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Do you think his feelings really faded after our argument or he's trying to control me?

Q.   I recently had quite a serious arguement with my lover, who lives abroad, and sent him some nasty emails. Now we have made up but when I ask him he says he doesnt love me quite as much as he did, but that the love will probably come back. Is this ...

A.   25 September 2010: Hi there, I have had a similar experience once. I had an v bad arguement with an ex once, a long time ago, because, I didnt want to go on hol with her (well it wasnt a hol she was gonna be on a training course and I would have had to do my own t... (read in full...)

Only a small amount means ????

Q.   Are there any other reason other than masturbating or cheating that a man will cum with only a small amount when having sex?...

A.   23 September 2010: Hi, Yes it could be down to stress/diet or even health reasons etc. Need more information... (read in full...)

First True Love Never Lasts. Prove me wrong

Q.   Alrighhhtty, We'll cut to the chase. The love between my ex and I is well..confusing.So I'm asking for help, any advice, thoughts and suggestions. Help me out here! Get this, I went to middle school with my ex, totally didn't know each other t...

A.   23 September 2010: Hi, Does 1st love last?...hummm difficult one to ans. Yr 1st love is always v special but doesnt always last...depends on the circumstances. My 1st love recently tracked me down via Facebk & FR. We met and still got on FAB. The love and chemist... (read in full...)

Men: why are you quiet during sex?

Q.   To the men only: Why is it that some of you hold back from moaning or making noises during sex? Are you focusing too hard on your performance? ...

A.   23 September 2010: Hi, Its probably because, for a change, we want to hear you moan!! ;)..LMAO... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he touch me?

Q.   I've been totally crazy about this guy for years...he knows it and has shown a interest as well...he has a major problem in my eyes...he lets me rub all over his body...Yes, I have even rubbed on his crotch...but nothing has went further...but that ...

A.   23 September 2010: Hi, It could be one of a number of things. Maybe hes be hurt very badly before and finds it difficult to trust women Maybe he sees you as a sister/female FRIEND and feels nothing sexual Maybe he's in love with someone else and cant stop... (read in full...)

I will not love until I am with her

Q.   Hey. I’m a 23 year old guy, and I think I’m perfectly normal. However, I’ve been having abnormal feelings about a girl for the last 7 years. Basically Im in love with her. All I think about is her. All i want to do is be with her. She keeps say...

A.   22 September 2010: Hi there, For what ever reason shes not into you. Try to take up new hobbies/sports/interests and move on and find someone who wants to be with you or you will end up deeply hurt Good luck... (read in full...)

Girlfriend too tight

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and she's a virgin, age 22. We try to have sex, but she's really sensitive "down there," much more so than any of my previous girlfriends. Even when she's really wet I can't get more than 1 ...

A.   22 September 2010: Hi, Instead of trying to finger her why dont you massage her down there and all over her body? From what you say, it sounds like she's a bit tense/nervous so of course she will be "very tight" Try and get her relaxed..soft lights, ro... (read in full...)

Love of my life, getting back together with her?

Q.   So here it goes gang. Long time reader, first time poster. I recently had a strange even unfold. First I will give some back history. I dated this amazing girl for about 2 and a half years. She is a grade younger than me (only 6 months in age ap...

A.   21 September 2010: Hi, If you like her,Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Be 100% honest and if she feels the same, then I'm sure you will find a way of making it work. If you dont talk to her, you may make her feel like a cheap one nite stand...so be a ... (read in full...)

He's not that into me! Really?

Q.   Hi. I'm new here and stumbled on this site while surfing the net for answers. I really hope you guys will give me good advice. I've stopped dating about 3 years ago (fyi and btw, I'm 30). Boyfriends are overrated... don't you think? Anyway, a...

A.   20 September 2010: Hi, OK 7 days is a long time not to have heard from him. Maybe he doesnt have internet access if he's abroad alot..esp in SA/Africa.(not sure how easy it is to get internet access in yr part of the world nowadays havent been there for a long tim... (read in full...)

He's not that into me! Really?

Q.   Hi. I'm new here and stumbled on this site while surfing the net for answers. I really hope you guys will give me good advice. I've stopped dating about 3 years ago (fyi and btw, I'm 30). Boyfriends are overrated... don't you think? Anyway, a...

A.   19 September 2010: Hi, Have you thought that he may not have internet access? I travel loads & there are times when I cant access my hotmail a/c's as they are blicked @ clients sites. Either that or perhaps he's not interested...but I think its the former ... (read in full...)

Has anyone heard of macrolane for your breast enlargement?

