Should I try and get over him? Or wait and see what happens?
Q. ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, ...
A. 23 May 2012: I honestly think he cares about you as a friend but nothing more, yes I might be wrong. But that is the way it is looking, he wants to be there as a friend but I think he is avoiding trying to lead you on, so he doesn't reply then when you talk ... (read in full...)
She gets really flirty, and then it stops. Analysis?
Q. Simply.. While talking to this interest of mine, and spending time, that she gets really flirty, and then all of a sudden, it stops. Is there more to analyze, like her personality can't keep it up with a routine, she's losing interest?...
A. 10 May 2012: There really is not much to go on here from what you wrote. But I wouldn't read to much in to it, don't play games, if you like her then ask her out on a date, see what she says. ... (read in full...)
He was cheating! I thought he was going to marry me!
Q. i found out that my boyfriend is cheating i was so dissapointed i toungt that he was going to marry me i didnt confront him i just dont knw what to do please help...
A. 10 May 2012: What a horrible situation you have found yourself in, it really is heart breaking when someone finds out that the love of their life has been cheating on them. I think there is only one good thing to do here and that is to tell him what you know and ... (read in full...)
Doggy style and the problems that go along with it
Q. I'm worried about me and my partner's sex life and I need help. Our favourite position is doggy style it's one of the only ones that work for him and i constantly have trapped air as in fanny farts. I constantly feel like I need to expell it. After ...
A. 10 May 2012: I guess you are just worrying way to much about this trapped air and then that means you are not enjoying things which leads you to drying up and it being uncomfortable for him then as well. Maybe you can both start with different positions and then ... (read in full...)
I love this guy, but I can't be dragged along by him
Q. Okay, so me and my ex-boyfriend just recently started talking again. He wanted me to come over to his house after class. I knew what may happen if I went, but I went anyways. He not only picked me up from my class, but he made dinner. We ate, ...
A. 10 May 2012: It is a very true fact that sometimes in life people just do not know what they want. It really is. At the end of the day he is showing signs that he cares for you and he wants to be with you, but there is obviously something holding him back from ... (read in full...)
She has been playing games and wont commit, now she has deleted me off Facebook! Should I call her in a few weeks? Or do I let her go?
Q. Well this story starts off with when i got broken up with a year ago and i got a message saying "hey your cute." I thought really nothing of it so i decided to just say thanks. So low in behold a year later during christmas we start talking we ...
A. 9 May 2012: You sounds like a genuine guy and you have been there for her, as a friend and now as something more, I am glad you respect your virginity and that you never gave it up so easily. If I am truthful to you I don't think she is going to commit to you. ... (read in full...)
How can I show him that I can be responsible for a relationship?
Q. My boyfriend of 16 months broke up with me march 15th we still talk cause we have 9 month old. our relationship wasn't the best. he basically had to do everything like pick were we went what we done. where we ate. doing all the driving like when he ...
A. 9 May 2012: I guess you need to change. It is obvious he still wants to be with you, he just wants you to take some of the responsibility as well and do your fair share of work. Tell him you are willing to change for him and ask him to give you a chance, and if ... (read in full...)
I'm always all extremes. Is that ok?
Q. There is this guy that i met a year ago and i fell in love with him so deeply. We never really dated officially, but shared a lot of experiences, traveling together to Paris , and I have amazing memories with him. We go to the same Uni, but he ...
A. 9 May 2012: Your friends and family have your best interests at heart, you say yourself he did not treat you very well, but you had strong feelings for him so you let him do this, but those closest to you saw what he was doing to you and they do not want you to ... (read in full...)
What happened to this person?...
Q. So I and this guy were friends, not best friends but just friends when we were kids, we used to play and talk but he also used to kinda like me. When I found out he likes me, I started avoiding him, stop talking to him because I was very scared and ...
A. 9 May 2012: You where both children at the time when all of this happened so it should not matter now that you have both growing up. I guess though that he did feel rejected back then and now he has growing up he just does not want to be in contact with you, ... (read in full...)
