How can you tell if he genuinely likes you, or just wants your body?
Q. How can you tell the difference between a guy liking you vs. a guy just wanting your body? I have noticed either way they flirt, compliment and just make you feel good. What are the differences? How can you tell if he is telling the truth when ...
A. 7 January 2008: I think basically the guy who genuinly likes you will show you more respect than the guy who just wants you body. The first guy will want to get to know you, talk to you, be interested in things that you have done, or are doing, and when he tells ... (read in full...)
I need a special idea for my boyfriends birthday
Q. My b/f and i have been together a year and a half and his birthday is in a few days and i always like to do special things for him like for example one time i hung tons of hearts from his ceiling on v-day and made a bunch of signs for him...i would ...
A. 7 January 2008: Maybe book a table at your favoutite resturant, a romantic one with candle light & wine, maybe arrange before hand with the staff to bring out a cake. Finish off the evening with a romantic night back at home, maybe slip on some nice lingerie and ... (read in full...)
I have no friends, I'm so unhappy
Q. I'm only 13 years old(girl) and I wanna run away because I can't take my life anymore. I'm really young and I feel like I have no friends. I'm sometimes alone at school. What do I do?...
A. 7 January 2008: Im so sorry to hear that you feel like you have no friends, but running away will not be the awswer. Have you tried making friends with people?. As you mature and get older things will become more easier and clearer. Over time you will make many ... (read in full...)
Broken up with my boyfriend, but he's slirting with my friends, how do I deal with it?
Q. My ex wanted me back and I jumped to it cos I still really liked him.I was really happy but about a week into it it all changed and went back to how it used to be - him making false promises, not seeming interested in me etc, etc. SoI finished it ...
A. 7 January 2008: I would be inclined to forget about him and move on with your life. Treat it as a chapter in your life that has happened, at look back on it as water under the bridge. Cut contact with him and stop finding him on facebook, the more you track what he ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are in love?
Q. hiya! i was just wondering: how do you know if you are really in love? cus the guy im with well i dunno if i love him. ive been with him for about 6 months. i dont really feel i have opened up but i want to know if theres a point in a rela...
A. 7 January 2008: HI Elliebellie,
I guess the time it takes people to fall in love varies from couple to couple. Somepeople claim to have fallen in love straight away, while others have fallen in love after years. I think you know you are in love by the way you ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my ex, it's been a week, please help
Q. My ex andI broke up 6 dfays ago but I miss him terribly. He left me. He keeps saying that it's not my fault and there isn't anyone else in him life. He still says he loves me and he calls me sweety and says he wants me back but the doesn't want me ...
A. 7 January 2008: I would be inclined to put this relationship down to experience and move on with your life. I think he is leading you on abit when he says he wants you back, then he does not want you back. Treat it as water under the bridge, you are still very ... (read in full...)
My conversation dries up. Any advice?
Q. Hey, I have a strange issue. Everytime I pickup my girlfriend from her place we always talk about things that happened the day before and our friends and whats been going on and the conversation lasts 20-30 minutes depending on how long it takes to...
A. 7 January 2008: Its inevitable that in relationships over a certain period of time conversation is going to dry up. What do you think married couple's or people who have been together say 10 years talk about?. The trick is feeling comfortable in each others ... (read in full...)
He's a big boy and I'm letting it get in the way. How can I get over this?
Q. ok i met this guy we get along really well an have hooked up a few times, i like him alot... iam a slim good lookin girl an he is kinda a big boy, an for some reason im lettin that get in the way an keep thinkin what other ppl are goin to say, how ...
A. 7 January 2008: At the end of the day what other people say and think is irrelevant, all that matter's is what you think. My advice would be to stop worrying what others are thinking about you, and just concentrate on what you think of others. If you like this guy, ... (read in full...)
I get dead answers to my questions and the conversation is boring. How do I get him to talk to me like before?
Q. a while ago, i got dumped by my bf. since then we stayed really good friends. we talked alot, messaged eachother till like 3 in the morning and so on. now recently, he hasnt been talkling to me as much, and i have noticed that he has been getting ...
A. 7 January 2008: I know its hard but i think that you have just got to forget about him and move on with your life. the more contact you have with him the more stronger the feelings will get, and ultimately it will be harder to get over him. Look at it as a chapter ... (read in full...)
Do any men like giving oral?
Q. I have only ever been with the one man in my life and he does not enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. He claims that men just DON'T like it at all. This may be a stupid and very obvious question I should know the answer to, but because I have o...
A. 6 January 2008: I think its unfair of him to say that all men don't like giving oral, because that statement is just not true. Sure there are some men that don't like doing it, but i would think that the majority of men do enjoy performing oral. I think that in the ... (read in full...)
