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writes:How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!) Reply to this Question
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (23 June 2008):
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I went in to the pub on Saturday, was going to ask her but I lost my nerve. She has got a ring on her finger (left-hand, third finger from the left). That may not mean anything, but what do you think? On the other hand, no pain no gain!
Plus, the only words I've said to her is 'scampi and chips please'! Wouldn't she think I'm a bit stupid to ask her out out of the blue?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Why not just say that you'd like to give her your number if she'd be interested in a date? That way you don't sound dodgy, you sound interested but not too pushy?
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (30 May 2008):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYesterday I saw this great girl (the waitress!) in the pub - and I was going to ask her out, by saying, when she took my order, I'll have scampi and chips, and your number! That sounds dodgy doesn't it?
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (19 May 2008):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere's this girl who has just started at my local newsagents, that I really want to ask out, but I'm still very nervous! I work on Sat mornings, and only see her when I go and get our elevenses. Any advice?
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (21 September 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFrom my point of view:Its because I llke a lotAlthough she's worth more to me than anythingthe money factor is a factor as I dont drive.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (20 September 2007):
 then what you need to do is work out why you think the relationship could work if there is a big distance anyway
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (20 September 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionExcept they are 3 hours away!
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (20 September 2007):
everyones fear of rejection clouds there ability to approach the opposite sex, but put it into perspective, what's the worst that could happen? she could say no, and if that happens, pick yourself up and move on.
focus on the fact that girls are just as nervous about being asked! you're young enough and i'm sure as long as you don't use any dodgy chat up lines, you'll be fine!
good luck
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reader, mysocalledlife +, writes (20 September 2007):
Here's what u do. u walk up 2 whoever it is u like and ask them out! It's that easy.
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