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*ark.Charmer
writes:Okay I have a real problem that could get bigger if I don't know how to stop it. I think I am falling for my teacher. When I first started his class I didn't really feel anything but as the days went on I found my thoughts wandering to him. I still wouldn't admit anything. Then a few weeks later I said to myself "I like my math teacher," and now everyday in class when he looks at me, talks to me...ect I feel my face turn red. Today I basically was shaking and ran out of the class because I felt so flustered. I know I am attracted but I don't know what to think, what to feel, how to act and I'm afraid I might fall in love with this guy.
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reader, Dark.Charmer +, writes (13 February 2008):
Dark.Charmer is verified as being by the original poster of the question I can't stop thinking about him again even if I am not in his class. I have this new teacher who reminds me so much of him and I don't even like this teacher I still like my old teacher. My friend and I were arguing that my old teacher played favorites with me which I am pretty sure he didn't...but how can you tell?
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reader, Dark.Charmer +, writes (29 January 2008):
Dark.Charmer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay well the semester is over and I won't be in his class again. The last day before I left my heart began to ache so badly and I remembering walking out. Then the exam, it was a small class and I was the 10th out (in the class of like 15) and I looked at him and gave a small wave and then that was it.
I still think about him alot, I won't say hi anymore tho, i don't think my heart can handle it. I think I really do love him but I can't do anything.
I think he knows of my school girl crush on him but somehow he didn't really hold it against me. He was nice and I will miss him.
It was funny I asked him to teach my grade next year he told me no only because he doesn't like finacal math. He then said he didn't even know if he would be there. I quickly asked why...that was one of the only real conversations I had with him...like a real conversation not about work.
Anyways thats it :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): Okay, I was in your shoes when I was in High School, there was the math teacher, the science teacher, and my tennis coach! We flirt a lot! I mean especially my science teacher.... we were close and being tooo close was something that drew us apart because I was his student and he did realize that it was wrong... I don't mean to say that your crush is not special but I seriously think you will get over him. don't act on it! If he shows that he likes you! Wait until you graduate. Pob by that time you are over him.... Or maybe not!!!!.... I still have a crush on my sciene teacher, even though i know It's legal now but persuing it is another story!But if you ask me, would I go with him if he'd ask me out now! Yes!!!Take your time... Think with your brain not your hormones...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): its okay to care for someone and love them, but dont go overbored with it! just becareful and play it safe! and try not to fall for him!
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 I can relate myself to your problem...I'm in just about the same situation and feel i cannot get over this 'crush'
You remind me of my early stages, however it wasn't long before i became absolutely obsessed with the teacher! It's just a phase and hopefully you should get through it somehow, as you probably already know nothing can ever happen between you both and if it did, it would be so wrong and illegal...Very unfortunate :'(
Message me if you want hun nd i'll try help you out! xxx
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
You can feel love for your math teacher so long as you don't act on it. Never meet him away from the school or let him touch you inappropriately.
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