Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated
Q. I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. ...
A. 30 March 2014: Cheating will do that to a person it will wreck there confidence in themselves, people don't realize the damage that they do and I am sorry that this has happened to you. You need to rebuild your life again and be happy again. It does take time to ... (read in full...)
Her new hair colour makes a radical difference!
Q. This is probably a very unusual question to ask, but I'm just curious. My girlfriend has always had very dark black hair in the time that I've known her and we've been together. In fact, her dark features are what I found very attractive and b...
A. 30 March 2014: You where attracted to her before she changed her hair therefore it is only natural that you will still find her attractive. Hair can change a complete look off a person. Some people will get away with blonde and others won't. Every girl is ... (read in full...)
I can't block the ex because we work together!
Q. Just a week ago my boyfriend told me that his no longer interested in me and wants to move forward with another girl. I have deleted all his contacts and pictures from my laptop and cell. Worst thing is we both are working in the same company. ...
A. 30 March 2014: Your never going to forget all the memories however you will move on in time. It is difficult at first and it is harder if you have to see him at work but you just need to give it time. Its only been a week so it will still be difficult for a while ... (read in full...)
Do you think I've subconsciously been making female friends to fill the space that my girlfriend usually occupies?
Q. So me and my girlfriend recently started university at the same time but we are doing different degrees. I barely get to see her as her schedule is so busy which is tough as i used to see her basically every day at school. I've been making new ...
A. 30 March 2014: Just because most of your friends are female doesn't mean that you are trying to replace your girlfriend so try and not worry. Yes am sure there is a gap in your life now as you dont see as much off each other but as long as these girls are only ... (read in full...)
My GF is mates with her ex GF.
Q. my GF and i been together a few years but she is back in contact with her ex partner who she was with a long time also and lost touch with but are now friends and in touch again. they talk on the phone now and again and meet up. i havent said ...
A. 30 March 2014: I completely understand why you don't like this, they shared a past therefore am sure that it makes you feel uneasy. I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Doing that is not unreasonable as I am sure she would feel the same if it ... (read in full...)
If he can't stop I wtll walk!
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. My Fiance and I have been together 5 years, we have two soon to be three beautiful children together (4, 2 soon to be 3 and our last due in june) We are getting married next month. My deliemma is that I found he posted a ...
A. 29 March 2014: You poor girl you are pregnant and really this is the last thing that you need in your life. It is clear that you love him and want to be with him, and don't beat yourself up that you are being naive. I guess everyone deserves a second chance. You ... (read in full...)
Does my FWB want more?
Q. Let me start from the beginning, I signed up for a dating site, decided after a few days it wasn't my thing. I later found a message on FB from a guy who found me on the dating site. He said my profile disappeared, so he Googled my email address. WE ...
A. 29 March 2014: I think you should go with your gut feeling, if a guy only wants sex then usually it is quite obvious to the girl, he wont bother making much of an effort as he knows he is getting sex without any complications. From your post it does sound like ... (read in full...)
He's a healthy man of 21 so why is he having erectile dysfunction?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for just under two years. We were originally in a semi-long-distance relationship (we'd spend about a third of the year in the same town) but I moved in with him about 6 weeks ago. We've been having sex for over ...
A. 29 March 2014: If it is only been the last week or so I wouldn't worry to much about it as am sure things will go back to normal. It could be that after the first time of not being able to get an erection that he worries about it and now it is causing a problem. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be touching himself while he thinks I'm asleep!
Q. Sometimes when I sleep over at my boyfriend's place and we sleep in the same bed, I think he touches himself or masturbates otherwise while he probably thinks I'm asleep. It somewhat makes me uncomfortable, because it's like "hey I'm RIGHT HERE!!" ...
A. 29 March 2014: If it makes you feel uncomfortable then next time he does it just ask him what he is doing and keep doing that every time you catch him, he will soon cop on to the fact that you notice he is doing it. ... (read in full...)
Do I ignore him completely, in the hope he'll focus on her??
Q. I need advice on how I should go about setting up two friends. First of all, my BEST friend, who is so beautiful, sweet, smart and amazing in everyway, has a slight crush on one boy in our school. He had a crush on her, too. But, I'm not sure if ...
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How can I figure out how this boy feels about me?
Q. There is this guy I like that I have known for 4 years. He is 16 and I am 14 turning 15 this October. Before I began to like him again, we hadn't talked for around a year. At first, it was just a crush bc I thought he looked like a guy from this ...
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Crush and I don't know what to do help!!!!
Q. im still young but i have liked this guy for about 4 years we used to be really close like secret close he said he trusted me with his life at one point but now were not as close we dont even talk really but i. just found out hes moving and lately i ...
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She's leaving in two months and I'd like to be more than friends with her before that happens, but things are moving very slowly!
Q. I've recently been on 3 relatively great dates with a girl I met online who is visiting my city for the next 2 months or so. However, it's moving a lot more slowly than I am used to -- I usually date more sexually aggressive girls because I feel ...
