I don't understand her, is she in or not?
Q. There's this girl in college, I used to see her, but she never noticed me until like a year ago, when our eyes met for the first time. After that I only saw her like 7-8 times (and she noticed me everytime) around 6 months ago when I started seeing ...
A. 2 May 2012: Maybe she is playing a game with you, maybe she is was just trying to get your attention so you could show her some attention. It could be possible that it is a game in her head to see if she can get any guy to fall for her.
I know you don't wa... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be this confused in the relationship?
Q. I'll try to make this as short as I can. I used to serial date like the best of them, I would go out with a guy for about a week, we'd sleep together and then I'd never speak to them again. I just started seeing this guy who's in the army and lo and ...
A. 27 April 2012: What is it you are scared of? If I am honest, he is being way to forward with you if you have only been seeing him a week, it is way to soon to be talking about moving in together and sharing bills and stuff. Things need to be taking slow, just ... (read in full...)
My friend is dating my ex. I want to hate her but I miss her!
Q. A couple of months back, one of my friends decided she wanted to be with my ex boyfriend as she had strong feelings for him (which i knew nothing about until it was too late) He and I had only just decided that we weren't going to stay in touch an...
A. 27 April 2012: Sometimes it is best to try and forgive. I can totally understand why you feel the way that you do, believe me I do, but maybe you should contact her and ask her to meet up and just ask her why she done it, maybe it might give you some closure if ... (read in full...)
I'm so hurt! B/f broke up with me by text from a phone I can't text or call back on!
Q. My boyfriend dumped me today and i am devastated!. I haven't stopped crying all day. He dumped me by a text message. It was very abrupt, and he didn't give an explanation. He didn't even dump me from his own phone. It was from a BT payphone. I ...
A. 27 April 2012: This might have something to do with his bipolar. I think you should contact him and ask him why he sent that message and see if he is willing to meet up and talk. I do agree it is a horrible thing for him to do. This needs closure before you can ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship but in love with my chiropractor
Q. Hi I'm 24 and I've been In a serious relationship for 3years with a 1 year old daughter. I love my fiancé but I'm no longer In love but I wouldn't leave him. The last 3 months I been have real strong feeling for my chiroprator...i think about him in ...
A. 27 April 2012: Why won't you leave your partner? If you are not in love with him any more then I think it is just cruel to him to stay with him. He deserves better than that, I understand you have a child together but it is no reason to stay with someone. You are ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to talk constantly to someone you're not interested in?
Q. I posted on here some time last week but didn't get any responses, so I'm going to try one more time. Maybe my question was too vague. I met this girl off a dating web site about a month and a half ago. She lives a good bit from me. A handful of...
A. 27 April 2012: I think she likes you, but as she said from the start she thought it was just going to be a bit of fun she adjusted to that. You both live away from each other so she probably just sees it as a bit of fun and she is not wanting to get in to anything ... (read in full...)
Should I not make a big deal out of what is on his facebook?
Q. dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been on-again-off-again with for a little over a year now. i love him more than i've ever loved anybody, and he never hesitates to tell me that he loves me, too. there have been a lot of times when thing...
A. 27 April 2012: Well there was nothing on the conversations that would make you think he was with any of these other girls is there? Maybe he has just put these settings up so that you don't get the wrong idea about these girls. It sounds to me like you both should ... (read in full...)
Advice for 2 friends who are having an affair with the same man?
Q. Advise on possibility of two close ladies friends to have full love affair with same person. Bearing in mind their minds that the same man have seduced both of them before and they kmow....
A. 27 April 2012: Are they both friends and do they both know that each of them are seeing the same man? If they do then I think you should just stay out of it and let them make there own mistakes. If they do not know about the other then sit down with the both of ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had violent ex and she slapped me last night. Is she into that?
Q. I have a wonderful girlfriend- we get along super well and even though we have disagrements, we never fight and have a great chemistry. A few years ago, she came out of a bad relationship where the guy she was with would insult her, call her 's...
