Is it bad if my girlfriend and I don't talk every day?
Q. Hey is it bad if me and my girlfriend don't talk everyday? She only likes to text. I like talking to her a lot but maybe too much I'm not sure. We just recently said I love yous and she said she's is gonna make up for how she has treated me the last ...
A. 27 May 2012: Talk to her and ask her what she wants. It is the only way you are going to have any answers. Maybe she is just waiting for you to contact her or maybe she is content waiting a few days before talking to you. The only way you will find out is if you ... (read in full...)
Is it bad if my girlfriend and I don't talk every day?
Q. Hey is it bad if me and my girlfriend don't talk everyday? She only likes to text. I like talking to her a lot but maybe too much I'm not sure. We just recently said I love yous and she said she's is gonna make up for how she has treated me the last ...
A. 27 May 2012: Some people just do not like to talk on the phone, how often do the both of you hang out face to face? It is okay to go one or two days without talking on the phone if the both of you are keeping in contact through messages. I know personally I hate ... (read in full...)
B/f blocked me because I complained about his activity with ex on facebook
Q. My boyfriend and i hve been in a long distance relationshp for 6months now things have been ohkay but recently we fight a lot over his ex galfriend who calls now and than,and i told my bf that i hate it when the ex calls,he said he cant tel someone ...
A. 27 May 2012: I am not sure if he still loves his ex or not, but it looks like he is still very close with her, obviously she means more to him than your relationship. As to your question about him loving you, no I don't think he loves you at all, as if he did he ... (read in full...)
Feelings or friends?
Q. There is this guy, lets call him IMR. There is his best friend, i'll call him CMT, then there JRA, and then there is me. Ive known this guy since 8th grade, and I'm pretty sure i have liked him since then but i had also liked his bestfrie...
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Am I wrong to date him?
Q. This one might be a little long, so I apologize in advance. October 3rd 2011, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 happy months. It might seem like a short time we were together, but we spent every day of it together so it certainly felt longer than...
A. 26 May 2012: Follow your own heart, stop worrying about what everybody else thinks and start looking in to making yourself happy. It's great that you care about other people, but at the end of the day, it is your life and your choice who you see and who you ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before telling friend of my feelings?
Q. Okay. i really really like this guy im friends with. since December these feelings have intensified and are getting stronger. Well in January he got back with his ex gf. they had dated b4 for about 6 months and broke up November last year. so then ...
A. 26 May 2012: This is still very raw for him, it is obvious he has deep feelings for her when he took her back a second time and now she has left him again so off course he is going to be hurt and upset, and it is going to take him a while to recover. I don't ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my g/f for my friend?
Q. Im a 16 year old male and i been with my Girl friend for 8 months,but i have sum what feelings for my bestfriend, should i leave my girlfriend or stay?...
A. 26 May 2012: This is a question that only you can answer. At the end of the day you are the one that is in the relationship with your girlfriend, if you have feelings for your best friend well then maybe this is not the relationship for you. You need to decide ... (read in full...)
Can't get to a second date for the life of me
Q. There is something wrong going on here... I had a date with a girl that I met on an online dating site last night and kept it relatively light, good conversation flowed and she seemed happy to talk about a wide variety of topics (i.e. - school, ...
A. 26 May 2012: You shouldn't blame yourself. The thing with on line dating is it probably is a true fact that people on the website go on multiple dates to try and find there best match. As long as you are just being yourself and showing an interest in a girl then ... (read in full...)
I'm not a flirt so why am I feeling this way?
Q. Dear dear cupid, I dont understand how i feel for this guy. So here's my situation. Two weeks after i broke up with my bf, i noticed this guy at work. It's because he had the same perfume with my ex. Every time i see him i go near him so that ...
