Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 23 November 2010: Just talk as normal to him, be exactly the way you always behave with him, if he asks to see the tattoo then show him if it is just a case of pullin up your top at the back to show him then go for it.
Ok so it turns out that he is interest... (read in full...)
How should I confess my love?
Q. I've gotten over a girl I liked. But that's because I'm now onto this other girl. Now I want to tell her I'm crushing on her, but it's a different situation this time. I met her in a camp. We've been keeping in touch, but just because we were pla...
A. 13 November 2010: Just act polite and friendly towards her as if nothing has changed. Thats the best way next time you see her say hello and ask her how she has been.... (read in full...)
Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 12 November 2010: Ok first off there is nobody out of anybodys league, but still it probably would be a bad line to cross going with a friends ex, it only leads to hurt anger and pain.
Im not sure though what her problem is i think it would be best for you to l... (read in full...)
Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 11 November 2010: could it be possible mr x has a crush on you and has told your friend this? it sounds like someone else has told her something and she has taking it out on you even though she knows its not your fault.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend said she was pregnant but she lied
Q. My gf is giving me hrt attack, she said she is pregnant just bcos the condom broke when we were havin sex. But after 3 weeks i found out she was lieyin. What should i do? Is it a sign that she wants to break up? And should i leave her ...
A. 9 November 2010: I agree with chigirl on this one, its not funny to joke about something as serious as that, i understand her maybe that she wanted to test you but after a minute or two she should have told you, you are right not to talk to her, this might teach her ... (read in full...)
I married without my father knowing, what should I do?
Q. hi i am 25 years old..i got married last year and my husband as well as his family is really nice.i am all happy n good..i went against my dad and married and he doesnt know yet..he dindt want me to marry him coz he isnt of the same proffession as i ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well first off i understand why you felt the need to lie to your dad, but you are going to have to come clean to him, i no that you are scared off hurting him but darling the longer you keep this from him the more it is going to hurt him that you ... (read in full...)
I married without my father knowing, what should I do?
Q. hi i am 25 years old..i got married last year and my husband as well as his family is really nice.i am all happy n good..i went against my dad and married and he doesnt know yet..he dindt want me to marry him coz he isnt of the same proffession as i ...
A. 9 November 2010: Well first off i understand why you felt the need to lie to your dad, but you are going to have to come clean to him, i no that you are scared off hurting him but darling the longer you keep this from him the more it is going to hurt him that you ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend said she was pregnant but she lied
Q. My gf is giving me hrt attack, she said she is pregnant just bcos the condom broke when we were havin sex. But after 3 weeks i found out she was lieyin. What should i do? Is it a sign that she wants to break up? And should i leave her ...
A. 9 November 2010: Hi maybe she thought that she was pregnant, when the condom breaks it is natural that a girl is going to get scared that she is pregnant, how did you find out she was lying? Maybe she was just scared.
Erm no this does not mean that she wants to... (read in full...)
Why is he withdrawing?
Q. I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt ...
A. 9 November 2010: Its just his nature to look after his family its his beliefs therefore you just need to accept that he thinks like this and thank him and make sure he doesnt feel like he is being taken for granted.... (read in full...)
I'm trying my hardest to make things okay again, but I don't know the next step.
Q. I suppose this is a longer story, but I'll try and keep things concise. I would just post the question straight up, but without proper insight on what has happened, the advice I get may not be what I'm looking for :) So here it goes: My girlfr...
A. 9 November 2010: your welcome. The break might actually make things better for the both of you, because a few months with no contact might make her realise how much she missees you and how much she wants to be with you, not being able to talk to each other will be a ... (read in full...)
In love with BOTH my exes... help!
Q. I feel like a total emotional wreck. I have two exes, one that I love and the other I really like. I know in the end if I still feel this way about both I'll eventually have to choose. It may sound selfish but I don't want to, I'm young, single and ...
A. 8 November 2010: well just be careful that you dont end up badly hurting one of these guys, i no your afraid that you might get hurt but you also need to think how it is affecting them, if am honest with you i think it would be best if you wrote down all the good ... (read in full...)
Help with a confusing poly situation!!
Q. Hi, I have a confusing story. I am a lesbian born and bred, but nearly 12 years ago i fell in love with a man. I have never been attracted to him, but i knew there was something about him that i loved. We are married in a good relationship and he ...
A. 8 November 2010: Am afraid i dont have the answer here for you, but if i am honest you are going to find this very difficult, its going to be hard to get a girl to commit to this. For the simple fact is most girls want there own partner or else a bit of fun but it ... (read in full...)
