I like him, he's obviously not in it for sex, so what's up?
Q. Hi! I need some advice about a guy I like, or am possibly in love with. I'm going to warn you, this might end up longer than expected... We're classmates, he is nice, kind, funny, smart a bit silly sometimes. There is only one problem..he seems to...
A. 19 May 2012: To be honest no I don't think it is worth a shot at all. I clearly think he sees you as a challenge, he wants to have sex with you but you are holding it from him, so he sees it as his mission to get what he wants. He is not looking for commitment, ... (read in full...)
No experience with dating -- what's the best way to approach girls?
Q. I have no experience with dating and guess I want some answers so I can start crawling rather than running before I can walk. How should I approach girls with the intention of dating them (whether they are in a pub/club or casual setting)? Does r...
A. 19 May 2012: Everybody faces rejection when it comes to dating, the secret is just not to take it personal, tell yourself it is there loss and move on. the only thing to do is to remain positive and tell yourself well they are not the person for you.
I gue... (read in full...)
I'm panicking because I'm 29 and still single
Q. Im panicking because Im almost 29 and still single. I have a 2 year old son but no longer with his father. I have very brief relationships with guys as they all seem to be wrong for me or treat me bad. I met a really nice guy a few weeks ago and we ...
A. 19 May 2012: You know what honey I know plenty of people at your age who are still single. You need to stop thinking you are going to go out of date and need to settle down straight away and start enjoying life. At the end of the day you are going to scare every ... (read in full...)
Death in my husband's family will make them all drink and I don't want to be around it! What do I do?
Q. My husband has death in his family, and my heart goes out to the family but I really dont want to be around them cause all they do is drink, I mean really, if im in mourning I wouldnt be drinking and getting drunk, and he has the nerve to get mad at ...
A. 18 May 2012: I can see why this issue is coming in between you both, at the end of the day he needs to be a man about this and if his family call him immature names then he just needs to ignore them. If they want to get drunk then good for them let them do that, ... (read in full...)
How can I get a cougar woman? This is a personal choice of mine, and I wish to get me a relationship with one.
Q. Hi, everyone. I have a specific goal that I wish to acheive. I'm in my early 20's, I still am a virgin, I STILL don't know what a kiss feels like, etc. So, I figure, to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, I should get together with a cougar. However,...
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Is he just making excuses? Or is there something I can do to make this work?
Q. I met this guy while I was looking for no one {still burnt after the last one}- we were both waiting to take an exam at our Uni, he started talking to me and we got along well, so he left me his email. For the following couple of months, we wrote ...
A. 18 May 2012: If I am honest with you it does sound to me like he is telling the truth and that he does like you. I guess he wants a girl that he can just see any time that he likes and doesn't need to plan it out and rely on other people. If I am honest with you ... (read in full...)
Tried dating him again but get the sense that not much has changed
Q. Hello, and thank you. I dated a guy 3 yrs back we dated for 1 year. We had a lot of fun together. He's funny, charming, and communicates well, not to mention we had great chemistry. I began having some deep feelings towards him, and was leaning ...
A. 18 May 2012: It sounds to me like you might be right. I have knowing many guys like this. I don't think any thing has changed with this man and I don't think it will any time soon. My guess is that he does like you, and yes he might be busy but you are right it ... (read in full...)
Death in my husband's family will make them all drink and I don't want to be around it! What do I do?
Q. My husband has death in his family, and my heart goes out to the family but I really dont want to be around them cause all they do is drink, I mean really, if im in mourning I wouldnt be drinking and getting drunk, and he has the nerve to get mad at ...
A. 18 May 2012: OP you should have mentioned in your original post that he becomes violent through drink so that we could give you the proper advice. You should always have all the facts wrote down. You are right in a sense that you wouldn't want to be around him ... (read in full...)
My fiance is greiving - will our relationship survive?
Q. Hi. My fiancee and I have been together for about a year and a half and became engaged three months ago. We planned to get married six months from now, in the fall and were excited about making a life together. One month ago, not long afte...
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Is it me? Is it all his stress? Why couldn't he get hard and why haven't I heard from him since then?
Q. I've been having this affair with a married man for 8years..he also has another girl on the side that he has gotten pregnant twice..I believe his wife is leaving him and he is under some stree..we have sex at least once a week..lately it's been like ...
A. 18 May 2012: The answer to your questions, he doesn't love you, if he did he wouldn't have treated you the way he has for the last five years, he is a player, he probably tells his wife and his pregnant other bit on the side that he loves them as well. He ... (read in full...)
Death in my husband's family will make them all drink and I don't want to be around it! What do I do?
