My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 1 November 2011: You are trying to fool yourself, nobody else! It is up to you off course what you feel is acceptable. But no matter how hard you try to 'groom' him you are never going to change him and you are never going to make him love you back to the point ... (read in full...)
Having trouble having sex with gf! Please help!!
Q. hello 1) when my gf and I decided to have sex for the first time I couldn't enter my penis into her vagina. It was slipping a lot so we couldn't had sex and I also tried doggy style but failed ? whats wrong 2)while i was trying to have sex w...
A. 30 October 2011: Nothing wrong what so ever, the first time is never perfect, practice and you will soon get it right. Maybe she was tight and therefore it would have been hard for you to enter. Make sure you use lubrication and lots of it and make sure there is ... (read in full...)
I'm a picky eater! Should I see a doctor about this
Q. this isnt a relationship question but i would appriciate any advice you can provide me with i am a very picky eater i dont eat a lot of variety and rarely try new foods. I also eat quite little for a number of reseons; i have a busy schedule wi...
A. 30 October 2011: Maybe you could go for a health check just to make sure that you are healthy and you are not under weight or lacking in any nutrients. If you are you can always so on supplements for these nutrients. At the end of the day you cannot help your eating ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whats wrong, could I possibly be pregnant even though I'm on the needle?
Q. Uh, i have no clue how to put this. ill just try my best. Lately iv been feelings a bit weird. i feel like im going to vomit pretty much all day every day. I get full off like nothing pretty much, i pee millions of times. i havnt had sex sinc...
A. 30 October 2011: 7 Weeks? no that's not true, go out and buy a home pregnancy test. Is your period late? It could be just that you are run down and your immune system is low, it may not mean that you are pregnant, but if I where you I would get yourself tested for ... (read in full...)
He doesn't get in touch with me the way he was with is ex
Q. Hey, I was wondering if you could all give me some advise as im in aid of some :( Ive always had two main issues with my bf. Firstly, His EX and secondly when he texts me. But, Ill chat about the texts first as the ex will fit in... When i am with ...
A. 30 October 2011: Ok well as for the texts. Maybe he is busy with Uni work. Maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt if he is good to you in every other way. You have spoke to him so he knows how you feel, but if he is busy with Uni work well then he ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is addicted to online games
Q. I think my boyfriend is addicted to online games. He plays at least 8 hours a day, sometimes with his friends, sometimes with me, sometimes by himself. Right now it's mostly LoL and DoD. He used to play WoW but quit, only because he couldn't afford ...
A. 30 October 2011: If you are unhappy and there are no signs that he is trying to change his ways well then maybe it is best to go your separate ways. Long distance relationships are hard at the best of times never mind with all of this on top of it. So maybe it is ... (read in full...)
3 problems- money worries, my boyfriend who doesn't want to commit and my family who never visit or consider me!
Q. hi sorry.. this is abit of a long one! I have 3 problems.. money worries, my non-commital boyfriend and my family who never visit or consider me! I live in a small house with my 17 yr old son and am finding life very hard! I came out of a lo...
A. 30 October 2011: If your son is living with you well then he should be helping you out, get him motivated have him out looking for work. He needs to make a living for himself. So get him out looking for work so he can help you with the bills. This will take a little ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whats wrong, could I possibly be pregnant even though I'm on the needle?
Q. Uh, i have no clue how to put this. ill just try my best. Lately iv been feelings a bit weird. i feel like im going to vomit pretty much all day every day. I get full off like nothing pretty much, i pee millions of times. i havnt had sex sinc...
A. 30 October 2011: Yes there is always a chance that you could be pregnant, you mentioned that your ex's mother had all three children while on this so that should be enough proof for you, and if you knew this then it was silly not to use further protection and use ... (read in full...)
Why would a dumper complain to an ex about their current relationship?
Q. My mum's friend was married years ago. He retrained as a teacher and she put him through school. After he finished he dumped her out of the blue. No reason, just cut her off. She went to his parents house, but they slammed the door in her face. He ...
