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tommy2k7
writes:My friends boyfriend is messing her around - they got together a year ago, they've had their arguments, like all couples, and they've broken up more times than I care to think!! Two Thursdays ago she said he dumped her because she was, in his words (according to her) 'bad in bed' and 'too controlling'. Then I learn last week that she took gim back! What advice shall I give her? Is she digging her own grave, so to speak? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Aunty Em + ♥, writes (1 September 2008):
 Advise her to get a back bone! She needs to stick up for herself and hold her own.
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (23 July 2008):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I've just talked to her and she said she took him back because his nan died - dont know what to say to that!
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reader, louxxlouxx + ♥, writes (22 July 2008):
 I think for now you should let her get on with it because she obviously wants to be with him right now. If they split up again then maybe give the advice. Just tell her to really think about what she wants before she takes him back because you think she is unhappy. Tell her you want what is best for her and you will stand by whatever she decides to do. I think she will take this advice better when she is in that position rather than right now when she is all loved up with him again. I know it is frustrating but unfortunately there isn't much you can do, it is up to her to decide whether or not this relationship is worth it. Good luck, your friend is lucky to have such a caring person in her life x
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reader, Jen86 +, writes (22 July 2008):
there's no advice you can give her really. She will learn from her mistakes in her own time.
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