We both have health issues and we just broke up. I love her and want her back. What can you suggest to help me get through this break up?
Q. Hey there! Hope you all are doing good! Well I need some help/advice. I've been with my ex for 8 months and she recently broke up with me after she tried multiple times. Well I've been depressed most of my life and not happy with myself so I ...
A. 11 January 2014: Depression is hard to live with but it is also hard for the people that are closest to us to live with as well. I guess it may have contributed to her breaking up with you but it may not have. You mention that she could be quite mean towards you ... (read in full...)
He is 39 and has never told anyone that he loved them. Including me!
Q. I am seeing a guy for over a year now and we get on really well, we're attracted to one another, and all is good. But a few months ago, I told him I loved him, and he replied that he thought the love word was overused, and despite being 39, he has ...
A. 11 January 2014: The good thing about this man is that he is honest with you and that he is not telling you any lies or leading you on. He is being honest about how he feels and to him this is normal. There are obviously some reasons why he finds it difficult to ... (read in full...)
I said goodbye because he's heading into an arranged marriage
Q. Just now I deleted and blocked all my bf's account on fb and smart phone IMs. I can't stop crying. We didn't break up officially but we were heading there and this weekend I just let go of the rope where I am clinging on it's end. I have loved h...
A. 11 January 2014: This will be a difficult time for you but you need to remain strong. You deserve to be more than the other woman and if you where so important to him he would not marry this girl and be with you. I know that this is hard to accept but there are no ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I was a drunk mistake or a rebound
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months just broke up with me. I believe he broke up with me for his ex girlfriend, who he had been "on and off" with for 4 years. Although, now she is pregnant with another guy's baby. When we first met he was a bit of an alco...
A. 11 January 2014: Well first of I think the best thing for you to do is to move on with your life. Yes it is difficult to get over someone but you will get there eventually. Keep yourself busy and soon you will forget all about him.
I think it would be a terrible... (read in full...)
She's all I've got, but I need to break up with her anyway
Q. I hope any of you can solve my problem. I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. I just wanted to end things with her due to many reasons. But I am just unable to get off my emotional attachment from her.(I am still in a relationship ...
A. 11 January 2014: I no it is hard to believe at the moment but you will get over this girl. You know this relationship is not working therefore end it and keep yourself busy with work. If you want to go and meet new people then join new groups or take up new hobbies ... (read in full...)
Found sexual pics of my fiancé and his ex on his computer and not sure what to do or where to go from here....
Q. The other day I was uploading pics on my fiancés laptop and came across a file that had pics of him and his ex having sex and her giving him a blowjob. It was by far the worst thing I ever saw. I am 5 months pregnant too with our first child. There ...
A. 11 January 2014: I think you need to sit down with him and explain to him what you saw and how upset it has made you. I understand why you feel this way as I am sure he would not like to see videos and pictures of you with an ex. So try and get him to see your ... (read in full...)
He goes to strip clubs and told me I'm not as sexually attractive to him as I was 14 years and 2 of our children ago!
Q. I don’t know what to do anymore. I have been married for 10 years to my husband, we dated for about 2 years before that and we have two children together ( almost 8 and 4 years old) (he also has two from a previous marriage). I just recently found ...
A. 6 September 2013: Well I must admit, for him to say that to you must have been extremely hurtful. I guess a lot of guys go to strip clubs and watch porn for the fun of it, but he made it personal from the comment he delivered to you, which was extremely hurtful. You ... (read in full...)
Why do I make women bleed?
Q. Hello, the past 2 girls I have had sex with have bled after the intercourse was over while they weren't on their period. It didnt happen everytime we had sex but it did happen the 2nd or 3rd time. This has also happened a few times in the past and ...
A. 6 September 2013: My guess is that either you are to well endowed for them or else they are just not relaxed enough for sex. Now that is presuming that they are not virgins. I guess the best advise that I can give to you is to use some lube during intercourse to make ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but I don't trust her
Q. Please help me friends I am very depressed and stressed nowadays! I have this girlfriend of mine from past 5 months. We are in a long distance relationship. We have just met 4-5 times since our relationship started. I want you guys to know she is a...
A. 6 September 2013: If you do not trust her then end it because it will never work as a relationship.... (read in full...)
He's not that close to this girl who he used to have a crush on, so why did he get up at 5.30am to meet her at the airport?
Q. Hi everyone! I love my boyfriend we get on but sometimes he drives me crazy! We have been together 4 yrs and live together, he has a few friends but hes really close to this family who have 2 daughters! He was in the same year at school with one ...
A. 6 September 2013: It sounds to me that even though he may have had a crush on this girl a long time ago that he is over that now. He genuinely seems to feel like this family is his family and I guess he may have just wanted to be a part of the family when they went ... (read in full...)
Am I missing my ex or the end of our relationship?
