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female
age
36-40,
*onza
writes:Hey,I have two friends who are both inerested in having a relationship with me, I genuinely love one of them the mere fact that we share very many things in common, he is reserved, composed and above all a phlegmatic which I am as well and when next to him I feel good, but he is not intelligent yet I love intelligent men, he is not confident too. The other is a choleric and there are things that he does that keep on annoying me though I don't show him that I am annoyed besides he tries to show me that the other friend is not intelligent. I am afraid that if I accept the one I love, then they are not going to be friends any more yet I don't want to break their friendship. No one wants to let go, none of them has proposed yet and so I am thinking if I say no to both when they propose and wait for another man in my life or I accept the one I love. Reply to this Question
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reader, Gonza +, writes (25 November 2008):
Gonza is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks big to those who responded,your ideas are good.Thank you
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Just stay friends with them both and have a good laugh. They are both immature and it sounds like no one in this situation is ready for marriage!
Why do you have to make this decision so soon? They both sound like boys not men. Way too young for anything other than friendship. You will know when you meet the right man and when marriage is the best thing to do. These two seem like drama. LOL
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I think you are making some big assumptions here. You write that they are both interested in you, but not that you are actually dating either one of them. Most men do not propose marriage before actaully dating. Perhaps it is differant in Uganda. I would expect one of them to actually ask you out and then you could decide to pursue a relationship or not. I dont know that you need to decide wich one to marry quite yet. How about deciding wich one to date! Or will you date both?
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