Should I take what she said in a bad way??
Q. i have a some pictures on my myspace and my friend said you look really nice and pretty on them she also said "you look so different", should i take that in a good way or a bad way?...
A. 7 February 2008: I don't think it was meant as anything bad torwards you, they said you look nice and pretty, so focus your attention on the positive things that were said, and stop looking for negatives.
All the best x... (read in full...)
Is it right to date my step sister by blood?
Q. is it legal to date my step sister by blood...
A. 6 February 2008: If it is your step sister then it is not by blood, so i would think that would make it legal to date her if you so wished. Good luck x... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size for a 13 year old?
Q. What is the average penis size for a 13 year old boy? I am just curious......
A. 4 February 2008: Penis sizes vary from person to person, some are long, some are short, some think, some thin. Im not sure what the average size is for a 13 year old, but the average size for an adult is 5-6 inches.
All the best ... (read in full...)
We argue because he buys a paper with 18 year old topless girls. Got opinions?
Q. Need your opinion!! Just found out my boyfriend who is 34, reads the Sun newspaper daily. He says he doesn't buy it for the page 3 girls but has admitted to having a look and reading the sleazy Deadries casebook. I feel very upset by this as I fin...
A. 4 February 2008: this reminds me of a girl i used to date a few years ago. I used to read the Daily Star, which i guess is on the same lines as the Sun. Anyway i used to really enjoy the crossword in it, and we had big arguments over me getting that paper, arguments ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and she's 17... Is this okay?
Q. hi ppl i think im in love with a 17 yr old and im 21. do you reckon that its an ok thing or is it too much of a gap for anything to work. its been built on friendship and we've just got closer and closer. please help thanks...
A. 4 February 2008: Personally i don't see that this age gap should be a problem, it is only 4 years. At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feels about one another far supersedes how many numbers are between them. If you like this girl then i say go ... (read in full...)
Does he just want somebody to talk too or to take it further??
Q. There is a guy at work who I have started to become friendly with due to a mutual acquaintance. Whilst talking on the phone last week he was feeling sorry for himself with a cold and as we talked he said to me that 'he needed the love of a good ...
A. 3 February 2008: This guy is obviously on the look out for potential partner material. When he said he wants the love of a good woman its very hard to say if he meant with you, or with someone else. He could genuinly just want someone to talk to, a friend out of ... (read in full...)
My little sister gives me self esteem issues, how can I handle this?
Q. Hi guys, I've found the culprit of my low self esteem but don't know how to handle it. My sister is a very very very immature 17 year old. Whenever she speaks to me it's to call me ugly or fat and even a dog. She always always calls me a fat u...
A. 3 February 2008: I really think you have got to learn to deal with your sisters negative comments torwards you. Ok so her comments to you are below the belt, out of order and nasty, and of course they are hard to deal with, no one wants to be called these things, ... (read in full...)
If a girl doesn't text back, does it mean she isn't interested?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know something, when you text a girl and she dnt text back, does it mean shes not interested?...
A. 3 February 2008: There could be a whole number of reasons why she has not text back, her not being interested is just one of them. She could have lost her phone, ran out of credit, broke it, or what you text diden't warrent a reply. Don't automaticaly assume that ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to pursue a relationship with somebody 1-2 years younger??
Q. dear cupid, I would like to know is it wrong for a person to go out with someone who is 1-2 years younger than themselves. I recently saw this good looking girl, went over to her found out how old she is and that, she seems to be 1 year younger tha...
A. 3 February 2008: At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feels for one another far supersedes how many numbers are between them. 1-2 years is absolutely nothing, people still make relationships work with far greater age gaps than this. If you like ... (read in full...)
Any thoughts about my flirting with this older, married man at work? Can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hey okay this is a complicated one, there's this guy at work and we are really close friends outside of work. We have a really good relationship both in and out of work and we tell each other a hell of alot of stuff. Basically he phones me...
A. 3 February 2008: Personally i think that the only relationship that you should have with this guy should be strictly work based. What is harmless flirting now, over time could materialise in to an affair, and an affair in which people get hurt. I also do think you ... (read in full...)
Concerned about my weight - an impediment to having sex with thin girls?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know do skinny girls have sex with fat people or is it just skiny with skiny? coz im fat and would like to ask this skiny girl out and if it lead to sex, would it be possible me to have sex with her? and would she laugh...
A. 3 February 2008: Every human being is different, we all come in all sorts of different shapes and sizes. With regards to what we look for in potential partners, well again this differs from person to person to person. Just because you are over weight does not mean ... (read in full...)
