I thought he liked me but he talks to so many other girls. Is he just a player?
Q. Hi there.. I think I just need a little bit of help with this one. Hope I don't tire you all out while reading this. I met a guy in our accounting class about two months ago, and he took the effort to come up to one of my girlfriends sugg...
A. 4 November 2010: From your update, it does sound like he likes you yes which is great but yet again its the whole commitment issue he is not wanting to commit to you which is obvious, he sounds like a great guy though and he also is taking things slow with you which ... (read in full...)
Was it right to invite him to the party?
Q. So tomorrow I'm meeting this guy I've been talking to for a month, we text daily, talk on the phone daily, usually before bed, and we seem to get along well. I haven't met him in person yet, (tomorrow we are meeting) but so far we get along great! ...
A. 1 November 2010: Sometimes we just cant help how we feel you need to tell him now though so that he knows just say to him you had a great time with him and he is a great bloke but that you would rather just be friends at the moment, ensure him that it is nothing to ... (read in full...)
Like others, married wanting someone else.
Q. I've been married for 4 years to a great guy. He is 14 years older than me. We only dated for about 6 months before we got married, but I thought he was the one despite our age difference. He has older kids that do not live with us. Being a step ...
A. 1 November 2010: Ok so i wasnt judging you as i told you, nobody was to know he cheated on you as we can only go by what you wrote. So he has cheated on you twice which of course is going to hurt you and mess up your mind but it still doesnt make what you are doing ... (read in full...)
I don't even know for sure if he fancies me...
Q. Hey...am 18 years old and theres this guy, he doesnt work at my workplace permanently, but he just comes in like 3 times a week for just a little while. I dont know very much about him, but i am attracted to him. We had small general conversation ...
A. 30 October 2010: Ok its a bit to soon to tell him how you feel as this might scare him away especially when you dont really no each other that well at the moment, but what i would suggest is the next time he is in ask him would he like to have lunch with you on your ... (read in full...)
I Feel Like I'm Going To Lose The Love Of My Life.
Q. I'm in desperate need of help. i was in a long distance relationship with the love of my life. it was difficult and still would be if we were together. she living in canada and me living as an illigal here in the u.s. because of my parents bringing ...
A. 30 October 2010: Hi am sorry but if she has made her mind up then am afraid you are not going to be able to change it, she has made it clear to you that she is interested in this guy, dont blame yourself as it just sounds like she is confused and doesnt know what ... (read in full...)
I either love him or I'm used to being treated badly
Q. Iam currently in a relationship wherein things made a sudden changes, All the while that he is unemployed at his attitude and behavior I was there for him to support finacially, emotionally with all the complications in his life, suddenly came a ...
A. 30 October 2010: You poor girl this man used you for your money when he didnt have his own and now he is disrespecting you and leaving you with nothing he has no heart and he certaintly doesnt love you am afraid if he is going to treat you like this. He is very ... (read in full...)
Where is this infamous G spot?
Q. (mod note: the question has been edited to make it fit for publication) So I have this little.. mmmh not problem but predicament, I've heard, read and seen a lot of women that say that having g spot orgasms are mind blowing, that it's the best org...
A. 30 October 2010: Hi every woman is different others find it a better orgasm through there clitiros while others find it better through there g spot. To be honest with you though not all women can actually orgasm through there g spot therefore you might be in for a ... (read in full...)
Like others, married wanting someone else.
Q. I've been married for 4 years to a great guy. He is 14 years older than me. We only dated for about 6 months before we got married, but I thought he was the one despite our age difference. He has older kids that do not live with us. Being a step ...
A. 30 October 2010: Ok you both havent had sex but what you are both doing is still cheating on your partners. You are hurting? What about your poor husband am sorry but he deserves better than this and therefore you need to let him go.
Dont get me wrong i totally ... (read in full...)
Online guy wants a serious relationship and we have never met
Q. Iam 27 years old TS woman from the Philippines. I have a premanent job working in a big American company here and I can say I am ok financially and I am presentable. I met this Aussie guy online and he said he wanted to have a serious and exclusive ...
