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writes:I am 26, engaged to a my bf of 8 years, when i entered my first job at 25 i started to see someone else from the office who had many qualities that i felt were missing from my bf,currently i am techincally with them both becuase i dotn know who i should be with, i love them both but for different reasons,i feel immense guilt for betraying my bf and always feel as though i need to make it up to him , i keep promising the other guy that i am going to break it off with my bf. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Take time off from both of them...that way you can see yourself, and them through clear vision. But be honest with your Boyfriend, he deserves that much. Best of luck!!
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reader, hayhay123  +, writes (15 July 2008):
I think you should be honest with both of them and then see if either of them even wants to be with you anymore knowing how you've deceived them. Therein will lye your answer, the one who is willing to stick around even though you have made a catastrophic mistake.
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (14 July 2008):
 You have been with your fiance for eight years. EIGHT! He is in it for the long haul. How do you know that this man from work is?
Your boyfriend must love you, and he would be so hurt to know that not only have you cheated on him, but you are conspiring to leave.
You need to choose before you end up leading them both on.
And you shouldn't even be engaged to him because you will be marrying him knowing that there was something hidden for him.
for a man to marry a woman, its actually harder. Woman are undoubtably more committed to one on most occasions. This could be the end of both relationships if you dont cut on off now and tell the other whats going on.
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reader, Peterk5699  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 when you get in a relationship you make a commitment to stay loyal to that one person and that persopn only.
You should break it off with the one you're not engaged to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): If you HAVE to pick one then go with the guy you work with. It's obvious that your feelings towards your bf are shallow & I'm sure even he wouldn't want you to stay with him out of guilt. Anyways going just by what you said I would say that your bf deserves better.
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