Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 19 October 2010: Hi,
There are loads of compilation love songs albums out there.
Plus love songs from the following artists (i dont know yr taste in music)
Marvin Gaye
Stylistics
Prince
Sade
George Micheal
Micheal Jackson
Heatwave
Songs from Gre... (read in full...)
Does there always have to be an attraction between 2 people for them to have sex?
Q. When two people have sex, there must be some sort of attraction for them both to do it. Yes you can have one nite stands but something must get you both attracted to each othe even if it is only that? ...
A. 19 October 2010: Hi,
I find that sex is best when you both fancy each other and are in a loving relationship where you are 100% comfortable and trust your partner.
If theres no attraction, then it just becomes a mindless act...and then you will alway wonder if ... (read in full...)
Why is hard during sex, but soft during oral sex?
Q. Hello.My boyfriend and i are living together for 3 years.My bf's penis is about 8' long but when i want to take it in my mouth it loses it's erection.During sex it's ok but during blowjob not.What can i do?...
A. 19 October 2010: Hi,
Maybe hes uncomfortable with it...or has some sorta mental block about it.
Why dont you ask him?... (read in full...)
How to get even with my boyfriends ex mistress?
Q. how to get even with my boyfriends ex mistress, who has now turned on me, although i have done nothing to her in any shape or form!!!!!!! She has hacked into our electric account, mobiles, accused us of assault, (we did not)came to our home, proper ...
A. 18 October 2010: Hi,
Contact your bank and inform them that you accounts have been hacked. Ask them to investigate and call in the Fraud Office who will then gather the necessary evidence to prosecute her.
In the mean time DO NOT HAVE any contact with her... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's lady friend doesn't want me around!
Q. Bf of 5 yrs has platonic(beyond doubt)unattractive lady friend nad I have befriended her at my insistance!I have eaten out with her,got her blind dates,girly goss together n the 3 of us have been out.However when my BF visits her from time to time ...
A. 18 October 2010: Hi,
I wouldnt worry about it unless she fanices your BF.
I have a v good female friend. She is attractive and we get on well.She has a partner, but sometimes comes over for dinner/watch a film alone and we chat about various things including... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: Hi,
This sounds like a loaded q...lol
For me it has to be both a and b.
Also, I dont treat my partner like a peice of meat..so I want to be the only one looking at her nake form I dont want my mates to be seeing what i do ;). For me it ... (read in full...)
When is my bad luck going to end?
Q. when is my bad luck going to end, nothing in my life has been simple. people may say "oh just get over it, your life is what you make it" but nothing i do ends up being simple, i reckon iv gone through more in my 20years of being on this earth then ...
A. 16 October 2010: Hi,
I'm SOOO sorry to hear what you have been through at such a young age. I can understand your frustrations 100%.
I think that the best thing that you should do is to go to yr Dr explain what has happened above and your frustrations and... (read in full...)
Too much masturbation?
Q. I've tried reading up on the internet about the effects of too much masturbation but i thoguht i'd ask on here too. I'm a 16 year old girl who's a virgin and doesn't want to lose it till 17 at least and I've been masturbating for probably around t...
A. 15 October 2010: Hi,
I guess you didnt watch the recent series on Ch4 about sex?
Check out this link:-
http://sexperienceuk.channel4.com/
Hopefully it will help... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be a guy who doesn't like porn
Q. Ok here is the situation, I am visually turned on by females, and always have been. Thats important because the next part of what im about to say hinges off that fact. Porn as a whole has never done anything for me. I have always been more ...
A. 14 October 2010: Hi there,
I am 100% with you on this one & was about to post a similar comment until i saw your post.
I dont like porn either. I have seen some in the past (@ stag nites and strip clubs which I hated going to but had to due to a valued Clients... (read in full...)
Did my ex get my virginity?
Q. my boyfriend and I were discussing our pasts with each other and we can't seem to agree on whether or not I am still a true virgin. Right before my ex and me broke up we did try and have sex, however he is quite large and after getting just a little ...
A. 11 October 2010: Hi there,
Any penetration by a penis into a vagina even if its half an inch is still penetrative sex.
Therefore by that defintion you are not a virgin. so sorry.... (read in full...)
Where are the good men hiding?
Q. Right now I'm very discouraged. Where are all the good men hiding? In the past years my dating experiences have been bad. I've tried dating friends, acquaintances, co workers, random people.. nothing seems to work. I think I'm a fairly normal pe...
A. 11 October 2010: Hi there,
I know where you are coming from.
All I can say is that there is ONE single, healthly professional guy waiting for you here in London UK!! :)... (read in full...)
