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I am only 12, but look much older. Should I tell my 21 year old girfriend?

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Question - (5 June 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i recenty met a 21 year old girl and we really like each other only problem is im 9 years younger than her(i look a lot older than i am)should i lie about my age or should i tell her that i think we should just be friends until im old enough.If i should tell her i think we should just be friends how should i do it.

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A female reader, blondie97 United States +, writes (30 January 2010):

hon, one question where did you meet her? and i have the same prob guys mistake me for 15 and 16, IM 12!!!!! lol u really should say i have something to tell u. then gradually tell her, im younger than u and im not ready for this relationship, i dont wanna lie to u. then try for girls your age. and dont take advantage of her plz, no one deserves that. i really hope i helped. :)

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A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntIt would be very irresponsible to let her think that you are older than 12 because it's not fair on her!

I know boys that look way older, too, and have some real crap reputations. If you want to look like a player, then your only choice in girls will be the sluts who think you are still cool.

Just stop it and date someone younger!

Jelly

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

A 21 year old lady will never accept a 12 year old boy as her bf. May be she is considerig you as a younger brother or just a tinytot friend. I do not know how big or matured you are. I have heard that american children both boys and girls generaly reach puberty by 10. In asian countries it is 12 and 13. Why not try girls of your age. It is more appropriate.

Anyway good luck !

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A male reader, tommy2k7 United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

tommy2k7 agony auntNo No No! No to this full stop - this 'relationship' is very wrong. Enjoy growing up, get a good education, and then get into dating!

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntRead this and then follow TELLULAHS advice

http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=2235

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

by saying i look older i meant that's why she doesn't know my real age.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntOK you may look older, but your not are you?

I have to say that if it were the other way round and the man was 21 and the girl was 12, he would be classed as a Paedophile. Can you imagine how this poor girl would feel if you let anything happen, between you both. Please tell her you can only be mates because of your age... its the descent thing to do!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

UM Duh ur 12. u obviously should tell her. Come on enjoy your childhood. There plenty of time for girls later. Just tell her the truth.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

I don't believe you.

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