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I'm quite a fan of being an agony uncle and have been since school (6 years ago - I'm getting old these days) so I hope you/others will trust my answers etc.
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I LOVE music and reading - I'll listen to anything from classical to loud, angry death metal and read anything from biography to crime to the history of sex to Greek epic poetry (Homer, Virgil, Plato etc). Also play electric guitar, bass, samples, ukulele, harmonica and edited vocals.
Just finished a year of Access to HE (2009 - 2010) at college and will be going to uni in September.
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I've been chatting online to her for four days... Should I tell I've started to fall for her!!?
Q. I was recently having a lng distance relationship which I posted about a while ago. That's ended now and I'm over this girl. I've just met someone on a flirting website and we've exchanged emails and numbers (and it's only been 4 days) but we cha...
A. 4 June 2007: I'm totally over her now. She has a bf and I was just having one of those moments.
Maybe it's cos I'm 18 and confused?... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?
Q. I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just ...
A. 27 May 2007: You should sit down with her and have a talk, try and get things going again. As someone said below - take her ot for a romantic meal with candlelight (optional of course) and hopefully the spark will start again.... (read in full...)
She's cheated on me and I know... but she doesn't know I know - what should I do?
Q. My partner has cheated on me at least once, she doesn't yet know I know. What should i do, i love her to bits, but she continues to lie to me. We have a son, he is almost two, i cant see him hurt by this, but i can hardly stand to look at her....
A. 27 May 2007: I think you should sit down with her and just say to her that you know she's been cheating and possibly ask her why. But don't blurt it out loud and fast cos that could make things go sour within a matter of seconds.
I would also suggest that you... (read in full...)
Fallen out with another girl in college...
Q. Hi about 4 weeks ago I fell out with a girl in college. I told her how she made me feel because in truth I felt intimidated by her. She looks down at people and talks in big posh words. I thought it would be honest to tell her how I felt and how ...
A. 27 May 2007: I'm 18 and was bullied in school and college about being, say, the "odd one out". I would speak my mind just as you have done and sadly it does cause harrassment (sic) and bullying and it can be hard getting over these things. It took me 2 years to ... (read in full...)
Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?
Q. hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and ...
A. 26 May 2007: I agree with most of the below. Could be a cyst or maybe even just a spot. I once had a big lump that sounds similar. I wouldn't recommend squeezing it though unless you want a red mirror. Nah, I wouldn't worry about it. It's probably just a ... (read in full...)
What songs are good for kissing to?
Q. I know this may sound like a bit of a stupid question but here goes: I'm curious as to what songs are good for kissing to. I've figured that "Truly, Madly, Deeply" is a good one along with "Don't Wanna Miss a Thing" and when you're 8 years o...
A. 26 May 2007: Thanx to those who have helped me. It's highly appreciated. I like a lil REAL R'n'B (Marvin Gaye type sound, none of the modern c*ap) So, yeah as I said below I'll check out those tracks soon. Thanx a million!!... (read in full...)
What songs are good for kissing to?
Q. I know this may sound like a bit of a stupid question but here goes: I'm curious as to what songs are good for kissing to. I've figured that "Truly, Madly, Deeply" is a good one along with "Don't Wanna Miss a Thing" and when you're 8 years o...
A. 16 May 2007: Thanx for that. Alothough I don't like many of those bands (nor do I like Savage Garden) but I will have to check them out. It's just that I've not had a proper kiss with someone that I really care about and I want the first proper one to be, let's ... (read in full...)
can you get pregnant from giving a blow job?
Q. hi there i was wondering if you were to give a guy a blow-job and he cums is there a possible chance that you can get pregnant?i need answers asap!!!!!thankyou:)...
A. 16 May 2007: This is a MASSIVE Ciche in the "Sex world" if you will. And the answer is No, you can't get pregnant from oral. But when he travels further down you would want to use protection unless you wanna join in with teenage pregnancy which isn't good.... (read in full...)
When we made out his leg started shaking
Q. When I was making out with this guy his leg started shaking is that a bad sign?...
A. 16 May 2007: Like what was said below: He's excited, really likes you and, if it's his first time, he may be a little nervous.
Nothing to worry about though =]... (read in full...)
How long do you think you should be in a relationship for before proposing?
Q. How long do you think you should be in a relationship for before proposing? I've been with my girlfriend for five years and it's been fantastic apart from the occasional row over nothing and her having a one night stand near the beginning of the ...
