What kind of a problem is this?
Q. I'm 14 years old and when I pee, a small amount of goo(the ones when you blow your nose and lighist clear mucus comes out) after or during peeing.i don't have a boyfriend or did sex.it doesn't itch or burn when I pee but it does sometimes smells ...
A. 10 June 2012: No it is not serious, it sounds like you may have had a little bit of thrush, it happens to everyone growing up, it is a white discharge, it is a small infection that you should not be worried about if there was something to worry about your doctor ... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong in cuddling with your cousin?
Q. i am single and dont want to be in a relationship ever again, but recently i have been staying with my cousin's cousin. We cuddle through out the night .is there anything wrong with just cuddling with a male 3rd cousin?...
A. 10 June 2012: No there is nothing wrong with it, he is your third cousin so he is not immediate family. However your family might be uncomfortable if anything more was to happen so just be careful.... (read in full...)
I'm scard to be kissed!
Q. I am dateing a guy a few weeks now and he asked me if he can kiss me it was on mxit he asked me if he can kiss me and I said "yea sure I don't mind" then the saturday he visited me and tried to kiss me I turned my head so he can't kiss me cause I'm ...
A. 10 June 2012: Why are you so scared? I can understand that it is all new to you and off course you are nervous, I remember clearly how I felt my first kiss, but believe me it just happens naturally and you will love it so just go with it.... (read in full...)
My Husband's Dreamhouse is my Nightmare!
Q. Last year, we had to move, so we went house hunting. We looked for a couple of weeks, then my husband fell in love with a place that seemed a great bargain. Well, when we went to look at it again, I realized it is in a bad area. I talked to him many ...
A. 10 June 2012: If you feel that this place is not safe for you and your baby, then you should do the right thing and get out of here. Explain to him how you feel and tell him it is either you all move as a family to somewhere more reliable or else you will be ... (read in full...)
None of the men I meet stick around!
Q. Hi I would be really grateful for any answers to this I am a single parent to a little girl who is 4 I have no problem meeting men but they do not stick around here's some background info met a man fell pregnant after a year (my daughters father) ...
A. 10 June 2012: I am not sure there is anything that you can do to change this. At the end of the day all men are different and they are all going to treat you differently. The best advice that I can give you is to keep going out and meeting new people and getting ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're overweight?
Q. so um...how do you know if you're overweight? every time i go to school i feel like i'm so much bigger that everyone...i am fairly tall to so i always feel like a gigantic freak...none of my friends understand...is there a diet program someone ...
A. 10 June 2012: If you feel you are overweight and you want to lose some extra weight then head to your doctor and ask him to forward you to a dietician. Or you could always look around your area for a slimming group.
The best way to lose weight is obviousl... (read in full...)
How can I tell my husband that he's way too rough during sex?
Q. so this is a little bit emberrasing..but about a month ago i was allowed to have a congical visit (when prisoner and usually the wife get to stay in private housing on prison grounds) with my husband.he's been in prison for 4 years. he just got out ...
A. 10 June 2012: I think he had a lot of frustration build up inside him and he let it all out during sex with you. However if you told him to slow down he should have. I can understand why you are worried I would be as well. Rough sex to the point where it hurts is ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable in this situation?
Q. Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step ...
A. 9 June 2012: No you are not being unreasonable. He is. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you cannot hang out with a friend at there house sometimes as well. He needs to be able to trust you in order for this relationship to work and it is ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is secretly trying to get me pregnant!
Q. im 16 years old and me and my bf (17) have been dating for 5 months now and almost 2 months ago i lost my v card to him. and i think he is secretly trying to get me pregnant becouse he is always saying how bad he wants to be a dad and he doesnt want ...
A. 9 June 2012: You do not need to do either. You are way to young to be a mother and I am glad you realise that, however you asking should you get pregnant shows me that you are still immature in a couple of ways, because you should never get pregnant to keep some ... (read in full...)
Three months after our breakup and she's already with another guy!
Q. So my ex of now 3 months told me when we were together that i was the one and that she wanted to marry me in the future and she was in love with me but then its 3 months later and she is already with another person. Is it wrong to feel hurt by ...
A. 9 June 2012: Everybody moves on sooner or later, three months later seems a good enough time frame between relationships. I can understand why you are feeling hurt off course I do because you thought she was the one for you so yes you are going to be hurt. But ... (read in full...)
What do birth control pills do? Effects and side effects?
Q. What are the effects and side effects of birth control pills? My friend takes them for birth control, my sister takes them to regulate her period, and my cousin takes them to help her acne. So the only thing I know about them is that they lessen ...