I think I'm too clingy with my boyfriend
Q. I feel to clingy or more into my boyfriend than he is with me...we have dating for almost a year and we both finished our first Yeats of college..but our colleges were two hours away..the first semester we saw each other every weekend then the ...
A. 9 May 2012: You both need to sit down and speak about things. It is great you get to see each other more now, but also you both need to spend time with friends and doing other things as well to keep the relationship healthy. You are worrying that he is getting ... (read in full...)
What do I do? I don't feel comfortable with him in the background!
Q. Ok so hear is my question. Me and my fiancé broke up for a couple months for one months she was seeing her ex we have gotten back together but she says she has unfortunate feelings for him and will not allow new feeling to happen between them but ...
A. 9 May 2012: She says she will not let her feelings develop any more with this man, but she cannot control how she feels. I understand that she might want to stay in contact with his daughter as she was a huge part of her life, but maybe this could be arranged ... (read in full...)
Do I get over him? If so how?
Q. ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, ...
A. 9 May 2012: ... (read in full...)
Trouble situation between my daughter, step daughter and a boyfriend. I'm caught in the middle!
Q. I have read a similiar question but mine has its own twist..on my wedding night ay reception my daughter from previous marriage and my newly found husband's daughter have a confortation over my husbands daughter and my daughters boyfriend caught in ...
A. 9 May 2012: I think the best thing you can do is to try and stay out of it as much as you can. All families have issues, and your's is no different, although I can see why you would feel like this, off course you are going to have your own opinion as well on ... (read in full...)
I cant imagine life without him, but I feel like breaking up with him is something I have to do. What should I do?
Q. I don't know if I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. We've been together for 2 years and we've been through A LOT together, so much crap a relationship shouldn't have to withstand. For about 2 months I've been thinking about how I want us to break ...
A. 9 May 2012: You are very confused at the moment, which most people are after a break up. I understand that it is breaking your heart that he is being distant but I guess he probably thinks he is doing the right thing for you and giving you some space that you ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend disrespectful and controlling?
Q. Do you think my boyfriend is disrespectful and controlling ?. He is much older than me. Yesterday, when i was at his house, he was angry and he said " you act like a teenage autistic girl ". I have never been diagnosed with autism, so i don't know ...
A. 9 May 2012: I think this might have something to do with him being bipolar, where his mood just changes. My guess is that he feels you are still very attached to your family and that you have no independence. But it still does not make it right what he said to ... (read in full...)
Should I try and get over him? Or wait and see what happens?
Q. ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, ...
A. 9 May 2012: If he never answered again for a second time when you told him you liked him then it looks like he might not. My guess is the first time he was concerned about the age difference, and maybe that is the same reason again. It sounds like he cares for ... (read in full...)
I've never had a girlfriend, is there something wrong with me?
Q. ive never had a girlfriend but i do like someone. i need help because never done this before. im not looking for sex. i just want to know that i love her and she love me. how do i ask her out. is there something wrong with me to for never having a ...
A. 9 May 2012: No just because you have not had a girlfriend does not mean that there is something wrong on you, my guess is that you are just shy and you have never had a girlfriend because you have never had the confidence to ask a girl out. But practice makes ... (read in full...)
My ex has really damaged me emotionally and I'm struggling to move on, how do I figure all of this out?
Q. My ex boyfriend and me dated for almost 2 years. He had a serious drug addiction, everything was fine for the beginning, we had our problems and he would have anger spurts a lot, it was a constant rollercoaster ride considering he relapsed a few ...
A. 9 May 2012: That's a lot to happen and for you to deal with at such a young age. Time heals well and that is why the feelings are slowly leaving you, I understand that this scares you, but you need to let him go. He is no good for you. You will always remember ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this girl? She is always judging me because of one comment I made!