Does he really like me or he has taken advantage of the situation?
Q. i have liked a guy for 3 yers now and i have been to his house and done dirty stuff with him. he ended telling someone and it has got around school. he has told me he loves me but also says he is not ready for a girlfriend. i love him back and in ...
A. 5 January 2008: For starters it was wrong of him to tell someone what you did, it was inevitable rumours were going to spread. The problem is its like Chinese whisper, what happened probably changes from person to person and people add bits on. Do as baby-x-sparkii ... (read in full...)
Underage and having a relationship with a married man! - what do I do?
Q. Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do....
A. 5 January 2008: Invariably married men never leave their wives for people they are having an affair with. So ultimately you become the bit on the side, or mistress, however you want to term it, only seeing you when he can sucessfully sneak away. You don't say how ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my sister-in-law and I don't know what to do?
Q. This is going to sound really bad…but I have been in love with my wife’s sister for the past six years. I have only been married for five years and I got married for the wrong reasons. I am completely miserable. My sister in-law and I are very close ...
A. 3 January 2008: I think that you should just keep this to yourself and get on with your marriage. As you say if you did do something about it you would untimately be breaking up a relationship between two sisters, which would be a real sad story. You say you like ... (read in full...)
I have a conscience - so what should I do?
Q. Hi , got a love letter from a guy already in a relationship with someone else but has been a long - term admirer saying that " he thinks we are on the same wavelength " , and finished the letter with" don't forget the happy ending " . ...
A. 3 January 2008: Ultimately he is being decietful to his current girlfriend by forwarding you love notes. Personally i would forget about him, and my reason for this is that if he was with you how would you know he wasen't sending letters to girls behind you back. ... (read in full...)
Do I have commitment issues?
Q. I've just started seeing this girl. She is a great girl, all my friends and family say she's a good catch. Yet for some reason I'm questioning the relationship. It's only been a few weeks but I'm having doubts about being in a relationship. I don't ...
A. 3 January 2008: I don't think that you have got commitment issues to be honest. Its really early days with regards to this relationship, at that getting to know you stage. The time before you were dating when you nearly had sex it was probably a combination of ... (read in full...)
How can I get my family out of the house for a while?
Q. How can I get my parents and brothers out of the house for a few hours while I invite my girlfriend round? My mum has said before that if I wanted to bring a gf round then to ask her and she'll disappear for a while but theres no way she'll do that ...
A. 3 January 2008: She has already said that if you want to bring a girlfriend back then she will disapear for you. So on that basis a few lectures can't hurt can they, what she has got to say will only be good advice that will benefit you at the end of the day. So ... (read in full...)
If you've just finished, but he says he loves you, is having sex with him the right thing to do?
Q. If you were seeing some one for quite a while and total in love but still a virgin and really thought he was the one to do it with... however you have just recently finished because of certain circumstances but he told you he still loved you... is ...
A. 3 January 2008: Losing your virginity is a very special thing and should be done with someone with whom you love with all your heart, and who feels the same way back. If in your heart of hearts you feel that its right then do it. He has already said he still loves ... (read in full...)
Is he going too quickly?
Q. i just started dating a friend of mine and it was great how we really liked each other and got together =) but everything seems to suddenly have changed. He's my friend and he knows how i've felt about things moving really quickly in past ...
A. 3 January 2008: I can quite see where you are coming from here, you have only had three dates and he is acting like you have been together two years. I really think communication is the key here, i know you have said this makes you uncomfortable to him, but i feel ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin with spots. Will this put the boys off me?
Q. I am a 15 yr old girl and i have been single for around a year now. i feel its the right time to get a boyfreind but there are non anywere and i feel none will like me because i am a virgin and i have spots which i feel put them off me. i dont have ...
A. 3 January 2008: Don't despair, you are still only very young, you have got all the time in the world to meet a boyfriend. Boys won't be put off you because you are a virgin, or you have a few spots, if they are then they are not worth knowing in the first place. ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I've fallen for a 39 year old woman!
Q. so im a 16 yr old girl and i started crushing on my new neighbour, shes 39. as time has progressed its become more than a crush and i'v fallen for her. shes always on my mind. and its drivin me insane because theres nothing i can do about it. plea...
A. 1 January 2008: Personally i think this is just a phase that you are going through, a strong crush. Crushes tend to die down over time, and i would let it do just that, die down. I know its hard and at the moment it feels like these feelings are never going to ... (read in full...)
Should I try to see if I'm attracted to men for my wife's sake, and what happens if I enjoy the experience?
Q. My wife considers herself bisexual. I have no offense to this but was wondering if any one out there has the same problem as me. My wife enjoys women and thinks if I gave it a chance I might enjoy men. My feelings are open to most things. I'm ...