Q. I was wondering if anybody could help. I broke up with my little girls dad, due to constant arguments and the fact I feel like he isn't mature enough. He's really lazy works 2.5 hours a morning, and was procrastinating looking for anything els...
A. 24 June 2013: I think you done the right thing by ending this relationship. It is clear that you where unhappy as a family unit and it probably is better that you both remain friends and work together to look after your little girl. It is great to hear that you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a very weird relationship with his cousin?
Q. I apologize in advance if I sound silly and immature. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years, and everything goes great aside from a few fights here and there. Keep in mind that he's 19, and I'm 18. One thing I've notic...
A. 24 June 2013: Well off course you are going to feel paranoid and jealous if your boyfriend is showing more attention to another girl. If this girl was not his cousin and just another girl he knew would you put up with the way they are behaving? If the answer is ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend don't know how he feels about me but don't want to ruin our friendship if we date!
Q. I know this is just like those stupid teen problems that are really stupid and shallow, but I really don't care. I don't know if my friend likes me or not. He's told me that I'm his best-friend, and my other friend, who has known him a lot longer...
A. 24 June 2013: If you are unsure about how you actually feel about him then for now I think you should just remain his friend. It happens extremely often that when a girl and a guy are friends one time or another one or both people are going to think about more ... (read in full...)
How much space is too much?
Q. okay so I'm dating this guy we have been dating for about 4 months. He lives with me. I know he shouldn't be living with me with us only being together for . Months. Anyway, there for a while we was spending every single day together we was together ...
A. 24 June 2013: I guess if you are not happy with the relationship then there is no point being in it. It is great that he got work, and he is right you both should have a life outside of the relationship where you are both meeting up with friends and enjoying ... (read in full...)
Should I give up or approach him about hanging out again?
Q. This is such a stupid question.... I've known this guy a very long time. He is 29 now and I am 21. I met him when my brother dated his sister in highschool and that was a long time ago considering my brother is 28 now. Well.... I have always ha...
A. 24 June 2013: It is clear that you have a crush on this guy but he may not feel the same way or else he may think it might be to complicated as your brother and his sister are together. It sounds to me like he may already know you have a crush on him. If you ... (read in full...)
Not sure how to read this girl - does she like me?
Q. I've known this girl for about 2 years, we originally met as she was a co-worker of a very good friend of mine and has joined us (among others) for the occasional night out. Almost the entire time I've known her she has been in a relationship but ...
A. 24 June 2013: If you like this girl then I suggest that you ask her out on a date and see her response, at least then you will know if she likes you as a friend or potentially something more.
Asking you out to play pool and out drinking with her is a good sign... (read in full...)
Can I get Herpes from kissing my boyfriend doesn't have any blisters ?
Q. question about kissing and herpes. I recently started dating this guy he is very nice we has a kissing make out session we have only been on 3 dates so no further but now he tells me he has Genital Herpes. I told him that I was not going to sleep ...
A. 24 June 2013: The only way that you would catch herpes is if he had it on his mouth and you would have noticed blisters on his lips. So really there is nothing major to worry about here.... (read in full...)
Moved in, now he doesn't know what he wants as the next step!
Q. Aunts and Uncles: Moved in with boyfriend of 4 years: we love each other, we have a good relationship, we are both responsible, we see ourselves together for the long run. Problem: my guy has gone from being positive about the idea of marriage...
A. 24 June 2013: I think he may just be getting cold feet. I doubt that it has anything to do with you personally as it still sounds like he is committed and wants to be with you, I guess it has a lot to do with what is happening around him. He sees people getting ... (read in full...)
why does he continue to keep doing this text and then leave thing?
Q. I have had an on and off again with a guy for a few years now. Recently I ended it because he was being a jerk and I said we shouldn't talk anymore if that was how he was gonna be. He responded with bye. I thought it was done then the next day he w...
A. 24 June 2013: The only conclusion that I have is that he likes to mess with your head. He knows that you are interested in him and he likes the attention he gets from you. He likes the fact that a girl is interested in him and he is probably bored so sends a ... (read in full...)
Was she a virgin or not?
Q. Maybe my question is stupid, bare with me. recently my gf and I were playing a game, something like truth or dare, I asked her with how many guys she has have sex with, she hesitated for a bit and she answered "only with you". when we had sex for ...
A. 24 June 2013: If she bled then it is very likely that she was a virgin and that you where her first, it is also very likely that she was embarrassed about being a virgin so she lied and said that she wasn't so she didn't feel any shame. For many people this can ... (read in full...)
I am trying not to make my boyfriend choose between his mom and I but I really have to wonder about our future.
Q. Hello everybody! I have been dating my boyfriend (let's call him Mark) for almost three years now, and he is a wonderful person. He is always doing nice things for me, and he is so considerate. The issue is not him, but rather, his mother. I...