A. 27 April 2012: I think you just need to take her word for it. She probably just done it playfully without even thinking about it and then it upset her. If it happens again then there might be an issue if you feel that strongly about it, but I think for now you ... (read in full...)
What is going on with my kinda sorta friend and nearly prom date?
Q. Prom is in a couple months. My principal likes to playfully set up single students so without permission from either of us, he asked my kinda sorta friend and I if we'd like to go to prom together. And I was just like okay sure, we can go a...
A. 27 April 2012: Did it ever occur to you that maybe your friend was out to cause trouble? Did you actually ask him straight out was it true or did you just go and cancel on him. It sounds like he is hurt, and you never heard him say he wanted to go with this other ... (read in full...)
Is she just being friendly, or is she trying to hint at something?
Q. There was this girl in my classes (both lecture and lab), well, from what I know there's not really a strong vibe between us (from my end anyway). We sat across from each other in our group of 4 in lab (I'm the only guy in the group by the way...
A. 27 April 2012: Well it sounds like she just likes talking about herself. Am not sure if there is a hidden agenda here, as she keeps saying she is in a relationship. Maybe she is trying to see if you like her so she says this to see how you are going to respond. ... (read in full...)
Any ideas for reducing swelling after kissing?
Q. Okay so I'm going to get to the point. Me and my boyfriend like to be a tad rough when we kiss, so it's to be expected for me to have clown lips within a few minutes of making out. Does anyone know anything to make the swelling go down? I would love ...
A. 27 April 2012: Just use some ice afterwards to see if that helps. If not then am not sure there is any miracle cure. Maybe you just need to stop being as rough. ... (read in full...)
We are not struggling financially but he threatened to divorce me over spending $10!
Q. I've fallen ill lately, and I'm not just talking about the flu or something like that. I had a major surgery that came with the possibility of death. It's now been about a year, and I've been on bed rest for about 6 months after my surgery and now ...
A. 27 April 2012: I don't think it was to do with the $10 at all. My guess is that he is stressed out with other issues and he has been holding them in and then he made a huge fuss over this. If he has calmed down now, sit down and talk to him, ask him what it was ... (read in full...)
I don't understand her, is she in or not?
Q. There's this girl in college, I used to see her, but she never noticed me until like a year ago, when our eyes met for the first time. After that I only saw her like 7-8 times (and she noticed me everytime) around 6 months ago when I started seeing ...
A. 26 April 2012: If I am honest with you it sounds to me like she is not interested, if she was she would have replied long before now. As for her saying she is not with someone I think that was just because you had told her you heard she was and she was just ... (read in full...)
Need help with premature ejaculation when masturbating is difficult
Q. Hi, I suffer from premature ejaculation and hence find sex a bit crap. My wife and I are very stressed out with work/non sleeping kids/studies and we get to make love max once a week. However, I find it an anti climax as I only last so long in...
A. 26 April 2012: I think the best method to keep practising is to keep stopping and starting, I know it can take up some energy but it is the best way for a better outcome. When having sex try not to worry or stress about ejaculating quick, also try put your mind on ... (read in full...)
My family still thinks I'm a jerk, but I've changed!
Q. When I was a young teenager (14-16) i was a major jerk and caused alot of grief and problems for my family. Since then I have gotten several major reality checks and I've gotten better. But the problem is that my family still doesnt trust me, this ...
A. 26 April 2012: It can take a long time to rebuild trust in a family. You don't really say what exactly it was you done to them. But these things can take time. Maybe you are looking in to slight little things as well and over reacting. Maybe they don't even ... (read in full...)
Stressing about the friends I've made at school! How do I stop this?
Q. I have just started high school and for the first time in my life have had to make new friends. I have never done this before and now I have a couple of friends, but I still can't stop stressing about them. I constantly fear that they're all goin...