Q.   Hi, I'm thinking of having macrolane injections (boob jab) to increase the size of my breasts before my new bf gets to see me naked-does anyone have experience of macrolane? does it hurt? i'm 32B, wear a padded bra and don't want him to be ...

A.   15 September 2010: Hi, I dont know if this helps...I'm sure that he's not going out with you because of the size of yr boobs. If I were female I wouldnt interfer with "mother nature"..as you dont know what effects (long term) these chemicals have in yr body. I... (read in full...)

Married man says he needs a "cure" to marry me?? What does that mean?

Q.   i have just came back from turkey i meet a lovely kurdish waiter i spent two days with him before returning home he was lovely to me treated me like a princess he has a kurdish wife and daughter back home in east turkey he told me about his wife he ...

A.   15 September 2010: Hi, It means that you have to sleep with him, give him all your money & assets and a British Passport..then he may leave his wife come to UK and marry you until he has the right to stay in the UK...then bye bye...ohh and can I have the house to... (read in full...)

My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!

Q.   My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...

A.   14 September 2010: Hi, This is not "NORMAL" I am going to disagree with most of the posts on here. From what you have said, if sounds perfectly innocent. Your SIL obviously feels comfortable in front of you and perhaps sees you as a "big brother" figure (ie... (read in full...)

How can I meet people my own age? I've run out of idea's!!

Q.   I am at a total loss as to where to meet decent, single men in their 30's (or even meet women of my age that I could be friends with, preferably who are able to go out once in a while!). Any ideas? I have tried almost everywhere I can possibly ...

A.   12 September 2010: Hi, Depending on where you live....try City Socialising. I live in London and its great. Mainly for professional (nice ) people Good luck..who knows I might see you there!! Cheers Ben... (read in full...)

What do you make of my ex's behaviour?

Q.   Guys! need you opinion on this... me and my boyfriend split up about 6 weeks ago.. we rushed into things and moved in together too fast and it was just too intense.. he moved out and went to stay at his nans. we didt speak for a month, then ...

A.   10 September 2010: Hi hyperbunny, He sounds like a comeplete waste of time...sorry for being blunt. I'd stay away from him and delete him from all yr social sites,otherwise he will continue to play childish games. You could always ask him to contact you when ... (read in full...)

I don't have closure...

Q.   I had been seeing this really nice guy for 4 months. We always had problems as we are long distance, and he finds it difficult to communicate and is sometimes away as he is in the military. We tried to stay close by texting often. 2 weeks ago we...

A.   9 September 2010: Hi, ( hate to say it...but if you step back and look at what you have written, you know its over Pity that he's not man enough to give you closure Time to move on...good luck... (read in full...)

I've been called his ex's name 3 times by him!

Q.   My boyfriend has called me my ex's name three times now, i over reacted at first and said if he did it again i couldnt forgive him, yet he has done it since but seeing how angry he is with himself after ive forgiven him. The wierd thing is he call ...

A.   8 September 2010: Hi, I do this with my nephews all the time..calling them by the names of thier siblings..esp when I am tired or have other things on my mind!! I wouldnt worry about it too much ... (read in full...)

Will his big penis always be a problem for me?

Q.   Hi, I have a new boyfriend, he is 35 and i'm 42, and finally I seem to have found someone who matches me in personality, sexual appetite and pleasures, however, he has a 'girthy' penis. Monday morning I felt like i'd been kicked in the crotch, ...

A.   5 September 2010: Hi, I have had similar problems with my ex's. The best thing to do is to ensure that you are well lubed to start with..either via foreplay or use something like KY jelly. The 1st few times, I always let my lady go on top so that she can deci... (read in full...)

Role playing for sex, I don't know what to say!

Q.   My boyfriend and have been together for nearly 2 years now and although we have a wonderful sex life we have decided that we want to try a little bit of role play. The scenario that we have decided on is boss/secretary (he's the boss and I'm the...

A.   5 September 2010: Hi, Remember to wear your sexy underwear and stockings etc You could always sit on his lap and ask for some "DICKTATION!" Or sit on his lap and say sometime like..".ohhh I feel like I'm gonna get a "BONEUS" tonite?...Glad I dont have to wai... (read in full...)

Do I have my priorities straight in this relationship?

Q.   I am going to a one off gig that my favourite band are doing in a few weeks, and its the day after my boyfriends birthday. i will be away on his birthday as this concert is no where near where we live. he is saying i think the concert is more ...

A.   4 September 2010: Hi, Why dont you take him with you? Its HIS birthday. Most people want to be spoilt by a loved one on thier Birthday. Think how you would feel if he did that to you on yr B'Day Sorry but I feel that you are in the wrong here... (read in full...)

