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I have a wonderful husband/best friend who supports me in all my life goals and helps me strive for excellence
My passion and love is in animals my life revolves around my 4 year old pug Freddie and my 2 year old tortie cat Abbigail
I currently quit my job in retail management to go back to school to become a bio technologist
I LOVE this site,I have had my own ups and downs in life and struggled through a lot of the issues mentioned on this site.I love to influence people to make the right decisions and go in the right direction.
Life is like multiple choice
If you make a mistake get up and try it again,
learning from your mistakes make you stronger.
-myself
You have enemies? Good, That just means you have stood up for something in your life.
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Why does it feel different?
Q. Hello i have notice wen i rub my pussy very hard it gets very sensitive as i cum which i cnt be able to touch. and when my bf make me cum it doesnt feel the same as i cum during intercourse. why do i experience different orgasm?...
A. 22 August 2010: one may be clitoral stimulation and the other vaginal g spot stimulation
feels more sensative during clitoral orgasms more so than vaginal g spot orgasms
... (read in full...)
He had moved on how do i?
Q. how do i move on from someone i was so inlove with? all guys seem like they only want sex these days. he was different. but now i dont know how to move on because he has. someone help please!...
A. 22 August 2010: Go out
have fun
let life take you into it's wings
get a hobby
watch LOTS of funny movies
get your mind off of this man!
you will always love this person no matter how much you try not to the memories you've shared good and bad ... (read in full...)
G/f has gained weight, complains about it, but doesn't do anything about it?
Q. Before I begin I want to say that I absolutely love my girlfriend. I also know that she is the girl I am going to one day marry, and she knows this too. Deep down she is a great person and apparently I am the greatest boyfriend ever; I treat her ...
A. 20 August 2010: jeez this sound so much like me LOL I do the same thing to my fiance I do it because I don't want to do it alone I want him to get active with me and cheer me on
I know I have to loose the weight even if he supports me or not
I have a wed... (read in full...)
In a fading relationship - growing feelings for a friend. Where do I stand?
Q. So I have been with my girlfriend for a little over three years. We have our ups and downs like any relationship. Some days are very blissful, with many good memories to remember for the rest of my life. Other days, not so much, just painful scars ...
A. 18 August 2010: My story is very close to yours.. and this is it
This is the story of how i met the love of my life
February 3rd my boyfriend soon to be husband the next year left the province to look for work to support us after a month we were ready for m... (read in full...)
In Love with a Friend--How to Confess?
Q. I've been good friends with this girl for many years (we went to college together) and I've been in love with her pretty much the whole time. I've made up my mind to tell her, but I'm terrified she'll freak out and never want to see me again. (Being ...
A. 18 August 2010: I was with my Ex fiance when i met my current fiance...It started as a friendship .. we did everything together..and i mean EVERYTHING, my fiance hated him and told me i had to make a choice "either me or him".. i said that i couldn't give up our ... (read in full...)
My gf lied to me about contacting an inmate
Q. i read a text from my girlfriend to her sis 6 months ago that asks if she can use her address to write an inmate when I confronted her she said she was wrong and it won't happen again then I found a letter from the same inmate thanking her for the ...
A. 18 August 2010: confront her, this could become a problem if he is paroled
it is actually common of people to choose to be pen pals with inmates
because they may sympathize with them... (read in full...)
Periods while pregnant
Q. can you have periods and still be pregnant because i just came off my period and took 2 different tests and they were both posative but i aint had sex this month...
A. 18 August 2010: did you have sex last month|? you miss your period the month AFTER you had sex if your pregnant
if it keeps coming back positive and your getting your period GO TO THE DOCTOR ASAP!
you could be miscarrying OR there could be something wrong ... (read in full...)
Tattoos... a turn on or a turn off?
Q. Help, i find tattoo's a real turn off my gf is planning on getting one, im worried it would make me feel less attracted to her tattoo's i dont mind on other people, i keep my opinion to myself unless asked on what i think about tattoo's in g...
A. 18 August 2010: my fiance actually thought girls who had tattoo's were sleazy
he didn't even know i had a tattoo until he fell in love with me and i put my hair up (it's on the back of my neck) it's also a band tattoo so it isn't your regular tat it's very uni... (read in full...)
I worry I might have herpes, warts, or rash?
Q. My boyfriend and I had lots of sex this one week, and I started to get a little sore during this week. After, I went to the gyno for a checkup on my cervical dysplasia. The gyno said it was mild and took a sample of my cervix. It gave me a strange ...
A. 10 February 2009: well hun its good you went to the doctor but don't be scared yet that it's an STI because i had the same problem i was getting blisters on my "area" and it was pretty itchy but i knew my boyfriend at the time was not cheating on me so i went to the ... (read in full...)
