Does this mean he likes me, or is it my imagination?
Q. There is a guy I like, but I don/t know if he likes me. He keeps walking towards me then going back to where he came from. Tries to show off lot. Got him staring at me. Then when he tries to talk to me, I answer, but then he walks away. Does this ...
A. 19 April 2012: It is really hard to tell what is going through his head to be honest. Teenage boys can sometimes be very confusing. He may like you or maybe he is just messing with you it really is hard to tell. Try and get to know him better. Why don't you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend talks too much, what do I do?
Q. My boyfriend is a really nice, genuine guy and everything is really good between us except one thing. He has this really annoying habit of interrupting me when I'm speaking. He has a very long-winded way of speaking and I always let him have his say ...
A. 19 April 2012: There is only one thing that you can do and that is talk to him about it, I know everything is still new and you don't want to bring this up with him, but you need to or else it will only drive you crazy. Don't make a huge deal of it, the next time ... (read in full...)
Does my sister need mental help?
Q. Hi everyone, just wanna thankyou for spending your time reading this. Not really sure where to start but im very worried about my little sister. My dad has brought me and her up by himself for the majority of our lives. My mum smoked and was on d...
A. 19 April 2012: I guess she is troubled, what her reasons are could be all sorts of things, more than likely it has stemmed from not having a mother figure in her life. Off course you and your dad must be so worried, but nobody can help her but herself. Have you ... (read in full...)
Should I appologise for these drunken antics?
Q. I was with my friend 'A' shopping in town after a catch-up over lunch. I had to go to the fancy dress shop as I needed to get a whistle for my costume for a night out at the weekend. When we came out, I saw this gorgeous guy and A admitted she knew ...
A. 19 April 2012: I think you should just leave it for now and see if he gets in contact with you. Yes you where drunk and you are feeling embarrassed now, but at the end of the day you never done anything wrong so you have nothing to apologise for. You showed that ... (read in full...)
I want him to ask me to be his girlfriend!
Q. This is a very long two part question... Please read it and help me.. Your help is greatly appreciated.. I've been dating this guy for about three months now.. I know he really likes me. I've dated my fair share of guys so I've gotten to the po...
A. 19 April 2012: Okay well dealing with your first question. It is possible that he has not asked you to be his girlfriend yet because of the start and how you made it clear that you did not want any commitment, since then he has told you he wants you to be his ... (read in full...)
Are we going too fast?
Q. This is going to sound really awkward so bare with me. Basically my best friend has been continually harassed throughout her relationship, having people tell her boyfriend she is cheating etc. One of the guys she was accused of cheating with is...
A. 19 April 2012: Everybody is different and treats relationships different, again people move at different paces. You need to stop worrying about what other people think, it is none of there business what you and him do. If you are questioning if the relationship is ... (read in full...)
How can I get an answer if my friend would like to be in a relationship with me?
Q. Dear agony aunts/uncles, I've fallen for my close/best friend and I don't know what to do. Since I was 13 I knew that I was attracted to males (some females too) and have had a few crushes before; but this time it feels so much more powerful. I...
A. 17 April 2012: I think you should just say to him straight out when you are both alone that you like him as more than a friend and see how he responds, if he says he is not interested then accept it and ask him not to talk to anybody about it because it took a lot ... (read in full...)
Do I leave it alone or tell him of my feelings?
Q. Okay so I'm fifteen and i have this friend thats 16 we have known each other since we were in pre-k together and never lost contact to this day we see each other pretty often and talk alot. He is my oldest and truest friend in the world, but lately ...
A. 17 April 2012: I think you both have feelings for each other, and you only live once so I would say go for it, I know you are worried that it might come between your friendship but again it could become so much more for both of you and I don't see why it would ... (read in full...)
Dumper ignores dumpee? Why?
Q. Hello. This is a strange situation. I got dumped. And, my reaction is obviously normal. I'm hurt. However, she asks to be my friend. I say "No!", and I tell her in the form of a comparison of "You're at a restaurant. You have 2 choices on the m...