A. 24 June 2013: This is a tricky one because at the end of the day it is his mother and he is going to try and see good in you both. I think the best way to move forward from this is to wipe the slate clean. Yes it is hard when you are hurting and feel like you ... (read in full...)
Why didn't my b/f introduce me to his friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I went to the beach and we were having a nice time until we were walking out of the water and he saw an old friend. He walked over to his friend and embraced him and I was walking over thinking he'd introduce me. He then grabbed his ...
A. 24 June 2013: Really it is impossible to tell why he would have done this, I think your best bet is to talk to him tell him exactly how he made you feel and ask for answers. Don't back down until you are satisfied with what he has to say for himself. Good luck.... (read in full...)
After the lying and the cheating on some level, should I cancel the wedding?
Q. Am I reacting unreasonably in struggling to trust my partner? I became engaged to a man I had been dating for 6 months just over a year ago. In all honesty he is the type of man I have avoided all my life. In my eyes he is a womaniser and op...
A. 24 June 2013: No you are not over reacting at all. There are red flag warnings all over this. He spent his marriage cheating and lying, to a point where his own children don't even want anything to do with him and worse he done it to you as well. I really doubt ... (read in full...)
My friend is jealous of my pregnancy. This is the 2nd time its happened. How should I approach this?
Q. I'm 12 weeks pregnant, It was planned and am very happy. The problem is my "friend". I had my first child in 2011 and when I told her (call her sue) she stopped talking to me. She was jealous as she had been trying with her partner since they got ...
A. 24 June 2013: This is quite a sensitive subject as she was actively trying for a child and you tell her you where only trying for a few weeks and got pregnant, so my guess is that this has hit a nerve with her and made her feel self concious. It is a hard ... (read in full...)
How can I change the relationship with my mother? I need her but its complicated between us.
Q. Hi, I stopped talking to my mum about 16 months ago, long story short, shes carried a lot of emotional baggage with her, since she split up with my dad over 20 years ago. She hasn't been with anyone since, and i am an only child, she has tried he...
A. 24 June 2013: It sounds to me like you won't be getting an apology any time soon. I think the best way to move forward is to let go off all the past and make a fresh start. If you want your mother in your life then contact her but tell her it is a fresh start and ... (read in full...)
Benefits of an accounting degree?
Q. I am currently studying accounting at university. However, I failed two important courses which each add a year to my completion date. Right now I am considering quitting the degree and going to study CIMA or switch to another school and change ...
A. 20 June 2013: The benefits are only for you to decide and nobody else. Research in to your ideas and make an informed decision on which route would be best for you and your future. It is your life and your decision. Good luck and all the best.... (read in full...)
Are these signs of interest or am I reading too much into it?
Q. Just asking knowledgable people's opinion. There are two girls i have an interest in. Both seem to be interested in me. One works in a shop I frequent and the other at a place of work I do deliveries to. I come to both these places at random...
A. 20 June 2013: In my opinion it is clear that they are wanting you to notice them, when a girl lets her hair down it is usually a sign that she is trying to impress someone especially if they have to keep it in a bun for work. However it could just be a case that ... (read in full...)
Guys: What do you wish your woman would do?
Q. I'm wanting to add a little change up with my ltr bf, tomorrow. Guy's what do you wish your chick would do, differently or in addition to your normal bedroom routine?...
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Because she wasnt honest with me I feel like our whole relationship was a sham....
Q. I have just discovered that my girlfriend of 3 years dumped me in april and then started seeing a new guy who she met in feb at uni within a couple of weeks. the problem is not so much that she has moved on so quickly although that hurts but the ...
A. 18 June 2013: I think you need closure on this. Talk to her and be honest with her, tell her what you have heard and ask her for the truth. Tell her you are not jealous and that you are not wanting to cause trouble that you simply just want to know the truth so ... (read in full...)
Am I too sweet and he's just not into me?
Q. Long Distance Flirtationship Me and my best guy friend's(we'll call him Pal) brother(we'll call him Huck). Huck and me met about a month before he deployed for 9 months in Bahrain and there was this unspoken attraction that we both fought know...
A. 18 June 2013: Perhaps you are just reading way to much in to this. There are no signs here to say that he is not interested. My guess is that he is just trying to adapt to his new life. He was clear to you that he does not want a relationship at the moment so you ... (read in full...)
He's the only one I'll ever love. How can I find a way for us to be together?
Q. My heart is broken. I'm so afraid that I've lost hope of winding up with the person I know in my heart is for me. I love one of my closest friends, and I know in my heart that I'll NEVER love anyone else like I love him. I'm afraid that he's...
A. 18 June 2013: I am going to be honest with you if it is what you want to hear or not. It sounds to me like he is going to give his wife another chance. My mind tells me that he loves her and he wants to try and make it work, he also has a child with her so it ... (read in full...)