Do other women ever feel a little aroused during their period?
Q. do anyother women experience feeling a little horny during your period? i don't think i could ever have sex during a period, but sometimes i feel a little up for it. must be to do with hormones of something? i guess i'm lucky, as i never have hea...
A. 10 February 2009: im always the most turned on when im on my period..my mother explained it once to me because we just talk about everything together even that sort of stuff but it has something to do with your hormones
so your not the only one who feels like thi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's porn makes me feel betrayed
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for around seven months, it is my longest relationship and it seems to have been going better than usual recently.I love him and am happy in the relationship. However, the topic of porn came up recently...
A. 9 February 2009: all i can suggest is if you can't beat em' join em' maybe you can make this into a little game try things to turn him on get him to pick a girl out of the magazine or in the "porno movie" and act like her dress like her BE her and then try it just ... (read in full...)
My wife does not like sex...
Q. I have been married for 11 years I love my wife sooooooo much but sex priorities are far apart, I had doubts about our compatibility the week before our wedding but know that a lady can't be 100% perfect, sex is the only area that she is not 100%. ...
A. 9 February 2009: my best advice is to try to get into marriage councilling and if it needs more work maybe you both need seperate theorpy sessions there could be something deep under all this
maybe something happend in her past? maybe thats why she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Pretending to be the ex during sex?
Q. What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?...
A. 9 February 2009: hmm sorry for the last post but it could go both ways as he wants to pretend he is your ex... that is a little twisted you have to ask your self why?
maybe he is wanting to see if you like it better?
im not sure really but its not right i ... (read in full...)
Pretending to be the ex during sex?
Q. What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?...
A. 9 February 2009: Never in a million years would i EVER preform sex on my boyfriend acting like his ex and IF he ever asked me to id probably brake down and cry it would be over automaticly
like another poster said the past is the past why go back?
there ... (read in full...)
Do men in theirs forties stay over night at their mum's place on weekend?
Q. Do men in theirs forties stay over night at their mums place on weekend? i am going out with 46yr old man for a few weeks now he always seems to be busy on a saturday when i questioned him about it he said his normally busy (shopping, seein...
A. 8 February 2009: first of all does he live far from his mother?
if so maybe he just ants to spend time together
ALSO there is no problem with spending time with your mother maybe he just has a very good relationship with her and wants to have mom and son time... (read in full...)
What can I buy my girlfriend for V-Day with this amount?
Q. I'm 15 and so is my girlfriend, I have no ideas about what to get her for valentines day, I have about £50, I want her to really like it, please help. Thanks ...
A. 8 February 2009: you can buy her favorite flowers( IE roses if she likes them) for that amount im sure she will love it expecially with a little love note you wrote
hope my idea helps
misfitzchik66~~... (read in full...)
The condom broke, what now?
Q. Ok so I hadd sex with my mate and the condom broke.so what do I do so I don't become pregnant?...
A. 8 February 2009: well you can take the morning after pill its called plan b or the contraceptive pill you can get it at your local pharmacy
not on the self though you have to go up to the pharmacy desk and ask for it they are great at helping
first they w... (read in full...)
What do you do when the hymen breaks during first time sex?
Q. what do you do if your hymen breaks during sex for the first time, do you keep going or what??????????...
A. 8 February 2009: you can keep going if your partner and you are ok with blood but you wont notice till after your done having intercourse it really actually depends on your body
some woman only have a little bit of blood come out and some woman have a lot
... (read in full...)
How can I leave my husband when I love him more than anyone in the world?
Q. We've been married for almost 15 years and together for 19. We have 3 beautiful children that I love more than anyone could know. But my problem is that I love and worry about him just as I do my children. Sometimes I feel like he is my troubled...
A. 8 February 2009: dear sometimes making hard decisions end up being the best decisions
my ex did alot of drugs and drank ALOT
he was a skizophrenic and he just wouldn`t get the help when i asked him too
as much as i loved him and as much as i still do fo... (read in full...)
I think I might be sick next time..
Q. My boyfriend has a smelly cock and he keeps wanting me to go down on him, what do I do? I keep wretching - think i may be sick the next time- help!...
A. 8 February 2009: talk to him about it sweety if he cares about you (which im sure he does if he is having oral sex with you or letting you) just say
i won`t go down on you inless you wash it really good and tell him why im sure he will be fine with it
the... (read in full...)
What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)
Q. This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day ...
A. 8 February 2009: Im 19 now and i lost my virginity when i was 14 to my boyfriend which was 18( and had had other sex partners before me) and had been dating for 2 months he is now 22 and he were together for 3 and a half years
my mom is 43 and was 16 when ... (read in full...)
