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Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   29 June 2010: Hi, If she is miserable in her marriage and wont leave until the kids r old enough (which I suspect) I would offer her the same support she gave me all those yrs ago when I was going through a tough time with my father. Without expecting anything... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   29 June 2010: Hi, Thanks for your comments. I disagree with you. Sally's relationship with her husband is of interest to me as I need to know where I stand if we are going to be friends. I wont enter into a realtionship with her whilst she's married. ... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   28 June 2010: Hi, I'm not messing with her..I may never see her again....will meet her again if she contacts me again and find out whats going on. I wanted to ask her on the nite but we were too busy chatting/getting to know each others lives over the l... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   28 June 2010: Hi, I'm not messing with her..I may never see her again....will meet her again if she contacts me again and find out whats going on. I wanted to ask her on the nite but we were too busy chatting/getting to know each others lives over the l... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   28 June 2010: UPDATE You might wanna get more coffee/sick bucket...lol I called Sally @ suggested time to confirm meet up but she didnt pick up...I thought she'd got cold feet.....so I left it. She called me back approx 1 hr later and apologised ..s... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   21 June 2010: Update. I finally contacted her after much thought last Mon. I got a sms from her asking if she could call me @ 6pm last mon nite but I was busy and suggested that she/I call after 9.30pm. She then sms me her wk no and suggested time ... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   10 June 2010: Dear anonymous, The inital contact doesnt seem to suggest social networking....we had NO connection on our FR website. And how do you explain her 2 fav songs appearing as suggestions on my You Tube a/c @ the same time (both from different genres... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   10 June 2010: Hey Anon Female, ( I will dispense with the degrogatory name for women as you suggested as I have a great deal of respect for women) I did move on 29 yrs ago. I have had some special & wonderful realtionships since then..one I nearly married ... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   9 June 2010: Hi "A female reader, anonymous.." its a pity that you cant leave a name!! My partner and I had problems b4 this all came about.I didnt kick her out at a momments notice. She saw some old photos of me and Sally...photos that I had in storage ... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   9 June 2010: Hi TimmyD Thanks for your comments I work as a Management consultant ( BOO HISS I here you all say..lol :) )..My gut feelings are normally pretty good both @ wk and in my personal life. But this really threw me thats why I came on here. I do... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   9 June 2010: Hi West 1000, Thanks for your comments. To be perfectly honest with you, I dont know what I feel about Sally. I guess I will go and meet her with an open mind if she still wants to meet once I call her...it will be a shock to the system prob... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   8 June 2010: Hi, I have finished with my current partner. I have never been "hung up" on white girls. I didnt see her colour..just someone who was very kind/caring/considerate/intelligent/funny/loving and supportive. I have never dated a woman due to... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   4 June 2010: Hi guys, Thanks for all your comments..just thought I'd give you an update. A couple of weeks ago..someone from my infants school uploaded another photo of my class (taken when I was approx 6). I managed to identify myself on there as many ha... (read in full...)

How long should you wait if you want to keep a man?

Q.   How long should you wait to have sex with a man you are seeing if you want to keep him?...

A.   25 May 2010: Hi, I agree 100% with Rambini....if you have to sleep with him to "keep him" ..he's not worthy of you. If he is presssuring you to sleep with him..then you have probaly lost him already. If you dont respect yrself..then he wont re... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   25 May 2010: Hi Bunny Tee, Sorry I dont mean to insult you or any of our cousins across the pond. I have been to the US and the culture there is very diff to the UK..as are many of the customs/traditions. Surprisingly the UK is very diff to Europe. U... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   25 May 2010: Hi, Thanks to all for yr comments...West1000 in particular this is EXACTLY whats happening to me. I am not obsessed with her..her recent actions have left me confused thats all..and bought back some wonderful painful memories. (Why upload the ... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   24 May 2010: Hi there, Thanks for your comments. There appears to be some confusion. Lets look at the facts:- I know its 30 yrs and she says she's married with 3 kids...so I dont even want to go there. What has confused the heck outta me is:- 1) ... (read in full...)

Complicated situation would love find its way?

Q.   I was just wondering Does everyone accept that the "if you love something set it free" principle is a universal one? Are there any examples of love finding its way through a complicated situation beyond the partie's control? Is one supposed to fight...

A.   20 May 2010: Fight for it I wish I had 30 yrs ago See my message... (read in full...)

Whenever we have sex, it ends up hurting her physically. What can I do?

Q.   Hi i have been having quite a problem. I've been having quite a problem with my penis. I've been with alot of Girls but i never have properly had sex with them because my penis is too big and every time i have tried with a girl, i mean some are very ...

A.   20 May 2010: Hi, I had a similar problem...best thing to do is use plently of lub and let her get on top so she can lower herself down on you.. that way she can control any pain. Try to help her relax (soft music, maybe a little wine) and not rush into it... (read in full...)

Contacting her again has resurrected all of these old feelings...what should I do?

Q.   I'm confused. Recently, an ex g/f came up as a "do you know this person" on my Friends Reunited page. She and I had a very loving realationship 30 yrs ago..the break up was hard on both of us. We were best friends before and during our r...

A.   20 May 2010: Hi, I am normally a very rational guy. People come to me with thier problems both professionally and socaily. I know that we are 30 yrs down the line..both probably v different people..bhal bhal bhal. I know this is strange and If I did mee... (read in full...)

Is she being polite? Or asking me to get in touch with her?

Q.   Hi there, I would like an input ideally from the ladies out there. Her goes:- I will call her "Sally" and call myself "Ben" (not our real names) 30yrs ago almost to the day I met a wonderful,intelligent,kind, considerate beautiful young ...

A.   13 May 2010: Hi Diamond Girlx, Thanks for that comment i really appreciate that. I just wondered why she put a current?.. and and old photo of herself on her profile....thats what really confuses me and the fact that she not using her married name!! (as mos... (read in full...)

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