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Should I moan? Or should I try not to moan?

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Question - (14 July 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay. So, I just gota ask. When my boyfriend fingers me, and I moan just a little quite moan..Does he like it? Or should I try not to? Help!!

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A female reader, hayhay123 United States +, writes (15 July 2008):

Most men seem to like it the more noise you make, the more you enjoy what they're doing, the more it makes them feel like they know what they're doing.

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A female reader, Secret Teller United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

Secret Teller agony auntmoan of course. guys love that. when you moan everything get hot and steamy.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2008):

natasia agony auntyou should do what feels good. if you feel like moaning, moan. i imagine he would like it. it shows he's doing a good job, and men like that.

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2008):

The Gentle Man agony auntWell i'd think he would like it. It lets him know that he's doing something right, and it will add to his excitment aswell.

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2008):

Peterk5699 agony auntYou should moan like you do when you do it yourself because that way your fella will think he's done well and given you one of those orgasm things. You'll make him feel happy and he'll want to do it more.

But don't be all mega loud and exageratistic because he'll figure/think you're faking it.

Good luck and have fun

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A male reader, elpasotexas United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2008):

elpasotexas agony auntMales rely on their primary senses more than females during sexual activity. This the main reason why men seem to like pornography more than women. Women are generally use their heads more.

This is just a generalisation however, back to your question. Yes I would think it is encouraging to know that he is making you happy and satisfying you. From my own personal experience the more vocal the person who I am with is, the more I enjoy the experience as I feel like I am doing a good job so to speak.

So in short, the more noise the better aslong as you mean it and you are not putting it on.

Good luck with your sexual experimentation xxx

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A female reader, xxsecretsxx United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

xxsecretsxx agony auntGuys actually like to know that they are doing things right. It is gratifying knowing that they make you feel good.

A man is completely self concious during and after any sexual activity. A small misunderstanding can hurt there ego so much they can't preform.

;) good luck with the guy, and relax a little.

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