Why is he withdrawing?
Q. I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt ...
A. 9 November 2010: Its just his nature to look after his family its his beliefs therefore you just need to accept that he thinks like this and thank him and make sure he doesnt feel like he is being taken for granted.... (read in full...)
Why is he withdrawing?
Q. I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt ...
A. 1 November 2010: Its good that you are giving him space and it sounds like you are on the right track with things has he thought about maybe visiting a doctor? As it sounds like he is depressed and he may need some medical care. Just keep showing him that you care ... (read in full...)
Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted
Q. Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...
A. 26 October 2010: Well its sad to say that when you are married and start having threesomes it is going to cause a lot of trouble and in your case it is true again, i dont no why people but there marriage at risk like this but never the less it is done now and there ... (read in full...)
Please help, devestated over my b/f
Q. i need some help :/? basicly it's been nearly 2 years now, and i'm feeling more stuck than i was at first. i was with my boyfriend/ex for nearly 3 weeks so why do i feel this way about him? i want an easy pain free way to get over him. I've tri...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok this guy is messing with your head and you need it to stop now or you will end up a lot worse and your confidence will become zero. You said you tried to ignore him well you need to try harder. Delete all his contact details and ask him not to ... (read in full...)
Why is he withdrawing?
Q. I had been dating this guy for just about 2 years. I guess back in February his company was bought out by another. They cut his pay in half, cut his hours. he started getting very withdrawn. About three weeks ago he decided that his depression wasnt ...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok am not sure what your question is here, your boyfriend obviously became depressed after his hours got cut and he probably felt less of a man as he could support you or the children he sounds quite old fashioned and feels its his place to bring in ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be disappointed again but I don't want to send him the message that I'm not interested because I am.
Q. Dear Cupid~ I've liked this guy for years, literally. We're both in high school, he's kind of perfect even though he obviously has imperfections. But I accept him and, when we talk, he seems to accept mine. I swear we connect in a way I've never fe...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok well after he sent you this comment he felt pretty weird in case you laughed at him or in case he would get rejected so he put some distance there between you both to protect his own feelings.
You like him right? Well then go for it, you ask ... (read in full...)
I really want a boyfriend! Everyone else has one!
Q. I really like this boy at school but i dont know how to get him to like me i really want a boyfriend soon because all of my other friends have one please help asap! thanks...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok you shouldnt just want a boyfriend because all of your other friends have other ones make sure that when you are entering a relationship that its for all the right reasons.
Your turn will come but if you are desperate to get a boyfrien... (read in full...)
How can I show her I'm telling the truth?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and three months. I am very much in love with her, but I have done things in the past which made me lose her trust. I never cheated on her, nor have I ever checked out any girl. I talked to this ...
A. 26 October 2010: ok so she obviously has trust issues but this is not fair on you at the end of the day if your friendship with this other girl was pure platonic then your girlfriend doesnt have the right to tell you that you cant talk to her, you still have a life ... (read in full...)
Am I lovesick for her? What can I do to stop it?
Q. Hello to everyone, I have a few for me relevant questions that I can't get answered by myself... About relationship. I'm together for almost 3 months with the person for whom my feelings have gone wild, REALLY wild. The same thing happens to he...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok it sounds like you are quite insecure and in the past you have never allowed yourself to show your feelings to yourself or others and now you have let your feelings go because you really like and trust your girl and now anxieties are kicking in ... (read in full...)
Does my friend have any feelings for me? Or is she just fooling around?
Q. Hey everyone. I'm 15. And I think I'm in love with my best friend(who's also female). About five months ago, we were at orchestra practice when I suddenly went like 'OMG is it just my imagination or is she just too good-looking.'Well, it took me ...
A. 26 October 2010: She is the only one that can tell you this and if you guys are great friends then you should be able to trust her enough to ask her, it does sound like she likes you but she has her gaurd up because she is not sure how you will react so take the ... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. i...
A. 26 October 2010: Am afraid there is not a lot you can do here to help him, he needs to understand that most people have a past. He cant spend his life thinking about your other boyfriends he needs to look to the future and tell himself that he is the only man for ... (read in full...)
Should I give him an ultimatum?
Q. I have been living with Mr. Lebanese(nickname) for 2 years now. However, he is engaged as requested by his parents to someone she barely know (they just see each other if he's going for vacation which is 10 days a year). He's been engagged before we ...
A. 26 October 2010: am afraid he needs to chose between you as this is not fair on you or for her. Its wrong that you are having a relationship with a man that is taken already by another man therefore you need to tell him it is me or her and stick to it.... (read in full...)
Why does he hide so much from me? He knows I wouldnt get mad, I just hate the lies!
Q. hi id really apprecitate some advice on this please guys. i have been trying to save my marriage after finding out certain things about my husband he was hiding things from me that have turned out to be not a big deal but he hides things from me ...
