He's looking for excitement!
Q. I feel he is looking for excitement. how can i spice up our relationship or/and sex lives?...
A. 1 November 2010: Have you tried dressing up/role play/?
Are you into fetish things & toys?
Do you go Commando...(I dont mean go around going HUP HUP and pointing a gun!! ;) )..if u did, and u whispered it sedutively in his ear....might excite him.
Who init... (read in full...)
He distanced himself from me after my father passed away
Q. I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and sin...
A. 1 November 2010: Hi,
I understand that you need him now, but it sounds like (and we are only getting 1 side of the relationship here) that he's probably not sure/able to deal with yr loss.
I wouldnt worry too much about the no contact...like I said my best mat... (read in full...)
He distanced himself from me after my father passed away
Q. I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and sin...
A. 31 October 2010: Hi,
First of all sorry for your loss...I can understand what you are going through as I have been there.
I'm not saying that I speak for all guys here as different guys react/behave diffrently.
As for yr man, I'm not saying that I agree with... (read in full...)
I felt used! Did I do the right thing in breaking off contact?
Q. This week I told a female friend (I am male) I thought we should stop talking for at least a while. Now I feel a deep hollowness as well as guilt for breaking off contact with someone who has relied upon me. Let me give you a little backstory, and ...
A. 29 October 2010: Hi,
Front what you have said, it sounds like shes using you when she's at a loose end or needs a taxi service.
I wouldnt call her a best friend as a BF is there for you too. This sounds like a one way relationship.
If I was in yr positi... (read in full...)
Can you have an orgasm just by doing this?
Q. My bf and I were fooling around in my basement the other night and I was on top of him and we were basically rubbing against each other, by thrusting our 'parts'. I was wondering if it was possible to get an orgasm that way or do you need to be ...
A. 29 October 2010: Hi,
The aimple ans is yes for men anyway.
With women it can be....did you have an orgasm?... (read in full...)
Do guys check out other girls to make their girlfriend mad?
Q. Im have a question that id love peoples input on. Do guys check out other girls in front of their girlfriends knowing that it makes the girlfriend mad and do they do it for that reason? Or do they really not notice. Every guy ive been serious with ...
A. 29 October 2010: In my expericene, bith men and women do this...not to wind up thier other half, but maybe out of curiosity.
Everyone likes to look at something beautiful/attractive..be it a woman or an inanamte object like a painting or sculpture (not that I a... (read in full...)
Why do men think of women as slaves?
Q. why do men think of women as slaves?...
A. 29 October 2010: We REAL MEN Dont :D. Why do you ask this q?... (read in full...)
How can I repay my mom for her kindness?
Q. Hi guys, this isn't a relationship question, but i'm sure you will do your best to help me out. Ok, here goes. My mum is the most amazing person I've ever known, we have been best friends ever since Dad (her husband) died in 2001. She has always d...
A. 28 October 2010: Your mum sounds wonderful.
You can repay her by making dinner/washing up, cooking, cleaning, hoovering/taking out the rubbish, take her shopping and ironing all the clothes in the house.
Just to make sure that you do these properly and to ... (read in full...)
Does she like me or is she just a flirt?
Q. I've been talking to a girl in school and we seem to enjoy each other, we talk and play around. She will stare at me in class and Ill turn around and she will make faces. Girls always like hugs and stuff and all that I know... This girl will hug me ...
A. 28 October 2010: Yup she likes you alright...its her way of showing you.
What do you mean by "play around" ?... (read in full...)
Second date, still no intimacy, what am I doing wrong?
Q. So, went on a second date tonight with a girl. It started off well, went to "trivia night" at a bar, she was responsive, pretty indicative that we both are still into each other from the first date... However, as the night went on, it felt li...
A. 28 October 2010: You can go for a walk, yes it gets cold but thats a good reason to snuggle up to you ;)... or why not try taking her out to dinner that way you can get to know her as a person.Maybe take her out to a chick flick after the meal I fine that this works ... (read in full...)
My wife thinks that my ejaculating inside of her will make her fat!
Q. My wife does not want me to ejaculate inside her because she thinks sperm will make her fat, even though she doesn't eats junk food all the time. We have been married 18 months and I have to pull out just before I cum or wear condoms. This has been ...
A. 28 October 2010: Your wife is correct.
If you cum inside her, she will gain 0.0001g so dont do it!!
On a more serious note, doesnt she know anything about sex? I would buy her a good sex education book or failingh that get her to talk to her Dr/Gynocolgist... (read in full...)
