My brother-in-law is hitting on me!
Q. my brother-in-law is hitting on me! ok,So i've been with my Husband a total of 6 years, well I've always been kind of shy around his whole family. But I still have conversations with them here and then. But I've noticed since I first came into my ...
A. 16 August 2012: You need to be honest with him. Next time he flirts or touches you inappropriate then just tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable and ask him to stop. You need to tackle the problem head on or else it will only get worse. So next time he ... (read in full...)
Me and my step-niece like the same guy. What should I do?
Q. So, School, of course, just recently started. Well, I newly like this boy, and so does my step-niece(she's older than me by one year). We all three have the same 6th hour together. Well, she knows I like hime, and quite a bit. Well, she's already ...
A. 16 August 2012: Am sorry but you are not in any position to tell her she cannot get with this guy. She is not doing anything wrong, yes you like him, but so does she, so I guess really it is just up to him if he wants to get with any of you. Maybe it is a good ... (read in full...)
Should I do a divorce? And what will happen then? I feel lonely
Q. Hi, I know my wife for more than 20 years and we are married for 13. I came to Spain 15 years ago. We have two kids and I am belieiving that our marrage is getting closer to an end. As I left my family and friends home when I came to Spain, I ...
A. 16 August 2012: If you both feel that the marriage is over then I guess divorcee is the only way forward. As for selling the properties, it depends on who's name is on the deeds of the house, if it is joint then yes you can take her to court and allow the judge to ... (read in full...)
I have a bit of a cliché (tragic love story situation) and am in desperate need of some advice.
Q. So i have a bit of a cliche, tragic love story situation and am in desperate need of some advice. I'm 18 years of age and 2 years ago i met a guy on holiday, we instantly clicked, and although i understand i was at such a young age and probably...
A. 16 August 2012: I wouldn't rule it out completely as you never know what the future might hold. However you are still very young and have a lot of your life to live yet. But yes who knows what will happen in years to come. For the moment I would suggest to you to ... (read in full...)
Disillusioned with married life, and not sure where to turn.
Q. Hi Aunties and Uncles, Newbie so please be kind! Really disillusioned with married life. I've been married for almost three years and the man I met no longer exists. He has become stuck in his ways, a bit controlling, bad tempered and I ...
A. 16 August 2012: I think once you have tried everything and worked hard and it still does not fix things then you have no choice but to walk away so you can lead a happier life.
It is obvious you are unhappy in the marriage at the moment, but have you actually... (read in full...)
Do I need to regain her interest? What can I do to rekindle our relationship?
Q. A girl that I have liked for some time and I finally met up again last summer and hit it off immediately. We began talking and were going places. Throughout the course of the year we began to talk nightly on the phone for maybe 2 or 3 hours at a ...
A. 11 August 2012: Shy is shy and you are unsure about what to do. I think you need to be honest with her. It has been a long time you both have been seeing each other and it is time just to be clear and simple with her, tell her you like her and ask her to be your ... (read in full...)
How can I juggle time with my friends and time with my boyfriend without worrying about it?
Q. I'm so worried and confused. I started college in the beginning of the year. My boyfriend started going to the same college, but only recently, this week. My college is known for being very expensive, therefore there's a LOT of unfriendly people ...
A. 11 August 2012: I am sure he is not completely alone. Even if that is all everyone in his course is interested in doing, I am sure he can join some clubs or go on the occasional night out with someone from his course without getting drunk. You have your own life to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend looked at porn because I talked to ex, will he keep doing it?
Q. Hello everyone. I need some advice. Yesterday, I came home and there was a light blinking on my boyfriend and I's antivirus thing. I thought it was no biggie, so I continued watching my show on Netflix. Finally, I got annoyed, and clicked on i...
A. 11 August 2012: I think he was using you talking to your ex as an excuse, he saw that it upset you him looking at porn and therefore he used the one thing that he knew would probably get him off lightly.
My guess is that this is a hobby for him, it relaxes ... (read in full...)
Is gaining 10 lbs going to make a man lose interest in a woman?
Q. Alright so about a month ago I had to put my dog to sleep and since then I have gained about 10lbs and I am super paranoid about my husband cheating on me. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive anymore and he's been completely ignoring me. I've ...
A. 11 August 2012: My guess is that it is your own insecurity. You are aware that you have gained this weight and you feel bad about yourself because off it. If your self esteem takes a knock them you are going to start thinking to yourself that you are unattractive. ... (read in full...)
Crush on my former teacher - what to do with our friendship now?
Q. Long post, but please read! I'm having a dilemma. Basically, I had this teacher in eleventh grade for economics and the minute he became my teacher I developed a huge crush on him. Literally, could not wait for his class, would make sure I look...
