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writes: I am wondering if there are any other women out there with this issue, and if you have any suggestions to solve it....When I am with my boyfriend (or any guy I've been with) I am extremely turned on at first and am really aroused but the longer foreplay lasts or the longer he takes to finnish, I am no longer aroused and seldom have an orgasm. I feel like I can't get turned on enough to orgasm, there is definately a lack of desire; If I didn't have sex for months it wouldn't bother me. There are times when I do want to have sex and we will get started but I never orgasm, I just can't seem to get turned on enough. Could it be my birth control pills? Are there things anyone could suggest?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
You need to use KY Jelly and have your man stimulate your clitoris.
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reader, Dextro69  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 When my partner went on the pill her sex drive nose dived (to the other side of the planet so it seemed) when i read the instructions on the pill box it did say that a side affect was a lose of sex drive. if you have only just stared taking it you body will need to settle itself down as it needs to get used to a huge influcts of hormones. you should try talking to your doctor as there are many types of pill and you may be more suited to a diffrent type, i have also heard of viagra for women which is like a nicotine patch but with hormones on it and helps the sex drive.
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