A. 26 April 2012: This is all part of growing up and joining high school. There is no point me telling you not to worry because you are going to anyway. But I think you should just take a day at a time. Remain friendly and upbeat, don't be horrible to any of them or ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? If he does, how can I make him ask me out?
Q. ok there is this guy in my dorm who lives next to me and he is really cute. sometimes when I am alone (I have a roomie) he comes over to watch TV and chat, we always smile at each other, also he liked a pic of me on Facebook (although he isn't very ...
A. 26 April 2012: I think it looks like he might like you, but it is still early days so don't rush anything. Just show him that you enjoy his company and flirt with him a little. Give it some time, just get to know each other and have fun and it will naturally ... (read in full...)
I know the cheating is wrong, but I don't know how to stop
Q. i am married for almost 2 years with the man i really love and spend the rest of my life with. as time goes by, i felt rejected to him everytime i want to have sex with him. either he is tired from work and he has a habit of having a hard time to ...
A. 26 April 2012: You just need to stop seeing each other and delete all contact details and work on your marriage. If you don't do this then you will probably lose your husband and him and you will be left alone. Sex is only a part of a relationship. Just because ... (read in full...)
Tired of listening to my father constantly complain
Q. I'm feeling so worn out by my father. He calls often, to carry on endless monologues and talk about himself, or his concerns. He barely knows what goes on in my life, because he doesn't ask, and he doesn't really care to know. On several occasions I ...
A. 26 April 2012: Are you wanting him completely out of your life? If you do then change your number. If not then I think you need to tell him how you feel. Have you actually told him you are tired of him complaining and always talking about himself. You just need to ... (read in full...)
I'm so horny but I plan on keeping my virginity until marriage with my LDR!
Q. I m a virgin and i decided to stay virgin ntil marriage and my bf respects that. im 20 btw and he s 25. we live really far from each other, we only talk on the phone and we videochat everyday. the thing is sometimes i feel so hornyyy and whenever ...
A. 25 April 2012: Well talk to him and tell him how you feel. Am sure you both can have fun together over the phone or web. Teasing each other can add a bit of spice in to the relationship, especially because you don't see each other that much. Tell him although you ... (read in full...)
He wants to go on a holiday to meet other people, I don't think I will enjoy this as we are travelling as a couple!
Q. I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm in the singapore, he's in the united kingdom. We've been together for over 8 months and we talked on skype everyday on the phone. recently he just got went here to have holiday with me over a month we enjoy ...
A. 25 April 2012: He probably just likes meeting new people on holidays. I can see what you mean you just want to spend time with him and you feel you both don't need to meet new people. But as long as he is not trying to meet other woman then making new friends, and ... (read in full...)
Does my guy friend have feelings for me?
Q. I have a really close guy friend for about 2 years now, we have a lot in common and we talk just about everything. I treat him just as a close friend and I have always been open to him about any topic, when he needs someone to talk to, I'd be the ...
A. 25 April 2012: I think he is pushing you as far as he can to see if he can get a sexual conversation out of you. He may not take this a step further and want to be physical with you. But it sounds to me like he has fun trying to get you to flirt with him. It ... (read in full...)
How do I approach my man's hygiene issues tactfully?
Q. This is so embarrassing, but I need to find a really tactful way and the right words as to not embarrass my man. His toilet hygeine is horrible!!! There are constantly "skid marks" and not faint mind you, as if he didn't wipe like a kid skid ...
A. 25 April 2012: I am not sure how you can handle this without offending him if I am honest. Maybe he does have a bowel problem who knows. If it is left to you to clean the toilet every day well then just ask him to clean it as well. Instead of bringing it up that ... (read in full...)
Why is it that he is super playful with every other girl but me?
Q. He a trainer at the gym I go to and the girl also works there.. I also go to the class he teaches and when I'm around he I feel I put the wall up and end up pushing him away? How could I change that... Have I lost my chance? He seems mad when he ...
A. 25 April 2012: It could be a case that he likes you. It can be hard to tell from your post alone. But you say you pushed him away at the start therefore that is probably the reason he keeps his distance from you now. Why not flirt with him a little and see how he ... (read in full...)