A. 26 May 2012: There is nothing for you to be embarrassed about here. You are physically attracted to him, it all started with him reminding you of your ex through his scent and now you are noticing him more, and you have probably developed a bit of a crush on ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is insensitive to the feelings of others
Q. I'm a first timer in relationships.. i have a girlfriend that is insensitive in feelings for others.. And I'm having a hard time being more patient.. I mean.. I sometimes get hurt on what she said to me.. I practice my self to be more patient just ...
A. 26 May 2012: The best thing to do is to be open and honest with her. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Give her examples of some of her behaviour that has upset you and just talk to her about it. She probably does not realise that you feel like this. So ... (read in full...)
It's great when we're together, but when we're apart I question the relationship
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years. I know he’s the one because we click. Yesterday he took me to the lake and we had a picnic. He told me I stole his heart and he always wants me to keep it. He is just about the nicest guy I have ...
A. 26 May 2012: Long distance can be hard to deal with in any relationship. but half an hour away from each other really is not that much of a distance, is there no way that you can both try and meet up more? Are there no buses that can allow you to meet up more? ... (read in full...)
I've lost the attraction. Do I keep trying or break up?
Q. I'm in what used to be a horrible relationship. To name just a few problems, my girlfriend used to spend hours insulting me and finding my flaws, she often unfavorably compared me to her exes, often threatened with a break up if I do something she ...
A. 24 May 2012: You cannot force yourself to be attracted to her. At the end of the day it is great she has changed and is now really trying, but it might just be a little to late, and the damage has probably already been done. She spent months putting you down, ... (read in full...)
My ex didn't seem to care so why did he send a message after our breakup acting like he cared?
Q. Hello everyone! Last Sunday, I broke up with my "boyfriend" of 2 months. We are both on an exchange student programme in Europe, so we both live away from our countries (I come from Greece, he comes from Spain), me for 6 months, and he is here f...
A. 23 May 2012: I don't think he cares about how you feel at all. You are just hoping he does because you have deep feelings for him, however he does not feel the same, he saw you as a bit off fun and he treated you terribly. Maybe a little bit off him feels guilty ... (read in full...)
I have trouble dating because I say weird things and scare guys off
Q. Hi...I am a very pretty girl with a good job. The one thing that I know I am is a bit weird. Once you get to know me though you will know that I am the most lovable person with a big heart. However, I don't come off as your normal person and say ...
A. 23 May 2012: I don't think you should change yourself. At the end of the day you are the person that you are and I am a strong believer that you should never change for anybody. Honesty is always a great quality to have, never think for one minute that it is ... (read in full...)
How important is relationship experience when choosing a partner?
Q. I wonder, how important is dating or relationship experience when choosing a partner? Does someone need to have relationship experience for you to consider them a viable partner? How do you view inexperience or someone with little relationship...
A. 23 May 2012: I don't think that it should matter if someone has lots of experience or not. At the end of the day everybody is different in there own way, they may not have a lot of relationship experience but it does not mean that they would make any less of a ... (read in full...)
Should I have some fun with this guy or wait and see if my ex comes back?
Q. so i have a question, i'm not a very good looking person, put frankly, i have never and don't ever get much male attention at all, the only male attention i recieve is off fat and ugly guys(i know that sounds bad, looks shouldn't matter, but if it's ...
A. 23 May 2012: If I am honest with you, completely disregarding your ex I don't think you should just go and have sex with this guy. At the end of the day do you really think it would just be a one off bit of fun? It sounds to me like he would just have sex with ... (read in full...)
Should I try and get over him? Or wait and see what happens?
Q. ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, ...
A. 23 May 2012: I honestly think he cares about you as a friend but nothing more, yes I might be wrong. But that is the way it is looking, he wants to be there as a friend but I think he is avoiding trying to lead you on, so he doesn't reply then when you talk ... (read in full...)
I can't take it! I cheated and told my girlfriend but the guilt is killing me!
Q. I cheated on my girlfriend 6 months ago and we have been dating for 7 months now, i felt so horrible and i told her what i did.. i didnt tell her everything i did though with the girl so i started feeling guilty again then told her the rest i did ...
