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writes:hi guys.i thought this would be a good way to get things of my chest seeing as i dont really tell people my problems. im 16 and im going out with a boy whos 21. i know you are probaly all thinking about the age differrence. i dont know what you would call it but i would call my feelings towards him love. weve been together for over half a year. he lies to me i find pictures of other girls in his phone he takes drugs and lets them take over him and our relationship. it hurts so much he says he will come see me but then he will text me and say hes to off his head too come see me and his excuses. i dont no what to do i really like him i know i should break up with him but i dont have the strenght. ive given up so much for him including friends and family. he says he loves me but how can he when hes texting other girls all the time lieng to my face. im just so upset ive recently started to develop an eating disorder i cant controll my self but he just keeps pushing me to the edge. does anyone have any suggestions to help me out please,. i just need someone to talk to..:(
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 Let him go. Rebuild the bridges with your family and friends, if possible. Or make new friends and do what we did on campus, create a "pretend family." I am sure that your regular family and friends will be happy to have you back though, hopefully.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (19 July 2009):
 I don`t see an issue with your ages as long as its not against the law there.I do see a major issue with his total lack of respect for you.I can clearly see that you would be so much better without him.Your best bet is to push him out of your life completely,and focus your mind elsewhere.I do not doubt that you love him.But believe me you will love again.His lies combined with his excuses.Forgive me for saying but I doubt you are the only girl in his life.And even by the remote chance that you are how can you trust a lier and a drug user to boot?It takes two people to make a relationship work and this guy isn`t putting in nearly enough effort.You can always tell him you need a break from him till he gets his mind right.Let him know how he is hurting you.But honestly your best bet is to just move on.
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