A. 9 June 2012: http://teenshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/contraception/contraception_birth.html
On this link above you can read all about the birth control and its side effects.... (read in full...)
Should we try the long distance thing? I don't want to lose him as a friend
Q. Hello. Okay so I dated this guy 3 years back but then I broke up with him. But we've remained friends ever since. Last year he went to the states for further studies. And I don't know how, we started talking a lot through Skype calls. He just came ...
A. 9 June 2012: Well I guess this is a decision you have to make on your own. You both like each other and it is the distance that is coming in between you both, well that is the only issue I see here anyway, you where a couple before and it never got in the way of ... (read in full...)
I really fell for him. Should I move back to my usual state to help me get over him?
Q. I am have spent time in one state and I live usually in another state There is a guy here where I had a psysical relationship with and it seems like he is not into me anymore I fell hard for him. when I came back last week for memorial day weekend ...
A. 9 June 2012: I know that it is hard at the moment as you fell hard for him, but I believe once you return home and give yourself some time you will soon feel better. It is good you live three hours away from him because distance is what you need. Don't rush ... (read in full...)
Spicing up the nights on our vacation!
Q. hello, lovies!!! i'm gearing up to head to galveston for the weekend with my guy and his family and some friends. during the day, we're gonna be hanging out with everybody and having funn and catching some waves and doing all of the other lovely ...
A. 9 June 2012: Well really anything goes here, it just really depends what you are both in to and what works for both of you. Maybe look in to buying some new sex toys that you can both try out, think of some ways you can both dress up. Maybe buy some body paint ... (read in full...)
Confused about Boyfriend's Sexual Past
Q. I have been dating a truly kind, loving, fun and communicative man for the last five months. We're both in our early thirties. We have a fantastic sex life and we feel very connected to each other. Recently, we started to ask each other perso...
A. 9 June 2012: I don't think you should judge him over this. At the end of the day he was at college, he was young and experimented a little bit. To be honest with you lots of college students tend to do this but some just never mention it again. I guess he feels ... (read in full...)
Opinions on BPD please?
Q. Hello there aunts and uncles! I hope you are all well. I am looking for some opinions on BPD (borderline personality disorder). I have read some answers about some onviously deranged woman and some of the answers say it sounds like they have BPD. I ...
A. 9 June 2012: If I am honest personally no that is not how I would feel. At the end of the day this is an illness and yes you can change, off course you can with the right help people can change and learn how to deal with episodes. Off course you might never be ... (read in full...)
Baggage from the break-up is getting in the way with new guys
Q. My boyfriend and i split up 8 months ago but he wont stop texting me abusive texts, leaving abusive messages (still after this long)etc. He calls me such horrible names and makes me feel like its my fault that he got depressed because i broke up ...
A. 9 June 2012: Your ex has broke down your confidence and your self esteem. It is no wonder you find it hard to trust another guy at the moment when he is still hassling you. My advice is to change your phone number so he cannot contact you, or else ring up your ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the rebound girl!
Q. Hey, I have known this boy for ages now as we went to school together. We're now at the same college and have been flirting throughout the whole year. All of his friends have always hinted that he was into me by asking if i was seeing anyone and if ...
A. 9 June 2012: I think the best thing that you can do is to just continue to be his friend. Don't try and come on to him, just be yourself. He has literally just came out of a relationship, I am not sure how he felt about this girl or what happened but am sure he ... (read in full...)
I've been replaced in the group by a new girl and it hurts!
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a friendship problem. I usually go and hang out in my village with 3 good friends (2 boys 1 girl) and we would meet up a few times a week. Recently, one of the boys has been seeing a girl from school (one of my friends) and now...
A. 9 June 2012: Why don't you make arrangements for an outing and invite everyone. Tell them all you miss them and don't say it in a joking way be serious with them and explain to them that you feel left out. However there is two of the four that are in a ... (read in full...)
I want to see him again but I'm scared and innocent
Q. Hi. This is kind of intimate and awkward to write about but here goes. So, I went on a date-sort-of-thing with this guy I like from my uni lgbt. He asked me. It went OK and I went back to his after we had been for a drink, and we kissed and g...
A. 9 June 2012: Your very welcome, let me know how you get on. Good luck. Take care.... (read in full...)
Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?
Q. im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...
A. 9 June 2012: That really is all the wrong attitude to have, but do as you wish. ... (read in full...)
Should I get revenge? He went out with me then all of my mates!
Q. hey i got dumped a few days ago and this guy really broke my heart he went out with me 3 times then dumped me and went out with all my mates what shall i do shall i get revenge on him or leave it? please help!!!!!!!!!!!! ...