Guys put off by a 24 year old virgin?
Q. Do guys feel put off if a girl is a virgin at 24? I'm pretty shy and lacking in confidence because of being mentally and physically (not sexually) abused when I was younger. I've never told anyone that I'm a virgin because I find it really embarr...
A. 9 October 2010: Hi,
Real men go for the woman, the personm the indivdaul....not her sexual status.. or a "piece of meat"....unless they are paying for her services!!
Just relax and find someone that you love n wanna b with and not just to loose yr sexual ... (read in full...)
How do I approach my work colleague?
Q. hey i like this girl at work but i dont know how to ask her out... once i asked her she said no... i might think she like me too... but i dont know how to approach her!!...
A. 9 October 2010: Hi,
She may like you but its not a good idea to date someone you work with.
Just think, if you have an arguement/break up, everyone at wk will know about it.
... (read in full...)
After 25 years of no contact,can he be 100% trustworthy?
Q. Twenty-five years ago, I fell in love with a Turkish man, and he with me I believe. He was very kind and very protective of me. After 3-4 months, he took me to meet his entire family in two different cities. And he asked me to marry him. I had been ...
A. 9 October 2010: Hi,
I can understand where you are coming from re the 25 yrs. I know what its like to love someone from afar.
My 1st love has tracked me down after 30 yrs even though she is married with kids...I am single... but thats a story.
that I h... (read in full...)
Oral sex question for the ladies... workin' on technique!
Q. So, I have a short goatee... not 5 o clock shadow just a tad bit longer that can create a nice maybe sandpaper feel lol.... do ladies like this if im goin' down on one? Like if I rub my trimmed beard against their clitorus? I'm workin on technique ...
A. 8 October 2010: Wow,
@ CindyCares ....maybe you should write a post for that...lol... (read in full...)
How to beat an old french-woman-player?
Q. I was in a relationship for one year with a french woman player, 10 years older than me. She treated me like shit the whole year. Then she decided to move to a different city. And when she was ok again she broke up with me. Now after one month she ...
A. 7 October 2010: Hi,
You need to walk away NOW...for your own sanity.
If you truely love someone, you dont put them through hell like this
No more contact with her would be best from now on..or you will continue to go round and round in a downward spiral til... (read in full...)
Is she telling the truth judging by the signs or do I go by logic and walk away?
Q. Not sure what to think anymore but basically heres the story . I met this girl we knew each other before! We started talking on a night out and supprisingly we hit it off ! We met up a few times and we really liked each other so we started dating. F...
A. 6 October 2010: Hi,
TBH with you, it sounds like she's still into you and wants you, but she now has a partner & family.
Best thing to do is to leave the ball in her court if you want her back.
Just tell her to call you for a chat when shes NOT in a relat... (read in full...)
How to beat an old french-woman-player?
Q. I was in a relationship for one year with a french woman player, 10 years older than me. She treated me like shit the whole year. Then she decided to move to a different city. And when she was ok again she broke up with me. Now after one month she ...
A. 6 October 2010: Hi,
Maybe you should give her one last chance. But make it clear that things are v different now.
If she starts to treat you like dirt...Tell her that you cant go on like that, walk away and dont look back...otherwise you will always be on her... (read in full...)
I would love to know what exactly can get me a boyfriend?
Q. ok, here it is. i'm english, and i'm seventeen- eighteen in december. i'm not the most beautiful girl in the world, but i know that i'm not ugly. both male and female friends have commented that i have a good body (small waist, curvy hips, ...
A. 6 October 2010: Hi, Why dont you join clubs/societies/dance classes or whatever you are intereted in etc so that you can go out and hopefully meet guys that have similar interests to you. thats probably the best way to meet new people..maybe even a guy!! ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex how much she has hurt me?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me about less then a month ago. And only after a week breaking up with me had another boyfriend in her life. I'm just so completely hurt from all this that words can't even describe my pain. It's like our relationship ...
A. 6 October 2010: Hi,
I dont think that its a good idea to tell her.
What I did, (she was my 1st love) when something similar happened to me many yrs ago was to write it down in a letter..but NEVER SEND it.It helps easy the pain.
She is now married with kids... (read in full...)
First time blowjob.any tips?
Q. ive never done a blow job before and was thinkin about doin one for a guy i like a lot... any sugesstions on what the best way to do it is? hes had some experience so i dont wanna seem like its my 1st time...
A. 5 October 2010: Hi,
Set some boundaries..ie can he cum in yr mouth etc
Another tip, lick his shaft like a lollipop and dont forget to suck his balls (individually!!).
