Just started dating but very little sex
Q. I have started seeing this girl (28 I am 34) a 2 months ago. We liked each other right away and after a few times we made love. We where both traveling the first month so we only got together briefly 3 times and made love. She then came to my city ...
A. 14 October 2012: People who are in relationships for years find it hard if suddenly they have distance between them so I can completely understand what you mean, off course it is going to be hard if you both cannot meet up more and get to know each other better. The ... (read in full...)
How do I get my prude girlfriend to do sexual things with me?!
Q. How do I get my prude girlfriend to do shit with me?! We have been dating for a few weeks and we have only made out. I try to feel her up and she just stops me. how can i seduce/persuade her to let me finger her or give me dome!? ...
A. 8 October 2012: Well first off you can start by actually having patience and waiting, a couple of weeks and you feel that you should be allowed free access to her? That is not the way it works, yes I realise you are a teenage guy and your hormones are probably ... (read in full...)
Why would my ex watch me as I walked away?
Q. what does it mean your ex watched you walk away? yesterday i seen my ex and his wife at the store my best friend that he was watching me. she said he watched me until i got in the store and then he looked away. i haven't talked to him in 8 days we ...
A. 8 October 2012: He looked at you as you are his ex simple as that. My guess is that you want it to mean more, that you are still not over him and you want him back so you are hoping that he still wants to be with you, but he is married now and you need to accept ... (read in full...)
When would be the right time to tell my students that I am pregnant?
Q. I'm a 29 year-old woman and I recently found out that I am expecting. I'm a teacher, so is my husband, and we work at the same high school. We've been married for 15 months. I'm fairly skinny and I'm about 6 weeks pregnant. I haven't starting ...
A. 7 October 2012: Really it is up to you and how you are feeling as to when you take your maternity leave. Some people take it early while others work right up until near the end of the pregnancy so that they have more time once the baby is born, again really it is ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do or how to free myself from these feelings for my FWB and Best friend. What are the options please?
Q. Hi My best friend and I are in a situation and need help!! we are Friends with Benefits but I'm in love with the her! it's making things complicated and jeopardising our friendship. she's just come out of a long term relationship and...
A. 7 October 2012: There is no way that you are going to be able to carry on this relationship and free your feelings you are just hurting yourself more. She started this FWB relationship as a rebound for herself and yes fun for you both, but that is the thing with ... (read in full...)
I am too overcome to talk to him. So how can I find out if my crush has the same feelings as I do for him?
Q. I have a crush on this guy but only thing I can do is smile every time I see him. I can't even talk my words disappear from my mind I start shaking I don't know if he see me shaking but I feel it. i can't see anything, or hear anything I just feel ...
A. 7 October 2012: I am sorry but nobody on here would be able to tell you if his feelings are the same for you or not, it is impossible to tell when you haven't even had a conversation with this man. Yes I can understand you feel like it is love at first sight but ... (read in full...)
What can I do? He will not tell his friends and family that we are dating, but we've been together for 5 months now.
Q. I'm at a loss what to do or think.. my boyfriend tells all his friends and family that I'm not his girl just a friend and we've been together for five months now... last night we were supposed to hang out and I didn't hear from him till 6 am th...
A. 7 October 2012: Am afraid if it is the truth you are looking for you are not going to like it but it is better finding out now than later on down the line. He has no intentions off making a commitment to you, he doesn't care about you and he doesn't care if he ... (read in full...)
Can I trust him? I feel disrespected. He take advantage of me and that makes it worse
Q. I have dated my boyfriend for 7 years Before I didn't mind him having every weekend to himself and his friends. My worry is that sometimes he take an advantage of me and that makes it worse. We were suppose to meet this friday as we've Planned bu...
A. 7 October 2012: If it was me I would be really annoyed and frustrated with him. This shows that he has no respect for you and that his friends come before you. Fair enough if he had to leave your plans for an emergency and it was only once, but the fact that it ... (read in full...)
My guardian did not want my Bf to stay any longer. Was my Bf's reaction indicative of true love for me?
Q. My boyfriend just left my house, and before he left, he was crying because he said he didn't want to leave me, he wanted to stay longer but my guardian didn't want that. He made me cry too, both of us was crying and it hurts so much to him cry, I wi...
