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writes:I'm 16 and I fancy this girl who is 14 goin on 15 and she hates me so much but I love her and I cant get over her, she knows how I feel as all my freinds asked her out for me even tho I did'nt give them permission. I just got a gym membership so I can get in shape to impress her thats how desperate I am. I have lots of spots and have never went out with a girl before ever nt even a little kiss you have help me please tell me how to get a girl who hates you to love you
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Exact same problem I hope it works out for you because im 99% sure i wont be so lucky i feel ur pain
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from. I had the same problem, 'cept she was a few months older than me. Believe me, I tried EVERYTHING, from sport to writing poetry and songs, and you might well do so, but if she doesn't like you (or in my case, and I quote, "hate[d] [my] guts"), then there, in short, isn't much you can do about it. My best advice is: write something cathartic. It doesn't matter if you are a good writer or not, just do it. Get everything about the matter out on paper, and if you are insecure about it, burn it or eat it or something. The point is, write absolutely EVERYTHING about this whole matter down, from what makes you feel that about her to what has happened in reaction from friends, and more importantly, her. Write it all down, and think it over for a while. If you get it all out, it can make you feel a lot better. If you do try and buff yourself up, which I don't advise as you shouldn't change yourself over her, see if you get a reaction, or any change at all, from her. If you don't, just try and stop thinking about her. Try and talk to her, be friends, but make it clear that you aren't doing it for relationship purposes. I hope this helps you.
~Lexodus~
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): First, find out why she hates you.Then find a way to fix that and if she is the type that hates you for who you are...then she isn't the one you should be with.Also, if she's like that even if she loves you it's a high possiblity that the relationship wont last long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): bro this is kinda wierd! dont put your self through all that. she is prob not even worth all the work your putting in. just go up to her and tell her that im sorry if you hate me but if theres anything i can do to change your mind please tell me. if she says theres nothing then let it be...
i know giving up is hard but sometimes its the best option
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reader, CYPRUSDRGN200x  +, writes (11 October 2008):
hey there. you can't *get* a girl to like you. you will meet someone special and it will just click. it takes time, that's the hardest part but keep moving forward and when it does click you'll know it was worth the wait.
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reader, JZ101EDMONDS  +, writes (2 June 2008):
I'm going through a very similar situation except the girl's sixteen going on seventeen and I'm fifteen going on sixteen. The girl told me to leave her alone which is a pretty bad signal meaning now she wants nothing to do with you. If this girl doesn't want you or is not showing any signs that she's interested then I would just give up it's as simple as that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Ok. Totally ignore her for a month. This will make her go crazy and eventually come to you. Then play hard to get. Act totally uninterested. Then slowly get closer to her
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (24 June 2007):
 Don't change who you are for this girl. I understand the whole thing of impressing a member of the opposite sex and stuff but remember to stay who you are.
Why does this girl hate you? And why do you think going to the gym is going to change how she looks at you? Have you tried going to the doctors for your acne/spots? I did when I was in my teens and was given some medication that helped keep them at bay.
If this girl really hates you then she may not be the one for you. Don't worry about not kissing a girl at 16. It'll happen one day :)
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reader, myp + ♥, writes (24 June 2007):
 Why does she hate you? First off you cant make her love you, she either will or she wont. Second off you have to get her to stop hating you then you have to get her to like you then you have to get into a relationship then you get her to fall for you. Sometimes people get lucky and they just skip to the love part others have to go through the slow greuling process of dating. Be yourself, i say that all the time to my guy friends, and they dont belive me, but its true. Dont stalk her or drool, or be bothersome. Act like you dont care she knows you like her, be confident in yourself. Confidence is the sexiest thing.and again i repeat Why does she hate you?-Myesha
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