Q. My husband has death in his family, and my heart goes out to the family but I really dont want to be around them cause all they do is drink, I mean really, if im in mourning I wouldnt be drinking and getting drunk, and he has the nerve to get mad at ...
A. 18 May 2012: I completely agree with person12345. At the end of the day, everyone handles grieving in different ways. So if his family want to go out and get drunk then that is up to them. I can understand that you don't like to be around alcohol, but at the end ... (read in full...)
Will my relationship with my fiance survive?
Q. Hi. My fiancee and I have been together for about a year and a half and became engaged three months ago. We planned to get married six months from now, in the fall and were getting excited about making a life together. One month ago, not long af...
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How do I find a man for me?
Q. How do I find a man for me? I'm so sick of men coming in my face asking me for "sum"! It seems that they are all stupid!!sometimes i feel like falling for it just to see would it turn into a relationship and never do!I don't like dating websites i ...
A. 18 May 2012: Some dating sights are okay, as long as you agree to meet in a very public place. At the end of the day most of us get hit on by these men that are just looking for sex. But if you give in to it, you will only be setting yourself a reputation and it ... (read in full...)
What can I do to finally make my boyfriend see that he needs to take some responsibility!
Q. Help! What can I do to finally make my boyfriend see that he needs to take some responsibility! I have tried everything He works part-time, Between 3 and 4 days a week. I work part-time as well, but over 5 days. I start housework as soon as I get ...
A. 18 May 2012: If he just laughs at you when you are trying to have a serious talk with him about sharing the house work then I think the only thing left to do is to teach him a lesson, and if you start that lesson you need to remain strong and not cave in to him. ... (read in full...)
What have been your experiences with bad partners.
Q. I'm terrible in the sack! But this wasn't always the case. As a matter of fact, the first girl that I lost it too always loved our "encounters". To this day she says I am still the best she's had. And at the time she was my first, but I was ...
A. 18 May 2012: I don't think you are BAD in bed, I just think that everybody has different experiences with different partners. You and your ex didn't seem to have a good sex life, this does not make you bad in bed, it just means that you both didn't connect ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel what I should be feeling for my lovely boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, okay so just going to jump straight in to this... Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and he is genuinely the nicest, kindest, most thoughtful person I have ever met, he treats me better than anybody ever has...
A. 17 May 2012: Sometimes relationships just run there course and there is nothing we can do about it, at the end of the day we cannot help how we feel. If it is getting to you that much then try and put some distance between you both. Make sure you spend time on ... (read in full...)
Does it seem like he likes me? How do I get his number? And how do I show him I like him without telling him?
Q. Helloo :) my crush is in the year above of me. We only talk in person (which I prefer to be honest) Because he is in the year above, he is in none of my lessons, however we walk home together sometimes. He flirts with me alot, he is playful like ...
A. 17 May 2012: 1) Yes it does sound like he likes you a lot, my guess is that he is the same as you and he just does not know how to ask you out or how to take your friendship to the next level. Am sure at your age this is all new to the both of you, so sometimes ... (read in full...)
He had my first name and last name as a status on Facebook, did this mean anything?
Q. Ive been thinking about this for a long time now and maybe I'm over analyzing this but just wanted to get someones point of view. So a few months ago I was at school and I was with a group of people talking and laughing and I made some new friends. ...
A. 17 May 2012: Am guessing that it was a mistake as well, maybe he was searching for you to add you as a friend and he typed it in the wrong place, it easily happens.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he still has feelings for me?
Q. hi, my ex broke up with me 5 years ago. we had a argument after we spilt up and havent spoken since, but when ever i see them or the way they acted around me i get very mixed messages so dont no how they really feel about me. can u tell me how to ...
A. 17 May 2012: The only way to ever truly know is to talk to him and ask him. ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with such a betrayal?
Q. I feel in great despair. recently a friend used me badly and lied to me a lot. my work colleagues have also seen him for his true colurs but im sure theres something wrong with me because he done such a good job of lying and deceitfulness. i have ...
A. 17 May 2012: Believe me there is nothing wrong with you, so do not be blaming yourself in anyway. People who are like this are very good at hiding who they truly are and they can put on a good act just to get what they want. You are the victim here, it doesn't ... (read in full...)
Is he only settling for me until he gets his ex back, or finds someone better?
Q. Hello,I have a problem which I'm sure many women will know what I'm going on about. Here goes.. My partner was with someone for 13 year(they got togther young) had a child,I was with my sons dad for 8 year,anyway thing is I can truly say I didn't ...
A. 17 May 2012: This is a tricky one. She was a big part of his life so her name coming up in conversations is going to happen. However the way he treats you and compares you to her is completely wrong, even if they where said in the heat of an argument it is still ... (read in full...)
