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Do guys get surprised when the see what the breasts are shaped like without the bra?

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Question - (30 September 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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Do guys get pleasantly/nonpleasantly surprised (you decide) when the bras come off their girlfriends? Girls wear all sorts of push up bras, lifting bras etc. that I'm curious if guys get surprised at their gf's real breasts shape.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010):

Ive had mixed experiences on this. It's been pleasant once and unpleasant once in two different relationships. The hookers ive been with tho dont disappoint, whenever theyve taken it off its always pleasant. If you have real, chances are better cause us men LOVE the feel of natural ones. AND, size doesnt matter, yeah I like bigger ones so women can play peek a boo with my dangle...but smaller ones are more perky, and just overall amazing to deal with. Ive had great experiences on the size issue and so it really doesnt matter for me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010):

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Thanks for your responses. I now feel less nervous about what a guy might think about real breasts.

It's cool to know!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010):

I'm VERY good at determining what they look like before th ebra comes off, so I'm usually not surprised when it comes off. I'm almost ALWAYS pleasantly reaffirmed of my suspicions when it does. Only exception might be if she has a seriously wierd birthmark or if her nipples are unresponsive. Oh yeah....and if they're fake...I practically lose my boner right there. SO if her boobs stay exactly the same shape after the bra comes off, I'm UNpleasantly surprised. Sorry, I just hate fake tits. If I wanted water ballons, I'd call bozo the clown. I'll take that natural "hang" and swing any day. Or the small, perky ones....mmmmmmm.

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A male reader, fordyboy United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2010):

fordyboy agony auntI was lucky enough the other day to have my girlfriend agree to take her bra off for me for the first time. Now my gf has a 5 month old baby and is still breast feeding, but she is also a model. When she is dressed she has a lovely pair of breasts very big 34G's they are perfect size and shape for her body. She was really nervous about showing me her breasts but with encouragement she did. When she took her bra off yeah they became a bit more saggy and less full looking but none the less they looked truly beautiful, it's what i was expecting. I got to have a feel and a little kiss but to be honest that wasn't important to me, what i realised was that no matter what they looked like the girl i love wanted to share herself with me and the fact was that i thought her whole body was beautiful. It dawned on me i'm not with her for her boobs. I'm with her because i love her. Very much. It just so happened her breasts were great but it's not what i was most taken with.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (1 October 2010):

Odds agony auntDepends. I once dated a girl who only wore sports bras for comfort, so I was *very* pleasantly surprised to see that they were bigger than advertised.

On the other hand, I've also had the experience of seeing breasts go from "petite and perky" to "not there."

In general, though, if they're nice when out of a bra, I could care less if they're a different sort of nice when in a bra.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (1 October 2010):

I can see that if a guy was expecting to get a one-time thing with a really shapely girl he would be disappointed. On the other hand, a guy who is looking for a relationship probably isn't too concerned about the difference the bra made in her shape - but he's likely to start wondering why she was trying to be something she's not, and what else about her is artificially enhanced.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010):

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Its that breasts look all nice and round with bras on, but gravity DOES take a toll when the bras come off. So I guess girls should stop wearing them to not "false advertise" haha!

I just dont want a guy to be shocked when he sees "the girls" without the support.

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A male reader, BassiveMalls United States +, writes (30 September 2010):

BassiveMalls agony auntGenerally good, but if they look nice and round in a bra and then are really saggy without it, it can be a bummer.

It's kind of a misrepresentation in a way. It would be like taking a guy home from a Halloween party dressed as superman and then when you get him home he takes off the muscle suit and he's not ripped. You would probably still like the guy if you met him how he really was but you were expecting something else in this case.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (30 September 2010):

C. Grant agony auntOnly once were they different enough from what the bra advertised that it was disappointing. In general, any time the bra comes off is a good time. ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010):

If a chick's breasts literally disappear when her bra comes off (i.e., it was all padding), it's an unpleasant surprise. Only had that happen once. She went from a small b-cup to a...well, to a nothing. Flat as a board. Now that was disappointing.

False advertising is lame.

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2010):

Always a pleasure to see/feel/lick them....lol ;)

Personally I dont like the push up bras....oh natural is always breast ..LOL

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2010):

Always pleasantly surprised.

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