A. 9 June 2012: Just leave it. At the end of the day it was only three dates so it was not like you where with him for three years. Yes he hurt your feelings and he betrayed you. But you should be the bigger person and just forget him. Don't try to get revenge as ... (read in full...)
Where can I et help about having a phobia about illness?
Q. Hi. So, i'm almost certain i have a phobia of vomit and illnesses. I cannot stand anything remotely related to vomit, it scares me and i panic! I also freak out if anyone mentions or thinks that they are ill. I hate it, it is literally ruining ...
A. 9 June 2012: Okay so the first thing you should do is go to your doctor and tell them how you have been feeling. They can forward you on to the appropriate help. I had a friend who had this phobia and there is a name on it. She used to panic as well and she was ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend went away on a trip, didn't tell me and he doesn't understand why I am upset
Q. Hi. This is not my first relationship, but I am my boyfriends first girlfriend. I'm wondering if maybe this is why he does the things he does, because he doesn't know better? When I go away for a few days, even if it is just a weekend, I think it is ...
A. 9 June 2012: This is obviously just the way he is, you have been honest with him now which is a good thing and maybe he will grow in time to realise it is important to you. How long have you both been together, and are you sure he is serious about you? I think ... (read in full...)
I get to embarrassed to talk to a guy!
Q. i'm 16 years old, never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss and i have trouble talking to guys...is there something wrong with me? am i too ugly? too fat? too shy? i don't know what to do and whenever i start talking to a guy i am scared to be ...
A. 9 June 2012: No there is nothing wrong with you what so ever, you just have low self esteem when it comes to chatting to guys, you are shy and scared that you will do or say something embarrassing and then you are not thinking straight and just feel more ... (read in full...)
I want him like he used to be!
Q. well me and my boyfriend have been togther for 15 months, but for the past few months, four months id say, we've argied quite alot... we have also broke up a few times, but when we do, we only break up for a day, or even hours! recently everything ...
A. 9 June 2012: It is a silly promise to make each other that you will not go out without the other one being there, or drink alcohol, that will never work. At the end of the day you both should be going out with friends as well as each other and also with him ... (read in full...)
I want to see him again but I'm scared and innocent
Q. Hi. This is kind of intimate and awkward to write about but here goes. So, I went on a date-sort-of-thing with this guy I like from my uni lgbt. He asked me. It went OK and I went back to his after we had been for a drink, and we kissed and g...
A. 9 June 2012: Hi I think it was you I replied to earlier with the similar question, however this post offers more information than the last one did. I think maybe he might have taken you being so nervous as maybe you did not want to be intimate with him. I am not ... (read in full...)
Its beena year and I can't get over my FWB guy
Q. Last summer i was speaking to a boy and we met up and then we just started having casual sex (friends with benefits).. i started having feelings for him but he had no feelings towards me so that was when things went wrong. He would always tell me ...
A. 9 June 2012: Off course you don't want them to be together, because you want him. There is a very fine line between love and hate, and am guessing he would not admit how much he liked her and instead talked about hating her to try and get it out of his head. But ... (read in full...)
I'm working hard but it's not good enough for my family
Q. Hey everyone, My family treats me like I'm a failure. I am 20 years old, and I am a junior at university, on my way to a degree in psychology with a minor in human development. I work very hard in school. I also work at a child care center for ...
A. 9 June 2012: I think because they struggle with money they just want to see you doing the best that you can do. But you are right though, you are supporting yourself, you are in a happy relationship and studying something that you want to do, you should be proud ... (read in full...)
Old flame from 33 years ago has written me, where do I want this to go?
Q. ok here goes, while in high school I was so in love with this guy, while we were super friends I don't think he really thought of me in the girlfriend way. After high school he went into the service. You have to understand I never forgot about him. ...
A. 8 June 2012: You both had history together, but 33 years is a long time, yes you love the guy that left you all those years ago but the current version of him might be very different and someone who you cannot relate to, are you prepared to through your ... (read in full...)
I've only slept with one person - Did he ever like me?
Q. Does telling a guy you've only slept with one other guy put him off you? Basically, I really liked this guy but I think that after telling him my inexperience, as he might see it, I don't think he's interested anymore. Do I see if it's potentially...
A. 8 June 2012: I am afraid nobody here can really answer that question for you. If it was a first date then it could be a number of things that made him go distant. Maybe he just realised that you where not for him, and you are just thinking the worst possible ... (read in full...)
Games mean more to him than I do
Q. Well Ive been going out with this boy (let's call him bob) and we've known each other since we were babies!! I rarely see him but we chat on Skype quite often! Recently it seems as if games (Xbox etc.) mean more to him than me!! He knows I do get ...