22, My mother is ruining my life! What should I do?
Q. I have one more question for the day/night. Ok. My mother treats me like a 2 year old and I'm actually 22 and she baby-sits me and she won't let me do things like go out with my friends or anything. I have to come home at 10 or before she gets home ...
A. 3 February 2008: Ok its natural for parents to be protective of their children no matter how old they get, the love and caring for our children is something that never dies. But i do think that your Mum has got to realise that you are a fully grown adult of 22, and ... (read in full...)
Work is making me very stressed. What can I do about it?
Q. I'm a 24yr old male, and under alot of stress with work. I've always had lots of hair and strong, and clear skin and as of last year i've noticed my hair taking strain and when i wash my hair i have some hair that stays on the comb, and occasi...
A. 3 February 2008: It could be the stresses of work that are making your hair thinner, or it could just be that you maybe going thin on top early as some people do. You could maybe try some relaxation techniques whenever you aquire a spare half hour on your own. Just ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation a homosexual act?
Q. is masturbation in fact a homosexual act ? no matter who or what you think about you are still having sex with your hand and you come on yourself you are giving and recieving so its male on male or female on female. any thoughts?...
A. 2 February 2008: I can't say that i have ever thought of masturbating as a homosexual act. The main reason being is that you are on your own doing it yourself. Masturbation is something that probably 99% of the population has done at some point in their lives, and ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband, I think he is gay
Q. I have been married for 16 years, and have on a number of occasions found my husband looking at or signing upto gay porn. Recently I have found through looking at his mobile that he has even been calling and texting men he has found on a dating ...
A. 2 February 2008: I really feel that this is something that you need to get to the bottom of, and soon. He is obviously showing quite a keen interest in homosexuality, and its not really good that he has met up with some people too. You deserve to know the truth, he ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and I am afraid of my 54 yr old Therepist
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad for quite a long time so my Mom got me to talk to a counseller. I've been seeing him for a couple months now and yesterday when I saw him I felt really uncomfortable. So he's 54 and I'm only 13. I was ...
A. 1 February 2008: Every poster on here has given you top advice, the best thing that you can possible do is tell your Mum. Don't even contemplate going to another meeting with this guy, there is obviously something not right about him. Please tell your Mum what ... (read in full...)
How do I separate her from her friends?
Q. hello,ive got a problem... im going 2 canada (school trip)and on the way there (9 hours) im sitting with my best friend. on the way back i want to sit with my girlfriend so does she, but her friend "controls" where she sits. help! also her ...
A. 31 January 2008: I think that your girlfriend has got to make her own decisions, and not be controlled by her mate. Ok so you want to sit next to her on the way back, and she wants to sit with you. So talk to her her and arrange to sit with each other, start as you ... (read in full...)
Is talking dirty to my college teacher wrong?, I'm 18 he's 31
Q. I am talking dirty with a teacher and i dont know what i should do? It started last week when i seen him out in a club. We got chatting and then i emailed him via the college and said i was sorry if i said anything i shouldnt because i was so drunk ...
A. 31 January 2008: Persoanlly i don't think there is anything wrong with the age gap atal, at the end of the day age is only a number. But like the other posts have already said the teacher student thing is very wrong and could land him in alot of trouble and without ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that I made out with his best friend?
Q. okay me and my boyfriend have not been dating very long..and i now like his best friend..and he likes me and...well...at my boyfriends basketball game i kinda made out with his friend..and i now know that i dont like him and i really really like my ...
A. 31 January 2008: The correct thing to do here would be to tell your boyfriend what happened. Then you can proceed with the relationship with a clear conscience, not hiding anything. Of course it depends what sort of person you are, if you think you can go on and ... (read in full...)
I like him but I don't know what to do
Q. Okay, theres this guy i REALLY like, he knows I like him, but I dunno what to do =/...
A. 30 January 2008: I think you should keep it all light hearted, you are still very young to be thinking along these lines. Your best bet would be to befriend him, just go up to him and talk to him. Ask him what he is doing at the weekend, or if he had a nice weekend, ... (read in full...)
Should I grow my hair long?
Q. I am thinking of growing my hair long. i am a ginger 13 YR old boy and have been told by my classmates that i would not suit long hair. i still want to grow it though. they say that gingers cant have long hair. i am also wondering what style i ...