A. 30 October 2011: It sounds to me like he used your mums friend to get through school and then just dumped her as soon as he got what he wanted. Harsh and cruel yes but that's what it sounds like. He moved on with his life and got married and now that he married for ... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and get horny but don't want sex ever! Why!?
Q. I'm 24 yrs old and I have been with my girlfriend for a lil over 5 yrs.when we first got together I couldn't keep my hands off of her and it was the same for her with me.well for the past 2 yrs I haven't wanted to have sex. I get horny but I just ...
A. 30 October 2011: You are still young so losing your sex drive at this age is not normal. Not for two years any way. You are still getting horny which is a good sign, but there is obvious a mental block that is stopping you from wanting to have sex. The only option ... (read in full...)
Gf lied and decieved me however has alot of underlying issues, should I stay?
Q. my gf and i have gone through a very rough patch recently when i found out she had been lying to me for months and texting and talking with another man along with sending semi nude photos to him and telling the man she loved him and he her. i am not ...
A. 30 October 2011: I can understand that she has a lot of issues and my heart goes out to her it really does, but it still does not give her the right to treat you like this. To me it sounds like you have been the perfect support for her and you are helping her as ... (read in full...)
My friend likes me but I don't have the same feelings. Should I go out on one date with him?
Q. I'm sure this is gonna sound really pathetic and that the answer is obvious but here anyway. There's a guy who likes me I mean really likes me. We are friends so when he asked for I my number I thought nothing of it, he misinterpreted this that I ...
A. 30 October 2011: Going out with him on one date is not going to please him, in fact in it just going to hurt him even more. If you don't have any feelings for him and cannot see yourself dating him well then sometimes it is better to be cruel to be kind so just be ... (read in full...)
Anyone ever been told their friendship wasn't valuable?
Q. Has anyone here ever had the experience where a close friend (or partner or family member) tells them directly that they don't think their friendship is valuable? I've had a very a close friend of 8 years say she felt that our friendship was "no ...
A. 30 October 2011: I think you are looking in to this way to much. She was angry at you and she said what she said. At the time she was probably just feeling fed up and was asking herself was the friendship really worth it due to the argument. My guess is that you ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion about one night stands?
Q. What's your opinion on One Night Stands? Would you do it? Is it bad? I like one guy. We are just friends and he want to have sex with me. I'm confused. I don't know if I want to do it or not. I'm attracted towards him and I like him a lot. He is 23...
A. 30 October 2011: Everybody has different opinions on one night stands. But you say you like this guy and he wants to have sex with you. In my eyes this is not a safe path to go down. Because you have feelings for him and if you give in to him and he is only after ... (read in full...)
Is there a support group for my problem?
Q. I've recently read a post on your site about experiencing bad luck every time a person masturbates. I have also experienced the same problem and would like to know if there is a support group. I am not angry or anything I am just searching for ...
A. 30 October 2011: Maybe you should go and talk to a therapist about your problems, because it sounds to me like this is a physiological problem more than a known fact. Talking to someone may help you. ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure of his ex's intentions...
Q. i need some advice... ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are living with each other now. one problenm - hes friends with his ex.. well not really an ex, a girl he used to love but she had a boyfriend already while he was "friends" with ...
A. 30 October 2011: I guess this is where trust comes in to it. I can totally understand why this would make you feel uncomfortable. He tried to get with this girl for a long time, so yes it is normal for you to worry now about why she contacts him so much. I guess if ... (read in full...)
Bit of an anti climax...
Q. I met this lady at work, we got on really well together, then after 8 months she lost her husband, and i was there to help her through her bereavement. It started with just a comforting hug and a peck.. which continued almost every time we met, ...
A. 30 October 2011: It might be because in your head you know she lost her husband and you where there to comfort her and now you are feeling guilt somewhere deep inside. Go and have a health check to make sure everything is in working order. But I think this might be ... (read in full...)