A. 7 October 2012: At the moment am sure you both believe that it is true love yes, but things can change just to prepare you for that, you may both grow as people and see life much differently than you do now, but for the moment just enjoy the relationship.... (read in full...)
I want to give my ex a second chance, but his hobby over-shadows our relationship. What can I do to make things work the second time around?
Q. I recently started seeing my ex-boyfriend again. It has been a good few years since we were together AND I want to give him a second chance. The problem is he puts his job AND his hobby before me. I understand about the job, it's highly dema...
A. 7 October 2012: The only advice I can give to you is to talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. Explain to him that you understand that he feels strongly about this and that you admire that but say to him that you feel kind of left out and pushed to a side. ... (read in full...)
When would be the right time to tell my students that I am pregnant?
Q. I'm a 29 year-old woman and I recently found out that I am expecting. I'm a teacher, so is my husband, and we work at the same high school. We've been married for 15 months. I'm fairly skinny and I'm about 6 weeks pregnant. I haven't starting ...
A. 7 October 2012: I think you should talk about this to the head of the school and see what they have to say. In my opinion it would be better to leave it for another while until you announce your pregnancy to your students, at least wait until over the 3 month mark ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my male best friend! Do I let him know?
Q. My best friend and I have known each other for years. i'm a woman, he's a guy. And we've known each other since we were ten years old. Our families are so close that people think we're all related. When I was in high school I developed a crus...
A. 6 October 2012: As you say he is your best friend, therefore I think you just need to tell him the truth, friendship will just not be enough for you now, your feelings will get in the way of the friendship, it is much better to be honest with him, if he does not ... (read in full...)
Ok, I REALLY fancy him! He does like me, right? What can I do to make this work?
Q. Tuesday: I met this guy in a party and we had a lot of eye contact and by the end of the party, we talked a lot. He walked me to a taxi station and before we said bye, he asked me for my number. I texted him my number when I got back and he replied ...
A. 6 October 2012: Don't rush things or force things to much or it might all go sour, yes all the signs are there that this is going well, so just continue getting to know him and enjoy it. If you are feeling up to it maybe you could ask him does he want to meet for a ... (read in full...)
I'm shy, how can I tell he likes me without asking him?
Q. So my friend tried to set me up with her college friend around 5 months ago. I wasn't interested at first but recently we've started talking again and it's got to the point where were talking everyday. We haven't met yet but were arranging to. I've ...
A. 6 October 2012: Okay well you both have still not met each other face to face yet so I think you are getting way to ahead of yourself. I understand that over the phone you are both getting on quite well and getting to know each other, but you might not feel the ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I keep falling for girls who are already taken. Can anyone suggest why I do this?
Q. I have a history of falling for girls who were already taken, in relationships, married, or who were themselves in love with someone else. Any help as to why a person would always let this happen and what to do about it?...
A. 6 October 2012: Maybe deep down there is a part of you that gets a thrill of chasing a girl that is already committed to someone else. Maybe you enjoy seeing if you could actually coax another girl away, or it could be possible that you are scared of commitment ... (read in full...)
My twin brother hates me and has said that he hates that there's one more person with his face
Q. Well, I'm guy and I'm 25 years old. My problem is not very common, I guess. My own brother hates me and I don't understand why. We're identical twins, we're really like two drops of water. I know it should be that twins are best friends each to ...
A. 5 October 2012: This is not your fault what so ever. It looks to me like your brother has built up a lot of anger from his childhood which he leashes out on to you. My guess is that he feels like he doesn't have his own identity. You are right most identical twins ... (read in full...)
I want another baby, but I suffer from anxiety and depression.
Q. i just wanted to write I'm 20 with a 21month old girl and I've been talking to my partner for awhile that we want another one and i really want to have another baby but i suffer extreme anxiety and my pregnancy with my daughter wasn't the best i ...
A. 5 October 2012: What does your partner feel about it? Does he feel the same as you do? The anxiety is probably down to you worrying about pregnancy and sickness and also wondering if you can cope with two children, it is normal to worry but if you are having bad ... (read in full...)
How do you get approved for a sex change?
Q. I never felt as if I was a woman born in a male body however I have always wanted to be female. Can one get approved for a sex change operation based solely on the fact that one would rather be the other sex? ...
A. 5 October 2012: Go to your doctor and tell them how you are feeling about things. They might be able to refer you to a counsellor to talk things through and guide you to the next step.... (read in full...)