A. 30 January 2008: regardless of what other's may think, if you want to grow your hair long then go for it. Its all about what you think, not whether others think it will look good or not. Grow it long and see if you like it, if you don't then at least you always have ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he said it only because of a dare?
Q. I'm 13 years old. I just found out something. The boy in my class who said he loved me, he was dared to say it. what do u think?...
A. 29 January 2008: Did he tell you he was dared to say it?. The likellhood is you are never going to know for sure, unless you get him on his own and ask him outright if he meant it or it was a dare. Personally i think that 13 is abit to young to know what love really ... (read in full...)
20 years old...in love with a 51 y/o who wants a future with me.
Q. I'm a 20 year old gal in love with a 51 year old man,who wants a future with me, what must i do? please help!!!!!...
A. 28 January 2008: I don't think that age is a problem, as long of course it all fall's within the legal age of consent of course. At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feel about one another far supersedes how many number's are between them. If you ... (read in full...)
I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?
Q. Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...
A. 28 January 2008: I agree with the other two aunts here, don't fell pressured into doing anything. Virginity is something you want to hang onto for as long as possible, and lost with someone that you love with all your heart. I feel if you go with these two girls you ... (read in full...)
How do I earn extra money and still have time to spend with my kids?
Q. Quick question. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I could do on the weekends to earn extra money but still spend time with my children? I already work full time and my evenings and weekends are usually spent cooking, cleaning and tending ...
A. 28 January 2008: I think as you work full time, and you want to spend the weekends with your kids something that is homebased would probably be best. Have you thought about doing Ebay? Its a great way of making a little bit of extra cash, start off by things around ... (read in full...)
Once in a lifetime opportunity? Should I show my LD friend I'm sexually attracted to her?
Q. Hello again, I'm 15, I have been speaking to a girl over instant-messager for just about a year now, I've always found her attractive (seen pictures and webcam) and she has a amazing personality. We have spoken of sex and we share fantasy's with ...
A. 28 January 2008: Personally i would refrain from making sexual advances at this early stage. When she comes down be a gentleman, show her a good time and don't let her go back home thinking that the only thing you want is her body. See how you get on, if it goes ... (read in full...)
Shall I make a move or do I have to wait for him??
Q. Hi I am very shy. I am in a relationship for 2 and a half years now, and he hasn't kissed me yet. Every time I am with him something stops me from touching or kissing him... I have never been kissed. I know it is weird ok! Anyway, when I am not wi...
A. 24 January 2008: I can't believe that you have not kissed each other after 2 and a half years. He must be very shy as well otherwise he would have kissed you, sorry i still can't get over the duration of the time you have been together and not kissed, its like ... (read in full...)
I'm so happy with my married guy...but love my bf and am not sure he would leave his wife.
Q. I have been having a casual sex relationship with someone I work with; he is married and I have a bf. He had been cheated on in the past by his wife, and there are still problems. He just isn't happy with her. He and I started messing around o...
A. 24 January 2008: From your married co-workers point of view he is well and truly having his cake and eat it. He gets to sleep with you when he can sucessfully sneak away, then crawl back to the marital bed after. remember that invariably married guys never leave ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong or is it the thought that counts??
Q. My girlfriend of over2years didn't buy me a birthday card last week. She wanted to but didnt - for lack of money. Next week she went and spent her money on socialising. I would have apreciated a hand written bit of paper. It's 'the though...
A. 24 January 2008: I guess you are going to get mixed answers here, but i am going to go with i think she was wrong. I mean you can pick a card up for less than 99p, and like you say you would have appreciated a hand written piece of paper. What makes it worse is that ... (read in full...)
Am I history?
Q. I've been dating a guy for two months now. He's in love with me and i'm with him.Problem is, his ex is pregnant. He didn't believe it could be his child, hence he wanted dna testing done the second the child was born. Now, she just gave birth ...
A. 23 January 2008: To be perfectly honest i think there are now to many compications here, and i think that you should move on. The baby is obviously his, he is going to spend the next five days with her and the baby, and those 5 days will probably materialise in to ... (read in full...)
What do you get for a new boyfriend for Valentines Day?
Q. I've been dating this guy a couple of weeks. We've known each other 6 months or so, so I do know his likes and dislikes well-ish. (He's into cars, BMW's, enjoys drinking and going out, quite into his appearance - meaning he likes to look good/do ...
A. 20 January 2008: Taking into account the amount of time you have been together, i would say something small but thoughtful. What about a nice BMW key chain. Or you can get these beers that come in a nice boxet complete with glass. Or you could get a nice bottle of ... (read in full...)