Hould I get back with him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for the last 17 months. Just yesterday I broke up with him because I felt I didn't love him enough. He has always loved me like crazy. In fact he was the one to initiate the relationship in the first place. He ...
A. 30 October 2011: You keep mentioning that he loves you a lot. Which is great but you don't feel the same way for him. To me it sounds like he was a rebound from your other relationship. You cannot force yourself to love someone and the distance is going to make it ... (read in full...)
Do I need to change my actions? Being nice to socially awkard boys is making them think I like them when I don't at all!
Q. So, at school, I try to be nice to everybody and I hate hurting people's feelings. I never gossip or talk behind people's backs. When there is someone sitting alone, I sit with them. If someone looks sad, I smile at them. But these habits are ...
A. 30 October 2011: You just need to try and find a balance somewhere in the middle. I can understand that you are just trying to be a nice person, and am pretty sure that you are a nice person. But if a guy is used to getting no attention from someone and then you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is telling me she is being abused, what do I do?
Q. My girlfriend is telling me that she's being verbally and now psyically abused. What is the best thing to tell her or do?...
A. 30 October 2011: You don't state who it is that is abusing her? If it happens to be her parents, and they are physically hurting her well then tell her to go to the police so that she can be protected. Nobody has the right to hurt another human being. Be there for ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway I can reconnect with my husband and stop hurting him like I have?
Q. I'm in need of some serious help... I've cheated on my husband and he found me online yesterday on a site and seen some comments some guys have made. When my husband confronted me on it he said he wasn't mad about the site in general, but he was mad ...
A. 30 October 2011: There are plenty of ways to reconnect with your husband. First off you need to tackle the online problem. You want your marriage to work and the internet is just a distraction for you. It is time to remove it from your life. I know that this can be ... (read in full...)
I am afraid that if my boyfriend works with his old friend we will relive past issues!
Q. so this is it : my boyfriend of 6 years has put me through alot... but we have overcame and grown from these expierences,, and now we are expecting our first baby.. he has grown and changed (enough) but he is those types of people that have no will ...
A. 30 October 2011: As long as you have made it clear to him that you will not put up with anything now that there is a child involved then that should be enough. Off course it is natural for you to worry about this, it might not be healthy for him to be in so much ... (read in full...)
Do I pursue her even though I don't know if she likes me or start afresh with another girl?
Q. Ok so first off, I Really like this Girl, (We'll refer her tas Girl 1) But, I dont know if she likes me, she says she loves texting me and such, But she flirts with other guys and it sucks, Now on the other side, Theres this girl (Girl 2) that says ...
A. 30 October 2011: Only you know how you feel deep down, and if you are wanting to be with Girl 1 well then it is not fair on Girl 2 to get in to a relationship with her just in order to get over Girl 1. Because someone will get hurt. If you only see Girl 2 as a ... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 30 October 2011: It is clear he is a cheat, you have all of the evidence right in front of you. The Physics are just telling you what you want to hear and trying to make you believe something that you know deep down is not true. Follow your gut, you know deep down ... (read in full...)
My man will cheat on me tomorrow...What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is going to cheat on me tomorrow. What do i do? We are in a LDR. He came to see me last week. We went to a party together but sat apart because there were limited seats. I noticed a girl flirting with him but did not say anything ...
A. 29 October 2011: He doesn't love or care about you, he is planning on cheating with you and has no guilt at all. It's not even like it is a mistake because he knows exactly what he is doing. He is paying to bring her over to him, it sounds to me as if he likes her ... (read in full...)
Is he just trying to be kind but really wants nothing to do with me?
Q. So I have been seeing the love of my life for about a year and a half, we get along great, we have differences of course but never really fight and I thought things were good aside from the fact that he plays competitive baseball and we don't see ...