A. 1 January 2008: I guess it all boils down to personal preference really. There is no way on earth i could ever enjoy a man, getting intimate with a male i would find a major turn off.
Im with Ponungalungb, no woman could ever get me to try it either.
Good luck... (read in full...)
One for the guys. Would you hug someone you are friendly but not romantic with?
Q. Question for men: If you were having a very friendly but not yet romantic relationship with a woman, would you like it or dislike it if she gave you a hug? And how would you respond if you didn't want it to happen?...
A. 1 January 2008: Yes, personally i would like a hug from a woman i was not yet having a romantic relationshiop with, i think it shows you hold no barriers, and is a nice token of affection too.
All the best x... (read in full...)
16, attracted to a 12 year old. Is this wierd?
Q. I'm a 16 year old male. Yesterday evening I was at a party with my family, a girl was also there with her family..I couldn't take my eyes off her, I felt extremely attracted to her...and I'm fairly sure she liked me too. Problem is...she can't have ...
A. 1 January 2008: Normally i would say that age means nothing, that age is just a number, and that its how a couple feel for one another, which is generally true. However in this case the age gap is huge, although 4 or 5 years is not really a great deal, because she ... (read in full...)
13, I really like a girl, but I can never control my nerves when I talk to her! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I really like this girl, we are friendly and see eachother quite often. When she talks to me I know what to say but I just cant get it out. This is strange because I am normally bola around girls but in this case its the other way ...
A. 1 January 2008: I know what you mean, i really confiden't around girls, but when its someone that i really fancy i can't think what to say, almost like a mental block. Just relax when you are around her, and most importantly just be yourself. And like Ellie says ... (read in full...)
I want to be with him. How can get him?
Q. I'm so falling head over heels for this guy who i'm very sure has feelings for me too. But I need a plan to make a move on him and really get to know him and his feelings for me....
A. 1 January 2008: Instead of rushing up to him and asking out, i think you should test the water first. By that i mean maybe be-friend him, flirt with him a little. Use direct eye contact, try to hold it for as long as you can before smiling and looking away. Mabe ... (read in full...)
I want to make out with him, but I'm worried I'll make a fool of myself!
Q. i have had a boyfriend for a month, and i really want to make out with him...but im worried that when it comes time, ill mess up and make a fool of myself. Help!!...
A. 1 January 2008: Don't think to much about it, the more you dwell on it and plan your moves the more you will think you will mess it up. He probably feels the same, its only natural to be worried, we have all been there. When the time comes just let it happen slowly ... (read in full...)
Is there too much of an age gap? Should I ask her out or not?
Q. there is this girl that i work with, she is very beautiful and very nice as well, me and her have lately been talking about some things flirting a little bit and i really would like to see if there is anything there between us, and ask her out on a ...
A. 31 December 2007: I don't think that three years is a big age gap atal, people still have successful relationships with much bigger age gap than a mere three years. Personally i don't think her parents will mind, i would be very suprised if they had issues over this ... (read in full...)
I was hurt - what do I do?
Q. I'm in love with my bestfriend.... He knows and show my love for him but suddenly he admitted that he had a gf but he wants me stay the same, the way i treated him... Our previous plan is that i'll get him in our country and i'll find him job here ...
A. 30 December 2007: Of course he wants you to stay the same, the likellhood is he wants to see both of you. Don't play second fiddle now that he has a girlfriend. I would be inclined to forget about him and move on.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Do you think this flirty guy loves me??
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy always flirts with me but when he says he loves me it hits me with a good feeling inside. One time he asked me If I loved him back. I shrugged because he made me feel shy. I like him a bit. Do you think he really ...
A. 30 December 2007: I think he fancies you alot, but i don't think he loves you. He may think he does, but in all honesty i think he to young to know what love really is. Just go along with it, maybe flirt with him back, enjoy it and most importantly have fun.
Good ... (read in full...)
What does "cute" mean, coming from a guy?
Q. I was wondering if there are any guys on here (chicks are welcome to reply too!) who could put a little perspective on something for me. At work, there is this maintenance guy who is around 19 or 20. His mother told my colleauge that he thinks I...
A. 29 December 2007: The word cute could mean a couple of things, i guess the main one meaning that someone is nice to look at, attractive, good looking. Also someone who is cute could also be considered to be clever, ingenious, cunning or shrewd.
All the best x... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I'm in love with a 19 year old...what should I do?
Q. ok i'm 13 and i'm in love with this 19 year old guy and he really loves me for me. but he is scared to ask me out because of the age different. but he wants no sex or anything. he doesn't even mind people seeing us together. should we go out or not? ...