Q. There's this other girl who's 2 years older than me (let me say she's Girl A) at school. She always judges me and claims bad things about me. We are both acapella singers, so we are part of the school choir. Last week friday we had music ...
A. 9 May 2012: She obviously found your comment quite rude and now she is just being rude to you. Am sure it will dye down in time. Just ignore her every time she says something rude to you, she will soon get bored if she is not getting a reaction from you. ... (read in full...)
I've been a fool and don't know how to right my wrongs
Q. I am a widow ,but I date and have friends,so I don't really feel lonely.A yr. ago i met a man online and we began a good friendship.He was still somewhat involved with his high school sweetheart.We talked about the relationship or should i say I did ...
A. 5 May 2012: I think you need to be honest to him and yourself. You feel that you love this man but you have not even met him, you are in love with the character on the internet, but things in real life might be a lot different than what you would think. I know ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her what I want to do?
Q. I have friend. Very nice friend we both girls I love her so much iam 15 I want to kiss her on lips but I think she will not takee it easy .. How I can tell her that I want to kiss her on lips I do not want to lose her as a friend ,, please tell me ...
A. 5 May 2012: If I am honest with you, I guess there is no simple way of telling her how you feel. I think you just need to be honest with her and yourself. Do you really believe she would want to do this? If you feel she would not then I think maybe you need to ... (read in full...)
I have body image issues, how do I get over this?
Q. I have massive body image issues. I'm 23 so I think I shouldn't have these childs issues anymore... I just have a plain face and plain body... nothing stands out as beautiful. I'm around 5'7", 140 lbs approximately... so not fat, but also not that ...
A. 5 May 2012: Believe me every single woman out there has some problem when it comes to there body. I know you probably feel that you are plain and nothing special, but I bet your boyfriend feels different when he looks at you. I think every female will ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend now. Yet still acts possessive with me. What's his game?
Q. I'm confused a bit ,I met this a guy a few months ago ,we get along great a have good chemistry ,we where in love at first but but with time we decided to be just friends . We talk everyday . He has a girlfriend now ,but he always get jealous ...
A. 4 May 2012: He might still be in love with you, or else maybe he is just holding on to the past and still feels possessive over you. I guess the only thing that you can do to clear it up is the next time he gets like this just ask him why he cares and does he ... (read in full...)
He's ignored me for a week and a half straight and I'm so pathetic that I've literally been begging him to talk to me.
Q. Hey all, thanks in advance for taking the time to read it.. trust me, it means a lot. I've been dating my military boyfriend for just shy of 2 years now. We have been best friends for years before we started dating so I know him pretty well. W...
A. 4 May 2012: Well if it was me I would end things. I can understand that you love him and that you want to be with him. But his actions are speaking louder than his words. He says he loves you but he is not showing it. The way that you explain things it seems to ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so bad?
Q. I will admit I'm not the nicest person in the world. I have been in a small fight yesterday with a girl I was sorta friends with last year. She said that I was friendless saying it harshly by the end of the convo and that no one likes me. I know I ...
A. 4 May 2012: Because when people say hurtful things to us it upsets us. Even though you know that it is not true and she probably said it in the heat of the moment just to hurt you, it is still going to upset you. Maybe you are feeling bad about the whole ... (read in full...)
My bf is such an amazing person and I love him soo much. but recently theres been another guy.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost seven months and have known him my whole life. I am 16 btw.Are moms are best friends. My bf is such an amazing person and I love him soo much. but recently theres been another guy. I met this guy once when i ...
A. 4 May 2012: Please whatever you do, do not go and cheat on your boyfriend. At least be loyal to him, if you have feelings for this other guy, then maybe it is time you finished your relationship and spend some time on your own to figure out which one of them ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my friend from getting hurt? His fiance flirts with other guys right in front of him!
Q. Hi all, I want to see what others think of a friend of mine getting married in a couple of months and there's nothing anyone can do about it, not even his parents. He's in his late twenties. I feel so bad for the poor guy because she's got him blind ...