Will I ever love so strongly again?
Q. I was doing so well. Not thinking about her as much as I used to. Not remembering the happy times we spent together. I tried my hardest to blot out all of the memories from the best parts of my past. I kept myself active. I worked out, ate healthy ...
A. 24 April 2012: You blocked everything out, faked to people that you where happy so yes it is going to come back on you every now and then, you can't block out three years off your life. It is okay to feel sad about it and remember how things used to be. You need ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to tell him I don't trust him on his holiday?
Q. I don't trust my boyfriend to go on a lads holiday with his 2 mates (one who is single and the other who is taken but has the mind of a single boy) because my boyfriend lied to me and cheated on me 2 years ago (hasn't done anything since). Am I ...
A. 24 April 2012: The trust was obviously broken two years ago, and I believe once it is gone you can never get it fully back, course you can tell him but he might not be to happy about it. But you need to be honest to yourself in a relationship so its best to be ... (read in full...)
What is my boyfriend's stepmom's problem?
Q. Ok I known my bf for almost four years and we have been together for 6 months and I was pretty good with his peoples until we started getting serious. We are both 21, in college and still live with our parents so I pretty much feel like our ...
A. 24 April 2012: I don't think she has a problem with you at all, it is he she has the problem with, and I feel sorry for him that he feels he needs to deal with this, but he is an adult now so he should start think about alternative arrangements. Tell him to speak ... (read in full...)
She has a new boyfriend. What do I do?
Q. Ok so Ive dated a girl on and off for almost six years. We were really in love, my niece was even named after her (crazy i know) of course we had ups and downs. This time she broke it off over some issues we had, she wanted me to leave her alone. A...
A. 24 April 2012: It does sound like yes she was trying to hurt you and make you jealous, but again your timing for texting her was not very good because she had just got in to a new relationship so in her head she probably thinks it took her to get another man ... (read in full...)
Has anyone felt like they are under a dark cloud? I need some light at the end of the tunnel!
Q. Hello to who is reading this. All I can say is I'm just wanting to know if anyone is going through or has gone through this. I feel like I'm under a serious dark cloud right now, I'm NOT one to feel sorry for myself which I don't, but right now th...
A. 24 April 2012: It can be hard to have a positive outcome when things start to go wrong. It can be very hard to over come stress but the only thing that you can do is try and get your attitude back again. I am sorry that your parents are having a hard time at the ... (read in full...)
I cannot get over the girl I was once in love with
Q. I was once in love with this girl. A girl I never got a chance to date but I swear I was in love. 3 years later I havent heard or talked to her I have had gf since but to this day I cannot get over her. No matter how hard I try the thoughts of ...
A. 24 April 2012: I think it is the desire of the unknown that gets you. You have never been with this girl but am sure you have built up a perfect picture of what it could have been like being with her and it is this idea that you cannot get over. If you feel that ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my ex's brother
Q. I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I ...
A. 24 April 2012: This is a really hard situation that you have got yourself in to. But I guess there are only two ways to get out of this. Either sit down and talk to his brother and tell him how you feel about him and see what he has to say, you may be surprised ... (read in full...)
My relationship seems to be coming to an end, but there is a new guy at work complicating things! What should I do so this doesn't end up becoming a huge mess?
Q. I need help. Last February, I was assigned to this high level project at work. I met a young executive from another company who's one of the prime movers of the project. Since the start, we share the same energy and outlook. We seem to have this ...
A. 24 April 2012: I think you know deep down that your current relationship is over, maybe this other man has made you see that or maybe you have knowing for a long time but you just didn't want to accept it. I guess the best thing that you can do for yourself is to ... (read in full...)
How do I become more confident?
Q. I am in my last year of school. deep down, I know I can be a confident person. I want to be a confident person from the great deal of positive affirmation I've recieved from others. I have not found being confident with people easy for the mos...