What can I do about this dilemma without alienating any of my friends?
Q. I have a good friend (We'll call him John - not his real name!) who I have known since college. We've always got on well, and we still see each other on a regular basis and until recently I've always enjoyed us spending time together. The thing is...
A. 8 November 2010: well im afraid you have to tell john that you dont want steve there, there is no other option here unless you can put up with steve at your party so am afraid you have to make a choice here, either tolerate him or else tell john that you would ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my feelings for my gay best friend?
Q. Hi guys, this is a bit embarassing but I need some advice. My best friend is a gay guy and I'm head over heels for him! x All the gentle touches, the whispers, the long talks, the sleepovers JUST MAKE ME ACHE FOR HIM! I want so badly for him not to ...
A. 8 November 2010: Well i think you just need to be grateful that you have such a best friend and that you have him in your life the only thing that would be different is a physical relationship with him, so maybe you could go out looking for a single man and start ... (read in full...)
Dating awkwardness
Q. hey, im going out with my boyf tomorow, just to the park. but Everytime we meet up its really awkward because i feel like im the only one making the effort to make conversation. I want to have normal convos and have a good time without the awkwardn...
A. 8 November 2010: well it should come natural at this stage and if it doesnt feel effortless and easy flowing when you both meet up then maybe he is not the guy for you.... (read in full...)
How should I confess my love?
Q. I've gotten over a girl I liked. But that's because I'm now onto this other girl. Now I want to tell her I'm crushing on her, but it's a different situation this time. I met her in a camp. We've been keeping in touch, but just because we were pla...
A. 8 November 2010: Well its hard to tell she might be busy or else she might be letting you down gently its hard to tell i think you should leave the ball in her court now, you have asked her out, so just say to her 'let me no when you are free and i will organise ... (read in full...)
What do I tell her when I ask her out?
Q. Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you....
A. 8 November 2010: Well just ask her out, but maybe wait a good while before you tell her your feelings because she is not long out of a relationship and she needs some single time, so just remember that.... (read in full...)
Is she using me? What should I do?
Q. My girl friend and i have been dating for a while now,. i want to know if my girl friend is using me, she's not very supportive when it comes to money. she wouldn't spend a penny of her. She knows i don't have a job, and i'm focusing on school more ...
A. 8 November 2010: Yes just sit down and half a good talk with her its up to you if you want to stay with her or not but you need to put some ground rules down and tell her how you feel, just remember dont be guilt tripped.... (read in full...)
I'm confused over the crush on my friends sister..
Q. Hi,i'm 30 years of age and really feel confused about a friends sister whose been flirting on and off with me.On a couple of occassions she's kissed me (not the opposite way around). Even at parties other people ask if we're together because we seem ...
A. 8 November 2010: Yeah sometimes it helps to hear someone say what you are already thinking, good luck in the future.... (read in full...)
Online dating help...?
Q. This is my first time trying out online dating and I'm kind of lost about what to do. I've talked to a few girls over the past couple months on one of those online dating websites but nothing really ever came out of it before. So now I've been ...
A. 7 November 2010: Ok well if your comfortable giving out your number and she is then go for it, that way you can ring each other and can hear each others voices and get to no each other more.
The main tip on meeting up would be to make sure that it is through ... (read in full...)
What do I tell her when I ask her out?
Q. Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you....
A. 7 November 2010: Ok well there is no history here so its kind of hard to understand the question all the same, but my simple answer would be ask her out if she accepts then go on a few dates and then tell her how you feel.... (read in full...)
Is she using me? What should I do?
Q. My girl friend and i have been dating for a while now,. i want to know if my girl friend is using me, she's not very supportive when it comes to money. she wouldn't spend a penny of her. She knows i don't have a job, and i'm focusing on school more ...
A. 7 November 2010: She sounds to demanding if you ask me, i would never ask a boyfriend to put me before his family that is just wrong, at the end of the day your family brought you in to this world and raised you and it would be very sad if this girl were to come ... (read in full...)
Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant?
Q. Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant. I was on the depo shot for six months and once i was off i had heavy bleeding for a month none stop. Finally i my period regularize and my period stopped 5 days l...
A. 7 November 2010: no noboy is perfect you are right and we all make mistakes nobody has the right to judge you on that, i think what people are trying to say is that let this be a lesson to be learned that having unprotected sex is very dangerous, i think you should ... (read in full...)
I can't cum with a condom on! Heeeelp!