Shall I take revenge on my ex?
Q. Dear Helpers, I just found out my ex had been cheating on me when were together and not only that he had been kissing one of my friends and some of his own. I am so angry I want to take revenge but I know it's wrong to take revenge but for my own ...
A. 20 January 2008: Just think to yourself that you had a lucky escape from this loser. Personally i would not bother taking revenge, just erase everything to do with him from your life and move on. Ok so he was a two timer and a total loser, but the one who has lost ... (read in full...)
What can you do when you're in love with your husband's friend?
Q. what do you do when your married and you're in love with your husbands friend? I have been sleeping with his friend for almost a year and now he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to see me anymore and I can't stop thinking about him all day ...
A. 20 January 2008: I think you should call this a blessing, and a sign for you to get back on track and focus back on your marriage. Things could have ultimately got pretty messy for everyone, but it diden't, you were lucky. Let him go now, put it down to experience ... (read in full...)
19 years old...is sex with my 16 yo gf wrong??
Q. I am an 19 year old and im currently in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. I am in madly in love with her and i have never felt this way about anyone else. I've been with her for over 6 months now and we are ready for sex, but im not sure whe...
A. 20 January 2008: No i don't think this is wrong, there is only 3 years between the pair of you, and its all legal, she is at the age of concent. The age gap sounds quite big at the moment because she is only 16, but in a few years, like when she is 18 and you are 21 ... (read in full...)
I want to stay with him....but should I tell him??
Q. hey, My bfs just finished me after 2 months, i really really really like him and we always have a laugh together. I just thought we we're good together. I called him tonight and he said we should split up cos he doesnt feel right. He's 16...
A. 20 January 2008: I think that for the time being you should maybe let it go. I think he had a had a good think about the situation and realised that he is going to be 17 soon, and you are still 13/14. In normal age terms this gap is nothing, but when you fall under ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if lesbians went "all the way"... what is that??
Q. when two women have sex or "go all the way" what exactly is the difference between foreplay and just fooling around as lesbians and having sex/going the whole way? if that makes sense like if two lesbians say "we went all the way last night"...
A. 19 January 2008: I would of thought it is the same as if a man & woman go all the way together. It is the end result of lovemaking, resulting in climax for both people.
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He rubs his body on me and is generally very gross. What should I do?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy has been flirting with me ever since school started. Hes confusing because he is flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my locker and he rubs my shoulder and says '' hey, check this ...
A. 17 January 2008: I think he is taking the meaning of flirting to the extreme here. If you are not comfortable with him touching you like this then you have got to be stern and tell him to stop right away. Tell him that you do not wish to be touched, and would he ... (read in full...)
I he serious or only toying with me? And if serious, how can I get him to make the first move?
Q. Hi, I know Ive talked about this guy before but lets just say since I got ack to school the other day he's acting in a way that I cant figure him out. We flirt all the time and today he slapped my ass and he keeps making gestures with his tongue (I ...
A. 8 January 2008: Call his bluff, when he flirts with you, flirt with him back. Give him the longest stare that you have ever given anyone, then smile and look away. Find excuses to touch him, like on the arm or the leg, or even slap his arse like he did yours. See ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be involved with your 1st cousin?
Q. Is is ok to be with your 1st cousin ? i live somewhere where it is legal, but is it really acceptable in todays society, please give me your honest opinion. Thankyou....
A. 8 January 2008: Yes i think its acceptable, but if you feel its going to cause rifts and upset in your family then probably best to give it a miss, otherwise go for it.
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I think this boy was creating a pretext to contact me. Am I perhaps reading into it too much?
Q. Ok guys here's one for you. This guy phoned me up the other night asking if i took a subject so i could help him with it, i didn't and gave him my friend's number so he could ask her. However i am pretty sure he knew i didn't take it and also he d...
A. 7 January 2008: Its so obvious that he rang you up becuause he really fancies you. He was to shy to say anything to you along those lines, so i think he used that excuse with you as a sort of icebreaker. If he really wanted help with that subject he would have ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if he genuinely likes you, or just wants your body?
Q. How can you tell the difference between a guy liking you vs. a guy just wanting your body? I have noticed either way they flirt, compliment and just make you feel good. What are the differences? How can you tell if he is telling the truth when ...
A. 7 January 2008: I think basically the guy who genuinly likes you will show you more respect than the guy who just wants you body. The first guy will want to get to know you, talk to you, be interested in things that you have done, or are doing, and when he tells ... (read in full...)
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