A. 17 April 2012: Well its simple she offered friendship and you turned it down, so she is doing what you wanted now and ignoring you. It is as simple as that. It is what you wanted to move on now and forget about her. As for the car that goes by your house, there is ... (read in full...)
After b/f has been so wishy washy, I am moving back home. what would others do?
Q. hello everyone, i hope you're all well! first off, i moved in with my partner of 2 years last December and a month or so ago he said he wasnt sure about having a relationship and although it broke my heart i understand. so im now moving back home...
A. 17 April 2012: If it was me I don't think I would move home if it was going to make me so unhappy. Maybe I would until I was able to save up some money so I could afford to rent out my own place and have my own independence. I think you should write out goals and ... (read in full...)
How to move on when you've been played by a player?
Q. Ironically I've always tried to avoid these type of losers but I ended up falling for one who made his work rather well in making me fall in love with him. He has now discarded me for another one and he has even told in my face he never liked me but ...
A. 17 April 2012: It is always hard to get over someone who broke your trust and left you feeling used. It takes time to rebuild your confidence again. Take some time out being single, go out and enjoy yourself with friends, have an innocent flirt but nothing more. ... (read in full...)
How do I discuss with my fiance that he's looking at porn too much?
Q. I feel like my fiance looks at porn too much. he of course doesnt feel as if he does. it is starting to cause problems between us. i am not happy with the amount of sex we have, i'd like more. he says hes not in the mood as much as me but i just ...
A. 17 April 2012: There really is no easy way to go about this, you need to talk to him about it. At the end of the day it is your future you need to think about and am pretty sure you wouldn't want to be married to a man that prefers to watch porn than be with his ... (read in full...)
I think my wife is getting too friendly with her college friend. Am I over reacting?
Q. I don't consider it cheating, but I certainly think it's inappropriate behavior and my wife thinks otherwise. My wife and I are married for quite a few years. I (we) paid for her to go to college and when our kids started being in school all day s...
A. 17 April 2012: I don't think you should start looking in to getting her to change classes or to avoid him outside of the course because this will only cause an argument between the both of you. I don't think you are over reacting, it was a little to much to kiss ... (read in full...)
Is he acting normal for a sex buddy?
Q. I have had this sex buddy for several months and he seems to be more affectionate these days. The other day we had sex and he had to rush off and apologized a couple of times and said he would try to come back by to spend time with me. He asks me if ...
A. 17 April 2012: It can be normal yes, everyone behaves differently when they are in this position. A guy likes to feel that he has been missed so that explains why he would ask you that. He would not like to think of you with anybody else even if you and him are ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, so what does she want from me? Am I the back up guy?
Q. hi guys,after 4 years i meet a highschool friend(female) in my college. she got admitted newly. i know she has a bf,when i asked her, she admits it too. she started texting me,we become close now. during our school days, we never talk to each other. ...
A. 17 April 2012: I think you done the right thing, at the end of the day if she really wants to be with you then she would end things with her boyfriend so she could be with you. If she contacts you again and brings this up you need to be straight with her and tell ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my best friend to prom?
Q. How can I ask my best friend (We are both guys and know that each other is gay)(I also have had a crush on him for years) to prom? He asked me to a homecoming last year but had to cancel because of family issues. He use to go to my school but now he ...
A. 16 April 2012: You are thinking way to much in to this, think back to when he asked you to his home coming, how did he do it? I think you should just ring him and tell him your prom is coming up does he want to come along with you. As far as the ticket is ... (read in full...)
Seem to be getting mixed messages from her?
Q. I'm currently dating a lovely girl, we are getting along great, and have now kissed three times, quite long make out sessions, twice indoors, then this weekend in the forest where we went for a walk. Last week we discussed that she wasn't comfo...
A. 16 April 2012: I don't think there is a reason to be honest, she is just wanting to take things slow and wait until she is more comfortable with you. Just take your time with her, don't rush her in to anything, just take each date as it comes and see how it goes. ... (read in full...)
