I don't want my boyfriend to be insecure
Q. I don't usually ask advice to people I don't know, but this is the exception because I really need help on this. It's gonna be long and I'm writing this from my iPod so ya...okay so the thing is, I've been going out with this guy for two months, and ...
A. 5 June 2012: There is nothing YOU can do to make him talk, it has to come from him. If he is not willing to open up and talk to you then he is not ready to change. I know it is hard for you but there really is nothing you can do.... (read in full...)
I don't think I've had an Orgasm yet. But what can I do about my more urgent problem? During and after sex? Help!
Q. I am a 21 yo girl and do not think i have ever had the big O. When my boyfriend goes down on me i often always have the sensation of peeing when i do not have to or have nothing to pee out. However, I have a had an accident or two when the "pee...
A. 31 May 2012: Before you engage in any sexual activity always make sure that you go to the toilet before hand to empty your bladder. Also when this sensation comes on just make sure you use your kegel muscles to hold it in so you do not have any accidents.
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Is he just waiting for someone better to come along?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months long distance. Only see him about once a month. He did at one point want me to move with him but then after a few arguments he decided against it. He says he still loves me, but he never texts or calls ...
A. 30 May 2012: I think you are right. If he loved you he would be making more off an effort to spend time with you and keeping in contact, but he is doing the opposite to that, I know it is hard to come to terms with, but I think the best thing to do is to remove ... (read in full...)
He is dating his close friend. Do I still have hope??
Q. My boyfriend (now ex) and I were having a long distance relationship (he's in europe i'm in asia). And things were hard especially since we are 20 and 21 and we are in college. meeting up is always hard. He had made facebook friends with a girl in ...
A. 30 May 2012: From your post I think you have no choice but to move on from him, I really do not think there is any hope for you both at all. There is way to much distance between you and he has found himself a girlfriend who he can spend time with and have a ... (read in full...)
Girl won't be with me because of her moms beliefs! - HELP!!!
Q. I am in a very bad a frustrating situation. I was married to a girl who left me for another guy and was living with him before we even got an official divorce. It took me a long time but I am finally over that now and have met the absolute girl of ...
A. 30 May 2012: There really is not a whole lot that you can do here to be honest with you. It is a very hard situation to be in and I feel really sorry for you, but it is your girlfriend that has to stand up to her mother and tell her that it is her life and that ... (read in full...)
I'm worried with college ending that I won't be able to stay close to my friend
Q. I'm 19 and I've known my best friend (20) for nearly 4 years since the start of college 2-3 days a week. We've always had trouble meeting up because neither of us can drive yet, so it's money for buses and we don't live very close, but he manages to ...
A. 30 May 2012: No I wouldn't call it stupid not at all, the thing with life is we go through different stages, and many friendships end after college so it is understandable that you are worried, however some friendships do survive as well. You are both adults ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend left me in a bad state
Q. I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted. in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific...
A. 30 May 2012: She was trying to control you, and when she found out you had this illness with your nerves, she probably realised that she was effecting your health by the way she treated you therefore she done the right thing and left you. You should never let a ... (read in full...)
Helping a grieving friend, how far should I go?
Q. Here's the background: I have a cousin living in another city, whom I got to know when I was posted there for a short stint. Though we haven't known each other for long, we got along very well from the beginning and I got to know his family as well. ...
A. 30 May 2012: Well he has made it clear he does not like speaking on the phone, don't take this personal it is just the way he is feeling, so I would recommend not calling him again. I know you are wanting to be there for him but I think the best thing to do is ... (read in full...)
How can I overcome this silly crush and regain self esteem?
Q. Hi, I'm having a very childish problem, despite the fact that I'm a 23 year old woman. When I was in high school I was the ugly girl that no guys liked, and to this day, this has affected my self esteem somewhat. When I started college, though,...
A. 30 May 2012: They will only see you like that if you allow them to. At the end of the day you knew what you where letting yourself in for, you knew he was a player, you knew it would only be a bit of fun but you went in to it eyes open anyway and as a result you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another woman pregnant
Q. My boyfriend and I have known eachother for years. We finally started a relationship that was almost 2 years now. I took a break I wanted it. It didn't feel like a break at all. We were still sleeping together. He wasn't giving me space. So I ...
A. 30 May 2012: I hope that you have went and had an STI check up. Okay so he never cheated on you as you where broken up, but I feel sorry for the girl that was caught up on this mess, yes it takes two but she fell pregnant which is unfortunate, but he should have ... (read in full...)
When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?
Q. Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anythi...
