Guy hitting on heavily in public in quiet in private!
Q. Hi everyone, Could you please help me decipher this guy's behaviour? We're colleagues working in a very big organisation and do not have any common work projects. He's recently divorced (probably for about 6-7 months) - his wife left him for ano...
A. 18 October 2012: Thanks for the update and I it is a shame that it never worked out between you both, but hey as the saying goes it is his loss so at least you got closure on it. Best of luck in the future.... (read in full...)
He's flirty on videochat but then gave me a raincheck for a kiss, said he's not ready for a relationship!
Q. I really like this guy. He is in a couple of my friends classes and we met several weeks ago. The thing is that we both just got over relationships. He says he needs time but we video chatted for hours late into the night. I asked him to tutor me. ...
A. 21 October 2011: Yes I understand that you are only out of a relationship as well, but it is obvious you are ready to move on now, this doesn't mean that he is in the same place as you. You say he hasn't told you straight that he needs time, but look at what he has ... (read in full...)
Why did this player start laughing so loud after we had sex?
Q. hi, I was having sex with this player..we enjoy the chemistry between us and he just cannot commit. Anyhow, my question is not about commitment but about sex. We've had sex several times over the years..Usually it is sensual and soooo much chemi...
A. 21 October 2011: I really cannot answer this question, because only he knows why he started laughing. It could be a number of things but it really is impossible to tell. Maybe he was just happy as he enjoyed himself. Who knows. But honey you said yourself he is a ... (read in full...)
There are no boundaries for his ex and I'm always left waiting!
Q. Dear Cupid; I dated a man for a little over a year. Early in the relationship, he had dumped me for a old girlfriend and when that didn't work out, came back to me. He also has a teenage son who he has 50% of the time. They have things they do ...
A. 21 October 2011: Well it is up to you what you find acceptable or not, everybody has different boundaries. But yes he is not very considerate of your feelings what so ever. It is unfair of him just to turn up whenever he thinks and thinks it is OK. If he has made ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my life away?
Q. so this is not a relationship question more of a life question. ill try keep this as short as possible and as informative as possible. so long story short, i have social anxiety very shy and basicly just want a simple life with no worries ie; ...
A. 21 October 2011: not everybody goes to college and they still get on in life. This man was just trying to look out for you and set a better future for you, which was kind of him. But if you are enjoying your work at the moment well then there is nothing wrong with ... (read in full...)
Advice needed on how to start a conversation with him!
Q. Heya :) Right there's this guy at school that I like. We talk a bit in school when we do see eachother, but that isn't alot. however we sometimes walk home together. I'm quite certain he likes me too because when we walk together with his friends,...
A. 21 October 2011: Yes write to him on facebook and ask him has he any plans for his mid term break tell him you have no plans and ask him would he like to hang out with you during it. Simple as. He can either say yes or no and at least then you know you tried. Really ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a rut! What can I do?
Q. I,m stuck in a rut. I have no love life, no job, hardly any money and christmas is around the corner!!! 1. lovelife: I,ve never had a boyfriend before I,ve dated 1 guy but we never officially became a couple. I just assumed I was boring him that...
A. 21 October 2011: 1. I can see why you don't have a love life if you are not going out and socialising. It must make it hard for you to meet someone if you just don't have the opportunity to meet anybody new. Maybe your friends might know some guys who they could set ... (read in full...)
22 year old girl with confidence issues
Q. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I have always had huge problems with confidence. My main problem is that i get embarrassed and shy and my cheeks go red. It bothers me so much. Especially when i have to make contact with people or i...
A. 20 October 2011: Some people are just shy and can't do anything to change it. Try and look at it as a positive thing instead of a negative thing. You have found yourself a man, you are enjoying your life beside's being shy. You have tried things to get more ... (read in full...)
Are my dreams revealing an inability to have sexual fantasies?
Q. Hi there, I have a question about dreams. In particular, dreams of a sexual or intimate nature. Whenever I have a dream of this kind, I find that something always happens to interrupt or stop the 'action' before anything happens. This could be an...
A. 20 October 2011: Your mind is blocking out finishing your sexual fantasies probably because it is on your mind to begin with. The first ever dream you had about it something obviously stopped you and then it has been playing on your mind making you wonder why. Then ... (read in full...)