How many sleeping partner have you had
Q. Hi im doing a survey about how many sleeping partners (vaginal or anal) you or anyone you know, GF/BF etc, has had? Plz also state how sure you are of yours and your partners number! Plz be honest as there's no need to lie because you can just put...
A. 8 February 2009: Im Female 19 i have had 2 sleeping partners (100% sure) im from Canada
My boyfriend is 20 he has had 1 sleeping partner (100% sure ) he is from Canada
My ex is male he is 22 and he has had 6 sleeping partners (50% sure) he is from Canada
m... (read in full...)
Together for 4 years, this Valentines, he is going to a strip club, should I get over it?
Q. My boyfriend just told me that he's going to a strip club with his friends on February 14th... I had planned to take him out to dinner at his favorite restaurant on that day for Valentines day... Now I know Valentine's Day is just a stupid excuse ...
A. 8 February 2009: honey all the advice i can give you is say well then im coming too!!! and your not convincing me otherwise
tell him you want to spend the night with him and if that means having to go with the strip club with him so be it.. then he might ge... (read in full...)
How do I get over a miscarriage and an abortion? Therapy isn't helping!
Q. maybe a few people can help me once again!! i had an abortion about 7 months ago and i cant let it go a lot of people were very influencial and it happend so fast that i dident even have time to think about it i was still in shock ...
A. 19 January 2009: update!!! i stopped going to therapy it just wasn't helping.. BUT I can cope now. It still hurts a lot to think about it but my boyfriend has become very supportive since I told him it was really really bothering me, he reassures me al... (read in full...)
Is his mom being selfish or am I?
Q. now i have a problem i come on this site to help other people and i seem to have found myself in a horrible situation ever since i started dating my current boyfriend we have been together for a year things have just been messed in my opi...
A. 19 January 2009: Well i know its been awhile but i thought it be about time for an update SO!!
lets get started
we have been living together for about hmm i think its been about 10 months so anyways we decided to get a puppy he is a pug and i guess that was t... (read in full...)
I'm 42 and I may be pregnant and don't want to be! What are my options?
Q. I'm 42 and think I may be pregnant. Don't want to be! I already have 2 older kids and this was just a slip up. Apparently the chances of fertility decreasing over 40 didn't apply to me. I want to get the abortion pill but it costs over $400 and a ...
A. 4 September 2008: if you can't afford any abortion options and you don't want it you have the only other option of having it and giving it up for adoption
maybe you should think twice about this do you have family that can support you if you decide to keep it?... (read in full...)
We've always been good friends but he rejected my friend request!
Q. HI i've been known this guy all my life hes more like a big brother but we have never been that close seen each other now and then hes 21 im 18, i saw him the other night we had a quick chat and then went our sepparate ways, so then i saw his ...
A. 2 September 2008: sometimes people reject your requests not realizing i know i have i would try again and see what happends... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if the guy uses a condom?
Q. ok so i have a question about condoms. If i have sex with a guy and he uses a condom, am i still a virgin or does his bare skin and sperm have to be inside of me ?...
A. 28 August 2008: if the penis enters you with or without condom you are not a virgin anymore... (read in full...)
Virginity Poll: How old were you when you lost the V-card?
Q. tell me...how old were you when you lost your virginity??...
A. 28 August 2008: i was 14 turning 15 in two weeks i lost it to my ex who just turned 18 and after wards i was with for almost 4 years engaged and almost 2 kids later(which i lost both) 1 at 16 and 1 at 18 im 19 now and with my current boyfriend whom had lost his ... (read in full...)
Advice on using tampons, please.
Q. Hi im just wondering can anyone give me advice on putting in tampons?!!! I really want to use them but im terrified of putting them in ! any tips or advice? x...
A. 26 August 2008: Ive been where you are and it sucks!!!
but my mom told me to put a little vasaline or lubricant
on the tip before putting the tampon in , it makes it so it slides in without the pinching
it really works!!!... (read in full...)
My new guy babysits his ex's cat! Are they too close or what?
Q. I have started dating this guy and its been going great. He seems very interested in me, but the problem is he is still very close with his ex. He has told me its totally over but she is his first love. He is always on her facebook, shes on the top ...
A. 17 August 2008: the deal is honey is that it sounds like he hasn't quite moved on!!!!... (read in full...)
It hurts when I pee - and theres blood. Whats wrong?!
Q. I really dont know what to do and need help. When i go to the toilet and pee it hurts and i get a faint bit of blood on the tissue when i wipe. Could anyone tell me what it is... I really need help and dont no what to do, Thanks ...
A. 7 August 2008: bladder infection... i get this all the time to help get rid of it drink lots of water and cranberry juice and since there is blood get to the doctor and get some antibiotics that will clear up with in a day!!!
best of luck
Xoxo... (read in full...)