Surely if he was interested he would at least text me once a week? Or is this just his way of taking things slow?
Q. I am really confused. I am gay and I have been seeing this guy off and on since February. We hung out every weekend in February and then he said he needed some time to concentrate with college work (which I definitely understand due to the ...
A. 17 May 2012: If am honest with you, it does sound like he wants to keep things slow. Maybe he has been hurt badly in the past so for now he is not wanting to get in to anything serious. Allow him to make the arrangements next time, and when you see him just be ... (read in full...)
How could you tell a girl is gay?
Q. Hi there, Okay, i've been working with a client and that girl is managing that campaign. We've had one meeting and one time speaking on the phone. She's so lovely. Well i'm a girl and i consider myself straight who has dated only guys. But i do f...
A. 17 May 2012: I really don't think there is any way off telling if someone is straight or not. I think the only way to find out about this girl is to talk to her more and get to know her. Once your work has finished with her just talk to her and ask her would she ... (read in full...)
Told my guy friend I like him. He only likes me as a friend but is jealous of my new guy friend. Why?
Q. Hi guys. Can you all tell me why a guy who has a girlfriend is jealous that I am going out with another guy? We have been really good friends for a long time. I developed feelings for him and told him how I felt. He told me he was seeing s...
A. 17 May 2012: My guess is that maybe he thinks you have replaced him as a friend??? Maybe he thinks that since he turned you down and this new guy is not your boyfriend that you are just replacing his friendship. Have you spoke to him about this? Is your ... (read in full...)
Is it me? Is it all his stress? Why couldn't he get hard and why haven't I heard from him since then?
Q. I've been having this affair with a married man for 8years..he also has another girl on the side that he has gotten pregnant twice..I believe his wife is leaving him and he is under some stree..we have sex at least once a week..lately it's been like ...
A. 17 May 2012: I doubt that it is you, at the end of the day he only meets with you to have sex that is about it, so if he couldn't get hard then maybe his concious is finally getting to him about how he is treating his wife like dirt and how he has ruined some ... (read in full...)
My exboyfriend won't talk to me because of this bad rumour!
Q. i am an 18 year old teenager whom was dating an 18 year old boy in my school...we have been dating for 5 months and fighting alot but that has not stopped me from loving him,he tried breaking up with me 3times until we decided to let go and be ...
A. 17 May 2012: If he does not believe you then he is not worth your time. He may be angry but at the end of the day if he was mature about all of this he wouldn't have listened to these rumours he would have went up and asked you for your side of the story, but he ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not getting a fair chance to be her husband.
Q. My wife and I got married in No. of 2011 and recently bought our first house. Life is good. However recently Ive felt that things have changed with her. Im 31, shes 27, weve been together almost 3 years (we met in college but didnt get together till ...
A. 17 May 2012: I do feel for you, really I do, but my guess is that she did not want her new life as a newly wed to start like this either. She is really close to her mother which is great, and she is probably really stressed out and worried about her mother as ... (read in full...)
I really want our kids to have my last name!
Q. I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is ...
A. 17 May 2012: Maybe she does not see you both lasting in the future, so she wants your children to have a back up name just in case you both don't last in the relationship. I guess you need to compromise and just accept that if you are both to have children then ... (read in full...)
Ex Boyfriend wants to be friends after mother dies....is there hope? Or this is the end?
Q. ....We met when he was going through a devorce...5 years ago.it was amazing and magical....i didnt open up to him too much due to past relationships...i wanted to know if he was worth me doing so...i was not ready for a relationship....he was ...
A. 17 May 2012: I think you know the answer to this one yourself. I think he went through a hard time losing his mother, and he has decided he never wants to have to go through that again by falling in love with a woman. If it was only a couple of months after this ... (read in full...)
I really want our kids to have my last name!
Q. I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is ...
A. 16 May 2012: Well if she is going to take up your name when she gets married, I do find it strange that when you do have children they will have a different name to there mum and dad. To be honest I think you are both thinking way to far ahead. I understand it ... (read in full...)
I want to know is it a good sign he still wants to get married?
Q. Just want some thoughts on my situation. I have been in a serious relationship with my guy for 6 months, serious meaning we both want long term and to eventually move in, etc. We are both in our 40s and had previous relationships. A month ago we...
A. 16 May 2012: Just because you both had an argument does not mean that everything to do with the engagement should be called off. If you are going to worry about that every time you both argue then that is no good. You need to communicate with him, talk to him, ... (read in full...)
How can I keep my relationship with my boyfriend exciting?
Q. How can i keep my relationship with my boyfriend exciting? We get along great! Weve now been together 7 years and would love to move in together but at the moment need to wait for me to finish my studies which is another 18 months ish as at the ...