A. 29 October 2011: Really nobody can answer about how he feels only him. So am afraid nobody on here is going to have the answers that you are looking for. It is clear though from what you have wrote that he has just no time in his life at the moment for a girlfriend. ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals! Help...
Q. Hiya, i'm 18 and been at uni for about a month. As you can imagine its a bit wild with freshers getting to know each other and everyone generally letting lose a bit, exchanging numbers etc etc. Anyway I met this one guy in a club, we danced a bit bu...
A. 28 October 2011: It sounds like he does like you, I really don't feel like he is playing you, he just probably is a little hopeless and is unsure on what to do or how to go around things. Why don't you take the lead and ask him out. If there is somewhere you would ... (read in full...)
He has promised history won't repeat itself, but it is already!
Q. I am 43,very very un-happily married and have been suffering due to lack of true love since 1987 i.e. from the age of 19.....I met this guy on the internet about a year back who is 25 years old.....He asked me to be his Lady Valentine on the eve of ...
A. 28 October 2011: I agree with ' so very confused'. At the moment you are lonely with your life and you are using him to try and make yourself feel happy, but it is all in your head and it is all a fantasy to you. He is 25 almost half your age and he is using you. ... (read in full...)
Any favorite blow job techniques?
Q. Hey everyone, I want to make my question not only to help myself improve and grow on ideas for giving blow jobs and hand jobs but as well for all of you girls/guys that are wanting to expand on your awsome knowledge of blow jobs. Definetly there ...
A. 28 October 2011: Just so you are aware all guys like different things and different techniques. So one thing that could make a guy go wild and want more could possible do absolutely nothing for another guy. That's why it is always best to ask your partner what they ... (read in full...)
He seems weird sometimes. But I'm confused and cannot work him out. What should I do?
Q. someone please help, I really don't know what's going on right now. last year I liked this guy, we got along amazingly, a had a bit of a thing for him. to make a long story short, I found out through mutual friends that I wasn't his type (physica...
A. 28 October 2011: OK well going right back to last year when you had a crush on him you said mutual friends said you weren't his type. But did those words actually come from his mouth? If not well then I really wouldn't have took what they said and believed it. The ... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't think he has much time left and wants to see me married with kids, am I ready for this? Should I talk to my boyfriend?
Q. Please help and offer me your advice. What should or can I do? My dad spoke to me once about his death. He said he was afraid of never seeing his granchildren, really afraid. He said 'We don't make old blood' with a serious, sad face. (It means ...
A. 28 October 2011: If you feel that you are ready well then yes that is good, it is such a lovely story that your dad told you, and I am sure that it did touch your heart in many ways. But don't use it as pressure to get married straight away and have children. Have ... (read in full...)
How do I resume the conversation without seeming dull?
Q. i am a 16 year old dude, and i have a problem. its not anything too serious, but it bothers me so i figure it cant hurt to ask for some help. theres a girl at school who i dont really know, and who ive wanted to talk to since the first day of school ...
A. 28 October 2011: Well at the end of the day you should never try and be anyone but yourself. Be honest, if you pretend to be someone else you will need to keep up that pretence and that will never work. She needs to be interested in you in order for this to work. ... (read in full...)
When will I ever feel able to talk to women confidently?
Q. Has any guy ever been to my position;being a virgin and never dated any girl because insecurity,being scared of approaching or talking to girl you like,or even not knowing how tell her how you feel.This is something I just can't figure out how to ...
A. 28 October 2011: You have no confidence in yourself and you are over thinking everything. Before you even talk to a girl or ask her out, you start over analysing everything and thinking about what if's in your head and then you lose confidence and lose nerve and ... (read in full...)
I'm in a great relationship but don't want to be tied down! Why do my feelings always co-inflict?
Q. I'm kind of stuck and need some advice. I am in a relationship and have been for about 11 months. I really love her and I care for her a lot. We make each other happy and that's the most important thing in our relationship. So, the problem is... I ...