A. 28 December 2007: Normally i would normally say that 6 years is nothing, that age is only a number, that its how a couple feel for one another, and not about the age. However, as you are only 13 the age gap of 6 years then becomes huge. I have to wonder what a 19 ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to have sex with me?
Q. how do you get my guil frend to have sex with me...
A. 28 December 2007: Take things one step at a time, sometime's it works better if these things are unplanned. Like maybe after a nice meal and you are kissing and cuddling on the sofa, and one thing leads to another is the best way for it to happen. Don't ask for it, i ... (read in full...)
Humans before pets no matter what?
Q. My guy hates my cat, and told me that I can't take him with us when we buy a house. He's not allergic to the cat, and the cat hasn't done anything bad or been mean at all. He just thinks my cat is annoying. I had the cat before I meet him. Should...
A. 28 December 2007: Personally i think he is taking a rather selfish approach to your cat. I could understand if he came out in blotches and rashes and blew up like a balloon every time he came into contact with it. To just find your cat annoying is not an acceptable ... (read in full...)
How do I keep a New Year's resolution?
Q. I know this isnt a sex etc related question but if possible can i have sum advice. Im planning to do the old new years resolution thing, and i was wondering if any1 has actually managed to keep theres, because i hear of everyone saying thet will...
A. 28 December 2007: I think that its all about programing the mind and setting and achieving targets. I belong to a gym and i go all year round, and i always find that january and February are the most busiest times where people are doing their new years resolutions. ... (read in full...)
How do you talk to girls on chance encounters? Anyone know of any good opening lines?
Q. Hi, sorry if this seems a bit stupid for my age. Does anyone have any tips on how to talk to girls randomly? I mean chance encounters with people in the street kinda thing. I just lack the opening line so the speak. For example there was ...
A. 28 December 2007: Its really hard that first initial ice breaker, what to say ect. I would start with do your homework first. For instance if you are in a supermarket acetain that she has not got a boyfriend/husband up another aisle first. Check out her ... (read in full...)
I'm intrigued by my female teacher but I'm not gay, so what is going on?
Q. So heres the deal im 15 and my teachers 40. I dont know if its infatuation or developing into love but sometimes the way she looks at me or approaches me I could really have a chance with herbut then other times I know its impossible. Im thinking ...
A. 28 December 2007: I think that this is just a stage that you are going through, its nothing more than a crush, and crushes tend to be quite short lived. Its like when he have a thing for movie stars, sport's people, musicians ect, it does not last forever. I would ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my girlfriend and now she doesn't want much to do with me, should I keep trying to win her back or leave her alone and let her do what she wants?
Q. I was dating a girl 11 months. I cheated on her with a girl it was my fault I went to her house but i left after a minute because I felt terrible. I told my girlfriend and its been over since. We hung out everyday we did everything together pretty m...
A. 28 December 2007: You say that you cheated with this other girl, but when you went to her house you left after a minute because you felt bad, which i would not class as cheating. Does your ex know that this is all that happened, have you actually told her that you ... (read in full...)
How can I get over how he used to be when he was drunk?
Q. My partner was an alcoholic. He used to be abusive when he was drunk. He has now stopped drinking and is doing really well. My question is how do I forgive him for the things he used to do?? I find myself still being angry over things - especial...
A. 28 December 2007: I know its not easy because you are still harbouring memories of when he was drunk, and bad times. You don't go into the extent of the things he did or how bad things actually were. So on that basis i am going to take things from a positive ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one that feels like this?
Q. i am 14 and i year10 which is 9 grade in america i feel old because i leave school like late 2009 which is not too far away now we are coming in 2008 next week! i feel old because i live school although i can always stop on for sixth form. i...
A. 28 December 2007: I think this is just a stage you are going through, the age you are is so so young. I think it is the thought of leaving school and entering the big wide world. This is perfecly normal, but as it happens things will all just fall into place around ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and he is 15, would it be wrong for us to be together considering this age gap?
Q. I am 17 and a senior in high school..and i have this friend that i think i am starting to like but the problem is he is only 15 and a freshman in high school...we go to school and church together and stuff and i am wondering could it be possible for ...
A. 28 December 2007: 2 years is no age gap atal, like hello1 say's if you would have said 13 or 14 i would have said no. At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feels about one another far supersedes age. The age gap in this case only stands out a ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I hear that it would be wrong if she took my virginity, but I don't think it is. What is your opinion?
Q. me and my girl friend are both 14, we love echother a lot. even at this age. we have been told it's real, a few time's so we think it is....... but she is not a vergin and i am.......would it be wrong if she took my verginity? i wont do eny...
A. 28 December 2007: Maybe its not want you want to hear but i think you should wait. Virginity is a precious thing and should be kept for as long as possibe and lost with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with. Wait it out, you are both still so ... (read in full...)
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