If he's not circumsized, dont pull his foreskin back too much as that can be v painfull. ... (read in full...)
Am I looking way too much into her text? Or is she giving me an opportunity to call her and talk?
Q. Hey: My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago because I was studying for my medical boards (the 6 months prior) and she grew apart due to the time away (saw her once a month during that time and very stressful for me). The last...
A. 5 October 2010: Go get her!!
Sounds like she's regretting the split as much as you.
Call her and find out whats going on!!... (read in full...)
Do women tell their friends EVERYTHING about their boyfriends???
Q. Ok, to all women, do you talk to your best friends and tell them everything about your bf. i mean everything, like dirty details?...
A. 5 October 2010: Hi,
The women that I have known/worked with do...across all socail stratas.
I once expericened @ wk (open planned office) some of the ladies were discussing in GRAPHIC detail what they did with thier partners in the bedroom during thier lun... (read in full...)
Why wont my husband perform oral sex on me?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 11 years now and I am very hurt by the fact he will not perform oral sex on me I give him bjs all the time but he won't ever return the favor. I desire it so much that I often think about cheating to get oral ...
A. 5 October 2010: Hi there,
Have you asked him why he doesnt give you oral?
Next time you give him a BJ, why dont you adopt the 69 position...that way maybe yr needs will be met!!
Alternative, why dont your go "Hollywood" down there...I'm sure he will... (read in full...)
Would a girlfriend actually make me happy?
Q. I am 21 and can't get a girlfriend. I have been alone for almost 3 years now and it feels really bad. I keep hoping that I will meet the perfect girl for me, but it never happens. There are so many girls at uni, yet I can't seem to meet the right ...
A. 4 October 2010: Hi,
Sorry to hear that but,True happyness comes from within.
Why dont you join some social/hobby clubs?
The happier that you are, the easier you will find it to get a GF
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I have questions about condoms, masturbation and diseases--mature answers, please!
Q. loads of people in my school are NOT virgins, some of them are but i wouldnt say many people are, they all have big boobs and have nice legs, and know all about sex and masturbation, can someone answer these questions: Do condoms really protect y...
A. 3 October 2010: Hi there,
Ch4 recently ran an excellent series of programmes aimed at yr age grp which will basically ans all yr q's.
Try looking at http://sexperienceuk.channel4.com/
Nice to see that you are taking a sensible approach to this.
Goo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to be more sexual?
Q. Hi, I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend is 16 last week. The problem is, im a virgin...he isn't. He wants me to be more sexual, and i don't know what to say! He is really nice but he said it will never work unless i try to become a little bit more...
A. 3 October 2010: Hi, Sorry to hear that he is pressurizing you into sex. In the UK it is an offence for anyone under the age of 16 to have sex. Anyone who is 16 and over can be put on the sex offenders register if they have sex with someone under 16.... (read in full...)
After 25 years of no contact,can he be 100% trustworthy?
Q. Twenty-five years ago, I fell in love with a Turkish man, and he with me I believe. He was very kind and very protective of me. After 3-4 months, he took me to meet his entire family in two different cities. And he asked me to marry him. I had been ...
A. 2 October 2010: Hi,
Go with you gut instinct.
You need to get proof in writing (in english) that what you have is yours.
Dont forget Turkey is not yet part of the EU, so you may not be covered if you send the money over to him.
I think that you need t... (read in full...)
Do guys get surprised when the see what the breasts are shaped like without the bra?
Q. Are you ready for a nontraditional question? Do guys get pleasantly/nonpleasantly surprised (you decide) when the bras come off their girlfriends? Girls wear all sorts of push up bras, lifting bras etc. that I'm curious if guys get surprise...
A. 30 September 2010: Always a pleasure to see/feel/lick them....lol ;) Personally I dont like the push up bras....oh natural is always breast ..LOL... (read in full...)
Something just doesn't feel right about our sex life! Is he gay?
Q. My husband is a great guy. He is very Affectionate but.. I wonder sometimes If he could be gay, he is overly concerned With his looks and cleanliness, hates To get dirty. When we have sex, he only Wants to orgasm when he enters me from Behind...
A. 30 September 2010: Hi,
Diff to determine if he is gay.When you say he enters you from behind...do you mean anal sex?.
Alot of guys dont like to give thier partner oral sex. He may have OCD...or just be very clean or both. He could be effeminate..diff... (read in full...)
Sexual tips regarding a large penis?
Q. Hi, need some advice from guys and girls, please. Slept with my new bf for the first time last night and OMG his penis is huge! I have never been with a man with such a large penis before. Not only that, he had so much stamina (was erect for ...