A. 11 August 2012: I think you need to be honest with him and tell him how you feel. You are no longer his student therefore that should not stand in your way, however there is a big age gap between the both of you and that could make it difficult for you. At the end ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mother that I miscarried?
Q. I miss-carried at 8 weeks but lied to my mother who doesn't care enough to make sure i have prenatal care. I'm naturally heavier than most females my age(17)so it has been easy to play it off. Now at this moment I'm supposed to be 35 weeks pregnant ...
A. 11 August 2012: You should have told her the truth long before now, I am unsure why you felt you had to hide this for so long from her? Maybe you were scared, but at the end of the day she is expecting a grandchild to come out any day now and it is not fair on her, ... (read in full...)
Advice for getting rid of acne scars?
Q. I've had acne for 7 years now and since i got them my everyone said they were just teenage spots but after 7 years they're still there and some have scarred. But it's really getting me down and lowering my confidence and self esteem, I've tried so ...
A. 11 August 2012: Some teenagers suffer worse from acne than others do unfortunately. Have you asked your doctor about going on the contraceptive pill? This can reduce acne and clear it up. As for the spots just not. Just make sure you keep your skin clean and never ... (read in full...)
How can I remove these walls for good and deal with this fear of getting hurt or even rejected?
Q. If you asked a girl how she would describe me in three words, she would probably say "Mean, distant and uninterested" To be honest, I'm probably only two of those things. Regardless of how interested I am though, I manage to pull all of those qu...
A. 10 August 2012: Most people always let rejection get to them. At the end of the day most people have been heart broken and have been cheated on or hurt by a partner. Some people deal with it while others build up a wall to protect themselves but they end up getting ... (read in full...)
My housemate keeps teasing me...does he like me?
Q. I've been living with four boys for two months and one of them has a real problem with me. For the first week he was really nice and interested in talking to me all the time, and very friendly. Then something changed and he started to act cold as if ...
A. 10 August 2012: His friends could be right, sometimes when a guy likes a girl he does everything in his power to get her attention even if it is all the wrong things. He also might not want anything to happen with you because you both live together therefore he is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't make time for me, what should I do?
Q. I need your help on this... So me and my boyfriend of 4 yrs have had our ups and downs... We live in a country where you are not really supposed to "have" boyfriend.. So it is a little bit hard to go "out" on dates... We usually see each other 2 ...
A. 10 August 2012: If he is not making the effort to see you then it sounds to me like this relationship might just be in trouble. Yes he may be busy but he still should make an effort for you if he is serious about you. Are you both hiding your relationship from your ... (read in full...)
How do I become for social?
Q. I split from my ex around 8 months ago and since i havent been myself, i know i need to start spending more time with my friends again and be more sociable. Any ideas on what we can start doing? i have the usual, cinema, meals, amusment parks but ...
A. 10 August 2012: If money is the problem then why not organise a gathering at your house. Explain to your friends that you are sorry you have not been very sociable but you where in a bad place after the break up. Maybe organise a night where you could all watch ... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting or is he trying to confuse me? After he's been away a few day he changes.
Q. Here is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months about to go on 8. I'm 19 and he is 22. For his job he goes out of town a lot. Well, for the first couple days he is gone he is so sweet, caring, and acts like he did when I fi...
A. 10 August 2012: It is quite normal for a guy not to be affectionate to his girlfriend over the phone in front off his work mates. He is just trying to be a guy in front of other men. I think the best thing to do though is when you are both together sit down with ... (read in full...)
It's been thirty years since I have seen him in person! why does he want to meet up so bad?
Q. I had a hugh crush on this guy in high school, I mean three years of high school. He was the one for me only I made the mistake (as most young girls do) by telling my friends. Soon it was all over. He knew but never said anything to me about it. I ...
A. 10 August 2012: No I don't think he wants to get back with you or have a relationship with you, he is already in a committed relationship, just because she does not go to events with him does not mean that they are not serious about each other, maybe she just does ... (read in full...)
I scared off my partners friend's while they were visiting now my partners mad at me! what should I do?
Q. Dear All, My partner and I have been together a year and live in the UK together. Our flat is seriously tiny, with only one bedroom, but he invited three of his friends to stay with us for a week when they came from Brazil, his home country. ...
A. 10 August 2012: He is being very selfish blaming all of this on you. I can understand that they are his friends and he probably just wanted to have them feel welcome in his home, but at the end of the day they should respect you and your home as well and ensure ... (read in full...)
I would love to be confident like my friends! How can I come out of my shell?
Q. I've always been the quiet one in my group of friends and the one with no confidence but i really want to be like my other friends, they're so confident and know how to start conversations. How do i come out of my shell and be less quiet and hidden?...
A. 10 August 2012: It can be hard to be more out spoken and loud when you are used to being quiet and shy. But it is all about gaining self confidence and learning how to make conversation with people. Take it in small steps. Start yourself off by giving yourself ... (read in full...)