I feel foolish being a virgin at 21
Q. I feel worthless because me being 21 and a virgin now that I look at it is foolish and pathetic. I was so blinded to actually think I was going to find someone to share myself with but now its really a fantasy. Women my age aren't looking for ...
A. 20 October 2011: You shouldn't feel foolish or pathetic. Am sure there are plenty of girls looking for a relationship. You are just looking in the wrong places. To lose your virginity outside of a relationship makes it not special and pointless, and you will find ... (read in full...)
34 year old Saudi woman dating a 50 year old American man for 9 years.
Q. iam 34 years old woman dating 50 years old american man for 9 years,i met him when i was 26 and he was 42 and we are completly commeted to eachother. we are trying to be married 5 years back but my family refuse him for 2 reasons,one, he in not saud...
A. 20 October 2011: Move to America with him and get married there. Yes this means moving away from your family and friends but I guess it is what you need to sacrifice if you want to marry this man. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
I'm falling for a coworker while working abroad. Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. I recently started working an overseas job that will last for about 7 months. Unfortunately, I am really starting to fall for a colleague. We have so much in common and get along really well, but since I don't know how he feels about me I have kind ...
A. 20 October 2011: Instead of going up to him and telling him that you like him, why not just ask him out for a drink or something, try and get to know him outside of work. Just play it simple and try and flirt lightly. If he flirts back then tell him you like him or ... (read in full...)
He's flirty on videochat but then gave me a raincheck for a kiss, said he's not ready for a relationship!
Q. I really like this guy. He is in a couple of my friends classes and we met several weeks ago. The thing is that we both just got over relationships. He says he needs time but we video chatted for hours late into the night. I asked him to tutor me. ...
A. 20 October 2011: I can understand why you are confused and my guess is that he is just as confused as you. It sounds like he is just a bit of a mess at the moment and is unsure of what he wants. He has just gotten out of my relationship and he is probably still ... (read in full...)
Why am I always thinking about my ex-friend?
Q. Hey! Ok so I have this friend who isn't really a friend cuz she hates my guts, lets call her Alex. Me and Alex stopped being friends last summer when she overreacted about something really stupid like she does all the time. I decided I was done ...
A. 20 October 2011: Just because you think about her a lot and you miss her does not mean that you are attracted to her or that she was more to you than a friend. She was a friend of yours and it is obvious you loved her very deeply as a friend more than you actually ... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to fix our relationship?
Q. Hello people I need some serious advice about my relationship with my girlfriend now we've been together for 2 years and 3 months and what really bothers me is her friends her aunt and her cousin they all pretty much want me out of her life and are ...
A. 20 October 2011: If you want this relationship you need to trust her it is as simple as that. If she wants to go out and have a drink with her cousin well then let her. She still has a life outside of the relationship. Yes maybe her cousin doesn't like you but if ... (read in full...)
What can I do to open up to him again?
Q. Please help ! I have been seeing a great guy for about six months .its not too serious but we get on and see each other about once a week . We go out and he's affectionate holds my hand etc. At the beginning I felt so much for him but as we have ...
A. 20 October 2011: Maybe it is not about you closing down personally. Maybe it has just got in to a routine now that you both meet up once a week and that's it. It doesn't seem like the relationship is moving forward and maybe deep down you are scared of getting hurt ... (read in full...)
I've painted myself into a corner and have no idea what to do!
Q. I think I may be depressed, and I'm not sure how to cope with it. The past year and a half has been a steady decline for me. It all started when I was academically dismissed from my university. I also found out I was pregnant the same day. I ended ...
A. 20 October 2011: You need to take control of your life and start thinking positive. If you don't your life is just going to spiral out of control. It is bad at the moment but it will only get worse in time. It is time to start making changes.
Ok so lets start wi... (read in full...)
Guy hitting on heavily in public in quiet in private!
Q. Hi everyone, Could you please help me decipher this guy's behaviour? We're colleagues working in a very big organisation and do not have any common work projects. He's recently divorced (probably for about 6-7 months) - his wife left him for ano...
A. 20 October 2011: Well it does sound like he is interested in you, my guess is that he is making it obvious to you so that you can take the next step. You say you haven't showing any interest towards him therefore he is probably being cautious. His wife has left him ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and on bed rest which is why I'm living with my parents, but should I move out?