I want my married lover to take off his wedding ring when he's out with me
Q. ok yall i have been dating this man for a least a years and some months! however our relationship is getting deeper and deeper everyday! when the two some us started dating we both agree to no feeling no attachment ! now that time change words have ...
A. 28 October 2010: I'm not gonna judge you. Q for you, If you were married and yr husband was in a relationship similar to the one you have with this guy...would you be ok with that?... somehow I dont think you would Why dont you find a single guy that you c... (read in full...)
What should I do about this mess? And how do I get him out of my system for good?
Q. I'm writing this as i've been in this situation for too long now, just over a year in fact. I feel like i'm being manipulated and would appreciate any feedback. It all started when i got back in contact with somebody i knew from school, it ...
A. 28 October 2010: Simple, This is what seems to happen in FWB situations...one party always seems to get used/hurt. Just tell him that he has a GF and advise him that he's cheating on her. How would he feel if she did that to him? Tell him that he can have ... (read in full...)
In the dark mishap has led to much pain!!
Q. Hi. Long story short my bf accidently put it in the wrong hole. It's really sore and completely killed the moment seem as I wasn't expecting it!! (it was pitch black and we were sing a condom in his defence!!) anyway I'd like to ask if there is ...
A. 28 October 2010: Try rosehip syrup/tea..its an natural anti infammatory... (read in full...)
How do I put on weight and make my boobs bigger?
Q. pls help me Im too skinny and my boobs are very small. Im 17 years old and i think that im never gonna get large boobs, my confidence has break down in pieces pls help how to get large boobs and how to gain weight pls do answer ...
A. 28 October 2010: Hi, Did you know that loads of guys like skinny girls with small boobs? If everything is in proportion, dont worry. As long as you are healthly, dont worry too much about being skinny...as you get older, you will probably put on weight and ... (read in full...)
In the dark mishap has led to much pain!!
Q. Hi. Long story short my bf accidently put it in the wrong hole. It's really sore and completely killed the moment seem as I wasn't expecting it!! (it was pitch black and we were sing a condom in his defence!!) anyway I'd like to ask if there is ...
A. 28 October 2010: Hi,
Try taking an anti infammatory (ibuprofane/asprin etc). Avoid oranges/acidic foods for the time being.
If the pain doesnt go away in the next few days, go along to yr local Dr/GUI clinic to make sure that all is intact down there.
Hope t... (read in full...)
Second date, still no intimacy, what am I doing wrong?
Q. So, went on a second date tonight with a girl. It started off well, went to "trivia night" at a bar, she was responsive, pretty indicative that we both are still into each other from the first date... However, as the night went on, it felt li...
A. 28 October 2010: Try not to rush into this. Some women dont like to be touched too early into a relationship or they feel that the guy is only after 1 thing.
Let her feel comfortable with you and see where it goes (if anywhere) ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble concealing my penis!
Q. I have a very odd problem. My problem is I am having trouble concealing my penis in my pants(especially shorts). I guess you could say its above average in size, 8 inches long and 6 inches around. The problem is many times it just looks like I ...
A. 28 October 2010: If have a simliar size manhood.
Best way to "cover it" is to wear loose fitting pants/shorts, or buy the next size up and have them tailored to fit, without making it apprear that you are walking around with a constant erection... (read in full...)
Am I going to get an STD from having anal sex?
Q. me and my boyfriend had anal...I read somethings on here...he dont have anything that i know of neither do i .so does that mean im going to get one or have an std already ?...
A. 28 October 2010: Hi you can only get an STD or STI (sexually transmitted infection)if the person that you have sex with is already carrying a STD/STI.
If you had anal and then vaginal sex without washing/cleaning his penis after the anal sex, then you may pick up ... (read in full...)
Moving On From One Night Of Horror In A Happy Marriage Of 10 yrs??
Q. I've been married now for almost 10 years. My husband and I have what most people consider a great relationship. We don't argue or stupid things and when we do, the fights don't involve name calling, profanity, or low blows...and we make up ...
A. 27 October 2010: I think that although this is a one off..when he was drunk.....perhaps you should go and see a therapist/councillor as it is pottentially outside the scope of this site.
They may give you more practical solutionsor one2one help
Sorry I could... (read in full...)
Why does he keep asking "what are you thinking"?
Q. Recently me and a guy friend met up for drinks and i ended up staying over at his place. He has a girlfriend and nothing happened between us that night. The thing i find a bit odd is when we got to his we were a bit worse for wear me more so than ...