Would you give your girl a second chance after she cheated on you?
Q. hello everyone, i'm confused but reached the end when i'm with dearcupid. Men will you forgive your girl of 4 years, after she cheated for the first with no reason and confess to you. And then tells you how much she loves you, can't live with out ...
A. 10 August 2012: There must have been a reason that she cheated on you, there always is a reason behind it. To forgive her or not for this is your choice and nobody else's. Ask yourself would you be able to trust her again after this. Talk to her about things, ask ... (read in full...)
I've developed some kinda rash or pimples on my back and chest and it's ruining my life! how do I deal with this?
Q. Im so confused right now. Thing is, ive developed a rush like pimples on my chest. When they heal they leave a dark scar mark. So since ive developed them, more than 3 people (adults) told me that its a sign that i might not have children in future. ...
A. 10 August 2012: It sounds to me like it is acne. No this is not a sign that you cannot have children so please ignore these adults that is telling you this. Also he must not have been a good guy if he broke up with you over spots you have. If he cared for you ... (read in full...)
The girl I'm seeing isnt sure if she has feelings for her friend, how should I handle this?
Q. Hello I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now but not officially together. So she has a guy friend she's known for about 15 years and he just told her he had feelings about the same time me and her started talking. She seemed like she ...
A. 10 August 2012: No I think you just need to give her some time, if she wants to talk to you she will contact you. She has made it clear by not writing back to your messages that she needs some space right now and I think that's the best thing you can give her.... (read in full...)
This is all just weird ....
Q. I'm really confused as to whats going on. I'd loved this guy for sometime, we finally got together last year, we weren't in an official relationship because neither of us knew what to say. It ended, he said he wanted someone else, however he was ...
A. 5 August 2012: Don't always listen to his friends. At the end of the day he may have mentioned your name in context so his friend may have went and spoke to you. He has said he wants friendship with you and nothing more. I know it can be hard for you to accept but ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but I am confused on what is going on with her?
Q. Hi guyz,i have a lil problem in my mine here.i have a gf,i love her so must in which i want to marriage her but she don't call me all the time,sometime she will put her phone off,sometime she will not answer my call n when she answer my called, she ...
A. 5 August 2012: When she said she had lost her phone and you saw it in her hand then you should have asked her to her face and see what she had to say. It could be possible that you might just be wanting to much contact with her. Just remember it is always good to ... (read in full...)
I want to fix everything that is going wrong! What do I do?
Q. I met this guy two years back and we started dating and were in a relationship for over a year. While we were together (during the one year) everything between us was good for few months but his family came to know and his mom didn't approve of me ...
A. 5 August 2012: I am sorry that you love him because I really doubt he feels the same way. He is scared that people will think he is being an ass because that is exactly what he is being and he knows it. He is with this other girl, if she was just a rebound he ... (read in full...)
What can I buy my friend for her birthday without spending to much? it's her sweet 16!
Q. My best friend's birthday is coming soon, and i have no idea what to get her! she is the kind of person that doesn't like to talk about herself...so i need some ideas. she is turning 16 so her birthday is pretty special...also she wants to become an ...
A. 5 August 2012: Make it personal to her, so that it shows that you care. Involve something that she likes, maybe a logo of her favourite band on something, or something she is interested in. Maybe get a nice photo of the both of you and buy a photo frame with ... (read in full...)
What's the deal with this girl? She is really confusing me!
Q. So I met this girl at a rave and we had a good time, we spent the whole night together. Then afterwards we started talking and decided to hang out. So we did and then she told me straight up that she liked me and was getting serious very quickly, I ...
A. 4 August 2012: I think she may very well like you yes. As for the guys voice in the background well there could have been a gang of them there watching films and also it is early days so you cannot let these things get to you yet. I am assuming if she was trying ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my insecurities?
Q. Welll i'am a guy and i jsut want to ask how do some guys when dating a girl they like remain sane. By that i mean how do i stop myself from thinking she will be meeting someone either at work or school. How do i know she will not meet someone online ...
A. 4 August 2012: You can never no these things for sure, but this is where trust plays its part. So really all you can do is to take your time and get to know the girl. Take things slow and see how things go, once you get by the dating part and get in to a serious ... (read in full...)
How to move on from dating?
Q. Well i was wondering how do you know if a person is serious in dating you and taking things further? Like for example what constitutes as dating and how do you move on from there, what should you expect when dating someone and how to tell that a ...
A. 4 August 2012: These are questions that most people ask, but at the end of the day everyone is different and expect different things from dating and getting in to a relationship. Either male or female it does not matter, everybody is different. ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband pull away from being romantic with me?
Q. My husband and i have been married just over 2 years we have 2 kids a girl and boy both under 2 my husband works part time and me home with kids every time i kiss him o want to be romantic he pulls away i mean his realy good with me, he cooks for us ...