A. 16 May 2007: I'd think 5 years is enough. My dad got married to my mum after 3 and were together for about 7 years or so. I'm not sure for certain 'cause they divorced when I was just 4. My dad then met up stepmum (strangely enough it was the girl he fancied in ... (read in full...)
I've been chatting online to her for four days... Should I tell I've started to fall for her!!?
Q. I was recently having a lng distance relationship which I posted about a while ago. That's ended now and I'm over this girl. I've just met someone on a flirting website and we've exchanged emails and numbers (and it's only been 4 days) but we cha...
A. 16 May 2007: Thanx mrs fabulous cd206.
I did think I shold wait cos telling her after this short could make her run a mile.
And I was planning (in my mind) to try and meet her in a month due to the fact that it's festival season and I'm off to Donnington...... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy to stop stalking me?
Q. Right, here's the deal. A taken guy who's been going out with his gf for 8 months has not stopped texting me since we first met. Also, on MSN, he doesn't stop talkin to me. She knows and she's angry. If I have to text him back, it's one word ans...
A. 16 May 2007: I agree with the rest. Block him on msn and just ignore his txts or, if possible, go to the phone shop or call your operator and get his number blocked.
If you ignore his texts he'll get bored after a week or so and begin something new.... (read in full...)
Is a month too soon into a relationship to start having sex?
Q. Im a 25 year old virgin who has recently started seeing a guy. he is coming to my town on saturday night and has asked me to stay in a hotel with him. can i read into this as him expecting sex? ive been seeing him for a month, i trust him but being ...
A. 16 May 2007: IMO I think you should make sure you REALLY do trust him and that he's the one you want to lose your virginity to.
I'm still a virgin and waiting for that special woman.
Losing your virginity should be special and not something you re... (read in full...)
Do you think it's ok for an 18 year old guy to date a 16 year old girl?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been talking to a girl online for about 2 years now and we get on really well. I was thinking of asking her to be my valentine this year. The age thing gets to me though for some reason and I would really like to know your ...
A. 16 May 2007: Update: I did mention we should meet up but she declined. It was because of the distance apart. Yeah, Valentines sucks...or at least it does in my case(s)... (read in full...)
Do you think it's ok for an 18 year old guy to date a 16 year old girl?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been talking to a girl online for about 2 years now and we get on really well. I was thinking of asking her to be my valentine this year. The age thing gets to me though for some reason and I would really like to know your ...
A. 23 January 2007: I asked her and mentioned we should meet in London but as she live in Liverpool it might be a bit too far.
"It's gonna be lonely, this valentines"... (read in full...)
I think my girlfreind is going to dump me after valentines day! What should I do?
Q. It all started when my girlfriend started texting my mate telling him that she's dumped me and fancies him. And she asked him if he would go out with her. Now I think she fancies him and her mates told me that she's going to dump me after ...
A. 23 January 2007: You should have a talk with her about it. Unless you've seen the texts your friends could be telling porkies to try and make you jealous or something alike.
PE... (read in full...)
Do you think it's ok for an 18 year old guy to date a 16 year old girl?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been talking to a girl online for about 2 years now and we get on really well. I was thinking of asking her to be my valentine this year. The age thing gets to me though for some reason and I would really like to know your ...
A. 23 January 2007: *Blushes* Cute?
Thanx for the comment... (read in full...)
Images of my gf and my best friend haunt me! How can I get rid of these images?
Q. Someone please help. I have been dating this girl on and off for almost 6 years now. At one point, we dated for 2 years. Right now, we are dating again, and have been for 2 months. She is fine, she is head-over-heels for me. But about a year and ...
A. 23 January 2007: Hi.
I don't mean for this to sound the wrong way or anything but maybe you could try a couple of counciling sessions? Just let all your feelings out to him/her and it will be kept confidential.
Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Why can't I experience orgasms like the girls in porn? Any thoughts?
Q. I keep watching porn and seeing these girls come loads! I mean like waterfalls of come! Is this real or fake? Why can't I do it? Thanks...
A. 22 January 2007: As many of the other "Aunts/uncles" have said: It's not 100% true.
I'm sure not all girls shout out "Holy S*it!!" when they orgasm.
A lot of the squirts are photoshopped etc or done by the woman holding it something like baby oil then releasi... (read in full...)
During sex I enjoy being urinated on. Am I strange?
