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writes: dear cupids.i really want a long term boyfriend that i can call mine. i can say yeah im in a relationship. been with my boyfriend a year now. you hear it all the time but my relationships dont seem to work out. i have had too many boyfiends and all i do is go out with them for about 3 week and i end up cheating on them, or i get board and finish them. i know this sounds a bit slaggish but i cant help my self. i have decidedto stay single for a bit i am only 15 so im willing to wait but do you think i will ever be in a long term relationship.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): You'll be able to be in a long, more serious relationship when you mature a lot more. Relationships arent about good feelings, sex or butterflies. It is about trust and you are not displaying that. As a teen most peers are in it for the good feelings but the love inst based on anything except pleasure. There is no basis. When you are older, have taken on skills on how to be a responsible woman, a good wife and have a purpose,plan and goal for you and your husband THAT'S when a lasting relationship will last because you arent in it just because everyone else has a relationship. You in it because you love this person deeply and have plans for your future together. Stay single and accomplish what you want with your life. Get in a relationship only when you are serious about the person and feel you two trust each other AND are loyal. Don't waste time on feel good and fun and games you'll be turned out over and over again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): hixx I know exactly wat u mean. I really want a long time relationship aswell, bt we are going to hav to wait. Thats the horrible thng bout life, you hav to wait for things like this. dw tho, ull find someone. Rite nw, u dnt want to be alone, but i rthnk u r scared to be in a long teerm relationship, even tho u want to be. I thnk that u mite b pushing people away. Wen u r ready, u will jst let them in n u will hav a serios relationship. the time jst isnt rite yet. it will b ok, u will get a long term boyfrendxxx
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 dear anon
by what you say in script, you are trying to run before you can walk, take live easier, relax, be cool, do not rush into the first relation ship that comes along, that is why they are not working out, you have plenty of time in your life to find some one special who you will stay with you long term, be smart take your time and will get there in the end.
good luck have a great life it out there for you.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (17 October 2007):
It's OK to be immature at 15. Don't be so eager to grow up faster.
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