A. 30 September 2010: Hi,
I had exactly the same problem with my G/F.
I agree with the other but also try the following
Ask him to be gentle with you and try and relax. Try not to think about the size as this may make you tense down there
Spend more time... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 30 September 2010: Hi,
If in doubt use a Dental barrier on her. (google it if you dont know what it is)... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 29 September 2010: Hi OP,
You are right, this is a strange Q!!
Why would a naked woman want to be treated diffrently to a clothed woman?..after all they are still the same person unless they suffer from a clothes related sczrophinia!!... (read in full...)
I'm baffled why he didn't want to have sex with me...
Q. Okay, I'm looking for a male perspective really, but women feel free to answer too. I'm 21 and out clubbing every weekend, my eldest brother too does exactly the same and we regularly end the night together. He always brings his best mate out wi...
A. 29 September 2010: Hi,
I agree with everthing that everyone else has said, but would also like to add the following.
1) Unwritten Rule No 1 between guys. Normally mates sisters are off the radar, unless you are VERY serious about them ( ie no one nite stands etc)... (read in full...)
Men and orgasms.
Q. just a question about men and orgams, when a women orgasms i describe it you get a lovely feeling inside, its like a sneeze that i wish would last a lot longer than it does, usually a few seconds and in that few seconds is a real realease feeling, ...
A. 28 September 2010: Hi,
Thats not strictly true. I can orgasm/cum but still be erect, and maintain this several times over. I dont know how a guy can fake his orgasm if orgasm = cumming!!
So a woman can always tell if he has orgasm/cum by his ejaculate!! ... (read in full...)
Reasons for vanished sexual drive?
Q. Is this possible,that a previously highly sexual man,just stops having sexual desire all together? Not for me,his wife, or any other woman/? Can someone have no sexual feelings altogether? Or it is just covering some issues? What could be the ...
A. 27 September 2010: It all depends on a number of factors.
1) His age
2) when he last had sex
3) His health (or pottential problems)
4) Any medication that he's on
5) If he's tired/stressed/worried about something, it may happen.
I would get him to hav... (read in full...)
How can I make anal sex a clean experience?
Q. hi everyone:) My BF has been asking me to try anal.. But I keep on saying NO!! I'm really scared, terrified you can say! I'm afraid it's going to turn out really disgusting (definately know what I mean).. he never tried it before, and I really w...
A. 27 September 2010: Hi if you have severe constipation, try eating more fruit & veg and cut down on processed foods....this will make you more regular so maybe the anal experience wont be so painful if is it in regular use.
Good luck & dont forget to use loads of... (read in full...)
Lacking stamina in bed?
Q. How long should a girl be able to go for before she gets tired during sex? This is nothing to do with coming, but more like physical exhaustion. I can go on top, but I can only go for a few minutes before I'm exhausted. My boyfriend can go for ten ...
A. 27 September 2010: Hi,
I think that you are looking at this from the wrong angle.
If you are having SEX..ie like a porn star, then yes its a problem.
If you are making love then its not about the performance, however you should try to get fit for the sake of ... (read in full...)
Don't men sometimes lose their erection because of the girl?
Q. My boyfriend is in his late forties, I am a few years younger. He sometimes loses his erection, and today he lost it as soon as I removed my clothes. We had already been doing it and then bam, it was gone. The timing made me feel like it was ...
A. 26 September 2010: Hi,
It all depends on a number of factors.
1) His age
2) when he last had sex
3) His health
4) Any medication that he's on
5) If he's tired/stressed/worried about something, it may happen.
If he has seen you naked before and not lost h... (read in full...)
Pregnancy pains that wont go away
Q. I am 7mths pregnant and noticing I can't sleep at all at night and when I do I wake up with severe leg cramps. Now I'm noticing I'm getting them throught out the day too. I have pain in my butt and pain in my back. My doctor said its the baby ...
A. 26 September 2010: Hi there,
If your Dr allows it, try Yoga for pregnant women....meant to be very good.
Good Luck I'm sure it will all be worth it!!... (read in full...)
Do you think his feelings really faded after our argument or he's trying to control me?
Q. I recently had quite a serious arguement with my lover, who lives abroad, and sent him some nasty emails. Now we have made up but when I ask him he says he doesnt love me quite as much as he did, but that the love will probably come back. Is this ...
A. 25 September 2010: Hi there,
I have had a similar experience once. I had an v bad arguement with an ex once, a long time ago, because, I didnt want to go on hol with her (well it wasnt a hol she was gonna be on a training course and I would have had to do my own t... (read in full...)
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