A. 8 June 2012: If it seems he is more interested in games than you, then that means that he is more interested in playing games than spending time with you. I am assuming he is the same age as you (13 - 15) and at this age most guys don't have time for a ... (read in full...)
Am I scared to leave my lying cheating boyfriend?
Q. well me and my botfriend have been together about a year now well friends for six and well a couple weeks into our relationship he said he was going to an uncles house for a couple days. but he dont know i accidently read a text message from a girl ...
A. 8 June 2012: You do not need him, and do not tell me you '' accidently '' read a message on his phone, you where snooping, and you obviously had a reason for that. Did you trust him back then? Maybe just curious? Either way you should not have went through his ... (read in full...)
Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?
Q. im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...
A. 8 June 2012: I think the best thing for you to do now is to cut her out of your life, she does not want to commit to you and she is not looking for anything serious just a bit of fun, you will end up getting hurt if things don't end now am afraid.... (read in full...)
I'm not one of the priorities in my boyfriend's life
Q. hi everyone im in a long distance relationship situation i am feeling that im not the priority by my boyfriend and im not sure whether im part of his plans or enter in his world, he just visited here last few months, weve been 2 years knew ...
A. 7 June 2012: He is not serious about you, if he was he would make more off an effort. Dump him or else you will just keep getting hurt as he uses you. He is not in love with you and if he wanted to be with you he would find a way. He is messing with your head. ... (read in full...)
Fight for something we both can see coming to an end? Could it change?
Q. How do you let go when you cant? ive had my fair share of idiot boyfriends in the past but this is is lovely, weve been together for a year and a half and he is lovely, kind, sexy and gorgeous, he treats me like a princess and i know he feels th...
A. 7 June 2012: You have pretty much admitted that things are just not working out the way they are at the moment, but you are still holding on to hope that he will change and stop being lazy and start going out with you and doing fun things together. But if I am ... (read in full...)
Why does she want to stay friends with her ex?
Q. Hello everyone! So I'm lesbian and I have a girlfriend called M and we've been together for 3 months soon and it's such happiness. Before meeting M, I had to struggle to have my best friend's heart which was a total failure. This best friend's name ...
A. 6 June 2012: Tell your girlfriend how you are feeling but at the end of the day it is her choice if she wants to remain friends with T. At the end of the day she must want her in her life as a friend or else she wouldn't do it. You say you trust her well that ... (read in full...)
He's giving me the silent treatment again, what should I do this time?
Q. I am stuck on what to do - i dont know if contacting my boyfriend will make things worse. A few nights ago my BF seemed to get angry about something and saying he would stop coming over to my house. Nothing actually happened so i dont know where ...
A. 6 June 2012: No why should you contact him? He is the one that took a strop and stormed out and you never done anything. Maybe there are other things going on in his life at the moment, but it still does not give him permission to treat you like this. Don't let ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I'm happy with him, other times I feel used.
Q. My ex fiance and i are monogomous with each other but arent together, although we hope to be. Sometimes im very happy with him other times i think hes with me because its easier, we dont have to pay rent and he uses my car cuz his broke down. But ...
A. 6 June 2012: Off course it is normal to feel this way and you are completely right. If it was me then I would want commitment as well from him. Why leave it until August? Why not just talk to him now and ask him what the story is with the both of you, you are ... (read in full...)
My best friend walked in on b/f and I having sex and now its awkward
Q. My boyfriend and I were at home together last night and we both got really quite turned on and horny so ended up having sex on our sofa. I was going down on him- we were both naked and my best friend and my boss walked in on us. Just to clarify, my ...
A. 6 June 2012: Just let it go. I know things where awkward this morning and am sure they will be for a couple of days, but am sure its nothing he hasn't saw before. Just try and be as normal as you can be, I know that it can be embarrassing, but will only make it ... (read in full...)
Dating my girlfriend but I have feelings for another woman
Q. I am in a new relationship where I have been seeing this girl for two months. I like her but I have feelings for another woman who I have known for a year and a half. She is a client of my company and I see her often through work and we have become ...
A. 6 June 2012: What you are doing right now is leading this other girl on. I know you do not want to do that, but in truth it is exactly what you are doing. So I think you should do the right thing, end things with your current girlfriend, just tell her that ... (read in full...)
Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?
Q. im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...
A. 6 June 2012: No you can not continue with things the way that they are, because I am scared you will get badly hurt. You need to talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. It comes across as she is just looking for a bit of fun with you and nothing more. But ... (read in full...)
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