A. 22 May 2012: Well you said you cheated at the start of the relationship and you came clean about that right? Okay so it took you six months but you done the right thing in the end. Off course she is going to be upset with you, but am sure she respects your ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I met this guy online and when i asked him if he lived in Singapore, he told me no, but he would be back four weeks later. I waited for a month and during that month, I spent my time talking to him. I am impressed and instantly know I love the ...
A. 22 May 2012: Am going to tell you the same as I told you back then, stop contact with this man, you can't see it but I can, he is using you, he talks to you every day to keep you sweet, but he has no intention off EVER coming to visit you, or let you visit him. ... (read in full...)
My mother is alway thinking the worst about me
Q. What can I do about this ? I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months and it seems like with ever day that passes, my mother is always think more terible things that she thinks I've been doing like: one day I asked her if I could hang out a...
A. 22 May 2012: Well then write her a letter then so she cannot interrupt that. Hand it to her and ask her to read it. Explain why you have wrote it, write everything you need to down on it about everything including that sometimes you feel you cannot sit and talk ... (read in full...)
Is the guy interested in me?
Q. Hi, I have not seen this guy for 8 years. We ran into each other on a train. He looks cute to me and he gave me this compliment when he saw me at the beginning "you look pretty, where are you heading?". We chatted on the train ride and exchange ...
A. 21 May 2012: It is still early days so don't over think this. You both met up and it sounds like he has a good time just as much as you did. He is interested in meeting up again so that is a good sign off course. It means he wants to spend time with you. So just ... (read in full...)
My mother is alway thinking the worst about me
Q. What can I do about this ? I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months and it seems like with ever day that passes, my mother is always think more terible things that she thinks I've been doing like: one day I asked her if I could hang out a...
A. 21 May 2012: You are her little girl and she is just worried about you. At the age of fourteen you are still legally under age and I guess she is just scared that you might be young and silly and do something that would result in getting you pregnant. Am sure ... (read in full...)
Is he interested? Or am I wasting my time?
Q. Hey, I recently met this guy on an online dating site and I'm really interested in him, but I'm getting worried he's not that into me as he seems to take forever to respond to my texts and doesnt always reply. We havent met although we do have mut...
A. 21 May 2012: I really wish I could be able to tell you what is going on but I cant. Although I will offer you some advice, don't pin your hopes on somebody that you have not even met face to face yet, as you may not get on as well as you do over the computer. If ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend lost interest?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend almost 3 years but recently everything has been going down hill his mate is round 24/7 and never wants to go any where with me and we only now have sex twice a month when it used to be 3 or 4 times a week this problem ...
A. 21 May 2012: Communication!! Have you spoke to him about this? Asked him how he feels, talk about your sex life see where the cause is for it going down hill? Are you making enough effort? Is he telling you he does not want to have sex any more? You both need to ... (read in full...)
I am unconfident about my body!
Q. Hey, I'd love some advice on how to feel confident when it comes to sex despite being really unconfident about my body :( I've been with my bf 2 years, and things have been going great between us, including our sex life. I was very body confident, ...
A. 21 May 2012: You need to realise that you are not fat or ugly, it is a baby that is growing inside you not fat. You need to accept that. I think most pregnant women go through a stage where they feel unattractive. But your body is going to keep on changing ... (read in full...)
How can I move to Canada?
Q. Hi, I live in pakistan but I have a girlfriend that lives in Canada. I want to move to Canada but I am only a 19 so it is difficult to find a way to come here. Is there anyway I can move to Canada without being sponsored, or having a high enough i...
A. 21 May 2012: I highly doubt it, do some research and look in to it, but I doubt that there is any easy way about this am afraid.... (read in full...)
Should I go back to him?