Q. i never thought i'd be in a position asking people for help but i have no real friends that at this moment i would care to really hear what they have to say . you see I'm married and just recently i found out that i'm now expecting my 1st baby in ...
A. 20 October 2011: The best thing for you to do is to pack up and leave, this stress is not good at the best of times, but when you are pregnant it makes it worse as it is risking the life of your unborn child. You need to be relaxed and at ease. If you have a friend ... (read in full...)
It feels like the relationship is taking a turn for the worse
Q. Please Help me out I need advice!! I'm having problems in my relationship right now. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for going on four years and we recently decided to put the past behind us. We've had some problems, but we always seem to ...
A. 19 October 2011: He has explained to you that he needs some time to himself therefore you need to give him this or else you will just push him away further. He is stressed out at the moment and he needs a little bit of space from you. Don't take it personal because ... (read in full...)
I miss my cousin terribly
Q. Ahhhhhh I'm going crazy!!! Its not even been thirty days since I last saw her... My cousin, I mean, I miss her a lot... Days are as mundane as a rainy blackout afternoon Tuesday. My heart is just aching for her... She only lives seven miles away ...
A. 19 October 2011: Is it legal to have relations with your cousin where you are from? This sort of thing could get you in to a lot of trouble never mind cause arguments within the family. I think it is best for yourself if you spend time apart from her and try and get ... (read in full...)
I like a girl, but her cousin is my friend. What do I do?
Q. Hi So im here to talk about my issue and i do know its not a huge problem but it does mean lots to me. So i'v seen this girl many times and iv always liked cute girls so anyway this girl lives in my neighborhood and when i mean with seen the gi...
A. 19 October 2011: I think you should talk to your best friend and tell him how you feel. Just be honest with him it is always the best way and ask him his opinion. He might not be as annoyed as you think and might even give you his blessing. I can see your friend ... (read in full...)
B/f flirting with friend and now we've had a falling out
Q. I need advice. So i just posted a question about the same topic but the problem has grown and got worse. So a knew boy came to live near me, i have known him form being tiny, our familys know eachother and they knew eachother as kids. His mum was ...
A. 19 October 2011: If she was a true friend well then she wouldn't be flirting with your boyfriend even if it was just a joke, it is over stepping the mark. You are better off without friends like her if that is the way she is going to treat you. But your boyfr... (read in full...)
Does my best friend have feelings for me and should I make the move?
Q. Does my best friend have feelings for me and should I make the move? It seems like the timing is right as we are both in the same place in our lives. -Known each other for 5 years and for the first two years we both had feelings for each other a...
A. 19 October 2011: I guess you will never know what will be unless you are open and honest with him and talk to him. So yes talk to him and tell him how you feel and take things from there. Good luck.... (read in full...)
27 virgin who has never dated. Is there hope for me?
Q. I am a 27 year old man who is also a virgin. I have never dated, never kissed never been in a relationship at all. All I have ever done is had cybersex and phonesex. If I ever do manage to meet a woman that wants to have sex with me I'm afraid I ...
A. 19 October 2011: Off course there is hope for you, but first you need to work on your confidence and stop putting yourself down, believe it or not there are woman out there who are looking for a man who has not slept around with other girls. Yes I can understand ... (read in full...)
He doesn't feel the same, I love him
Q. I want to tell a guy i,ve been dating I love him but I know that will finish us dating 4-5 months now and I really love him and I know he doesn't feel the same. How can I approach this with him or should I leave it alone...
A. 19 October 2011: If you are madly in love with him and he doesn't feel the same about you well then you are going to end up getting hurt. 4 to 5 months of dating and you both have never talked about taking it a step further and becoming an item? Just be honest with ... (read in full...)
Am I completely in the wrong and deserve this? Or is he overreacting?
Q. I met a guy on a dating website 2 months ago, we met after a week and kept seeing each other every weekend. At first it was a but bumpy and he wouldn't text for days, he works away in the week n so we would only see each other on weekends. He calls ...
A. 17 October 2011: I'm guessing that even though you both never had that talk about it being official he just figured in his head that it was going the right direction and he probably automatically thought that you would have stopped using the site as soon as you had ... (read in full...)
I'm losing all my guy friends to their girlfriends. What to do?