A. 26 October 2010: Hi ok am guessing he hides this stuff to protect you as he probably knows you have trust issues and he doesnt want to fuel them even more.
Ok so it is quite normal for guys to watch porn maybe he is hiding it from you as he wants it to be his t... (read in full...)
We have a 2 year age gap, is this a big deal?
Q. I am 15 years old and I am dating a 17 year old guy. I was just wondering about people's opinions on the age gap? Both of our birthdays are in August, so he is young for his age, as am I. Since we live in the UK the legal age for sex is 16. I am ...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok well i hope for your own sake that you can wait until you are legal just think that if anyone were to find out that he could be in serious trouble he would end up on the sex register list and it would ruin his life.
Am glad that he is not pres... (read in full...)
We slept together, he's now ignoring me. What did I do wrong?
Q. Two months ago, I lost my virginity to someone I'd met online. I was completely head over heels in love with him. The day after, he stopped texting or calling me. We were still in communication; it's just that I did all the work to maintain it. ...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok am going to be honest here he was never after a relationship with you hun, he only wanted one thing from you and he got it and therefore he quickly lost interest and probably moved on to his next poor victim online.
Dont take this personal... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian? I'm in love with my bestfriend, but no other girls.
Q. I've just turned 17. Me and this girl have been best friends for about 5 years. No exaggeration, she's absolutley gorgeous, she's a model, she's so funny and really genuinely nice. She used to say "Oh, I love you" (as a friend I persumed) which al...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok well first of dont be so quick to judge or label yourself. You may very well turn out to be a lesbian but for now keep your options open.
It sounds like you have a very close bond with this girl and that is why your emotions are playing ... (read in full...)
Do we make enough money to have a baby?
Q. My boyfriend and I feel we are ready to try to start a family in the next few months. We have just paid off some debt from my uni days and are looking now to rent a place (we currently live with his family). Our combined salaries are £40,000 a ...
A. 26 October 2010: Hi well i havent been in your situation just so you no but it sounds like you and your boyfriend have everything planned out and therefore that is a good start. however you also need to look at the fact that you never no when things could go wrong ... (read in full...)
Is it fair on the kids to try again with him?
Q. Hi need some advice. My Husband and I have had separate houses for the past six months.He although lives at mine most of the time. The reason we ended up in separate houses was he was unable to bother with my two children from a previous marriage ...
A. 26 October 2010: No you are not being unfair at all you are 100% in the right here. He abused your trust in the past therefore you need to have your gaurd up.
Its good that he is now getting on with your children and making an effort but you need to ask yourself... (read in full...)
I have been unemployed for ages, what are my options?
Q. I've been out of work for a long time and i want to do something, even if its only a temporary job. I have thought about signing up with recruitment agencies, but the only recruitment agencies i can find have office and retail jobs. i have had ...
A. 26 October 2010: Well the thing with recruitment agencies is that they take a percentage of your wage for finding you the job therefore i think it would be best to go and look for a job yourself. Have you thought about what line of work you want to do in the future? ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he asked me out yet?
Q. I sarted liking this guy i hang out with about a month ago....then i noticed he started showing the signs that he liked me back like staring at me, standing by me, being extremely shy, always walking beside me in a group of people, flirting with me, ...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok well you say that he is shy so therefore am guessing he just cant pluck up the courage to ask you out in fear of rejection, you say he knows that you like him but for most guys they are completely blind to what is staring them in the face and it ... (read in full...)
Guys! What can a girl do/wear to make your head turn?
Q. What really impresses a guy? What will grab his attention (in a good way) and make him return that attention to you? I'm asking this to use on my boyfriend for a spark, and for future reference should I ever need it. Thanks =]...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok i know am not a man but ive had a lot of insight in how a man's head works.If you are wanting to put a spark in to your relationship with your boyfriend then organise a romantic night in. Wear a nice fitted black dress and do your hair and make ... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants to leave with my baby girl, how can I make her see all three of us should stay as a family?
Q. Hi All, Just need some advice as to what to do! A month ago me and my fiance started to have some issues with our relationship. Basically i've gone further and further down on her list to a point where i was getting absolutely no attention. We had a...
A. 26 October 2010: Ok well it may seem sudden to you but am afraid your girlfriend knows how she is feeling and obviously her love for you has been dying for quite a while now and she has hid it quite well.
You just need to ask her what happened when things started ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my partner is interested in my friend!
Q. My boyfriend and I are having troubles. I have a fear that he is more interested in my friend ( who is married..by the way) as they have quite similar personalities and enjoy the same hobbies and have been bought up a siminlar way. My friend has ...
