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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 One more question to help clear up the situation, how old is this young lady?
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reader, z3r0  +, writes (28 July 2009):
z3r0 is verified as being by the original poster of the question well i don't really know why she doesn't like me she doesn't even know me and i try to talk to her but she has no interest in getting to know me
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 July 2009):
Why does her mother not want you to go out with her daughter? She must have a pretty good reason if she is willing to put up with the whining and moaning I'll bet she is getting from her daughter right now!
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reader, z3r0 +, writes (27 July 2009):
z3r0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionher mother does want her to go out with me, so we have to sneak out
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (27 July 2009):
Forget the sending the phone in idea, that will smack you right on the face if her mum ever found out that you went behind her back you wont get another chance, leave it to them to sort out. Give it time, im sure shes just as desperate, itll make it more worthwhile in the end. Do all you can do, wait.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 July 2009):
You are only going to fan the flames if you try to contact her. You should have known that sneaking around was a bad idea, you always get caught and that just makes matters worse. Why did you have to sneak around anyway?
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reader, z3r0 +, writes (27 July 2009):
z3r0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah there not really anything i could do but i was thinking of sending her a phone with a friend but if mom finds out i think i would never get to talk to her again what do you think i should do ?
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 July 2009):
Dont make the situation any worse for her then, if shes having to sneak theres obviously a situation that needs sorting, give her and her mum time. i bet shes missing you but there really is nothing you can do right now.
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reader, z3r0 +, writes (27 July 2009):
z3r0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe got in trouble for sneaking out with me thats why i can't go see her or talk to her
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reader, z3r0 +, writes (27 July 2009):
z3r0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh she got in trouble for sneaking out with out and seeing me thats what why i cant go see her or talk to her
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 July 2009):
Well theres obviously a reason for it and until shes 'forgiven' theres not a lot you can do. If her mum is reading her mail before her then the situation is a lot worse than youve let on. Dont make it any worse, you have no choice but to wait im afraid.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 What did your gf do that was so bad?
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reader, z3r0 +, writes (27 July 2009):
z3r0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionher mom took her laptop to and as far as sending letters her mother would read it first so thats a bad idea
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Send her letters. Everyone loves "snail mail" letters, and they're way more romantic than a phone call!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 July 2009):
Do you have your own computer? Get a mic, and connect it to the computer, and talk to her on yahoo im, or some other im.
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