Why is he not calling?

Q.   2 months ago ive met a guy who is 20yrs old and im 22, ive brought him round to my place watch a movie then later on we made out, a few times ater that he came round to mine we had sex then condom burst he said to me that he would pay for the pill ...

A.   4 September 2010: Hi, It sounds like he's had his fun and he doesnt want to know. I would move on and not contact him again. Find yrself a man...not a BOY!!..sorry if this is a bit blunt... (read in full...)

How do you tell your boyfriend he is being too rough with oral?

Q.   How do you tell your boyfriend he is being too rough with oral? ...

A.   4 September 2010: Hi, Just tell him that your ears are NOT handles..LMAO..:)... (read in full...)

Shaved, trimmed or natural?

Q.   What do guys prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural? ...

A.   4 September 2010: Hi, I cant speak for other guys..but I prefer shaved or trimmed...less hair the better if I am giving oral to my g/f... (read in full...)

Any tips for losing weight?

Q.   Need help if anyone can help me!!! I have had 4 kids and is over weight now. In 5'4" and weigh almost 210 pounds!!! I have tired to lose weight but don't ever seem to!!! If anyone could give me some excercizes that would help me out of any advise I ...

A.   3 September 2010: Hi, I lost 30lbs recently over the summer. How? I eat less crap food and excercised more on my bike & swimming..and eating loads of fruit & veg. If you cant get out due to yr kids, get yrself an excercise bike and try to cycle for say (build u... (read in full...)

Do girls like public hair?

Q.   Do girls like pubic hair?...

A.   2 September 2010: In my experience I have found that Straight Guys dont want scissors/razors/wax near thier genitals (unless they are very vain..or are trying to pls thier partners) But many women like to be at least tidy down there (either compeletly shaved.... (read in full...)

Tell me something great about yourself, for my sake:)

Q.   So, this isn't really a question. But I'll go for it anyway. As of late, I've been feeling pretty down about men. The reasons being I have somehow started to convince myself that all they want is sex and that they will lie and manipulate to ge...

A.   1 September 2010: Hi, The problem is that you have been with a boy...not a REAL MAN!!..Dont forget @ yr age..boys are full of hormones and at thier sexual peak. I recently met & thanked my ex for the love and support that she gave me many yrs ago when I was g... (read in full...)

What should he eat so it can taster better?

Q.   okay I finally let my husband cum in my mouth last night it was fun wacthing him helpless feeling the great sensation he felt... it was a hard core turn on for me too.... hahahaha but what can he eat or change eating so his magic juice can taste ...

A.   1 September 2010: Hi, Its not a case of what he can eat..its what he should avoid...Curries or anything spicy apparently ladies dont like the taste afterwards..ahem. Drinking Pineapple juice helps with the taste...so get some in!! Good Luck and Enjoy... (read in full...)

15 years ago we slept together but now he wont?

Q.   We spent two seperate nights together years ago, nothing happened just a fumble, I knew he fancied me then and the feeling was mutual. 15 years after the fumble I saw him again the first night we walked and talked he was sweet, but we slept alone. ...

A.   31 August 2010: Hi, I agree with TimmD here too. I had something similar happened to me recently with an ex..similar time apart (well over 20+ yrs) ...we met and the feeling/chemistry is still there.On the nite I felt the q's she asked me were those of someone... (read in full...)

Do his greedy personal habits warrant me breaking up with him?

Q.   I started a relationship with a lovely man about 4 months ago and it quickly became quite intense. We have both said we love each other and I do think he is a lovely person. He has lots of good qualities, he is financially sound, has a good job and ...

A.   31 August 2010: Hi there, Practically ALL of my mates/work collegues are like this..so for me this is the norm!! Many guys can be pompus/controlling if they have lived alone for a while. You dont say what he does for a living, so the controlling/pomp... (read in full...)

Do Gorgeous Women only date Equally Gorgeous men?

Q.   Question... Whats the secret to getting a really beautiful woman? You know the type you run into every now and again that make your heart stop and fill your veins with ice water? Is there a secret method for attracting these higher echelon b...

A.   26 August 2010: Hi, I agree with what others have posted on here If you arent confident, borrow a friends dog....my best friend (married) has just got a Choclate brown Labrador which he takes on regular walks on the downs.(sorta an Urban country side) ... (read in full...)

I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!

Q.   what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier? because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way. ...

A.   26 August 2010: Hi, Vomit to loose weight?....not the best idea in the world!! Best way to loose weight & keep it off is to ensure that you excercise & EAT HEALTHLY FOOD...I know it sounds boring..but it will also make you look better. I have found the best... (read in full...)