I've spent too much of my life on a guy who will never love me the way I love him
Q. {Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined} What should I say to him? I want to break up with him.? I was with my ex for 6 months. He was my 1st love. I loved him a lot and he told me he loved me too all his actions told me he l...
A. 14 April 2012: I am not sure what is happening in this guys life, but am not sure you should send that text in case he is actually suffering with depression, it may seem he is using it as an excuse, but depression can be a serious problem for a sufferer and if you ... (read in full...)
How do we get back to that old feeling?
Q. ok! where to begin. i've been seeing my boyfriend for 5 n half years. like every relationship we've had our ups n downs, nothin too major, just silly little things really. for the last 2 months something hasn't been right, i kept askin him what was ...
A. 14 April 2012: I think you need to inject the fun factor back in to the relationship. Yeah he has broke your trust but luckily he came clean to you. He may have took his time but he done the right thing and he wasn't a coward about it. It is a huge step buying a ... (read in full...)
My heart skips a beat when I think of him
Q. Hi, There's this guy that I'm really good friends with and that I really like! I've never felt this way before though...like, I've fancied other boys but whenever I think about him my heart literally skips a beat! Does this mean somethin...
A. 14 April 2012: It just means that you are attracted to him and that you like him. Don't read to much in to it, its natural at your age to feel 'butterflies' in your stomach over a guy. If you like him then you should tell him, or if you are not wanting to do that ... (read in full...)
We got close, spent the weekend together and 2 days later he texted me saying we shouldn't see each other!
Q. I being dating a this guy for 4 month last every was going great last friday we spent the day 2gether and he opened up to me we end up spending the weekend together everything was great until tuesday morning i get a message say i think we should ...
A. 14 April 2012: Is it possible that there is someone else? Maybe he let his guard down with you last weekend and now he has gotten scared and he does not want to commit to you. Have you asked him why the sudden change of heart?... (read in full...)
Friends with Benefits, confused and in love but no feedback
Q. we have been friends with benefits for a year, the agreement was not to sleep with anyone else, he is not ready for a relationship, during the time obviously we would get into a few arguments but it would cause me not to sleep with him, he did start ...
A. 14 April 2012: He ain't doing anything to you, at the end of the day he never committed to you, you both where only a booty call. Sleeping with him for a year does not mean that he is going to eventually want a relationship with you. If he did he would have done ... (read in full...)
I have a girl who likes me, but I don't feel happy about it. Why?
Q. HI everyone, I am back to here again asking for some help. This year I have moved into a new school and tried to move on from my past experience with a girl who was my best friend(at least from my point of view). But somehow I find it difficult to ...
A. 14 April 2012: You can only do your best, so don't try and be someone that you are not, being smart does not mean you will be liked, but trying to be someone you are not is not a good thing, it adds pressure and stress to you as a person and then you think back to ... (read in full...)
Did he mean it or was he just saying it?
Q. I was seeing this guy for 2 months and it ended a week ago- i ended it because he said he didn't know if he wanted a relationship anyway i text him on thursday and said i missed him. He text back saying 'aww, miss u too'. Did he mean it or was he ...
A. 14 April 2012: Well he has made it clear that he does not want a relationship, so really there is no point in you carrying on being with him if it is not going to become anything. Because to me it sounds like you want something more secure and stable and you are ... (read in full...)
My B/f has a secret female body builder fetish whereas I am skinny and the complete opposite of what he supposedly likes!
Q. my boyfriend of 4 years has a secret female body builder fetish. i found out when he left a website open on a computer in our house. i confronted him immediately since it made me really uncomfortable and made me question our relationship and his ...
A. 14 April 2012: I can see why you would feel worried and paranoid, I would feel the same way if it was my boyfriend. But I guess it is you that needs to make this decision weather to stay with him or not. It can be hard to deal with this. But he might be right, he ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to make new friends, please help!
Q. Hey, sorry but this will be long. I need some help. Okay so Im 17.. Normal teenage girl who has gone through all of the love, breakups, and backstabbing friends. It has definitely made me stronger. So I had this group of friends and a guy best fri...