A. 22 March 2014: I am sure she got quite nervous as she is not ready for a sexual relationship at the moment. I don't think it would be appropriate to ask her about why she is nervous as am sure she is just not ready for that kind of relationship. If you like this ... (read in full...)
How do I talk about the future with him without freaking him out?
Q. Hi, I'm 24 years old and I'm in a relationship with this guy for over 2 months,things are going great between us.. At one point when he asked about the future 'I told him its way too soon' and now probably he feels the same.. But I don't know ...
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I want him to be my first kiss, should I move on or wait?
Q. There is this guy in my year at school and we are good friends we flirt a bit but it's really awkward because everyone in our year knows that at some point one of us has fancied the other.I still fancy him but I'm not sure he fancies me. We are at ...
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Does the fact that my best guy friend, whom I like, and I are not a couple yet mean that he's not into me?
Q. My best guy friend and I've became best friends since our high school years. We talk and text each other almost every single hour. We share our moments and stories together, even when we both had relationships with other people. Lately I start...
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After a turbulent past, I'm finding myself jealous of his grandson!
Q. Ok. I know I am going to probably sound juvenile and selfish, but here goes. I have had a turbulent relationship in the past with my son's father. Our past involves his substance abuse, leaving me and our then infant son for another woman, coming ...
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We broke up, but he's still the one I talk to - will I ever get over him this way?
Q. Hello. I'm a 16 year old girl. I was in a relationship with this guy but we kind of 'broke up' when I had to move away last year December. We still kept in touch and all through skyping but then it got lesser until a point when we just messaged ea...
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He told me she was only a friend then later admits that he had sex with her!
Q. i met a boy via social network some 9 months ago, we became friend,then he proposed me, though at first i was negative,we met and i started liking or loving him..he told me about his past relationships including that one with one of his junior, ...
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I want him to be more passionate, what should I do?
Q. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for two months. We just had sex for the first time last weekend. The problem is he is very shy and pretty conservative and I wish he would come out of his shell. I can be sexually aggressive sometimes and I ...
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I really like him but next year we won't be in any classes together
Q. In may i posted: I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science ...
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Two terrible reationships and now I want something good! What do I look for in a guy? And how do I lose weight?
Q. Hello! I hope everyone is doing well and keeping this site going and I basically have an a bit of an update and a question for all of you wonderful aunts and uncles. Recently I came out of my second un-successful relationship due to my ex be...
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Does he like me or sees me as just a friend?
Q. He's the outgoing and pretty nice type with everyone.And touchy too.We met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks, though we go to the same school.I still don't know him that well, but I heard from others he treats girls in a pretty flirty ...
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In love with 2 guys but they both come in and out of my life
Q. I'm really in love with two guys, one I met over a year ago we finishd after two and a half months together, it was real sudden and I don't know what happened one day I just got a text saying we were over im really confused especially as hes still ...
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Two potential guys, both with issues -- what should I do?
Q. I've never had a boyfriend before, nor has anyone ever asked me out or vice-versa. I don't really know how to deal with relationships at all. I'm caught in a terrible predicament at the moment. It started on Saturday when me and a couple of my fri...
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I thought I had moved on fully, until my ex told me he is doing the same. How to cope with these mixed feelings?
Q. My divorce was just finalized a few weeks ago, and my ex husband just told me today he plans to introduce our son to someone. I'm experiencing confusing feelings. Mostly, I feel angry because he only sees our son twice a month and I don't understand ...
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How do I talk to this boy who I think likes me?
Q. I have been friends with this boy for two years now but only recently have we began to gte closer as what i thought as friends. When i was at party the other day i got told by a girl that she had over heard this boy and his friend talking about how ...
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I feel like he is playing a ton of mind games...but is he just shy with girls?
Q. 1. Starting in Oct '11 when he moved in. 2. Took him seriously three months to even talk to me. 3. ALL of 2011 when he DID talk to me the VERY few times, he would pick small stupid fights with me, not even a normal conversation. 4. He gave me his...
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How do we get into relationship?
Q. I love this guy very much and he loves me too. the problem is he's not admitted it to me and is too shy, i've also not admitted my love for him yet and its been a over a year. I know he likes me very much i even feel it and i see it. he always ...
A. 22 March 2014: Hi I am only getting to see your question now. Maybe he does have feelings for you but you will never know unless you just ask him out straight. Tell him how you feel and hopefully he will return those feelings.... (read in full...)
I'm confused ! everytime I tell him about a guy he get mad & not talk to me for days !
Q. Hi, i've a littel problem that i Really wanna share... So, i've known this guy since september at the day of his birthday, he send me a friend request on facebook and ince that we became closer and closer, he is the rock, he saved me a lot of t...
A. 22 March 2014: You should just ask him does he like you. Tell him you like him and ask him would he like to go on a date.... (read in full...)
It hurts me to see my 2 friends together even though I love them both
Q. Okay, well I have two close friends I love them both I dated both I still like both of this one's a boy the other a girl the boy asked if he could be friends with her as his friend I was okay with that but now... they like each other and everyday ...