A. 29 October 2010: Am afraid that you cant really no for sure until you meet him face to face a few times and get to know this man, it sounds quite crazy to want this from someone that you have never met before, if you want to get to know this guy then arrange a ... (read in full...)
Do all women scream at their husband when they are in labor?
Q. I need some good advice from the women out there who are mothers. My wife and I are pregnant. In all the movies you see, when the woman is in labor she is yelling at the father, scratching him, telling him it's all his fault, etc, etc. I am just...
A. 29 October 2010: Ok dont be panicking here the movies tend to dramatize everything so stop panicking many mothers sail through there pregnancies but everyone is different, when a women is in labour yes her hormones are flying all over the place and she is in a lot ... (read in full...)
I've been waiting for my husband to grow up
Q. I've been married for seven years have have two children with my husband. He recently told me that he's been thinking about separating. I never believe in divorce unless there was abuse or infidelity involved. We have had a hard marriage. Lot's of ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well hun am afraid if its just not working out then you will both need to go your seperate ways but why not sit down with him and ask can the both of you work hard to get things back on track, you sounds like you are under a lot of pressure due to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't know what love is or if he wants to marry me!
Q. I need your help. My boyfriend and I got into this big argument/discussion last night and even though we cleared a lot of things up, there are just some things I'd like to get your opinion on. Some things he said still kind of stick out in my ...
A. 29 October 2010: Yeah am guessing that is were his problem is arising from he probably doesnt know how to show you love or how to let his feelings show but its good that you are both talking things through thats a great step communication is so important. Good Luck ... (read in full...)
I want both families on side before we marry and it's bugging him
Q. I love this guy and he wants to marry me and I do want to marry him as well. But I want both families to say yes before I agree. This bugs him a lot and he has not spoken to me for few days. he says i pressurise him when i call him. i cant get him ...
A. 29 October 2010: If you are happy and he is happy then that is all that should matter, he is probably feeling rejected by you at the moment, prove your families wrong get married and be happy together and if they love you'se then they will accept it.... (read in full...)
LDR-I don't think he even enjoys talking to me anymore
Q. So I've written about my guy before. But pretty much we are in a long distance relationship, we began dating in college. I'm in grad school about to finish and he is working for a law firm 1000 miles away. First he was nervous about passing th...
A. 29 October 2010: No you shouldnt be jelous that he is spending time with his friends but you need to talk to him about making time for you. Tell him that you understand that he is busy with work and cant talk as much as he used to but that you are busy to but he ... (read in full...)
How do get a person's trust after you have lied about something big?
Q. I want to thank all of those who answered my question and gave me some advise and tips. I post a fallow up on my situation and I really need some more advise. Please go to the posts on oct.20 my online name is hobbie and the post was..I didnt tell ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well im sure you learned from your mistake not to lie to someone he probably is just in shock at the moment so i think the best thing you can do now is give him sometime to get his head around it and hopefully he will contact you, the sad thing is ... (read in full...)
Do I stay and wait?
Q. Hello, i know this may not seem the most important question but it would do a lot of help if i could have a answer of some one :) So basically, its about me and this girl, ( i will call her K) ive known her for about 2 years and have been friend...
A. 29 October 2010: Hi this is awful it must be so confusing for you i'm confused as it sounds like she liked you a lot maybe she jsut felt weird being in a relationship with you and awkward and she is probably distancing herself from you now so that she can try and ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my supervisor and I don't know what to do...
Q. I have fallen for my supervisor and I don't know what to do... This summer I did an internship at my university and I fell for my supervisor (he isn't a professor or anything and he is just working there temporally) - I'm 23 and he is 30. He ...
A. 29 October 2010: hi well he obviously likes you weather its on a friendship level or something more am afraid that it is quite hard to tell without knowing him personally but it does sound like he has a lot of time for you and gets on well with you.
Dont be scare... (read in full...)
What should I do about my Ex LDR?
Q. I think Im still in love with my Ex ldr. And she wrote me back on msn last night and saying that she was sry about some thing I wrote her on there. And she wrote me back on msn but she still wont call me still but she called me 3 weeks ago ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well im afraid there is not a lot you can do if she has blocked you then this is a big sign that she needs some space right now away from you so i think you just need to give her time because believe me if she wants you she will contact you she has ... (read in full...)