A. 26 October 2010: You need to stop worrying about this. It sounds like you are insecure and find it difficult trusting other people? Has anything happened in the past that would make you have these feelings?
Just because you have both different religions and pers... (read in full...)
Confused about my feelings for this older guy vs. the guy my age
Q. I left school in June this year. I suffer with depression. I loved school an awful lot and missed it unbelievably. I was delighted in September when I heard from a teacher, asking if I'd like to assist in teaching a year 7 class every Friday ...
A. 26 October 2010: Well if it has happened you before then maybe you are just closed of from trusting people and you are blocking your feelings from coming out just keep spending time with your boyfriend and if u realise down the line that he is not the man for you ... (read in full...)
Confused about my feelings for this older guy vs. the guy my age
Q. I left school in June this year. I suffer with depression. I loved school an awful lot and missed it unbelievably. I was delighted in September when I heard from a teacher, asking if I'd like to assist in teaching a year 7 class every Friday ...
A. 25 October 2010: Ok your friends were right this teacher could lose his job his career and his repuation over this if anything were to happen between you both so you need to stay clear from him, you need to stop contacting each other as much so that you can clear ... (read in full...)
I missed my chance to date her!
Q. There's a girl that I think really liked me. She'd wait for me after class, text me, asked to hang out. On the other hand, she also has a bunch of good guy friends, and I didn't (and still don't) know if that was her normal level of interaction or ...
A. 25 October 2010: No there was a lot you could have done and you should have told her how you felt as you never no how she feels until you ask her so its still not to late if you like her then talk to her and tell her how you ave been feeling, pluck up the courage ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 2 years has changed so much, could he be cheating?
Q. I'm 15 and i've been dating my 15 year old bf for almost 2 years and i know him better than he knows himself sadly. we use to hang out every single day for as long as possible. we go to different high schools. we used to cuddle kiss hug all the time ...
A. 25 October 2010: Well am afraid that you are both really young and am afraid as we go through school and grow up we all change and mature in to adults he is obviously experiencing change at the moment and doesnt know were his feelings or head is at the moment.
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Should I listen to my heart or my head?
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 20 years,we split up for 2 years, but have been back together for 2 years,during the time we was apart we both had relationships with different people,it didnt workout for me because the guy i was with had ...
A. 25 October 2010: Well you need to ask yourself do you love your partner? And if so are you willing to work really hard on the relationship to fix it, if not and your heart is just not in it then you are better ending it now before it goes any further.... (read in full...)
I am really shy and don't know how to approach this girl in my class! Help!
Q. i like a girl of my age who was my classmate when i was in the tenth class so i am really shy and do not know how to propose her. Can anyone help?...
A. 25 October 2010: You just need to find the courage with in you if you want something badly enough you will find the strengh with in yourself to do it, dont over complicate it just make it simple as her out for a coffee or something casual... (read in full...)
This feud with my friend has ruined everything! How can I get over it?
Q. I had a friend of 2 years and at the time we became friends, I had a boyfriend. Me and my friend were so close, we were like sisters and I cared about her a lot. I hope the feeling was mutual. There was a lot of competition and jealousy in our ...
A. 25 October 2010: Ok well she is the one that was in the wrong here there is a rule in friendship and that is never to go near a friends boyfriend and she broke your trust big time and she needs to be the one that comes to you and earns it back if she is not willing ... (read in full...)
Hes scared but says I'm the best thing he could ever hope for....why is he running away?
Q. im gonna start off saying its Oct 23 i got out of a 5 year relationship in june he got out of a 3 year in july....he been coming my work constantly finally asked me out first of sep . Things were the best. We couldnt of hit it off more we hung out ...
A. 25 October 2010: Ok well it sounds like this guy is just really not ready to settle down and he is really scared of commitment. Maybe his feelings for you scared him a lot and he just ran as he doesnt know how to deal with them but you need to tell him that he will ... (read in full...)
I want to be a London escort
Q. Hi everyone! I'm thinking about becoming a London Escort... Do not tell me that I shouldn't do this.. I'm already an Escort, but not in London. What I would like to know is: How many customers do Escorts receive per day? Thank you for your a...
A. 25 October 2010: Well if you are already an escort then you should no the answer to your own question.... (read in full...)
Should I wait to see if he'll leave his girlfriend
Q. I know this 30 year old guy for a few years he used to come in my shop. Had not seen him for a few months when he started coming in my shop again. after a few times coming in my shop, I told him I had divorced from my husband. The next thing he did ...
A. 25 October 2010: This is a tricky one am afraid. I dont think you should wait around forever as you will end up really hurt at the end of the day you could be waiting years for him to leave his girlfriend maybe even for the rest of your life.
You need to be hones... (read in full...)
How does sex feel the first time?