Q. Hey guys, I may be overreacting here but I seem to be losing all my guy friends because they are getting girlfriends. I mean this at school only. There are about 5 of us in the normal group who talk at lunch and break. One has been in a relation...
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I like him, but does he really like me, and what should I do next?
Q. So here is my dilemma...I know some of you ladies have seen this before. I have a great guy friend who I met a year ago. I fell for him right away, but I kept my distance because of a girlfriend that lives out of state. He calls her that, but I am ...
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Should I take this personally? He seemed fine with other people.
Q. Hey :) About a month ago my friend found out that one of his classmates died, and i've been there for him ever since it happened. I was there when he found out and I did my best to comfort him, I listened to him and gave him advice.. I basic...
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Will my ex be mad because I didnt ask her sister how she was doing?
Q. So me and my ex broke up about 1.5 months ago. and we have been dating for about 2 years. we were each other's first loves and everything was great and then things took a turn. so anyways, we broke up because she had to go to school up north an...
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He's left his relationship status as 'its complicated' even though we broke up. What does this mean?
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, we weren't in a relationship for that long, but we had been talking since august in 2010. We broke up because he said he didn't have enough time for a relationship between working and college. We ...
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Is he just distracted? Or is he pulling away?
Q. I have been dating a guy for almost a year. We have a good relationship and enjoy doing things together. He is very independent as am I (busy with graduate school). Recently he seems to be pulling away, we never really called on a daily basis ...
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She's married, contacting me 14 years later and I told her I don't go out with married women!
Q. I recently heard from an old flame who I used to date about 14 years ago. She found me on Facebook. I Googled her a couple of times and saw that she was not married. But I didnt contact her because I didnt want to jeopardize her marriage. It was ...
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Is my subconscious trying to tell me that I am not happy in my relationship?
Q. Hi! I've been in a very happy and loving relationship for almost two years with the most wonderful guy in the world. For a long time, I have pictured myself falling asleep in his arms in order to fall asleep (just because it's a very comfortable...
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Questions about my situation with my boyfriend......
Q. So my boyfriend is my everything! I claim him as my husband, but I have a few questions about this situation. If a man stresses in the beginning that love to him is not to be played with or taken lightly out of the blue one night tells you he loves ...
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Boyfriend acting out, I depend on him too much, need solutions!
Q. I don't even know where to begin. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and at the moment things are really bad. I've always known that his love for me has never been as deep as mine is for him. However recently he has been acting out ...
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Has something shifted? Is he making this effort to show he likes me?
Q. fairly recently this guy told me, as a friend, that he doesn't think he'll want to be in a relationship anytime soon, because he has bad luck with women; always finding ones that end up screwing him over in the end. I tried to convince him ...
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Why can't I be open and trusting enough to tell my friends about my crush?
Q. For some weird reason I am not able to talk to my friends about my crush. They don't know that I have a crush on this boy, but I think they are figuring it out. I can't even tell them about boys I find attractive like celebrities. They tell me ...
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I cannot get over my 1st love
Q. well i never forget my 1st love as we broke up for unclear reasons i thought to get over i must get in another one which what i certainly did :S now i feel like am trapped as i really cant forget my 1st love with all the great memories and feelings ...
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I love him and so does my best friend
Q. I need help. It's a very hard love on me. There is this boy that is popular in my class he is handsome smart and the top of the class and were kind of friends i guess. He sits in front of me. I love him so much i want him to know i love him. But i ...
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She used to like me 2 years ago, but now she's flirty, but she's that way with everyone!
Q. 2 years ago i liked a girl and she liked me, but no one made any moves and we drifted apart and now (2 years later) im crazy for her again but im not sure if she likes me. shes flirty but shes like that with everyone so im dont have any idea on what ...
A. 17 October 2011: Pluck up the courage and confidence and ask her out, the worst she can say is no and then at least you know that you tried your best and you can move forward, but just remember she could say yes also and am sure that would make you very happy. ... (read in full...)
Personality vs looks?
Q. Hi, So I was wondering... Is personality or physical attraction more important? Any thoughts would be appreciated!...
A. 17 October 2011: To be honest you need to be both attracted to someone but also they need to have a good personality as well. But if I where asked what one is more important well then it would be personality for me because I would want someone who is down to earth ... (read in full...)
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