He's in love with me and his ex-girlfriend. Is it understandable that I am not feeling as comfortable as before? What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have, what we and everyone else call the perfect relationship. Both of our last two relationships were not good. We were always the calm, rational one being yelled at, griped at, fought with, argued with, exploded on etc. O...
A. 5 October 2012: Its clear he was never over his ex to begin with before he started a relationship with you and that you have both just moved way to quickly in the relationship without giving each other space. In this post you fail to mention that he had a death ... (read in full...)
I'm bi curious and would like some advice on how to proceed with it
Q. Hey everyone, I have been bicurious for a very long time now,but I haven't come out in the open to anyone saying I would like to try it with a girl,cuz I want to first try it with a girl and know myself if its just a phase and curiosity or I'm bicu...
A. 5 October 2012: Maybe go to a gay club and meet people there, have you any friends who you are close to you can open up and tell them how you feel and ask them to join you at the club if you are not wanting to go on your own. Another way to meet women is dating ... (read in full...)
How do I get over unrequited love without avoiding the person entirely?
Q. So. I've had a thing for one of my friends for nearly a year. About six months ago I kinda told him, and his response was that he wasn't looking to date - which I realize is a nicer way of saying he's not interested in me. After that he just acted ...
A. 5 October 2012: No there is no magic way for this to disappear, if you want to still stay friends with him then I am afraid this is not going to go away magically and disappear. You need to distance yourself from him, if you don't want him questioning it then tell ... (read in full...)
I got rejected. Will I find someone better?
Q. Hey all, I got rejected by a guy I really like. Although I have dated in the past, I feel he is the first guy to understand me. He also has qualities that I all want in a person and shares many similarities to me. Unfortunately, we've known ea...
A. 5 October 2012: I think in time that will get better. At the moment you are feeling you will never find someone like that again because your feelings are still raw over this other guy and you still really like him. That will get better in time, and you will soon ... (read in full...)
Love my crush, how can I get him by giving him signals that I like him???
Q. please read this sorry it's long :( im in year 9 and i'v likes this guy from my primary school since year 7. we used to have the greatest conection ever, though i was to young to understand what love was in primary school (he really liked ...
A. 5 October 2012: Okay first off you have to slow down and pace yourself, don't think so far ahead off yourself you are still only young. I can understand you have a crush on this guy and it is quite normal to lose contact with friends when you go to different ... (read in full...)
I'm shy so how do I go up and start talking to a guy?
Q. So I started college 4 weeks ago and I keep seeing this guy that's really attractive, i'm too shy to go up to him and i wouldn't know what to say anyway. How would I get talking to him? ...
A. 5 October 2012: Am afraid there is no other way of getting to know him unless you actually make the effort and talk to him. You just need to start with saying a simple hello whenever you pass him, smile and show him that you have noticed him. Once you are ... (read in full...)
Husband wasn't happy when I was heavier and now that I'm think he's STILL not happy!
Q. I'm at my wits end right now. A few years ago, my husband teased me relentlessly about my weight. At first it was funny and cute and I thought that as long as he still wanted me ,there really wasn't a problem. Then his comments regarding my wai...
A. 5 October 2012: Well am not a guy but am still going to offer my opinion to you. My guess is that he teased you thinking that you would never actually go through with it, and may I just add that it was very insensitive and rude of him to tease you like that. Anyway ... (read in full...)
Lack of support and TLC - What the kind of behavior is this?
Q. Hey everyone. I apologize for the lengthy post. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Relationship is up and down, he does really stupid and hurtful things sometimes, and all the time I just give him chance, after chance, after ...
A. 5 October 2012: If I am honest with you all it shows is that he doesn't care about you. I am not sure why that is as you have both been together for 4 years, but he was not there to support you and he wasn't worried. He just completely ignored the situation. Him ... (read in full...)
I need advice about a crush on a teacher.
Q. I have a massive crush on my teacher and recently I have found myself completely enamored with her armpits. Whenever she raises her arms I can't help but stare at her underarms, and every single lesson, I get an erection. I also get turned on by the ...
A. 5 October 2012: I think the best thing for you to do is to just try and ignore your urges, I know that it is difficult but it is just your male hormones, hopefully in time you will begin to control them and forget all about them.... (read in full...)