A. 4 May 2012: If I am honest with you, I really do not think there is any thing that you can do here. I know that it is really hard to sit back and watch this unfold but at the end of the day he has to make up his own mind. As you said if you try and say ... (read in full...)
Worried about 2 of my boyfriend's female friends....
Q. Hey all, I was wondering what you guys thought of this. My boyfriend has a lot of female buddies, he is open with me meeting them, and they all seem very nice. But there are two that I seem to find myself wondering about. One of whic...
A. 4 May 2012: At the end of the day he has been friends with these girls for a long time, and it does not look like he is going to change that any time soon. I can totally understand why you are feeling uncomfortable. Maybe it is better you come clean to him ... (read in full...)
How do I get over a celebrity crush?
Q. so yesterday I met the band member i've had a crush on for years, based purely on his appearance, but meeting him yesterday he was one of the most amazing, kind and funny people i've ever met, and I was really taken by him! i use the term celebrity ...
A. 3 May 2012: How do you know you have no chance with him? Have you tried? Okay so you probably feel because he is in a popular band that he has girls falling at his feet and that you have no chance, but it is still worth trying is it not just to make sure? If ... (read in full...)
Will I be able to be intimate with my future significant other? Or will my fears stymie my future relationships?
Q. I have not had sex for over a year since my last relationship. I have never believed in just having sex with someone that you are not in love with or who is your significant other. Also, there is a risk of contracting HPV from someone which is not ...
A. 3 May 2012: I can understand your fear completely. I agree I think sex should be kept for someone who you want to be in a relationship with. I guess when you do get in to another relationship, both of you should go to a sexual health clinic and get tested for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been accepted to University and that means moving away. How do I cope while he is away?
Q. My boyfriend is very, very clever. It's one of the main things that attracted to me to him. He's majoring in Mathematics and he got accepted to XYZ University yesterday. He is in his 3rd year. he knows a professor there apparently (put in a go...
A. 3 May 2012: You have to accept this. I know that it is hard. But as you said he will never have this opportunity again and if he turns it down just for you he will end up resenting you for that. It does not mean you both need to split up. If you are both ... (read in full...)
Recently she has started spending all her spare time with her friends and never makes time for me!
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years about now and for the most part everything is perfect, we love each other to death, we plan on buying a house soon together and I plan on proposing within the next 6 months. Theres just one ...
A. 3 May 2012: She went out and got drunk and now she has to cover her shift, it is as simple as that! I know it must be hard for you when you barely get to see her as it is. But I guess she just cannot get out off working now. At least she went to see you the day ... (read in full...)
Colleague too close to my boyfriend
Q. hi everyone! so here it is,i have a boy friend ,we're together since 1year,we love each other very much,but he got a colleague,she's too close to him,she tells him everything about her personal life especially with her boyfriend,like "...
A. 3 May 2012: Okay you do not trust this woman for whatever reason you have, but do you trust your boyfriend? Are you scared he is going to cheat with her and leave you? You need to tell him how you feel about this. Be open and honest with him and truthful. Sit ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend and his mixed signals
Q. My ex best friend whom i love (and i assume is either gay or bi because we flirted with each other about love etc) has broken up with me. It's been a while and i'm past the miserable days of crying over him. I still emo over him sometimes but i'...
A. 3 May 2012: In my opinion he is not ready for people to know that he is gay or bi. It sounds to me like he is not dealing very well with who he is, or else he is trying to be someone he is not. He needs to deal with these issues. He has been hurtful to you, and ... (read in full...)
I don't understand her, is she in or not?
Q. There's this girl in college, I used to see her, but she never noticed me until like a year ago, when our eyes met for the first time. After that I only saw her like 7-8 times (and she noticed me everytime) around 6 months ago when I started seeing ...
A. 2 May 2012: Maybe she is playing a game with you, maybe she is was just trying to get your attention so you could show her some attention. It could be possible that it is a game in her head to see if she can get any guy to fall for her.