A. 22 March 2014: I know it is difficult at the moment but sometimes in life we just need to accept things and move forward from it. You just need to accept that they both want to be together and try to move forward from that. They will still be your friends. Maybe ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he is genuinely interested...workplace love interest.
Q. I work with a man who is divorced and single and we have worked together for over two years. He is 15 years older than me, is a single dad of a 9 year old, and through working with him for so long, I have seen that he has very good character. He is ...
A. 22 March 2014: There really is no way of finding out how he feels unless you ask him, if you are not prepared to do so then you may never know what could have been. I know people may think it is traditional for the man to ask the woman out but really that is not ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and afraid its too late for me to find love
Q. Hey everyone....so it has happened again, broke with my forth boyfriend. It took me two years to get over my third boyfriend but this time we broke up like 5 days ago and I am fine. In fact I am ready to jump back in dating scene. But my worry is t...
A. 22 March 2014: You may feel like you are to old to be single, but really this is not the case at all. Everyone is different and you have had a couple of relationships that didn't work. Therefore sometimes I think it is better to be on your own than to be with ... (read in full...)
Could my crush like me?
Q. so the story goes likes this: on my first day at university i saw this guy on the bus and i immediately thought he was cute.but i soon forgot about him. on another random day at uni i saw this guy again, and this time i saw him enter the of...
A. 16 March 2014: I think that you need to just get to know this guy more before you think of him romantically. You might think he looks attractive but you still don't know what he is like personality wise. Get to know him more and just see what happens. ... (read in full...)
Would a blood test tell if she were still pregnant?
Q. this is a kind of medical question so i only really want to know if its possible. so basically in early January my sister told me she had just miscarried at 3 and half months. however since then she has yet to get her period. she also has gained ...
A. 16 March 2014: The blood test was taking in February roughly around a month after she miscarried therefore her hormones would have still been flying around her body and it could lead to inconclusive results.
If she has yet to get her period then the best opt... (read in full...)
My parents don't approve because he has a son
Q. I'm a senior in high school and recently started dating a classmate Austin. He has a 7 month old son, holds a part time job as a cashier at a local grocery mart, is a straight A student BUT my parents keep telling me that he is a bad guy and I ...
A. 16 March 2014: Your parents are only looking out for you because they love you. They see this young guy who already has a son and they don't want you to end up being a young single mother either, maybe they don't want you to end up being a step mother at your age ... (read in full...)
Drinking is killing my relationship.
Q. Hi. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend from almost 1 year. We both like to go out. We both are social drinkers. But he loves drinking and he goes out every weekend to drink out, or if not out then at home. Everything was going good. We wer...
A. 12 March 2014: It can be difficult to maintain a long distant relationship. He is obviously drinking as he has nothing else to do, and am sure he is missing you as well. If you want to be with him then you both need to make arrangements to be together as things ... (read in full...)
I have photo evidence of my girlfriend holding hands with another guy! Should I break things off?
Q. I am dating a girl that I dated a couple of years ago. We have been dating for almost a month, and i got a picture of her holding another guys hand. She says he was only rubbing his hand. My other friends that know her say that I should cut it o...
A. 12 March 2014: This is a decision only you can make. You can take advise from your family and friends but at the end off the day this is your life and you should live it as you please. Although I will say in order for a relationship to work then there needs to be ... (read in full...)
I feel slightly embarrassed that he's sexually experienced and I'm not
Q. Hello there! I've been with my lovely boyfriend for about 8 months now, and we've been friends for years. Recently we'd spoken about having sex... However I'm a virgin, whilst he isn't. We've been doing a lot of oral sex for a while now, so I'...
A. 12 March 2014: Well first off you should not feel embarrassed at all. The first time you both have sex will be new to him as well and a new experience so try not to worry. To make things a little smoother make sure that you use a good lubrication and also just try ... (read in full...)
He's met my parents, but his parents don't know I exist. Am I not the "one" for him?
Q. I have been dating this man 6 months, he's an expat, although he will soon be a permanent resident. He has never missed a Christmas with his family, but this year he didn't go back home for the holidays. His dad offered to pay for this ticket h...
A. 11 January 2014: You both need to sit down and talk about this. You need to ask him what he sees in the future for you both and tell him that it has hurt your feelings that he has not mentioned you to his family. Although I can see why you would feel hurt it could ... (read in full...)
We both have health issues and we just broke up. I love her and want her back. What can you suggest to help me get through this break up?
Q. Hey there! Hope you all are doing good! Well I need some help/advice. I've been with my ex for 8 months and she recently broke up with me after she tried multiple times. Well I've been depressed most of my life and not happy with myself so I ...
A. 11 January 2014: Depression is hard to live with but it is also hard for the people that are closest to us to live with as well. I guess it may have contributed to her breaking up with you but it may not have. You mention that she could be quite mean towards you ... (read in full...)
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