Q. I can't cum with a condom on! i'm and 18 year old male and can't cum even after one hour of shagging... What could be the reason of this, illness, masturbation, condoms..? Will ultra thin condoms help me cum faster? Hit me with all you got! ...
A. 7 November 2010: hi well believe me your problem is not all that rare it happens a lot of guys because it reduces sensitivity therefore it makes it harder to reach orgasm. if you are with a long term partner maybe you could both get checked for sti's and she could ... (read in full...)
Infatuation with my driving instructor!
Q. Hello people, I'm in a predicament. I found a similar one on the website about someone being 'infatuated with their driving instructor' - well i'm in that situation too. I'm 18 and been having driving lessons since July I think. My instructor is ...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi well am not going to judge you on who you like, we cant helo who we fall for. But if you do decide to act on your feelings you need to make sure that he is not still a married man because you dont want to become the bit on the side and it could ... (read in full...)
Is she using me? What should I do?
Q. My girl friend and i have been dating for a while now,. i want to know if my girl friend is using me, she's not very supportive when it comes to money. she wouldn't spend a penny of her. She knows i don't have a job, and i'm focusing on school more ...
A. 7 November 2010: Well it is good that you respect her and i understand that you dont want to hurt her, but it is not going to hurt her by not buying her things show her your affection and your love and you wont hurt her, if she makes you feel guilty for not buying ... (read in full...)
I want to move on from her but I cant!
Q. dear cupids, my girlfriend of 7 months dumped me on monday - she claims she cant deal with it at the moment but there has been numerous of mixed feelings from her since like caring, trusting, bitchy and not interested. i would like to move...
A. 7 November 2010: Yes take the advice you are getting and give her space and accept that it is over, if you dont you are just going to keep prolonging your pain.... (read in full...)
Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant?
Q. Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant. I was on the depo shot for six months and once i was off i had heavy bleeding for a month none stop. Finally i my period regularize and my period stopped 5 days l...
A. 7 November 2010: Well off course you could be pregnant do you not no the facts of life? Having unprotected sex leads to pregnancy in most cases, either of the men could be the father. First of you need to get to a doctor to see if you are pregnant then you need to ... (read in full...)
Her boobs are amazing!!!
Q. I am an arab man (but also a christian). the rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as sisters (with no sexual feelings) and told women not to wear sexy clothes. of course man and woman can do whatever...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi well you are a red blooded male so it is only normal to have these feelings and these urges that you want to have sex you are 25 so you are well ready to have sex, but as you no there is more to a woman than her boobs and if you cant marry this ... (read in full...)
Is she using me? What should I do?
Q. My girl friend and i have been dating for a while now,. i want to know if my girl friend is using me, she's not very supportive when it comes to money. she wouldn't spend a penny of her. She knows i don't have a job, and i'm focusing on school more ...
A. 7 November 2010: yea i think she is using you and you are the fool to let her, if you dont want to break up with her then put your foot down tell her you are in financial difficulty and you need to stop spending money if she loves you or cares for you she will ... (read in full...)
Why isn't she talking to me?
Q. So I'm joining the army to be a medic But it not that easy well it's never easy I'm not talking about training and studying it's a friend My friend she's beautiful she a good person and a good friend, but she isn't talking to me it's been a mont...
A. 7 November 2010: she is probably trying to protect herself here by not gettin hurt, its obvious she doesnt want you to join and she is probably ending the friendship now before you go away and she misses you. However this is quite selfish of her and you need to try ... (read in full...)
I love him...He loves her
Q. I love him! But he loves her... How do I let him know my feelings without being rejected? I am a sophomore in high school and there is this senior boy I have fallen head over heels for! I met senior boy last year during cross country last y...
A. 7 November 2010: Its a tough situation you are in, but in fairness you told him you liked him already therefore if he wanted to ask you out he would have done it there and then, i think you might just hurt yourself more by telling him, because he is in a ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'll end up in love with him and he'll start going out with his ex again
Q. I don't know what to do. I recently started liking a guy from work. He became my friend and we talked and hang out together outside from work. He just got out of a bad relationship turns out his girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend and ...
A. 7 November 2010: I think its best to avoid him he has admitted to you that he still has feelings for his ex this is a clear sign from him to stay away. Dont ignore him just keep your distance and give it some time, you really dont want to be the rebound girl that he ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him because I'm not supposed to have a boyfriend?
Q. last time i had a boyfriend my mum was really disappointed and was upset because it was going against our culture, i have another boyfriend i think his the one, i love him to bits and i dont want to break up with him but i also dont want to upset my ...