I know you don't wa... (read in full...)
I have a feeling she's not as in to me as she claims
Q. Okay, recently a close friend and I decided that because we each like each other so much, we'd try dating. The thing is, since our first date we don't talk nearly as much as we used to. I mean, since that day, it's been entirely me who initiates...
A. 1 May 2012: Talk to her, ask her what's going on, tell her you have noticed she has became quiet since you both went on a date, ask her is she sure it is what she wants or would she rather just be friends.
Maybe it is a case that she just does not know wha... (read in full...)
Would you say I'm bi? Confused? Gay?
Q. Hello, I am nealy 20 years old. For the last 2 years I haven't been very sexually active (3 partners, which I have only been with once). Anyway, my reason being is I find the thought of sleeping with men quite disgusting, it hurts me physical...
A. 1 May 2012: I guess at the moment you are just unsure of your sexuality. You say you have been with three guys and you didn't really enjoy sex with them, but where you comfortable with them? Where you actually in a loving relationship with them, because if not, ... (read in full...)
Why can't I focus on sex?
Q. I'm having an issue focusing during sex with my boyfriend. Whenever we're apart, I'm dying for sex but then we're together and I can't seem to clear my mind enough to actually enjoy it. He tries to hold out long enough for me to get off, but then ...
A. 1 May 2012: Most woman don't actually achieve orgasm through penetration. So it could be that maybe he needs to concentrate more on your clitoris and using his hands and mouth to get you off. Maybe try that for a while. ... (read in full...)
He said he didnt want a girlfriend but he still hits on me, how do I deal with this?
Q. I am 14 years old and I have only been in 1 month long relationship. I like this guy and he used to like me. A while ago he suddenly changed his mind and I still love him as much as i did before. He hits on me and has been since we met and we have ...
A. 1 May 2012: He is chancing his luck with you even though he does not want to be committed to you. He wants to have some fun. I think you should stay away from him and ask him to stop hitting on you if he is not seriously interested in a girlfriend. If you fall ... (read in full...)
My b/f wants sex too much but I don't want to lose him!
Q. Dear cupid,I am female between 26 and 30 I love my boyfrnd I want him 2 be happy the thing is he want 2mutch sex I don't, what must I do pls help I don't want to lose him ...
A. 1 May 2012: Well how much exactly is to much? Is he demanding it several times a day or how often is it he wants? you both just need to come up with a plan where you are both feeling satisfied and happy. If he is being unrealistic and wants it all the time then ... (read in full...)
We have decided not to have sex, what else can we do to spice things up?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have 'agreed' not to have sex yet, but we pretty much do other things. This weekend we simulated things, she used the tip of my penis to stimulate her clitoris, i had my boxers on, she had her pants off. I also think sh...
A. 1 May 2012: Talk to her about what works for the both of you. Have plenty of foreplay and oral sex if you both are up for that. Just talk to her and ask her is there anything she would like to try to spice things up and tell her what you would like as well.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for my boyfriend and I to love each other but have no sexual chemistry?
Q. Is it possible for my bf and I to love each other but have no sexual chemistry? We have been dating for three months and we love each other very much. We have a healthy realtionship in every aspect except the bed. Its either he cant get an erecetio...
A. 1 May 2012: If you are not doing it right for him then ask him to guide you and tell you what feels good for him and vice versa. As for his sex drive has he had troubles with it in the past? Talk to each other and try and figure out what works for both of you.... (read in full...)
I don't understand her, is she in or not?
Q. There's this girl in college, I used to see her, but she never noticed me until like a year ago, when our eyes met for the first time. After that I only saw her like 7-8 times (and she noticed me everytime) around 6 months ago when I started seeing ...
A. 26 April 2012: If I am honest with you it sounds to me like she is not interested, if she was she would have replied long before now. As for her saying she is not with someone I think that was just because you had told her you heard she was and she was just ... (read in full...)
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