A. 4 August 2012: You say you have sex, but is it intimate? Maybe he is stressed out with working and having two young children to come home to then as well. The only way you are going to get the answer to your question is to be honest with him and ask him why he ... (read in full...)
The girl I'm seeing isnt sure if she has feelings for her friend, how should I handle this?
Q. Hello I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now but not officially together. So she has a guy friend she's known for about 15 years and he just told her he had feelings about the same time me and her started talking. She seemed like she ...
A. 4 August 2012: Yes I do believe that you are a nice guy, but at the end of the day you saying he is not a good match for her is going to be a biased opinion considering you want to be with her yourself. My best advice for you right now is to not contact her. Give ... (read in full...)
I want her but she doesn't feel the same!
Q. I'm in love with my childhood friend we haven't talked for years about seven months ago we seen each other again she just got out of a bad relationship we started talking again ive told her I've wanted more than just being friends awhile back ago ...
A. 4 August 2012: No I really doubt it. Yes I am sure she valued your friendship and will miss it but you done the right thing here. You would only keep hurting yourself if you continued this friendship, yes it will be hard, but with time and distance you will get ... (read in full...)
He didn't stay in touch with me, but I really like him!
Q. Hi I don't really know where to start here so here goes I met a man 19 months ago who had just split up from his long term girlfriend he said he needed time to get his head sorted which I understood now it has been so long I feel like he is just ...
A. 4 August 2012: No I don't think you should bother messaging him, if he was interested he would have got in contact with you. It sounds to me like he did not want to have anything serious with you, and you where a rebound, as harsh as it may sound it was probably ... (read in full...)
The girl I'm seeing isnt sure if she has feelings for her friend, how should I handle this?
Q. Hello I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now but not officially together. So she has a guy friend she's known for about 15 years and he just told her he had feelings about the same time me and her started talking. She seemed like she ...
A. 4 August 2012: If I am honest with you, which I am going to be, I think you will lose to this guy. He has been in her life for 15 years, which is a long time, and not only that but I think she actually might like him as well. She is just unsure about what she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not giving me attention but I don't think it's his fault
Q. I have started dated a guy and he is the guy of my dreams. He is everything I Ever wanted and we have even fallen in love with each other. The thing about it is he lives a hour away with family and I live with mind and we can't see each other ...
A. 4 August 2012: The only thing that you can do here is be completely honest with him. Tell him exactly how you are feeling. I know that you might not want to accept it but he might simply just not have the time for a relationship at the moment. You both need to ... (read in full...)
Which guy is the best one for me?
Q. I am confused between 2 guys... I am in relationship wit a guy since 1.5 yrs. He is handsome, good, smart, loving and caring. He always keeps me happy. But the thing is he is too emotional that some times irritates me. And many times he has forced ...
A. 3 August 2012: Well as for your current boyfriend you describe this relationship to be perfect except for he is emotional, there is nothing wrong with being emotional and even though this quality might irritate you, it really is superficial. As for him forcing you ... (read in full...)
Should I just stay cool with my friend's situation?
Q. Hey I need some help. I've never done this before but I've never been in this of type if situation. In the start of this year me and my ex broke up after 6 years but out of last fours years we were extremely unhappy even tho she says she was we ...
A. 30 July 2012: She has made it clear to you she does not want anything serious to happen with you at the moment. Yes I would agree she should have some time out after her break up, but going back to live with him is not a good sign and my guess is that even though ... (read in full...)
Is it alright to send this love letter?
Q. Just hoping for some critiques of the following love letter before I send it. Thanks. Dear J——-, It didn't take me long to recognize you that night long ago. And just as a rose opens its heart to the world with the encouragement of light ...
A. 30 July 2012: I think that letter is just simply beautiful and she is a very lucky woman to have someone think of her so fondly. If you want to add a bit more history about you and this woman maybe I could help further.
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She's messing with my head even though she says she's not!
Q. Me and my ex split up in march, she fell pregnant with my child and she is 4 months gone. We are trying to get back together or try and attempt but its going wrong all the time. We always argue, she never trusts me and wont let me do anthing wi...
A. 30 July 2012: You are right you cannot ask her to do all these things for you because it is controlling and that is just simply not a healthy relationship and not a healthy start to your babies life either. However it works both ways and she is stopping you from ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to go through with this relationship?
Q. I am an american women dating a turkish guy. We have been talking off and on for the past two years. He comes to virginia beach, virginia every summer on a work visa. We were introdued through texting by my brother which is good friends with my ...
A. 30 July 2012: This is a hard one to comment on, especially when it is so popular that some people are just wanting a visa in to America. Although you say he is really good friends with your brother so why not talk to him about it and see what he thinks? Also if ... (read in full...)
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