A. 12 April 2012: You are right if they where true friends they wouldn't have done this, but they where just following everyone else, so it is there loss. Just try in small steps. At school try and talk to people, invite them to hang out with you and just see what ... (read in full...)
Should I tell people I'm gay? Or should I wait until I'm older?
Q. Hey all, I am 14 nearly 15 in may. I am gay but sometimes wish i wasn't. I hang around with girls at school and go twon with them. Some of my friends know am gay. But they are all girls what know. I could never tell my mate whos my best male mate I ...
A. 11 April 2012: If you feel you are ready to tell people then you should, this is up to you to make this decision. It is a big decision because not everyone might be supportive, I know that is horrible to say but it is things you need to be prepared for. Personally ... (read in full...)
Fooled around with my male friend, I don't know if he is straight, bi or gay! What should I say to him?
Q. Hey all. Il give a bit of background to the situation. I have this friend whos a lad, we relly close am gay and he doesn't know. I think he is gay but maybe bi. We're close hes the only male friend am really close to cus most of my mates are girls. ...
A. 11 April 2012: I am not sure if he is gay or not, nobody can answer that except for him, but it is clear that he is curious. Don't allow it to become awkward between the both of you. Tell him you still want to be friends, and just take it from there and see how it ... (read in full...)
I'm in desperate need of earning back my boyfriend's trust
Q. Well I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now, but there are so many guys that have been flirting with me ever since i started dating him. Now he is realizing that he has given me so many chances and doesn't know if he should now. I'm afraid of ...
A. 8 April 2012: If you have been flirting with other guys then yes off course his trust is going to be broken. You need to start earning your trust back by showing him that he is the only guy you want to be with, don't flirt with other guys, tell him and reassure ... (read in full...)
My transgender girlfriend has low self esteem. How can I help?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. When we first got together she informed me that at birth she had no sex, she believes that her parents chose the wrong sex. She is attracted to woman, she is more masculine, and does ...
A. 8 April 2012: Am afraid she can only help herself, all you can do is try to be there to support her and to listen to her and also to compliment her. Maybe she should go and talk to a professional because it sounds like she is very lost at the moment. So I think ... (read in full...)
Guys: How do you get ready in a small time frame to have sex again?
Q. hey guys..me and my g/f love sex..but once when i am done..she is lyk..i want more..lets do it again...i am nt telling that i am not satisfying her but..she njoys it a lot and wants more..but as we all know once we are done it takes some time for ...
A. 8 April 2012: Personally I think you can't force yourself to have sex again straight away your body needs some time, so just explain this to your girlfriend and tell her there is nothing that you can do.... (read in full...)
Why does he press on my bladder area during foreplay?
Q. Hi, My new partner likes to press down on my bladder area just above the bikini line during foreplay but this really makes me want to pee. Is there any reason why a man would like to do this? I'm so worried I will eventually pee on him but I als...
A. 8 April 2012: He probably just thinks it adds pleasure for you, which you say it does in one sense, but if it makes you feel uncomfortable just ask him not to.... (read in full...)
He wants me to meet his mother.
Q. Well Ive been seeing this israeli guy for 3 months now. Im not a religious person and he is secular too. Hes an engineer whos working for an american company and hes pretty much like just westners. Though he cares about his family very much and ...
A. 7 April 2012: Just be yourself, don't try and put on an act. He knows who you really are and I'm sure that is who he wants his mother to meet. Without knowing the woman am not sure what you could get her as a gift. Maybe ask your man for some ideas. It was not a ... (read in full...)
He wants me to meet his mother.
Q. Well Ive been seeing this israeli guy for 3 months now. Im not a religious person and he is secular too. Hes an engineer whos working for an american company and hes pretty much like just westners. Though he cares about his family very much and ...