A. 27 October 2010: Hi, I will try not to judge like some people... It all depends how he said it and the circumstances that her said it in. Do you think that hes interested in you? How drunk was he? Where was his GF? Maybe it was just a drunken comment,... (read in full...)
Do men really get afraid?
Q. My boss and I have been fooling around for about 6 months, no sex, no kissing, just fondling. We haven't gone further as he is very afraid of my husband finding out and hurting him. We are both married with children. Yet we continue to fool around. ...
A. 27 October 2010: Hi natasia,
Thanks for that..finally a FAN!!
PS where do I send the Chq? :)...lol... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend present ideas?
Q. I'm in a LDR. It's great! I want to send him something for his birthday that's coming up soon. Does anyone have any ideas? i need as many ideas as i can get. Lots of ideas please! thank you!...
A. 27 October 2010: Does he play/like sport? if so get him a shirt of his fav team
Does he read?...get him some books or bk vouchers?
If all else fails buy yourself some very sexy stockings/underwear....get some wrapping paper that you will fit in....will leave... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to masturbate to porn whenever I am not at home?
Q. my guy masturbates every time I am not home to porn is this normal? Even if we have sex on a regular? It always makes me angry when I find out , should I be worried ? I have talked to him about it but he says its normal but it hurts my feelings ...
A. 27 October 2010: You may not like this answer....
It depends on the society that you live in. There is no such thing as..." is masturbating @ home normal.."
Guys dont just masturbate to porn but often do it when they are alone./sometimes when they are bored o... (read in full...)
Do men really get afraid?
Q. My boss and I have been fooling around for about 6 months, no sex, no kissing, just fondling. We haven't gone further as he is very afraid of my husband finding out and hurting him. We are both married with children. Yet we continue to fool around. ...
A. 27 October 2010: Hi there,
I wont judge you on this one.
All I will say is if you screw around with people..prepare to screw up and loose everything... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend present ideas?
Q. I'm in a LDR. It's great! I want to send him something for his birthday that's coming up soon. Does anyone have any ideas? i need as many ideas as i can get. Lots of ideas please! thank you!...
A. 27 October 2010: Hi,
Get him a Skype Phone. That way he can talk to you more often :)... (read in full...)
Why am I suddenly thinking of my ex?
Q. Hey, so I had a bf ~5 years when I was 17. We went out for just over a year and then broke up-we have hardly spoken since. I thought I had got over him and in fact I hadn't thought about him for a number of years. However, just recently I've started ...
A. 27 October 2010: I have a similar experience. But mine dates back over 20 yrs with my 1st love. Our break up wasnt turbulent, but we were both very hurt. It took me a long time to get over her.
I have not had any contact with her in that time. Over the yrs I ha... (read in full...)
I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral!
Q. I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral... this might turn out really long, in a way I just want to vent, but also some words of advise or opinions that can make me feel better w...
A. 26 October 2010: Hi there,
I dont understand the whole coming on yr GF's face/breasts etc. I find that very degrading to do that.The cuming in yr mouth..well sometimes that cant be helped but he should at least warn you! Sounds like he's trying to re-enact... (read in full...)
Guys! What can a girl do/wear to make your head turn?
Q. What really impresses a guy? What will grab his attention (in a good way) and make him return that attention to you? I'm asking this to use on my boyfriend for a spark, and for future reference should I ever need it. Thanks =]...
A. 26 October 2010:
Anything that makes a woman look elegant/Sopisticated & classy...without trying... (read in full...)
We want to have sex but what goes where?
Q. I've been going out with the sweetest guy anyone can get and we are starting to think about sleeping together. He isn't pressuring me into doing anything i don't want to because we made a decision on it together and we arranged a date. The thing is ...
A. 26 October 2010: Hi there,
You are in the UK right?. Didnt you have any sex education lessons at school?
Ch4 recently showed some excellant Sex Ed programmes. Chk this out:-
http://www.channel4.c... (read in full...)
He's looking for excitement!
Q. I feel he is looking for excitement. how can i spice up our relationship or/and sex lives?...
A. 26 October 2010: Hi,
You need to tell us what you guys are doing so that we can give you advice on spicing things up... (read in full...)
Am I throwing away 13 years of marriage for no good reason/
Q. this is probably a strange thing to be dealing with but i dont know what to do it all started about 2 years ago me and my husband was in bed going to sleep when he recieved a text message from his friends girlfriend (whom he doesnt know and has ...
A. 25 October 2010: Hi,
These guys are scaffolders.(some office worker mates of mine are as bad) The language I hear on building sites is much worse!! You should hear some of the things that go on on Rugby/Football pitches to wind each other up.
