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reader, hashondraj  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 okay im 13 and ive have been kissed on the cheeck and the lips no more and i have did the same its hard i know but tel him to met you sumwhere then 10 mintues b4 eat a mint than chew gum wen you get there take a deep breathe look at his eyes than his lips then his eyes and bite your lips if it doesnt happpen then keep doing it every once and a while make jokes and than b4 you leave if you have not kiss give him a close tight hug say i love you than wen you realse from the hug don't let go al the way then do the eye lips eye thing again if he doesn't make the move you do lean up and close your eyes if you don't feel him coming near hang your head down and lifft it back up after 3 seconds and than softly say kiss me or you can do the old way tell you bestfriend to dare him to kiss you and than after that kiss him back!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): iF you wanna kiss him just do it and dont think twice..
I did thisbefore and for this reason i`m telling you..
Just kiss him and say:I WANNA BE WITH YOU ALL THE TIME.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007): Unfortunately I can't be much help. I'm going to my best friends house tomorrow and I plan on spilling my feelings for him then. I have been stuck with your problem for what seems like forever and I really have been best friends with this guy for four years and have always been a chicken to tell him how I feel. So please don't make the mistake I have over and over again and don't miss the opportunity to make your move. You won't regret it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Strike up a convo with him and pretend like you don't hear. Lean in with you ear close to his face and his voice will get softer because you are nearer to him. Suddenly turn to look at him and by now you are inches away from his lips. Blink slowly and glance down at his mouth. You will find yourself kissing in no time!(It worked for me and I'm 14!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): yeah i have the same problem but the best way is to study his body language... i mean some guys are very shy and others are very outspoken with their emotions. but either way its not hard to tell if theyre into you. and not many guys would turn down a soft small subtle kiss. dont make the first one over passionate if your not sure if he feels the same way. just make it short and sweet and most likely he will take the initiative to make a longer slower kiss.
hope it helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): Just kiss him. Let his hands wonder and his mind
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reader, DV1 +, writes (25 June 2007):
 As a guy, I can tell you a way that I would love... I'm not sure if you mean best friend or boyfriend... It seems like you mean best friend in this case. If this is the case, tell him your feelings, and don't just rush to kiss him. It won't mean anything. If you kiss him and he doesn't feel the same way, then you may potentially lose the friendship, or at least freak him out for a while. If it's your friend, just sit down and talk about the potential of dating first...
If you meant boyfriend:
If he's talking, grab his face, tell him to shut up, and just kiss him. He'll love it.
DV1
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reader, mattharmon17  +, writes (25 June 2007):
well this depends on what type of guy he is. i mean i am crap at reading signals from a girl and usually dont get it until it happens lol. so just as the others said, wet ur lips, look into his eyes, to his lips and bk to his eyes and lean in, if he doesnt get it just carry on, by the time ur lips touch his he should get the message!good luck
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reader, myp +, writes (25 June 2007):
 when youre close to him tilt your face up close to his, lick your lips, and look at his mouth. He'll get the message.message me if you have any questions =)best of luck-Myesha
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): honestly dont think just do it because thinking will make it not special. just look him in the eyes and kiss him simple. good luck
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reader, GreenTea +, writes (25 June 2007):
Well. just moisten your lips with your tongue. It doesen't have to be sensual. And then drift your gaze from his eyes to his lips and just lean in. Who cares if its awkward. You cant really kiss him wrong. And its not like he isnt going to like it.Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): First of all you have to be alone and relaxed. When he looks at you don't say a word, just caress your hair looking down and then look into his eyes smiling, then look into his lips and into his eyes, repeat until the desired kiss is achieved. He should get the hint that you are in a romantic/sexy mood to get him to understand that you want him to kiss you.
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