A. 7 November 2010: No i dont think you should break up with him i no you dont want to hurt your mum but it is your life and you are old enough to make your own choices in life and how you want to live it, in saying that i think you need to be honest with your mum that ... (read in full...)
Does he only think of himself?
Q. I have a male "friend" although i think he's a bit of a jerk. Recently someone sent him a message saying something like: HI *GUYS NAME* HOW ARE YOU? HOW IS *GIRLFRIENDS NAME* he replied "heya, yeah i'm good thanks" never mentioned his girlfriend. ...
A. 7 November 2010: No i wouldnt really because at the end of the day if the person wanted to know how his girlfriend is then they should have asked her themselves. It doesnt mean he was self centred there could have been a number of reasons why he didnt reply to that ... (read in full...)
My dad blames me for everything, I've had enough!
Q. Im sick and tired of my dad blaming me for everything. Im one of 3 daughters (the middle child) and every time me and one of my sisters have an argument no matter who started it I get the blame and 'banned' from his house. Last month, my older ...
A. 7 November 2010: Am sorry that i dont have any other answer for you but all you can do is try and talk to him. Its the only way forward here. If you and your sisters dont get on then arrange to go and visit your dad at different times so he doesnt have to witness ... (read in full...)
My ex attacked me in front of our baby. Do I go to the police?
Q. My ex, who I have a 6 month old son with, attacked me the other nite, not majorly just pulled my hair and threw me out of a door, in front of my son. Now my mum has gone mad saying I need to report him to the police. He has never been violent to me ...
A. 7 November 2010: Well it would be hard now to prove to the police that he done it, it would be your word against his and therefore he probably wouldnt get arrested, you should have called the police there and then as it might be to late now as you will get loads of ... (read in full...)
What's the perfect gift for a guy?
Q. What do you think is the 'perfect gift' for a guy from his girlfriend ?...
A. 7 November 2010: Well its a difficult question to ask because every guy likes different things therefore it would be impossible to pick one gift that all guys would like. There are plenty of things you can get him but you would need to know what he likes and what he ... (read in full...)
Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 7 November 2010: Ok well maybe when you said to her to try and forget him for her own good she thought that you were interested in him and now she is jelous and probably doesnt want to be friends with you in case you do get with him and it will cause her a lot of ... (read in full...)
Does that just happen in porno movies?
Q. Do you think it is really Possible to Cum while a guy is Fucking you from the back?? Because it always feels like its gonna cum squirting out but its either he dont do it long enough or that just happens in Porno movies....
A. 7 November 2010: You could have an orgasm while he is penetrating you from behind, its also a good position to play with your clitoris to add extra pleasure.... (read in full...)
Confused between 2 guys and wondering what people will think?
Q. I am confuse and in love with 2 guys.... how do i choose? I am 21 and have been with my bf who is 25 for 18months and i think i have feelings for a 31 year old and i dont know who to choose? I started dating the 31 year old for 6 months then lef...
A. 7 November 2010: Well hun only you can tell in your head what you truely want. If you dont feel happy with your current boyfriend after 18months then i doubt that the relationship is for you especially when you are having second thoughts about another guy, why did ... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband back?
Q. How do I get my husband back? My husband and I have been married for almost 13 years. The marriage has had some pretty rough moments and I screwed up big time on 2 occassions by putting my friends first. I thought I wanted out, but I DON'T! He ...
A. 7 November 2010: Its not to late just be honest with him give him a call and tell him you have had time to think and you have realised that you have made a huge mistake and tell him you want him back and will work really hard to get the marriage to work again, maybe ... (read in full...)
Did anyone know immediately "Thats the girl I'm going to marry!"?
Q. Helloooo... Just a bit curious is all :) Haven't got a girlfriend, haven't for some time, still I'm quite happy where I stand. Yet a few joke that I'm more likely to marry then anyone else due to my understanding of girls... Lol. Did an...
A. 7 November 2010: I personally think you need to take time to get to know another person and see if you are compatibible with each other before you start thinking of marriage, sure you can look at a girl and say thats the girl i am going to marry but then she might ... (read in full...)
How can I make him want me more and kiss me???
Q. I have been dating with my bf like a 5 months at first we dated well we been together well and we were happy as well but by the time passed we stopped to go out i mean he didn't ask mee out anymore or kissed me anymore for along time ago and he got ...
A. 7 November 2010: Ok well it sounds like he doesnt want to be with you anymore and he doesnt want to tell you this. Dont take it personal he probably just wants to be single am sure it is nothing personal towards you, but he is being a coward by not breaking up with ... (read in full...)
Did I give him too much information and scare him off?