I really wouldnt w... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend love football more than he loves me?
Q. My boyfriend is obsessed with football. Absoloutly obbsessed. and many times i think to myself that he loves football waayy much more than he loves me. He's told me he loves me but the truth is, he'd much rather be playing football. How can i conn...
A. 25 October 2010: Hi,
Why dont you buy him a football and yourself a goal keepers jersey.
That way you can play football with him and spend time together. Simple... (read in full...)
I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday!!
Q. Its about a month until my boyfriends birthday (and mine.. because its on the same day) anyway.. I dont know what to get him, ive asked him and he's just told me to get him a football or something .. I probrably will get him a football but i want ...
A. 25 October 2010: Hi,
Maybe you should get him TWO footballs and a pair of football socks...:)... (read in full...)
I'm always tired, is something wrong?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and female, and I keep getting really tired! I keep needing a nap mid-afternoon. I'm unemployed, I eat ok, and I usually go to sleep about midnight and wake up at 8. What's going on? Is this normal? I'm exhausted! ...
A. 24 October 2010: Hi,
DONT PANIC.
If you are always tired, I thought that you may have an undiagnosed med condition...you didnt mention that you had been diagnosed....... (read in full...)
I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday!!
Q. Its about a month until my boyfriends birthday (and mine.. because its on the same day) anyway.. I dont know what to get him, ive asked him and he's just told me to get him a football or something .. I probrably will get him a football but i want ...
A. 23 October 2010: I would get him a football.
I know I would like it if my GF bought me a Football..... :)... (read in full...)
Winking before making love?
Q. What does it mean when a man winks at you when he is just about to make love to you?...
A. 22 October 2010: Hi,
It could mean that you/he are about to "get lucky" about to have a good time...lol..did he have a cheeky grin when he did it?... (read in full...)
Question for guys: have you ever cut off ties with an ex abruptly?
Q. Question mainly directed at guys but of course females can give their input too :) I just wanted to know, have any of you ever cut your ex out of your life without any "warning"? As in, you never said that you didn't want any more contact, you just...
A. 22 October 2010: Hi,
I'm ashamed to say that I once did that to an ex. It was a complicated relationship and we had to hide our feelings for each other due to the circumstances.
I had to do it as the stress of the relationship was getting to me.
Unfortunat... (read in full...)
Men: Is dirty texting to your mates normal?
Q. id really like a males veiw on this question is dirty texting to your mates normal cause i just wonder if its playfull banter and nothing to worry about or if its normal no matter how old u r...
A. 22 October 2010: Hi,
Loads of guys I know do this. (Ages vary from 14 to 50 depends on thier friendship). I see/hear this on the Train/Tube/Bus.
Its nothing to worry about just male friendly competitive banter here in the UK. I notice it seems to be more preva... (read in full...)
Would a guy pick the girl with the big boobs?
Q. embarrassing question... :S would a guy rather a girl with an athletic body, LOTS of muscle, long legs, a six pack, and a good bum but has small boobs (A)... or would he rather a girl with an average or skinny body, with big boobs? both girls hav...
A. 21 October 2010: Hi,
This for me is a very easy one to ans...but hey its only my thoughts and I cant speak for the rest of the male population
Shallow guys would go for a & b... for a "shag". I think that guys like women who are toned rather than muscular (l... (read in full...)
I'm always tired, is something wrong?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and female, and I keep getting really tired! I keep needing a nap mid-afternoon. I'm unemployed, I eat ok, and I usually go to sleep about midnight and wake up at 8. What's going on? Is this normal? I'm exhausted! ...
A. 20 October 2010: Hi,
If you drink loads of water and are constanly going to the loo.... I think you need to see your Dr urgently.
Good luck and let us know how you get on... (read in full...)
Is he gay, or does he just have intimacy problems?
Q. I think my boyfriend is a closet gay, or else he has big intimacy issues. I'm hoping someone here can tell me which is more likely. I think he may be gay for the usual reasons, i.e. that he is obsessed with decorating, loves shopping, and he...
A. 20 October 2010: Hi,
From what you say and we only have one side of the relationship here, it sounds as though he likes you BUT is INTIMIDATED by you.
I have a mate who takes ages getting ready... so I dont think yr man is gay.
You dont say why he only see... (read in full...)
Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 19 October 2010: Hi,
There are loads of compilation love songs albums out there.
Plus love songs from the following artists (i dont know yr taste in music)
Marvin Gaye
Stylistics
Prince
Sade
George Micheal
Micheal Jackson
Heatwave
Songs from Gre... (read in full...)
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