Was it right to invite him to the party?
Q. So tomorrow I'm meeting this guy I've been talking to for a month, we text daily, talk on the phone daily, usually before bed, and we seem to get along well. I haven't met him in person yet, (tomorrow we are meeting) but so far we get along great! ...
A. 29 October 2010: Ok well just remember here that it is perfectly ok for you to do both you are not in a relationship with anyone there fore you are not doing anything wrong sometimes it is good to keep our options open so dont be worrying.
However make sure thi... (read in full...)
Should I go back to the love of my life?
Q. the love of my life has come back after a few years,not sure what to do because during this time i got back with a previous ex i was with before the love of my life.i dont want to go behind anyones back,but why do these things happened?someone told ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well this is clearly your choice and you need to think about it long and hard before you make a choice, if he was the love of your life then why did he leave you? You need to ask yourself if you are prepared to give up what you have now for ... (read in full...)
Am I annoying him?
Q. ok so ive had a really close guy friend since kindergarten (im a freshman in highschool now) and we have always been really close... also he is my neighbor... this year was we both had our first homecoming and nither of us had dates.. and so he ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well what makes you think that he is anoyed at you? As in how as he showed that you irritate him? could it be possible that it might be in your head as you are wanting to ask him out?
Ok so you say you are close friends which is a great start fo... (read in full...)
I cant shake this feeling that he is still in love with his ex!
Q. my b/f and i hav been dating for 6 months and its been hard because we both have sons with our exs. my problem is that i cant get over the fact he says he doesnt have feelings for his ex but i still think he still does.his ex g/f and him went on a ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well there is no obvious reason her thats telling me that he still loves her, are you sure you are not just feeling a little bit jelous because he is giving her alot more money than he needs to be? At the end of the day if he can afford to give his ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my online friend is the right guy for me?
Q. he is my online frnd from past 6months...v both love each other.i had bad past relationship experince...so dis time i want to be cautious .suggest me some ways to check dat dis is d rgt man of my life..n loves me...v both r working...talk online ...
A. 29 October 2010: Ok well you may feel like you love him at the moment but you are not going to truly know him until you meet him in person and spend some time together this is the only way to know if you both will be happy together. So just arrange meetings with him ... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend I'm not a virgin and he is ignoring me!
Q. Plz help me! i told my bf that i m not a virgin, he is ignoring me and even not talking to me. i m very depressed. my honest kill me, my all happiness is at stake. i m very serious i don't wanna lose this guy. i love him lot. ...
A. 29 October 2010: well you done the correct thing by being honest with your boyfriend you didnt ruin anything its better to be honest in a relationship and if he cant accept that you have a past like so many other people then he is the one with the problem, just ... (read in full...)
Do guys check out other girls to make their girlfriend mad?
Q. Im have a question that id love peoples input on. Do guys check out other girls in front of their girlfriends knowing that it makes the girlfriend mad and do they do it for that reason? Or do they really not notice. Every guy ive been serious with ...
A. 29 October 2010: Hi well i honestly dont think that men do this so that there girlfriend will be angry if am honest with you its just what men do and they dont mean any harm and they probably dont even realise that they are doing it and that is why the act dumb then ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that he will go off with another girl for Halloween!
Q. Dear Cupids!!! Pls help me.. im getting afraid if my LDR bf will go for dating on holloween day. Hes in australia and im in singapore.. we love each other so much and he never cheat on me before through our relationship for a year.. he came to me in ...
A. 29 October 2010: Ok well at least he was honest to you about this girl that shows a lot because he didnt need to tell you about this so he did so at least you can value his honestly to you. however its not fair him out flirting with another girl so of course you are ... (read in full...)
Should I wait 2 years to be with him? And how will I cope for those 2 years when I don't trust him?
Q. I'm 16 and the guy I fancy is 27. He's the best person ive ever met and I love him so much. We have both agreed that until I'm 18 we won't take the relationship and further. I have really big trust problems as so many relationships have gone bad. I ...