A. 16 May 2012: There are plenty of things that can be done on a low budget, organise romantic nights in, light some candles, watch a movie. Play some games. Go for walks in scenic areas. Go for picnics. Maybe go for a drink now and again and be social. It can be ... (read in full...)
He's been having problems getting hard!
Q. Hi, I've been with my husband for 8 yeras now, and lately he's been having problems getting hard, he tried some naturals pills and some vitamis, it worked at the beggining but now is worst, sometimes even with the oral sex he doesn't get hard, ...
A. 16 May 2012: I doubt this means that he is cheating on you. Men can lose there libido for plenty of reasons, is he stressed about anything at the moment? Anything on his mind? I think the best solution for this is to get himself checked by a doctor to rule out ... (read in full...)
My ex acts odd with me , what does it mean?
Q. what does it mean my ex broke up with me 5 years ago wanted to be friends with me but i turned her down and then we fell out and havent spoken since she acts odd around me she wont talk about it and has ago at her mate when im at the same pub as h...
A. 16 May 2012: My guess is that she does just want to be friends. Maybe she regrets you both falling out and wants you back as a friend, but hey am only guessing just like anybody else can, only she has the answer for you, so if it bothers you and you want contact ... (read in full...)
My dad wont let me go back to my homeland!
Q. Pls help! My brother and i moved from our homeland another city. My parents are seperated that's one of reason my dad(in Uk) sent us to live with his brother and wife. Since we came here iv always been doleful. I have missed my mom, friends, nd ...
A. 16 May 2012: What has happened to your mother? Is she still on your homeland? Maybe you could contact her and ask can you go and live with her. I guess if she says no then there really is not much you can do about this until you are legally an adult. Talk to ... (read in full...)
Why do I not respect myself ?
Q. This is so embarrassing: I am in my forties, a grown up woman, an excellent mother, I have been told my son is a credit to me, I raised him on my own. My problem: I dated a cheating lying man for 5 years on and off, on and off as I wanted to e...
A. 16 May 2012: Sometimes we cannot help who we fall in love with. You know that this man is no good for you, but still there is something there missing in your life and it brings back memories off him and how you think you miss him. I bet though you don't miss him ... (read in full...)
Since my parents argue all the time I've decided that I'll never be able to have a family of my own
Q. Okay. Im from a family where parents always quarrel with one another, and there s nothing i can do about it. So ive been looking at my future alone the other day and something just came up in my mind that i cant have a family because having a family ...
A. 16 May 2012: Nobody is right or wrong here. But you are still young, and just because your parents argue at the moment and you see that marriage is hard, some day you might meet a man who treats you well and you both get on great, you might fall in love and ... (read in full...)
Is this as bad as I think it is?
Q. Is this as bad as i think it is? i have been on and off with a guy who is a bit older than me for 4 yrs now and there is the same cycle every couple of weeks..........he goes mental at me for sumfin silly and acts like a physco he'll threaten...
A. 16 May 2012: It sounds to me like he has major issues with his anger. He really needs to get help with this or it will destroy the relationship. Am surprised you are still around if this happens every few weeks. Tell him is anger problems are getting to you and ... (read in full...)
Her mother has heard my wife is escorting, how should she discuss this her mother?
Q. my wife has been working as an escort since 2009 and is quite satisfied with what she does. it causes no problems in our marriage. we are financially stable now and invest 75 percent of everything she makes. she pays her taxes and even lists her ...
A. 16 May 2012: I must admit you have a great sense off humour when you write, you managed to make me smile anyway. I think I have to agree with you when it comes to her mother. Well I think her mother is set in her old ways and I think that it will hurt her if ... (read in full...)
Is it over? Was I wrong? Will he ever talk to me again?
Q. me and my aquarius man have been together for two mounths now we are happy as ever when around eachother inseparable whenever theres a disagreement between us two we manage to work through it and except eachothers wishes lately i can honestly i can ...
A. 16 May 2012: It sounds to me like you are very clingy. You have only been together for two months, it is still all new, and texting and calling all the time is going to put him off. He is going to feel like you are clingy and that will hold him back.
Howev... (read in full...)
Should I ask if he is still interested in dating me?
Q. Hey. So theres this guy that has a huge crush on me. Hes one of my best guyfriends. He asked me out a week or two ago and i declined because i didnt like him like that. Now that ive talked to him more and had one-on-one time with him, hes starting ...
A. 16 May 2012: It would have taking him a lot of courage to ask you out, so apologise to him for turning him down, tell him you have changed your mind and you ask him out see what he says. Good luck.... (read in full...)
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