Q. I think I really screwed up with a guy I'm interested in. I have recently left my husband, we were never in love so I have been emotional gone for quite some time. I have a friend who I have known for most of my life, but only recently gotten ...
A. 7 November 2010: Well the message is sent now so you cant go back so dont worry about it, i dont think you were in the wrong no, you are trying to protect him from getting hurt which any mother would do and am sure this man will see that, however it might be a bit ... (read in full...)
Unfair and stubborn boyfriend
Q. My boyfriend and I love eachother a whole lot, we tell each other that all of the time. But whenever I ask him for something so simple, he won't do it! No matter what! It'll be something like so small just a question like for example I asked him if ...
A. 7 November 2010: telling someone i love you is just words its actions that prove that you are loved by someone, am afraid if he is a secretive person you cant make him change therefore you need to live with the way he is or move on.
It concerns me that you are ... (read in full...)
I'm confused over the crush on my friends sister..
Q. Hi,i'm 30 years of age and really feel confused about a friends sister whose been flirting on and off with me.On a couple of occassions she's kissed me (not the opposite way around). Even at parties other people ask if we're together because we seem ...
A. 7 November 2010: hi well she is just out of a long term relationship therefore i dont think you want to be the rebound guy do you? I would say she is enjoying herself at the moment and flirting with all of these guys as she is wanting to show she is single and can ... (read in full...)
Dating awkwardness
Q. hey, im going out with my boyf tomorow, just to the park. but Everytime we meet up its really awkward because i feel like im the only one making the effort to make conversation. I want to have normal convos and have a good time without the awkwardn...
A. 6 November 2010: Ok wel it sounds like he is shy in this case and doesnt no how to make conversation, am sure with time he will be more comfortable, it takes time to get to know someone and feel comfortable around them so just keep trying to get him to talk and ask ... (read in full...)
How should I confess my love?
Q. I've gotten over a girl I liked. But that's because I'm now onto this other girl. Now I want to tell her I'm crushing on her, but it's a different situation this time. I met her in a camp. We've been keeping in touch, but just because we were pla...
A. 6 November 2010: Anything will be ok, if you feel to shy to ask her face to face then yes give her a ring on the phone or a text.... (read in full...)
I'm trying my hardest to make things okay again, but I don't know the next step.
Q. I suppose this is a longer story, but I'll try and keep things concise. I would just post the question straight up, but without proper insight on what has happened, the advice I get may not be what I'm looking for :) So here it goes: My girlfr...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi this is a really tricky situation and it is safe to say that this other guy is the reason why she is questioning her feelings, long distance relationships are really hard to keep up, it takes a lot of work from both people and it can sometimes ... (read in full...)
I want to move on from her but I cant!
Q. dear cupids, my girlfriend of 7 months dumped me on monday - she claims she cant deal with it at the moment but there has been numerous of mixed feelings from her since like caring, trusting, bitchy and not interested. i would like to move...
A. 5 November 2010: Nobody wants to move on when they are the one that has been dumped but am afraid you are just going to have to do it because its the only way to move forward, you need to cut contact and move on.... (read in full...)
How should I confess my love?
Q. I've gotten over a girl I liked. But that's because I'm now onto this other girl. Now I want to tell her I'm crushing on her, but it's a different situation this time. I met her in a camp. We've been keeping in touch, but just because we were pla...
A. 5 November 2010: Yeah through IM should be ok, but dont be to intense and dont go telling her you love her as this will probably scare the girl off especially as you dont no each other all that well yet. Just message her and tell her that you really like her as a ... (read in full...)
I want to move on from her but I cant!
Q. dear cupids, my girlfriend of 7 months dumped me on monday - she claims she cant deal with it at the moment but there has been numerous of mixed feelings from her since like caring, trusting, bitchy and not interested. i would like to move...
A. 5 November 2010: Am afriad you are just going to have to put this relationship down to experience as you grow and get over it, there will probably be many more failed relationships in your life and it doesnt get easier but you learn how to deal with them.
First... (read in full...)
Why is he withdrawing?
Q. I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt ...
A. 1 November 2010: Its good that you are giving him space and it sounds like you are on the right track with things has he thought about maybe visiting a doctor? As it sounds like he is depressed and he may need some medical care. Just keep showing him that you care ... (read in full...)
Why is he withdrawing?
Q. I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt ...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok am not sure what your question is here, your boyfriend obviously became depressed after his hours got cut and he probably felt less of a man as he could support you or the children he sounds quite old fashioned and feels its his place to bring in ... (read in full...)
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