A. 30 May 2012: I think you should start straight away. You should never allow a guy to control you like that, and you should never get back with him or else you will always be lonely and miserable. It is now time for a new start. So activate your facebook and ... (read in full...)
I'm very shy and worried that if my girlfriend breaks up with me I wont find anyone else! Help!
Q. Hi,im 19yrs now.but i have this problem that worries me alot,many people say im handsome thats not the point,im a very shy type.this has impede my progress with dating girls,its very hard for me to stand a girl i like due to this reason. Yes i have ...
A. 30 May 2012: Yes stop worrying about the future and enjoy living in the moment. Nobody can tell what the future holds for your relationship. If you do not feel like it will last or you are not happy with the relationship then don't just stick with her because ... (read in full...)
Was I just a random hook-up for him?
Q. So, the situation is: I met this guy 6 months ago at college and we became part of the same friend group. We saw each other almost every day and went out together at night several times a week. About two months ago on a night out we ended up making ...
A. 30 May 2012: I think you should just act as a friend around him. At the end of the day he knew he was moving away and so did you so it seems like it was only a one night stand. I can see now though that you might be looking for more. But if I am honest with you ... (read in full...)
Are his comments about losing weight unreasonable?
Q. I need to know if I am over-reacting to this situation. My fiance are a happy couple, mostly. We've been together a couple of years now, and I feel that he accepts me for who I am and all my flaws. Except one. I have a hormonal condition that m...
A. 30 May 2012: It depends just how much extra weight you are carrying, it could be possible that he is just worried about your health and he wants you to be healthy. Talk to him about this and tell him how it has made you feel. Try and clear things up and explain ... (read in full...)
Got pregnant without intercourse -- can I still call myself a virgin?
Q. Hello,am 22yrs old,a female and av always wanted to keep my virginity for the right guy.wen I was 18,I was in a relationship and wen we are making out,he normally uses his penis to rub my vagina,in one of dose occassions!he ejaculated on my vagina ...
A. 30 May 2012: It is almost next to impossible to get pregnant without having intercourse. He must have entered you slightly without you noticing in order for you to get pregnant. ... (read in full...)
Is he just waiting for someone better to come along?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months long distance. Only see him about once a month. He did at one point want me to move with him but then after a few arguments he decided against it. He says he still loves me, but he never texts or calls ...
A. 30 May 2012: It sounds to me like he may already have found someone else. If he is only willing to talk to you on line then you can be sure that he is hiding something or someone. If he is not willing to commit to you then I think you should end it and find ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my ex's brother!
Q. I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I ...
A. 30 May 2012: You need to realise that nothing is ever going to come from this. I doubt he would be willing to make you his girlfriend as it would tear apart his family and he would probably lose his brother. So you need to accept that it's either you get over ... (read in full...)
She only seems to want me when I'm not around, and then when I'm with her she wants space! Does she like me?
Q. Hello. I am in a somewhat complicated situation with this girl. We started off as friends, and eventually we grew closer and closer, but just as friends. A few months later, she told me that she liked me and I went along and said I liked her too. ...
A. 30 May 2012: You both need to be honest with each other and stop all these silly games. This is really not a long story you just need to communicate better. It is clear you like her as more than a friend, I am unsure about how she feels right now, but you need ... (read in full...)
I don't want my boyfriend to be insecure
Q. I don't usually ask advice to people I don't know, but this is the exception because I really need help on this. It's gonna be long and I'm writing this from my iPod so ya...okay so the thing is, I've been going out with this guy for two months, and ...
A. 30 May 2012: There is no way that you can help an insecure person. You could reassure him until you are blue in the face but his insecurities lies with him not you. He feels you are to good for him, he has no confidence in himself, therefore he feels you are to ... (read in full...)
Worried that the webcam session might have been recorded?
Q. Hello, Could use some advice..... I engaged in a webcam chat on msn. Met the girl in a chatbox. The girl was in lingerie. Was fun so I stripped to my boxers. But when I refused to pull my boxers down she ended the chat and went offline. Maybe it ...
A. 30 May 2012: I guess there is nothing that you can do about this now. This is the dangers off engaging in on line activities like this. You never know who it is that is watching it. So allow it to be a lesson learnt. I highly doubt that it was recorded so I ... (read in full...)
Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?
Q. I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed. Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I...
A. 29 May 2012: Talk to him about your concerns. At the end of the day all men are different, he may like you but his lack of intimacy regarding kissing and cuddling could just be the fact that he is not in to it. Also when it comes to ejaculating outside of ... (read in full...)
Guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed?
Q. I guess this is a question mostly for men, but female input would be appreciated too, especially what your partners think. Basically - guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed? I'm not talking porn star scale, but when...
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Questions for women who KNOW they are attractive to men....
Q. You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. ...
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Is it possible for him to actually love me ?
Q. My story is kind of long so I´ll try to be quick...I moved up to New York when I was about 9 and lived up there for roughly about 9 years, when I was 13 I met this guy named A (there´s another guy this A) and well it was puppy love I guess and we ...
A. 27 May 2012: At the end of the day really only he can answer this. You where both only very young when you where together so a lot can change since then. I can understand that he feels like he loves you, but you are both not the same person you where back then, ... (read in full...)
Did anyone have such experience of mixing work and love?
Q. Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year (have been friends for years before) now, we went through a rather long rough patch recently, but it seems we managed to hold on together. Everything was good again, but somethin...
A. 27 May 2012: I can totally understand where you are coming from here, and I think you are right, it is okay to direct someone but there is no point in you doing her work for her, and it is really disrespectful off her and immature to throw a tantrum at you for ... (read in full...)
Mutually abusive marraige--has my wife fallen out of love?
Q. Hi my wife and I are in an abusive relationship. she hits me and throws screaming fits . She also also breaks down my self image verbally.I have in the past retaliated and verbally abused her in turn. Despite this when things are good they are ...
A. 27 May 2012: I think the only way to over come everything here is to arrange for the both of you to go to a marriage counsellor and sort all of these issues out. If she never shows affection any more and does not tell you she loves you any more then yes it is ... (read in full...)
Best friend's girlfriend trying to get rid of me?
Q. This is going to be very long explanation so sorry in advance. This is about my best friend/crush (I'll call him C from here on to avoid confusion). C has told me he is bi and I have told him I'm gay. About a year ago C broke up with his girlfriend. ...
A. 27 May 2012: Well when she first wrote the message the first thing I would have done was talk to C and ask him what the story was, not just take this girls word for it. I think you should talk to him yes, tell him about the message and ask him what the deal is, ... (read in full...)
In love with 2 totally different men... what do I do?
Q. 3 months ago my (ex) fiance broke up. We had been fighting a lot and it came to a head. He had said too many nasty things that I could not get out of my head. I just couldn't deal with them. I am still so in love with him and just yesterday w...
A. 27 May 2012: Why? Because you are not over him yet simple. You rushed in to this second relationship to quickly you should have gave yourself time to heal and get over your ex first and you never would have found yourself in this position.
Okay so looking ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain her behaviour to me?
Q. Can anyone give me some advice in regards to this girls behavior at the club last night? Okay , so I was with my friends last night at a club and I usually don't go to clubs but since it was my friends birthday I told myself I would make a ...
A. 27 May 2012: I think you should just let it go and not let it bother you. Yes it is a shame that you both became good friends and then she just ignores you. But some people tend to be like that and if I where you I would not let it get to you. Am sure you do not ... (read in full...)
I'm sick and I'm disappointed that my b/f didn't care enough to call
Q. I was sick to my stomach and my bf of a couple months had spent the nite,he woke up next morning n said he had to go to check something at his house but would come rite back with medicine for me,well 4 hrs later he calls n said he had to help his ...
A. 27 May 2012: You both had a disagreement, he didn't like your attitude so he went in to a bit of a sulk and decided to enjoy himself at the weekend instead of looking after you. You say it is only been a couple of months so this is still a new relationship so I ... (read in full...)
Why do guys in long distance relationships not try harder?
Q. we've been together for 4 years..2 of them in a long distance relationship..i love him very very much...and i know that he loves me too...he never never doubted that we will get married etc..but lately it seems like i'm the only one that wants to ...
A. 27 May 2012: Am not sure what you are wanting fixed here if I am honest, he is contacting you every day, am not sure what more you want from him. Obviously it is going to be a hard relationship because it is long distance, this just makes things really difficult ... (read in full...)
What could this girl possibly have against me?
Q. What is with this girl? I'll admit at first, I thought she was extremely sexy, just like everyone else did. But after my first one on one (if you could call it that), I'm totally put off by her. the first time I actually said something to her, she ...
A. 27 May 2012: It really is hard to tell, maybe she has a crush on you and does not know how to speak to you? Maybe someone has being lying to her about you and now she has a dislike to you? Maybe she thinks you are not a nice person? It really is a hard one to ... (read in full...)
Is my back too large?