A. 29 October 2010: Hmm well the legal age is the uk is 16 so why are you both waiting until you are 18? Its a very long time to wait for someone and you will change in these two years and you will probably regret waiting around 2 years for this man as one or both of ... (read in full...)
Should I try harder to make my girlfriend love me or start flirting with someone else?
Q. i am confused about my relationships. i am a girl in a secret relationship with this girl that i absolutely adore. but the problem is that she moved to a different country a couple weeks ago and now its an open relationship (meaning that we can meet ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well you are in an open relationship so it is really up to you what you want to do here, if your girlfriend doesnt show any love for you and you are hardly going to see her then am afraid your love for her will probably fade away the more time you ... (read in full...)
Broke up with my gf over stupid issues, I want to sort things out but she says its over!!
Q. Please help, I am confused. I recently split with my girlfriend, we were living together for 3 and half years and have a younge child together. We were argueing a lot and small things that could have changed on both parts didn't. since the split i ...
A. 29 October 2010: Hi this is a very sad situation for you at the moment and good for you for wanting to work on your problems but she doesnt seem interested and therefore you cant make her want to work on things. It sounds like she has made her mind up therefore ... (read in full...)
Stuck between telling her how I really feel or just playing it safe and just be her close friend.
Q. Sorry if this is a bit long. Alright...first off I'm in college now. But back in high school, I met this girl who always gave me a feeling that she like(d) me. During my second year of high school my family came across some wealth and I tra...
A. 29 October 2010: I think in this case you should tell her how you feel you have nothing to lose and a lot to gain, worst case senario would be she doesnt feel the same and in this case tell her that is ok and you would still like to remain friends with her. Go for ... (read in full...)
Why won't he ask me out? help!
Q. So I had boyfriend but we had to break up because he had to leave e for the summer and our feelings for each other kinda went away. He hadn't had a gf in 5 years till he got with me. When we broke up we decided to be friends and we kept a good ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well in this case i think you should just ask him were you stand with him and does he want to get back together with you its as simple as that you take the first step it shouldnt always be up to the man.... (read in full...)
I've lost all the men in my life, but I have realised I really care about boyfriend number 2. What should I do?
Q. hello dear cupid, well this is my story. when i left high school i met a guy during the holiday, i usually hear about him but i rarely saw him before. he is my friend's nephew. one night at their family's wedding he asked his aunt about me, and told ...
A. 29 October 2010: Am afraid the damage here is now done, we learn from our msitakes and i hope that you learn that when you are dating one guy you cant cheat on him or try hooking up with another guy. Am afraid life teaches us a lesson in the most awful way by making ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I am "the one"?
Q. Hello people, I came here because I need a few answers. I'm confused and I really don't know what to do/think... So we've been a couple for 14 months now and so far we have a great relationship. We're both virgins, but recently we started to ex...
A. 29 October 2010: Hi well it sounds like this man does love you and respect you believe me darling if he didnt love you he wouldnt be waiting on sex he would be long gone so try and accept that this man is in love with you, if he is not pressuring you now then am ... (read in full...)
How do I get this woman to leave?
Q. I am a 26-year-old female in a relationship with a woman for the past two and a half years, and it's not working out. She is an alcoholic, sometimes physically violent, very often abusive, insanely jealous. She moved into my flat about a year and a ...
A. 29 October 2010: Well you have the right here to kick her out as it is your flat but i know what you mean and it just isnt in your personality to be cruel and leave her out on the street but you need to show her that you are serious, tell her that she needs to leave ... (read in full...)
He says he needs "me time". I'm confused!
Q. Last month (9/28/10) the guy I was with and had a child together decided while I was in class to pack up his belongings and move out. When I got home from a great day he told me he was leaving, not just to the store, but us (me, our child and my ...
A. 29 October 2010: You are not going to get any better as he is saying one thing and doing another and it is not fair on you. You need to stop meeting up with him. If he needs space to clear his head then dont have relations with him and dont meet up with him you both ... (read in full...)
Is it his fault or my fault that I don't trust him?