Q. So i was with this guy for two years and then he decided to join the air force and the closer it got to hi leaving for basic the more he pushed me away and we fought finally we broke up. A week and a half later he's dating this other girl and three ...
A. 21 May 2012: Really it is up to you what you want to do here. Personally if it was me I would not take him back, for the simple reason is would you really be able to trust him again? I can see that he moved way to fast with this girl and it probably was a ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that I liked the dirty talk?
Q. I had sex with this guy and when he climaxed he cussed up a storm I really liked it a lot it was a turn on. He said the sex was too good that so thats why he did it. Before he never did that does that mean before it wasn't good? I want him to ...
A. 21 May 2012: No it doesn't mean that he didn't enjoy it in the past, maybe he just feels more comfortable with you now so he is letting himself go a little. It could be a case that some girl in the past hated it so he probably tries to hide it now. Just bring it ... (read in full...)
I feel like I never get alone time with boyfriend.
Q. Hello, I was hoping someone would have some advice with how to handle this situation. I live w/ my b/f, but we both work a lot during the week. So, on a good day, I usually see him only for about 1-2 hrs before we go to sleep. And, during tho...
A. 20 May 2012: The only way to work this out is to talk it over am afraid. Assure him that you like being social and spending time with friends as well, but that sometimes you just want to spend some alone time with him. Try and compromise between the both of you. ... (read in full...)
I can't get rid of the feeling, I'm feeling gross and ashamed!
Q. i am a straight guy who is in a long distance relationshp with the prettiest girl in the world..but due to some reasn..my gf and i cant talk everyday..its been 3 weeks since i talkd to her.today on omegle..i came across a bisexual horny guy.and he ...
A. 20 May 2012: No there is nothing wrong with you, you are missing your girlfriend, you are lonely and you just felt curious as to this. Don't beat yourself up about it you have done nothing wrong. Accept that you done something that you regret and just forget ... (read in full...)
I get so crazy about his ex/past! Help!
Q. I know this is certainly an issue of insecurity and I so much hate this crappy feeling. Ok so I'm 18 and I got a boyfriend who's at the age of 31. We've been sailing smoothly for 2 years, age hasn't been a problem. I know that there's nothing ...
A. 19 May 2012: He was only with her one month, so am pretty sure he did not love her. It take a lot longer than that to fall in love with someone, it was more of a fling than a relationship in this time frame. You need to let this go or you might just lose him if ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any experience with Micronor?
Q. Hello, thank you for reading for question and hopefully being able to help me. I have been on the contraceptive pill Micronor for at least six months (that I can remember), but over the past three months or so I have been experiencing ver...
A. 19 May 2012: It could be the pill yes, but you really need to discuss this with your doctor, your bloods will be clear because it is emotional medical help you need. So make an appointment with your doctor, tell them how you have been feeling and ask them to ... (read in full...)
Since she loves another how do I stop wanting to love her still?
Q. so here the thing my girl friend dumped me but we are still very good friends i want to stop loving her because i know there is no chance for me and her any way she already loves another guy but i cant stop loving her because i see her every day ...
A. 19 May 2012: The only way to get over someone is to cut contact am afraid, there is no way you will be able to get over her if you stay friends with her.... (read in full...)
Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way
Q. I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by...
A. 19 May 2012: This man uses women all the time, and am afraid it sounds like you are just another one on his long list of affairs and 'relationships'. My bet is that he never split with his wife, he just said this to you. Tell me this, when you got together was ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my friends. Does anyone know how to open a locked facebook page?
Q. Hiii dear cupids..my facebook i.d is temprory locked..i dont know why..they asked me to identify the photos in which i nd my friends were tag..rather than identifying is there any ways to open my account..plzz plzz help me..i dont want to loose my ...
A. 19 May 2012: You need to identify your photo's or else they will not let you in to the page, surely if it is your photo's then you must know who your friends are and you can identify them correctly? If not then am afraid you will just need to open another ... (read in full...)