Does she like me? Is there attraction?
Q. Im in my final year at university, and i have met this girl from vietnam. She is very nice, and friendly. Because of our cultural differences i found it harder to understand her signs of flirting if any. However since our first few days at un...
A. 5 October 2012: The only way to get her to act that way around you is to get to know her better, and you are on the right track. To me it sounds like she does like you and that this might actually be the start off something very special. I think you should ask her ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I get jelous if my boyfriend likes other girls pictures on facebook?
Q. Is it bad that i get jelous if my boyfriend likes other girls pictures on facebook? and ive seen it a cuople times not often but when i do see it i get frustrated and a little hurt. I hate bieng the jelous type i cant help it... I mean i know for a ...
A. 5 October 2012: If I am being honest with you there is no harm in him liking other girls pictures on facebook. You need to try and over come this, just remember you are the one that has him and he is allowed to have female friends as well. It is you he wants as his ... (read in full...)
HOT as fire to ICE cold. Might this work if we resolve things? I am making life changes with him, but now I'm scared.
Q. I have a problem. I do not easily let people in, because I know if I ever truly give my heart completely to someone, and they break it, it will be the last time. I know myself. I ended up getting very close to someone I knew for six years, but who ...
A. 5 October 2012: Have you both only been in a relationship together for a month? If that is the case then this relationship is moving way to fast for my liking. Talking about moving in together and starting a family after such a small period off time always spells ... (read in full...)
I want to be dating my friend but don't think he feels the same
Q. Hey everyone, thanks in advance for reading, here's the issue... So a little while ago I got out of a relationship of one year. He's a wonderful person, but we just couldn't work any more. Pretty soon after the break up I started hanging out w...
A. 4 October 2012: Go for it! Life is to short and it sounds like you both like each other but you are both to afraid to say it, tell him how you feel! You have nothing to lose and a lot to gain, the worst case scenario would be that he is not ready to date yet and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants a threesome and I don't think
Q. My boyfriend wants a threesome!! Mature answers pls? My boyfriend is 27 I'm 23 we've been together over 3 years. He keeps bringing up threesomes for years ( as he has never had one)and today over the phone (I'm overseas for 7 wks) he was talking a...
A. 4 October 2012: Honestly I think if you are both serious about this relationship then allowing someone else in to your bedroom is a big mistake. At the moment you both might seem okay with it, but once actually in the act I could almost guarantee that one of you ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to hold his hand or kiss him
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend for a week, and i really want to kiss him and hold hands like a normal couple do. all of my friends try and push me into it, and then he swears at them and i don't know if he knows how i feel. i am not very ...
A. 4 October 2012: Ignore this other girl, she is just trying to get a reaction from you, if you ignore her then it will just annoy her, do not let her see that she is getting to you.
As for your relationship, don't rush in to anything you are not ready with and... (read in full...)
In love with my ex's friend!
Q. Dear friends, I had a Ldr With a man for 3 months, let's call him eddy, we clashed so many times and broke up as well, somehow we made up and tried again, Im the serious type and he acted so serious to get me the first couple of months, then he ...
A. 4 October 2012: I can understand why you would feel frustrated as Eddy cheated on you and never treated you well and now he is preventing Fred and you being happy. I do understand why you feel like this is unfair. But really this is something that has to be decided ... (read in full...)
Why can't I squirt now?
Q. OK so my previous partner is the first one who ever let me experience squirting.. ever since him I haven't been able to squirt weather its in my own or with someone else... my current partner pleases me but not by squirting... I'm just curious as to ...
A. 4 October 2012: Well if you don't know yourself how to make it happen then how do you expect your current partner to know? Do you not know what exactly your ex partner done to allow this to happen, research in to it yourself and then instead of asking your ... (read in full...)
Does he miss me but not want to get into things because of the distance?
Q. Long story short - I went on vacation summer break 2011 to a friend's beach house, she wanted me to meet a friend of his and I did. We liked each other, got drunk one night and ended up making out, after that we started having a thing during the ...
A. 4 October 2012: The only way you are going to get the true answer is to ask him. My guess is that he doesn't mean to ignore you for a while he probably just wants to contact you every now and then. Off course this is confusing to you, so next time he ignores a ... (read in full...)
My husband is constantly putting me down.