Q. Yes, I am a virgin and proud. Dont want to have sex but can someone tell me how it feels the first time and how to masturbate myself scared i might hurt myself and stuff around the house i could use to make even more pleasure....
A. 25 October 2010: If the clitoris doesnt do anything for you then just keep experimenting and you will find something that you enjoy doing every girl is different so you need to take the time out to explore your own body.... (read in full...)
I'm confused by these latest texts
Q. Hi, I had a FWB for months, but it was certainly more than sex. He lives abroad so we do not see each other that often. He started to say that the sex bit confused him and he was not able to see things straight. But he also said he finally under...
A. 21 October 2010: Just ask him and then you will know the truth.... (read in full...)
Will my calling her so often take anything out of the relationship?
Q. i and my fiancée knew each other from 2 years... and last month we got engaged... it is an arrange relation since our both families were very good friends... now i have moved to london for my mba... we both were very depressed while departing... few ...
A. 21 October 2010: No it wont make things fade away in fact it shows her that you care and that you are thinking of her every day.... (read in full...)
Dinner with the ex and I don't want to make an ass of myself
Q. okay first dinner with ex since break up he broke it off so nervous and then to day he said it was just two friends metting up ha can you belive it so anyways i thought it was a date so how do i flirt a little with him without seeming to neede...
A. 21 October 2010: well first thing her is under no circumstance have sex with him as this will turn you into a sex buddy so dont do it. If he comes on to you ask him does he think you both will get back together.
Just be yourself i think its best not to flirt ju... (read in full...)
We went out and had a great time but he's hardly texting me now
Q. So an old college 'guy' friend from last year popped up at the beginning of the month with an email on facebook. After that he text me constantly and wanted to meet me and said loads of sweet, nice things about me. I met up with them one weekend and ...
A. 21 October 2010: Ok dont over analize as am sure you never done anything wrong. It looks like this guy might still have feelings for his ex or maybe he is just very confused at the moment and doesnt no how he is feeling or what to do. Just dont let him use you. From ... (read in full...)
My fiance does sensual massage and I'm having a problem with it
Q. I need some help please! I went to a sensual massage therapist and feel in love with her at first sight. Well after a few months, we starting dating and we fell head over heels in love. Well, after 3 months of dating, I told her I was having a ...
A. 21 October 2010: Am afraid you are going to just have to accept it at the end of the day its her job and its not like she is out selling her body or cheatin on you, you just have to trust her and be happy for her ... (read in full...)
Don't always believe him when he says he loves me
Q. My bf of 2 yrs (now) broke my trust just under a year ago by seeing his ex behind my back and quite inappropriately flirting with another girl. We made up and now we're good again. Except he says he feels like I never believe him when he says he ...
A. 21 October 2010: No its not your fault he hurt you in the worst way possible so its understandable that you are going to question is love, as boyfriends dont do this if they are in love. I hope for your sake that he doesnt do this again. Tell him that he broke your ... (read in full...)
I'm mad at myself for being so vulnerable
Q. So I asked a question before about this guy I liked and whether to tell him I liked him etc...and everyone said to go for it and I did...He knew I liked him and this time I just went for it...Well he replied he has a girlfriend and wanted to make it ...
A. 21 October 2010: Ok dont be mad at yourself your not to blame he is the one that was leading you on you werent to know if he has a girlfriend, if i were you i wouldnt bother talking to him anymore just hold your head up high.
As for you losing all respect in men s... (read in full...)
I get depressed and violent around the time of my period
Q. hi! i get violent towards my boyfriend when i have my period, i also get very depressed. we argue like mad and ive actually hit him! i hate it and i only do it when im on. it always start about a week before i come on and whilst i am on. normally we ...
A. 21 October 2010: There are many ways to control your mood swings during this time, there is a tablet called Serafem that you can get from your doctor to control your mood swings and if you dont want to go on that you could also go on birth control as this is good ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant knowing my fiance doesn't want another child?
Q. My fiance and I have 3 boys (5,2,1 week), i just gave birth to a baby on 10/14. I desperately want to try for a girl and he doesn't want anymore children. 2 are his and 1 is from a previous relationship. He now wants to use condoms and get me on ...
A. 21 October 2010: No dont do this you cant trap him in to having a child its really unfair of you even to think about something like this he is your husband and you shouldnt treat someone like this.
All you can do is sit down with him and open your heart and tell... (read in full...)
How does sex feel the first time?
Q. Yes, I am a virgin and proud. Dont want to have sex but can someone tell me how it feels the first time and how to masturbate myself scared i might hurt myself and stuff around the house i could use to make even more pleasure....
A. 21 October 2010: Women get most pleasure out of stimulating the clitoris so just work from there it will naturally come to you. As for the first time having sex am not going to lie it can be quite uncomfortable and a little sore and you may bleed but after a few ... (read in full...)
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