A. 24 April 2012: You know yourself that people tease you because they no that it gets to you, that you are an easy target. You need to stop worrying about what others think of you. As long as you know that you are a good person that is all that should matter. Sit ... (read in full...)
I'm lonely with no friends, no boyfriend no job. Help!
Q. Never felt so lonely. No good friend, no boyfriends, too many restrictions to have fun. Life's a mess. No money to spend to have fun. No job because you need to be 18 to get a job here. Need help. ...
A. 21 April 2012: Talk to your family and tell them how you are feeling. Why is it that you have no friends? Why not try and see if you can join some free club or pick up some hobbies where you can meet new people and make new friends. I know it can be easy to get ... (read in full...)
I want to meet but he's playing hard to get. Should I forget it?
Q. I met a guy online, we have been talking via text for about the last 6 weeks. I usually initiate the conversations. We chatted every day to start with now I tend to leave it to every few days. Our conversations are really good (fun and very slightly ...
A. 21 April 2012: To be honest it sounds to me like he is not interested in meeting with you. Am sure he enjoys the conversations that you both have but I think that might be as far as it goes. The worst thing about meeting someone over the internet is that for all ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about my religion if he asks me?
Q. There is this one guy that really likes me, but I'm nervous about him finding out about my religion. I'm not saying I would date someone who would let something like that get in the way of things or bother him. I still can't rid of the butterflies ...
A. 21 April 2012: I think you should always be honest to yourself and to others, so if he asks then tell him, if he has a problem with it, then it is his problem and you are better off without him.... (read in full...)
I broke up with my ex because he's clingy. Should I leave it at that?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend like two days ago , because he's very clingy . I Love him alot , but sometimes i feel like i need my space . Nobody wants to see me with him , but i care about him alot . There's another a guy in the picture that i do ...
A. 21 April 2012: Well did you talk to your ex and tell him how you felt? Did you give him a chance to change? If not then sit down with him and tell him that sometimes you just need space and you feel he can be to clingy, maybe give him another chance if he agrees ... (read in full...)
How do I meet people like me?
Q. im a boy-not gay(upto now at least!) but i really want to be forced to act/dress as a pretty girl(not become a real girl) but i dont know how to meet and chat with like minded people?-i dont want to meet anyone,till ive got to know the...
A. 21 April 2012: It can be hard to figure out who shares the same interests as you, is it guys you are interested in or girls? If it is guys maybe there is a group in your area that helps gay men deal with there feelings, search in to it. If not then I guess you ... (read in full...)
My wife says I need to calm down but sex is always on my mind!
Q. I recently turned 46 and have had alot of sex on my mind. not only the act, but pics and videos to help me get off. My wife says Im too horny and need to calm down but I cant help it. I even watch porn with a buddy of mine to relieve the tention but ...
A. 21 April 2012: It is just a case that you have a higher sex drive than her at the moment. This can cause difficulties in a relationship, my best advice would just be to sit down with her and talk about it and come to some sort of agreement that suits the both of ... (read in full...)
I found someone I could open up to but think I ruined our chance
Q. so i've got a bit an issue when it comes to committment and opening myself up. in fact, a bit is a drastic understatement. i'm really good at having short-term, meaningless strings of relationships. and if i find someone who remotely interests me, i ...
A. 21 April 2012: I think the feeling is mutual with her, my guess is she has been trying to be with you since the moment you both agreed to this arrangement. But she probably gave up hope and just accepted that you would never want to be with her in a relationship ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he likes me, or is it my imagination?
Q. There is a guy I like, but I don/t know if he likes me. He keeps walking towards me then going back to where he came from. Tries to show off lot. Got him staring at me. Then when he tries to talk to me, I answer, but then he walks away. Does this ...
A. 19 April 2012: It is really hard to tell what is going through his head to be honest. Teenage boys can sometimes be very confusing. He may like you or maybe he is just messing with you it really is hard to tell. Try and get to know him better. Why don't you ... (read in full...)
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