by pre cum? ...
A. 23 November 2007: Yes you can most certainly still get pregnant by pre-cum, its the same stuff, but it just comes out sooner.
Take care x... (read in full...)
Struggling with just being friends to my special someone.
Q. Can you ever be 'just friends' with someone you instantly fall for, and they appear to feel the same? We text eachother sometimes, but I am almost finding it too difficult, I almost feel like saying it's all or nothing as it's torture to be friends ...
A. 23 November 2007: I think you should not rush it, if there is something there between the pair of you let it materialise in its own good time. As you say he needs a break as he has just come out of a relationship, so ultimately he won't want to rush into anything ... (read in full...)
He cheated twice, then left me, but we still love each other , should I take him back?
Q. My husband had an affair January 2006 which went on for 6 months and I found out about it when it finished. We tried to make it work but he lied and cheated again and in Janaruy 2007 he left. He then started seeing her again I really thought it was ...
A. 15 November 2007: He cheated on you once, then he cheated on you a second time, so what makes you think he is not going to do it a third time. You say tonight he is finishing with her for good, but is he?. Is he just saying its over to keep you sweet like he did on ... (read in full...)
What to do to make everyone happy.
Q. I love this guy and I recently told him that i did. However he is going out with my friend. He says he still ant to be friends but now his girlfriend has read the text i sent him telling him and is ignoring me. So he now ignores me in front of her ...
A. 15 November 2007: Like rcn says all you can really do is sit this one out to be honest. Basically you have made a move on someone elses guy which is never really a good thing to do. Don't worry time is the healer of all things. I garantee that in a couple of months ... (read in full...)
I feel this is wrong, what should I do.
Q. My son father died a few months ago. And now one of his friends is trying 2 tlk 2 me.He's a very nice guy,but I just feel that's its wrong, what shoul I do....
A. 15 November 2007: I would find out what his intentions are first, he could be just being friendly as he knows what you have been through. I would talk to him, be upfront and honest and stress that you do not want this to go any further than just friends talking.
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He is kind to me, jokes around, pays me compliments. Signs that a boy fancies you?
Q. There is this boy i know... he is kind to me, he jokes around with me, and he pays me compliments. However he is 3 years older than me!! I really like him, but do you think he fancies me? Or is he just being a nice friend?? I know its hard...
A. 15 November 2007: It does sound like he does like you, joking around with you, and also giving you compliments too are a good sign he does like you. Generally when a guy fancies you he may want to be around you all the time, he may give you lots of direct eye ... (read in full...)
What is a casual relationship? I disagree with my partner.
Q. I have been in an intimate relationship with another male for three months. Now he is saying we are moving too fast and in the future we should develop a casual relationship. His definition of casual relationship is a monogamous, committed ...
A. 15 November 2007: I have always thought that a casual relationship is nothing to serious, like seeing each other once in a while, while being able to see other people at the same time.
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Things will be weird between us.
Q. I like a guy alot, we joke around ant school and we seem to like eachover, the problem is i'm not sure whether he likes me or my friend, i want to ask him out but i'm worried he'll say no and things will be wierd between us...What should i do?...
A. 15 November 2007: Instead of rushing in and asking him out why don't you try flirting with him. Next time you are playing around give him some prolonged eye contact then smile and look away. Find excuses to touch him, be interested in what he does, or is doing, and ... (read in full...)
What are women like
Q. i am 22 years old but still i dont have girlfriend.even i dont know how to asking girls for love .what am i suppose to do?...
A. 13 November 2007: Just be patient, your time will most certainly come. Don't be in to much of a rush for it to happen, just sit back and don't think about it, go out have fun with your mates and i guarantee you will meet the girl of your dreams when you very least ... (read in full...)
I'm devistated about my crush.
Q. i have a crush but he has a gf and he sed on msn i will go out wiv you when i dump my old gf. but i realy dont see him dumping her so im realy devastated what shall i do!?...
A. 11 November 2007: I would just sit back and see what happens, don't persue him any further at the moment. If later on you find out he has really dumped his girlfriend then maybe you could start going out as friends. But don't get into anything to soon because ... (read in full...)
Is he my boyfriend now.
Q. hey guys! this probably sounds stupid but my crush asked me out like 3 weeks ago!! yay! and weve had our first date. im just wondering if hes my boyfriend now? because all my mates say he is my boyfriend and i keep saying he is not....please ...
A. 11 November 2007: Hello Elliebellie,
Congatulations on your crush asking you out, you must have been thrilled. Ok so he asked you out 3 weeks ago, you have had your first date. So on that basis i would say that he is not your boyfriend yet. That first date was all ... (read in full...)
He stares and makes comments on other girls.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now going on three years. for the past year whenever we go out in public he stars and makes comments constantly about other females, in the begining it was a glance here and there, and a small ...
A. 11 November 2007: I know you have been with him for nearly 3 years, but personally i think he really needs to grow up abit, he is acting like an immature kid. When you say " why do men do this ", well i can honestly say i would never say those kind of things in front ... (read in full...)
I found out he's married.
Q. i recently startyed a relationship with a man which ive just found out hes married and has been for 9 years,the thing is i said yes for it to carrie on,but now im having second minds im single and i do find that im really enjoying myself but i also ...
A. 11 November 2007: I think that you should finish the affair with this married man, this guy is decieving his wife, and his kids, (if he has any). Married guys never leave their wives, so ultimately you become the bit on the side, or mistress, however you want to term ... (read in full...)
I want to go out with him, but don't want to loose our friendship
Q. I really like this guy, we're slowly getting to know each other...and already I'm really attracted to him, but I don't know if he feels the same way. What do I do? I'd really love to go out with him, but I don't want to loose the friendship that we ...
A. 11 November 2007: Don't rush anything, keep things going the way they are going by way of slowly getting to know each other. Take it real slow and be really good friends and if anything is going to materialise between the pair of you, let it happen slowly and ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to ask him out?
Q. For an answer to a previous question i should ask this guy out. i really dont no how to do this. we both know that we like each other so surly if he wanted to go out somwhere he would ask me?? but he is a bit shy so that might be the reason. but ...
A. 11 November 2007: I think in this day and age it does not look to out of place for a girl to ask a guy out as it did years ago. I think alot of shy guys would welcome an approach from a girl. Instead of asking him out straight away try to make a friend out of him, ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with a guy 12 years older than me?
Q. hey When i was drunk one night i saw this guy i recognised, from a shop or something, i don't know how but i knew his name so i went over and spoke to him. We ended up swapping numbers and then i think i looked up at him and we kissed a few tim...
A. 11 November 2007: I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be friends with him, although i do feel you are a little young to be thinking about dating him. I would normally advise that age does not matter, that its just a number, which generally it is, ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble in revising for my exams, how to deal with the stress?
Q. im 15 and i dont know what to do, i have to revise so much for my exams but i just dont have any time, im seriously stressing, help!!!!!!!!!...
A. 11 November 2007: Its very important that you knuckle down and find the time to revise for these exams. Doing well in these exams will path the way for your future, whether you want to go to college then to university, or get a decent job. You don't say why you don't ... (read in full...)
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