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writes:Someone please,help me out? (risk of pregnancy?)I'm with the most amazing person- we have been together for over 2 years now,but we have never had sex (I want to be a virgin until my marriage). However what we do is usually called 'dry sex' - we touch each other and let our 'bits' touch without penetration. What bugs me is that I have done a lot of research and I found that a man's penis can contain traces of sperm when it's aroused.Today we got close twice- on the first occasion he 'finished' and then in a few hours we got close again- letting our bits touch. My vagina is deeply covered by inner lips-it took me a while to actually find it-so if anything, he's penis was touching my clit and my inner lips at most.What is the risk of pregnancy in this case? I am over 18,so is my partner,if that makes a difference and I know I'm playing with fire,we're usually extra safe,but this time we weren't. Any advice?He did not ejaculate at all the second time we got close
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (14 March 2009):
 If his penis is out of his pants and erect put a condom on it.
Pre-cum The clear liquid that may come out of his penis before ejaculation still contains sperm and can cause pregnancy during unprotected sex.
If he actually ejaculates and touches you during foreplay there is a chance of pregnancy.
And with out having a go at your beliefs, why go this far and not actually have sex? Surely in the eyes of everyone else (including God) you are having sexual contact which is just as bad, if you don't marry your boyfriend, will a future husband feel that your dry humping, is as respectable as not having sex?
This is just my opinion but if you are going to risk pregnancy and STIs anyway why not just actually have full blown safe sex with the man you love.
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reader, natasia +, writes (14 March 2009):
 To be honest, I think yr risk of pregnancy is pretty much zero ...
You are right about the closed lips. And if he didn't even ejaculate ... no, the odds are stacked completely against it!
To be completely secure in your own mind, don't let him ejaculate anywhere near you. Well, I guess near your ears might be ok ... ; )
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): Yes, there is a risk that you can become pregnant this way. When a man has been highly aroused for a while, he will leak small amounts of a fluid that contains sperm. If that fluid gets near your vagina, well, we know what prodigious swimmers sperm can be. Of course it's less likely than if he penetrates you, but it's still possible for you to become pregnant. If you're going to do this, he should wear a condom from the very beginning, every time.
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