How do guys feel about clevage enhancing bra's?

Q.   Hi, I'd like some opinions, especially from guys out there, about cleavage-enhacing bras. I normally wear a padded, water-filled bra when I go out, which makes my breasts look one cup size bigger than they are...so I've been doing this whilst ...

A.   26 August 2010: Hi, For me its whats in her head that counts...and what shes like as a person. I have worked with many Page 3 girls/models & other women with "perfect bodies" ....& couldnt believe how dense many of them were (& unattractive without the make... (read in full...)

14, he's 17, what can we do that isn't against the law?

Q.   just a question i am 14 and i like this 17 year old and he like me and if we did get together what am i acctually allowed to do with him without it being against the law ??? ( i know not sex ) thanx :)...

A.   23 August 2010: Hi, In the UK ANY sex is illeag under the age of 16 You can date, but if he touches you sexually, and you get caught, he will end up on the Sex offenders Database for life. So if you have sex with him..or any one complains to the police...be ... (read in full...)

I am suffocating in my arranged marriage!

Q.   Hi Its funny i didnt even think i will be ever coming to these site. i am asian i just turned 24 i have been married for 7 years now. i never approved with me marriage because it was forced by my parents. i just turned 17 when i got ...

A.   23 August 2010: Why dont you tell us exactly whats going on inside you?...pls tell us everything. I try not to judge people. Look forward to yr reply... (read in full...)

Boyfriend buys jewelerry and expenisive gifts for his married woman friend...is this appropriate?

Q.   I have a dilemma ... I have been dating someone online for 5 months ... he is early 30s, I am late 30s. Neither of us has ever been married; in fact, he has never been in a serious relationship longer than 5 weeks due to many violent episodes ...

A.   23 August 2010: Hi, Simple ans...get aways from him whlist you can...this relationship will not get you any where ..will only bring you trouble and pain soory if I sound blunt... (read in full...)

Guys... would you get annoyed if your girlfriend was ALWAYS in the mood for sex?

Q.   I'm aaalways wanting sex from my bf. I can't believe it! He can go for a while, but I feel like I want/need two hours or something since I can't orgasm-But its the most amazing thing! Hes older and the attraction could not be stronger! Still, I'm ...

A.   22 August 2010: Its common at the start of a new relationship to want that person all the time. Is it sex that you want/need or love?...the 2 are very different It only gets boring if theres nothing else in the relationship to keep you together.... (read in full...)

Is there anything to make a cold go away faster?

Q.   Hey there quick question, I have a busy week coming up and woke up this morning with a such a sore throat and a cold is the last thing that I need right now. So I'm just wondering if anyone has any remedies for getting a cold to go away faster...

A.   20 August 2010: Hi, I take Loads of Vitamin C & fruit & veg and plenty of rest...no alcohol....and a couple of paracetamol every 6 hrs for 1 day only Boring when you are 16-17...but it wks... (read in full...)

Sore, itchy and freaking out!!

Q.   me and my boyfreind have been going out for 7months and before we met i was going out with this guy for a year and we had sex a couple of times sometimes without a condom but he had never had sex with anyone else and neither had i, but now my 7 ...

A.   20 August 2010: Hi, I thnik thay you should go an see yr Dr ASAP..and dont speculate... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about him trying to find his ex?

Q.   I think my boyfriend is trying to find his ex and also find were she lives. I know he talks to his ex's mom on face book. Not sure if I should be worried or not....

A.   20 August 2010: I would be worried....whats missing in yr relationship that he has to look out side!!... (read in full...)

Any tips to lose some weight?

Q.   im a male in my early fifties my wife is in her late fifties we have been married for 32 years almost 33 im 6ft 1 shes a tiny 5ft2 she weighes about 125 pounds and all of it still in all the right places she could pass for 35 or 40 she takes care of ...

A.   20 August 2010: Hi, During the last winter I gained loads of weight due to stress from exams and eating crap/junk food & not getting much excercise. I lost nearly 2 stones recently by cutting out the junk food, eating more fruit & veg..and cycling loads (2... (read in full...)

I am suffocating in my arranged marriage!

Q.   Hi Its funny i didnt even think i will be ever coming to these site. i am asian i just turned 24 i have been married for 7 years now. i never approved with me marriage because it was forced by my parents. i just turned 17 when i got ...

A.   19 August 2010: Hi there, If you cant resolve things with yr hubby/family then :- I think that you have two options 1) Speak to the Imman @ yr mosque and see if he can help you resolve things in a peaceful/ammicable way. or 2) You need to get out of t... (read in full...)

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