They're both friends, she cheated -- I feel caught in the middle
Q. Hi everyone, I have friend that´s temporarily abroad for work - she´ll be back in one month. She confessed to me that she´s cheated on her boyfriend with some man there...And she begged me not to tell his boyfriend, that is my good friend too...He ...
A. 18 June 2013: It was unfair of your friend to put you in this situation to begin with. It is hard to keep the truth from somebody but at the minute it is not your place to tell him. I suggest that you talk to your friend and tell her how this has made you feel be ... (read in full...)
He said to keep an open mind about things -- that makes me worry
Q. I've been seeing this guy for several weeks now - we met via online dating. Things have been great, our first date lasted for a weekend and met up again. We have also expressed our fondness for one another and it is clear that there is attraction ...
A. 18 June 2013: I think it is your personality that you just immediately think of the worst when he says something to you. I think you should listen to him though and try not to worry. It is early days so I would suggest that you don't come on to heavy to quick or ... (read in full...)
Should I wait until he contacts me to end it?
Q. So.. This will be long. I've posted here some questions about my 30yo boyfriend's behavior: - "why does he live with his mom if he's in the military and is supposed to have a pig paycheck" - "why does he always tells the exactly same story abo...
A. 12 May 2013: I think the best thing to do is to end things with this man, it is clear that this relationship is not working, you are not happy and he is not treating you the way that you should be treated in a happy relationship. I think you no deep down it is ... (read in full...)
He stopped talking to me and I don't know what to do
Q. So i have this huge crush on this guy. When i found out he's actually interested in many of the same things as me, i just fell in love with him. So about a month ago, he started asking me about those interests and it just felt so embarrassing and ...
A. 12 May 2013: Maybe he is waiting for you to make an effort to try and get to know him. So instead of waiting for him to talk to you then you should make an effort and approach him as well and keep him interested. Just make conversation with him and get to know ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but he has quite a past, should I get out before getting too attached?
Q. hey everyone, I'm a 24 year old virgin and the guy I'm dating has a pretty 'shady past' he has dated a lot of women probably slept with some of them!he has never been in love..we have not hd sex and he is ok with that,he said he will not force me...
A. 12 May 2013: I think you are over thinking this situation, yes you are both really different and have opposite views on things, but still you could be both suited to each other. I know a couple who got together the same way and they are working out well. It ... (read in full...)
Am I lying to myself about feelings for her; could she have feelings for me?
Q. Hey. My story starts 2 years ago. I started my 11th year in school. I met this girl. Around the start of the year. I got to know her at a friends party. We became friends. I started feeling something for her. I wasn't sure. But on june 1st. I w...
A. 11 May 2013: It could be possible that you still have feelings for her, you invested a lot of time and effort with this girl so yes I am sure that you still have some feelings for her that might always stay with you as I am sure you have fond memories of her.
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He says he wants to see me, but when I agree to meet up he flakes out!
Q. Help me ! Im beyond confused about him. Does he like me? Does he just wanna hook-up? Or does he just see me as a friend? Soo I have this guy friend.I like our friendship we can talk to each other about anything and we have great chemistry. We use to ...
A. 11 May 2013: You need to stand up for yourself, this guy is playing mind games and it is simply just not fair on you what so ever. If he contacts you again then you need to be straight up with him and honest. Explain to him that his behaviour is unacceptable to ... (read in full...)
He struggles to talk to me. Could he like me?
Q. I have had a crush for a while now, and I have a feeling he might like me, as do my friends and his sister. He's never had a girlfriend or kissed anybody that I know of, and he's very shy when it comes to relationships and romantic interests. I...
A. 11 May 2013: Yes he could like you. It can sometimes be difficult to tell with a guys behaviour. However don't assume that he does like you or else you could end up getting hurt. Instead concentrate on getting to know him better. Yes this is difficult when both ... (read in full...)
He asked for my number. He's been showing up where I usually go to at school. Are these good signs that he's interested?
Q. I have this friend whom I've known for years. We go to the same school but we don't have any classes together this year. We used to talk all the time. But we got drifted apart. However, just recently, he asked me for my number again, saying ho...
A. 11 May 2013: Most of the signs are good here, but you need to be prepared that maybe he only sees you as a friend and nothing more. You need to be prepared for that possibility so that you do not get hurt.
Keep things going the way that they are going, h... (read in full...)
This is my story of our relationship with NO love, only hate but no divorce/separation ? WHAT can I do?
Q. She doesn't love her husband anymore. She has two children in their early teens. Children at that age, sense that something is wrong. Their mother knows that and won't agree to separation and/or divorce as it may affect the children, emotionally,...
A. 23 March 2013: It sounds to me like the couple have just falling apart. Sometimes it happens that people just grow apart and the love they had for each other dies. That can happen in life and it is sad when it does. Staying together for the sake of children is the ... (read in full...)
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