A. 28 October 2011: Ask yourself what it is you are missing out on being in this relationship? Is it purely just the fact that you want to mess around with other girls? Just think to yourself what can these other random girls have to offer that your girlfriend doesn't ... (read in full...)
We were getting along so well, and now I have heard nothing! To contact or not to contact?
Q. I need a little advice. I met a guy on a match making site, we both are newbies to the online dating. Initially, I did the contacting and he responded. I was intrigued by his responses. After a few messages, I didn't hear from him again. (we were ...
A. 28 October 2011: Well it could be a case that he has no access to his works email now I'm not sure how that works. But my guess is that if he was really serious about you well then he would make the effort to contact you. He may just be busy and hasn't been on the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got into a fight and is afraid she will let me down by not maintaing her self control. What should I do?
Q. Last night I was talking to my girlfriend about maintaining her self control (she got into a fight a few days ago and has also hurt a few other people in her past as well). She tells me that she's afraid she can't maintain her self control and that ...
A. 28 October 2011: If she has anger issues that are out of control and she is struggling with them, well then the best bet would be to send her to anger management or to a counsellor who can see where her problems are coming from. ... (read in full...)
He said he'd come over, I gave up, he then left a message. I ignored it. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hi I just started dating some one! He called me last night said he wanted to seeme before leaving town. His daughter called him and wanted him to come and see her before he left town. He ask me if he could come over when he got back from his ...
A. 28 October 2011: Well you never really gave him a chance to explain why he was so late. Obviously his daughter means a lot to him and he may have lost track of time, If it where me personally I would have asked him what had happened instead of ignoring him, I know ... (read in full...)
The baby mama of my husband is making our lives a living nightmare!
Q. Hi, Hope someone can help - i am going out of my mind. My husband of 17 yrs had an affair with a girl nearly half his age, bad enough but after he told me it was over he had to admit that she was pregnant. Now i am sure that in the beginning she di...
A. 28 October 2011: I am really sorry to hear that you have been caught up in this mess, but am afraid there really is not a lot that you can do here. Try and look at it from this girls perspective as well. She is only young and has been left as a single mother, she is ... (read in full...)
My teeth get in the way during bj's!
Q. How can I get better at blowjobs? I don't mind giving them my boyfriend says I,m good but he says My teeth get in the way. I understand where he's coming from but if i retracked its doesn't feel the same but if i don't I scratch his area. What do I ...
A. 28 October 2011: You just need to open your mouth wider and try and keep your teeth tucked in behind your lips. As the other post says practice makes perfect, so try different techniques until you get it right.... (read in full...)
Married man is trying to break the no contact rule
Q. I have cut off a friendship with a married man because we are both attracted to each other and we both realized it should not go any further. We have had no contact for two months now. It has been hard but in that time, I have been trying to move on ...
A. 28 October 2011: I guess he has giving up trying to stay away from you and he is wanting your attention back again. But if am honest with you the safest thing for you to do is to ignore him and carry on with your life. He is married and has a life of his own and he ... (read in full...)
I supported him before we married, now he won't support our child or myself...should I do this on my own?
Q. Dear cupid i need some advice on my marriage i usually have pretty good judgement when it comes to problems but in my marriage what seems like the right thing to do leaves me feeling not at ease and unwilling to give up. you see I've been married ...
A. 28 October 2011: I feel very sorry for you, it sounds to me like your husband is a very selfish man and has used you up until now, if he loved you like he said he does well then he would be doing everything in his power to want to spend some time with you and also ... (read in full...)
I think my night shift wages are inadequate
Q. Hey everyone, this isn't a relationship question, at all :s sorry, but I've gotten good advice on this site numerous times so I was wondering if I could ask peoples opinions on this please... I've recently started a new job doing an overnight shi...
A. 28 October 2011: Everyone is going to have different opinions on what they find acceptable. But you need to make up your own mind here if you are willing to work for this or not. It does seem very poor pay for the hours you are putting in, but yet my guess is that ... (read in full...)
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