Q. im having a boy friend.loving him from past 3 years.he shouts at me of course i even do,but wen i shout he cant tolerate..he stares at girls talk wid tem in the nights but he gets angry even if i talk to a boy casually.he used to go near one girls ...
A. 29 October 2010: Ok dont be looking for someone to blame as this will only result in the both of you going around in circles instead just try and make this work. If his friendship with this girl is just pure friendship then there shouldnt be a problem with it, is he ... (read in full...)
My husband just doesn't seem to care about me at all anymore!
Q. I dont really know what I am looking for but i would like any opinions and advice that anyone can offer. My husband and I have been together for 6 years since we were 16 and have never had a GREAT relationship but obviously we are content because we ...
A. 29 October 2010: This may sound harsh to you but please just listen, he is using you hun he doesnt love you he is just confortable to sit around all day while you bring home the money then he demands sexual favours and does not show you any affection or love, he ... (read in full...)
3 year friendship but I want more. Should I tell her?
Q. I've known her for three years now, and I've liked her for a while now. We're pretty close friends. It's just, she's on my mind so much that it hurts sometimes. I have a feeling that she doesn't share these feelings, even though she does care for ...
A. 28 October 2010: I think you should tell her as soon as you can, you say what is the point if you are rejected? Well the point is that at least you know were you stand and you can accept that she doesnt want to be with you and you can move on knowing that you tried ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't know what love is or if he wants to marry me!
Q. I need your help. My boyfriend and I got into this big argument/discussion last night and even though we cleared a lot of things up, there are just some things I'd like to get your opinion on. Some things he said still kind of stick out in my ...
A. 28 October 2010: Sit down and talk to him about this, what was his childhood like? Does his parents show him love? This may stem from his up bringing or else he may just have got a scare of commitment and isnt sure how he feels. It sounds like he loves you and you ... (read in full...)
I don't feel as though I belong. Is love enough to keep us together anyway?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 9 years. I love him. He is the only man who has been in my boys life. He"s been a father never had to be. I'm not very close to my husband kids I feel as if I don't belong, is love really enough to keep us ...
A. 28 October 2010: Well if you love him and want to be with him then yes this should be enough, what are the reasons behind you not getting on with his children? Do you think that you could work harder on getting to know them and making them feel part of the family ... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable with him seeing a female friend. Can I say anything?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years went behind my back and met up with his ex. He also had some semi naked photos of her on his computer which I accidently found. We had a row and made up and decided to give it one last go. Thing is, my trust, although ...
A. 28 October 2010: Well in fairness he broke your trust by going behind your back and then also by having photos of his ex semi naked this is highly disrespectful to you and off course you are going to have trust issues i hope he understands this.
Ok talk to him a... (read in full...)
I'm no longer attracted and we barely speak. Can we rekindle this relationship?
Q. I had an amazing relationship with this girl that was beautiful. We hit it off right away, and moved in together a few months after dating. It seemed perfect at the time, but now its so drab, our entire relationship is dying. Im n...
A. 28 October 2010: I think what happened here is you just moved to fast without getting to know each other properly and now you realise that you are not suited together, if you are not attracted to her anymore and the spark is not there then i think it is best that ... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me but he talks to so many other girls. Is he just a player?
Q. Hi there.. I think I just need a little bit of help with this one. Hope I don't tire you all out while reading this. I met a guy in our accounting class about two months ago, and he took the effort to come up to one of my girlfriends sugg...
A. 28 October 2010: Hi ok well it sounds like this guy was really genuine and he didnt seem like he wanted in to your pants as he never tried and never got sulky but yet again he might just be very good at coming across as the genuine type it is really hard to tell. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said it'd be okay if I received oral sex from another woman!
Q. OK, I've been in a relationship for the past seven months with out any infidelity towards my girl friend. I'll admit that I am the jealous type when someone hits on my girl and she loves that about me. Ever since yesterday, I ask her about giving ...
A. 28 October 2010: You need to ask her what she meant by this ask her does she want an open relationship and has she let other guys go down on her? Just because she wont give you a blow job doesnt mean that she doesnt love you some girls arent comfortable doing it and ... (read in full...)
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