Q. Hi, I'm a girl in my twenties and I get very aroused when a guy urinates on me. I've seen it in porn and find it quite arousing. My boyfriend and I have tried it once and I enjoyed it very much. Am I strange? Can anyone else relate to this? Is ...
A. 22 January 2007: Nope. You're definately not weird. Many people enjoy this and you're one of them.
As Martini said: "Whatever Floats your boat"... (read in full...)
My g/f is ignoring me and changed her myspace profile to private! Why?
Q. Why is she ignoring me? I posted a similar question up a little while ago about my girlfriend not replying to texts. Now it seems to have gotten worse! I texted her on Tuesday and got replies. I then texted on Wednesday but got no reply. I th...
A. 22 January 2007: That kinda came out wrong. I'm not exactly shy to say but just I dunno.
If it came to meeting then I wouldn't be shy at all, I'm fine with meeting people.
Bah, I dunno. I could be worried about what she would say but not realising it. I'... (read in full...)
How do I fall out of unrequited love?
Q. How do I fall out of (unrequited) love? In October I met a girl on the internet. Something I have never done before. We got on really well and within a couple of weeks we were talking all the time. I mean almost every moment that we were availabl...
A. 22 January 2007: I know how you feel there. The same has just happened to me, except without the bf bit. It is a horrible feeling but as was said below, I'm also gonna get going out and talking to new girls and asking friends if they can sort out a date maybe.
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I feel like I'm not big enough - while we were at a party, my gf blurted out that I have a small penis and she fakes orgasms!!
Q. Ok, this is my first time posting, i have been strugling with a issue for a while now, a while back i dated this girl for about 2 years sex was great...so i thought. during the relationship shes at her frinds house at a small party and anounces ...
A. 22 January 2007: It is true that size doesn't matter. It isn't a question you should ask though because that would probably get you a slap (along with asking spit or swallow).
You have no need to worry about size, everybody is different so be happy with what you... (read in full...)
How can I stop biting my lips, fingers and insides of my cheeks?
Q. I have a really big problem with biting my lips, the skin around my fingers, the inside of my cheek. I am usually making it bleed or hurt really bad. Does anyone have any idea why I do this all the time, even without noticing? And how can I stop? ...
A. 22 January 2007: As someone said below there are special solution that you can buy to make your fingers taste nasty. Perhaps you could try one of those. Apply it daily and each time you tast your fingers it will be nasty and you will be put off.
Good luck in tryin... (read in full...)
My g/f is ignoring me and changed her myspace profile to private! Why?
Q. Why is she ignoring me? I posted a similar question up a little while ago about my girlfriend not replying to texts. Now it seems to have gotten worse! I texted her on Tuesday and got replies. I then texted on Wednesday but got no reply. I th...
A. 22 January 2007: I never try and bother her or anything. I send a hi text a few times a week and then she texts back.
And I don't ask her questions that are overly private, i.e: What're you up to tonight etc are the only Q's I ask.
I'm a bit too shy to call ... (read in full...)
My g/f is ignoring me and changed her myspace profile to private! Why?
Q. Why is she ignoring me? I posted a similar question up a little while ago about my girlfriend not replying to texts. Now it seems to have gotten worse! I texted her on Tuesday and got replies. I then texted on Wednesday but got no reply. I th...
A. 22 January 2007: Thanx for the quick response.
This is my first "mature"(?) relationship. I've had other relationships but really they meant nothing.
It hurt to read that but I've decided to send one last text tonight and after that, maybe no more.
I guess... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and I feel embarrassed and ashamed that I met a guy online. Any thoughts?
Q. hi how u doing i met this man online about a year ago we get on really well got the same sense of humour hes really caring when things were going wrong for me he rings me up we have talked on the phone and sent each other one pictures im just...
A. 18 January 2007: I met my girlfriend online and we're going very strong. We talk daily and everything is (almost) perfect.
Go for it and meet him (in a safe place of course) and have fun.
Enjoy it while you can and good luck!
Pete... (read in full...)
Confused, scared and alone... lied to a bunch of friends that I was no longer a virgin when I am!
Q. Recently I lied to a bunch of my friends about being a virgin. I know its childish and inmature of me to do, but when I was confronted with the question flashes of rejection from every girl I've ever liked dating back into gradeschool flashed in ...
A. 18 January 2007: You should be proud to be a virgin and wanting to lose it to someone special and not in the back of a car.
I used to be the same but now I will happily tell the truth that I am indeed a virgin. You shouldn't be scared to tell the truth, you'll f... (read in full...)
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