Will or can this affect my long time health? I don't have a regular girlfriend.
Q. I am 18 years old.i don't have any girlfriend till now. i am in a habit of hooking daily , i want to ask that is regular hooking affects our health or not. i tried to control it because i thinks it is affecting my health and i am not been able to c...
A. 19 May 2012: Am sorry but what exactly do you mean by hooking??... (read in full...)
Who's gonna' want a 33 year old nobody who has nothing?
Q. Where do I even try to begin? I was with my partner for 10 years. We have two beautiful children. We had a nice car. A nice house. On New Years Day my partner announced she had been having an affair for 2 years. She wanted me out. We fou...
A. 19 May 2012: You have already been giving great advice, but please keep fighting for access to your children, you need to be part of there life. So keep fighting to see them and be part of there life. At the end of the day she was the one in the wrong not you, ... (read in full...)
Should I lose contact with her? Or should I continue pursuing her?
Q. Okay I haven't asked any help for awhile, but I am starting to have problems again. So I have a friend that is also in my English class. We started as friends and soon we started dating. We were fine for the first two weeks we started dating u...
A. 19 May 2012: Go down the no contact route, am afraid she does not want the same things as you, so I think you need to give up trying, yes it is hard when you have to see her, but at the end of the day you will soon get over her. It is hard to try and stay ... (read in full...)
Help... I think I love my ex step uncle
Q. Ok... so I'm not sure how to put this but, I kind of have feelings for my ex step uncle. I have known him for ten years and was always attracted to him. My mom and step dad were only married for a short time, and we have always been close. I didn't ...
A. 19 May 2012: Okay you are 21 and what age is he? I am not the one to tell you that this is okay or that it is not, but I think you should really be honest with your mother about this and tell her what is going on. At the end of the day, something like this could ... (read in full...)
I have very little interest in dating. How normal is this?
Q. I am turning 20 later this year, and still have very little interest in dating or romance. I have never been on a date and never even been kissed. It's not for lack of opportunities - I just finished my first year of college and got asked out a ...
A. 19 May 2012: I don't think there is anything wrong with you, you are still young and enjoying your life I am sure, so I wouldn't worry, if you don't feel like dating at the moment then just do not do it, simple as, do what makes you happy, live your life the way ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but have become interested in a friend. Is it just because I don't see my b/f so much?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and met when we first started university. I love him to bits, get the funny feeling in my tummy when i'm going to see him, get excited when I see his name pop up on my phone, physically ...
A. 19 May 2012: I think you are just feeling like this because you have been spending lots of time with him. I know you are a smart girl and you will not cheat on your boyfriend. But you are also going down a dangerous road spending all this time with this other ... (read in full...)
I like him, he's obviously not in it for sex, so what's up?
Q. Hi! I need some advice about a guy I like, or am possibly in love with. I'm going to warn you, this might end up longer than expected... We're classmates, he is nice, kind, funny, smart a bit silly sometimes. There is only one problem..he seems to...
A. 19 May 2012: To be honest no I don't think it is worth a shot at all. I clearly think he sees you as a challenge, he wants to have sex with you but you are holding it from him, so he sees it as his mission to get what he wants. He is not looking for commitment, ... (read in full...)
Should I try and get over him? Or wait and see what happens?
Q. ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, ...
A. 9 May 2012: If he never answered again for a second time when you told him you liked him then it looks like he might not. My guess is the first time he was concerned about the age difference, and maybe that is the same reason again. It sounds like he cares for ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I met this guy online and when i asked him if he lived in Singapore, he told me no, but he would be back four weeks later. I waited for a month and during that month, I spent my time talking to him. I am impressed and instantly know I love the ...
A. 27 October 2011: I think your best bet is to move on. I personally don't think he has any intentions of moving to Singapore, it sounds to me like he is just leading you on. Plus he has no right to judge you about who you live with or what you do. He is trying to ... (read in full...)
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