Q. Hi everyone! Right this may sound silly but i'm a UK size 10 which I would consider to be a healthy size, i'm 5'4 and 34E bra size. Anyway, I was looking through the internet today and I saw someone comment saying anyone who is a UK size would ne...
A. 27 May 2012: As the saying goes, do not always believe what you read on the internet, a size 34 back is completely normal for a person who is a size ten, so do not be worried about this, in fact a 34 is perfect for a size ten so you have nothing to be worried ... (read in full...)
In love with girl who is in a long distance relationship
Q. Hi guys, I currently have 2 years left of school, and at the beginning of this year, I completely fell in love, for the first time, head over heels for a new girl who is from Japan and has come over to my school for 3 years to study English an...
A. 27 May 2012: Has she gave you any signs that she actually likes you as more than a friend? If she has a boyfriend then I would say not to go there. My guess is that she is new to the area and she is trying to make new friends. If she has a serious relationship ... (read in full...)
Should I make another attempt with this guy?
Q. Hi, i'm really confused about what to do and hope someone here can help. Around a month ago, i met this guy through an online forum. We started chatting and a few days later exchanged numbers and started texting each other. We would text all day ...
A. 27 May 2012: It sounds to me like he enjoyed talking to you and getting to know you but when it came to meeting you he backed out. Don't keep blaming yourself for this, if he was really interested he would have made the effort to meet you and get to know you ... (read in full...)
How do I make my family see that age, nationality and religion don't matter to us!
Q. hi.. i have a relationship with age gap difference and different nationality and religion. but we respect each other and we dont see this differences between us. im asking for a blessing from my family but their are very concerned to me and what ...
A. 27 May 2012: I can understand where you are coming from, I don't think religion or anything else should come in the way of two people who love each other if they do not have a problem with it. However yes families sometimes can have worries and concerns as it is ... (read in full...)
Why do guys in long distance relationships not try harder?
Q. we've been together for 4 years..2 of them in a long distance relationship..i love him very very much...and i know that he loves me too...he never never doubted that we will get married etc..but lately it seems like i'm the only one that wants to ...
A. 27 May 2012: You need to be more specific. You say he does not always contact you back, but how often does he contact you? Ten times a day is a little bit extreme, I know you are in love and that is great and all but do you really want to come across as being ... (read in full...)
Was that outburst a signal that I should end it?
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 1 and a half years. Before we hooked up, he was a total playboy -- flirting with girls, encouraging them on to flirt with him, a new girl every week...and so on. Then after we got committed, ...
A. 27 May 2012: Your life would not end without him, yes you love him, but am sure you can still survive without him. Okay so getting on to the issue, my guess is he acted this way because it was his past and he did not want it brought up, maybe he feels bad about ... (read in full...)
Is it bad if my girlfriend and I don't talk every day?
Q. Hey is it bad if me and my girlfriend don't talk everyday? She only likes to text. I like talking to her a lot but maybe too much I'm not sure. We just recently said I love yous and she said she's is gonna make up for how she has treated me the last ...
A. 27 May 2012: Talk to her and ask her what she wants. It is the only way you are going to have any answers. Maybe she is just waiting for you to contact her or maybe she is content waiting a few days before talking to you. The only way you will find out is if you ... (read in full...)
How do I make b/f understand that I shouldn't have to change for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I has some disagreement lately due to religious issues. I am a free thinker. He is quite involved in his religion. He expects me to be a vegetarian and to convert to his religion when we are married. He says this is so that I can ...
A. 27 May 2012: I don't think that you can make him understand. I do not doubt that he loves you, but he is set in his ways, and he wants to marry someone who shares his religion and life style with, obviously you don't share this with him therefore he is asking ... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you date a disabled girl?
Q. Hi there. I have a simple question; how do people view people with disability for relationships. Particularly, guys, would you easily date a disabled girl? Thanks....
A. 27 May 2012: Well am not a guy, but I am going to give my input anyway. I personally would date a guy who had a disability, not only that but I know plenty of guys who date disabled girls. Not all men judge a woman on looks, some genuinely just fall for a nice ... (read in full...)
Is it bad if my girlfriend and I don't talk every day?
Q. Hey is it bad if me and my girlfriend don't talk everyday? She only likes to text. I like talking to her a lot but maybe too much I'm not sure. We just recently said I love yous and she said she's is gonna make up for how she has treated me the last ...
A. 27 May 2012: Some people just do not like to talk on the phone, how often do the both of you hang out face to face? It is okay to go one or two days without talking on the phone if the both of you are keeping in contact through messages. I know personally I hate ... (read in full...)
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