A. 7 April 2012: Well it sounds serious enough to me when he is wanting you to meet his mother and she has bought you a gift, it sounds like it is moving in a serious direction, but if I am honest with you nobody can answer these questions that you are asking but ... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me because he doesn't see any future for our relationship
Q. hello.i m a grl of 18.i met a guy on fb.he is of24.i m an indian nd he is pakistani.we were initially good frnds.we chat daily on fb for hours nd hours.after somedays i came to know dat i love him nd cant live widout him.i was on his ...
A. 7 April 2012: you have never even met this man in real life, for all you know maybe he just wants a visa in to your country. You cannot say you love him when you do not even know him, your relationship has been based on technology, internet, phone calls ect. He ... (read in full...)
Does sex hurt a lot?
Q. my bf once told me that girls have a lot of pain while having sex for the first time.is it true? then why is it so? i never had sex. he told that u must be scared of marrying me, and he then told me that it is for just 1st night, other nights will ...
A. 7 April 2012: It can hurt a little yes because your hyman is getting broke for the first time. But after that you get used to it. You need to be comfortable and ready to have sex for the first time or else it will hurt loads. You need to be turned on by your ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, so what does she want from me? Am I the back up guy?
Q. hi guys,after 4 years i meet a highschool friend(female) in my college. she got admitted newly. i know she has a bf,when i asked her, she admits it too. she started texting me,we become close now. during our school days, we never talk to each other. ...
A. 6 April 2012: Your welcome.... (read in full...)
Finding 'the One'.....
Q. How can i find the 'right one'? Every time i speak to a guy, we meet up and text and speak over the phone and facebook, and then they just stop talking to me? this has happened a few times now and i'm tired of getting hurt. I just want to settle ...
A. 4 April 2012: Well what are you saying to them over facebook? It sounds to me like whatever you are saying they might think that oh my god you are going to control them so they back off, maybe you need to concentrate on yourself and what you want, it is obious it ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a coworker. What do I do?
Q. So I've been working with this girl for about 2 months and we never really talked a lot, but last Saturday, me, her, and another coworker hung out after work, and we were out until 3 am, just talking, walking around Walmart, and then we had Taco ...
A. 4 April 2012: I think you should tell her, There are big signs here that she wants to be with you, so you should go for it! There is nothing to lose so just ask her does she want to go out some time.... (read in full...)
My mum has put doubts into my mind about my boyfriend, how do I know for sure this relationship is right for me?
Q. Hi everyone, I was totally head over heels with my boyfriend, who is an art technician, until I started having stupid doubts yesterday, when my mum tells me everyone finds him boring and stupid, now I'm trying to kind of analyse him, and I know ...
A. 4 April 2012: He tells you he loves you? But do you love him?? At the end of the day it shouldnt matter to anyone else but you, if you have feelings for him, then ignore everyone else. He might be the right man for you, just see what happens, and dont prejudge ... (read in full...)
Minty tingles while giving head?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i've heard that if you chew gum while giving head or suck on a breath mint or something like that right before you do it, the mintiness will cause a kind of tingling sensation for the guy. what i want to know is, does it actually...
A. 4 April 2012: Yes it is safe, and with some guys if the mint is strong enough then yes it might add tingling, but that does not mean it works with everyone though, so I suggest you see what he wants. Also try the mint as well and see if there is any difference.... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, so what does she want from me? Am I the back up guy?
Q. hi guys,after 4 years i meet a highschool friend(female) in my college. she got admitted newly. i know she has a bf,when i asked her, she admits it too. she started texting me,we become close now. during our school days, we never talk to each other. ...
A. 4 April 2012: She has no right to be jealous at the end of the day she was the one in the relationship, now you are moving on and she does not like it. please try and move on from her and concentrate on your new relationship... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, so what does she want from me? Am I the back up guy?
Q. hi guys,after 4 years i meet a highschool friend(female) in my college. she got admitted newly. i know she has a bf,when i asked her, she admits it too. she started texting me,we become close now. during our school days, we never talk to each other. ...
A. 3 April 2012: It sounds to me like this started off as an innocent friendship and now it has became so much more. I guess the only person that can give you answers to these questions is her. I think she really enjoys talking to you through messages but I don't ... (read in full...)
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