Q. My husband who is in denial has been putting me down for years for one reason or another. I will point it out to him as he is doing but he sees NOTHING wrong with it. I have question his love for me, but im so sure that he is NOT nor has ever lov...
A. 4 October 2012: I honestly don't know why you have put up with it this long, he is obviously making you unhappy and he will never change, he does not respect you and he has shown he cannot be faithful as well. If it was me I would have been gone long ago.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's outgoing personality is causing some trust issues with me. How can I deal with this, or should I even deal with this?
Q. Hi there, I am in a big mess and I need some good advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for around 7 months now. He has a very friendly nature and is able to have conversations with almost anyone and everyone. He makes friends with fem...
A. 4 October 2012: He is allowed to have female friends, and if you try and stop this then he will only resent you and it will spell the end of the relationship for the both of you eventually. He was open to you going through his phone and messages at the beginning ... (read in full...)
My younger brother seems to be cyber stalking girls, what do I do?
Q. Hello i dont know what to do with this. i was on my phone yesterday and my brother had used it earlier and gone on his facebook when i got it back it was still logged in and i know that he can be very immature with his friends so i looked at his ...
A. 4 October 2012: It's clear in your post that you are a guy so am not sure why there was confusion from some people. I think the best thing for you to do is to sit down with your brother and explain to him that you found his messages on your phone. Explain to him ... (read in full...)
Just started dating but very little sex
Q. I have started seeing this girl (28 I am 34) a 2 months ago. We liked each other right away and after a few times we made love. We where both traveling the first month so we only got together briefly 3 times and made love. She then came to my city ...
A. 4 October 2012: Well you may want more, but the way you behaved shows that sex is number one for you and then any thing after that comes second. Yes am sure she pulled back because of this. Most women want a man who sex is not his top priority. They take the time ... (read in full...)
HOT as fire to ICE cold. Might this work if we resolve things? I am making life changes with him, but now I'm scared.
Q. I have a problem. I do not easily let people in, because I know if I ever truly give my heart completely to someone, and they break it, it will be the last time. I know myself. I ended up getting very close to someone I knew for six years, but who ...
A. 4 October 2012: I wouldn't panic yet if I was you. I don't think he wants to break up with you, I think he is just very stressed out at the moment. He had a death scare which must have been very hard for him to deal with, I am sure he struggled to deal with this ... (read in full...)
Any thoughts on how to overcome being overly emotional? I thought we had something happening. Maybe? But now he wants to 'go slow' and not rush thing????
Q. For the past 2 months, I've been dating a co-worker. He's a custodian who specifically is responsible for cleaning/maintaining my office. It's been a bit tough because I work days and he works 3 - 11 pm. He would usually come in to take out my t...
A. 4 October 2012: It is still very early days for the both of you so I think all you can do now is wait and see what happens. I think you came on to strong to quick for him and it freaked him out a little so he backed off. I am not sure if you can both recover from ... (read in full...)
Just started dating but very little sex
Q. I have started seeing this girl (28 I am 34) a 2 months ago. We liked each other right away and after a few times we made love. We where both traveling the first month so we only got together briefly 3 times and made love. She then came to my city ...
A. 4 October 2012: This situation is not going to change. It is clear all you are wanting is sex, and she is not willing to have that kind of relationship with you as she wants more. You pressured her in to trying to come and have sex with you yet she just wants to ... (read in full...)
My younger brother seems to be cyber stalking girls, what do I do?
Q. Hello i dont know what to do with this. i was on my phone yesterday and my brother had used it earlier and gone on his facebook when i got it back it was still logged in and i know that he can be very immature with his friends so i looked at his ...
A. 3 October 2012: My guess is that this is probably innocent enough to him, it is likely that he is just looking for attention from these girls. At the end of the day if this girl was really worried or really deep down wanted him to stop then she could always block ... (read in full...)
Just started dating but very little sex
Q. I have started seeing this girl (28 I am 34) a 2 months ago. We liked each other right away and after a few times we made love. We where both traveling the first month so we only got together briefly 3 times and made love. She then came to my city ...
A. 3 October 2012: It is still very early days between the both of you, so maybe you should concentrate more on getting to know her better as well as being intimate with her. Maybe she thinks that all you are looking for is sex and that is why she is not willing to ... (read in full...)
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