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writes:When two people have sex, there must be some sort of attraction for them both to do it.Yes you can have one nite stands but something must get you both attracted to each othe even if it is only that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Absoloutely no way...I work as an escort, and I don't think I've ever had a customer that I found sexually attractive. I just get paid to act like I do. I think a lot of guys will just shag pretty much whatever comes along.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 For me, yes..
Others (in which I'm surprised no one said it) they can close their eyes and fantasize they're having sex with Megan Fox or Johnny Depp..
Or men could put a brown paper bag over the ugly girl's head and then proceed..
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 For me I have to be physically attracted to have sex with a woman. I have standards and I won't shag anything that comes along. For me, the sensation depends on how physically attracted I am to the woman.
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (19 October 2010):
Hi,
I find that sex is best when you both fancy each other and are in a loving relationship where you are 100% comfortable and trust your partner.
If theres no attraction, then it just becomes a mindless act...and then you will alway wonder if you have caught something from them.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Unluckily,not really. Some people may be attracted to the sensation they get from sex, without being attracted to the person who provides that sensation.
If you mean that someone who wants you for a one night stand has to find you not totally repulsive- well, that's for sure. But I am afraid that often it's not much more than that.
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reader, njguy01 +, writes (19 October 2010):
Are you asking this in context of something or just to maybe get some ideas? Sex like bernard says can absolutely be a one way thing, if one person wants it they can intrigue the opposite sex into wanting it. Does not mean that they feel anything or even believe the other one is good looking.
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