It's strong smelling. Is it squirting? Do I need to see a doctor?
Q. Dear aunts, im 16, 17 in 19 days, legal age and i do feel ready, but my boyfriend and I have decided to wait till his 18th till we try anything, we're both virgins too. But my problem is, since we both havnt done anything before ive been exploring ...
A. 7 August 2008: This is normal for most woman to have this happen when they orgasm some woman just have a "feeling" and some woman "squirt" and it seems like to me that you "squirt" and most woman would adore the gift you have. Take advantage of it let him know abo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is trying to hook another girl up with his mate, but I don't like it and I'm feeling jealous.
Q. i'm with my boyfriend for 7 mounth and we never had problem til now i know he loves me and i love him 2. but i feel like his losing his love for me.and one day i got mad at him for talkin to other girls.and he say'i'm realy sory but this time i c...
A. 7 August 2008: like i said before just talk to him about it and tell him it bothers him
if you want to get really nasty tell her to stop texting your man!!!
and if he defends her then he is obviously not for you and you can do better then a lieing cheate... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is trying to hook another girl up with his mate, but I don't like it and I'm feeling jealous.
Q. i'm with my boyfriend for 7 mounth and we never had problem til now i know he loves me and i love him 2. but i feel like his losing his love for me.and one day i got mad at him for talkin to other girls.and he say'i'm realy sory but this time i c...
A. 4 August 2008: ok if i understand correctly you are mad because your boyfriend is hooking this girl up with his friend??
well if that is what your saying then i don't understand what the big deal is?
it's not like he himself is hooking up with her and if ... (read in full...)
My wife says I am in love with my friend. Is she right?
Q. I am married. I love my wife and daughter. Lately I find myself thinking about a friend (who is female) alot. We talk to each other 3-4 times a day. My wife says my face lights up when I talk to this friend. She says that I am in love with this ...
A. 27 July 2008: have you ever thought to yourself that your wife is saying your in love with this woman because she wants you to admitt it to her... i can just image how much pain she is in even THINKING that you are in love with someone else
like other p... (read in full...)
My wife says I am in love with my friend. Is she right?
Q. I am married. I love my wife and daughter. Lately I find myself thinking about a friend (who is female) alot. We talk to each other 3-4 times a day. My wife says my face lights up when I talk to this friend. She says that I am in love with this ...
A. 27 July 2008: have you ever thought to yourself that your wife is saying your in love with this woman because she wants you to admitt it to yourself... i can just image how much pain she is in even THINKING that you are in love with someone else
like oth... (read in full...)
My new girlfriend asks "How can she be with me when my son always comes first!"
Q. hi my name is paul. im 32 years old and i have posted before about the sameish subject, only thing is things have changed and im in termoil, could realy do with helpfull advice. i have a 5 yr old boy who i dont live with he lives with his mum some ...
A. 21 July 2008: your child should ALWAYS come first
coming from a woman myself i belive i would be selfish in that matter but i would understand completely that the child needed to come first
she just is not worth your time and like a few posters said a g... (read in full...)
My husband spends too much time with the neighbours and hardly any with me!
Q. My husband works long days and when he gets home, he wants to spend time with the kids from the neighbors or just hang out with the neighbor. We talked about this many times, even as recent as a week ago when he and the neighbor stayed up until 2 ...
A. 20 July 2008: maybe he is looking for that "family feeling" that he doesn't quiet have with his own family
you said you don't have children maybe he spends so much like with the neighbors kids because he needs to feel that father like feeling he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?
Q. Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only....
A. 20 July 2008: YES they can
i myself am "addicted" to porn or should i say went through a huge porn watched faze . thats all i ever really did before my boyfriend moved in , was watch porn i even did it alot when i was with my ex
now me and my ex usually wa... (read in full...)
How do I go about dating the girl everyone hates?
Q. There's a girl who most of my friends dont like. She knows I like her. I dont know If I should ask her out or just be friends and not risk losing my other friends. What should I do?...
A. 15 July 2008: who cares what your friends think its what you like about her that counts and you'll make her feel special to know that you like her and want to be with her despite what everyone thought
in school there was this girl everyone hated and the most... (read in full...)
How do I get over a miscarriage and an abortion? Therapy isn't helping!
Q. maybe a few people can help me once again!! i had an abortion about 7 months ago and i cant let it go a lot of people were very influencial and it happend so fast that i dident even have time to think about it i was still in shock ...
A. 10 June 2008: to the last poster about the cheating on my boyfriend like i said it was a complex situation and my current boyfriend and i had worked things out and he understands why
at the time i was confused wether i should go back to my ex (whom i was go... (read in full...)
Is his mom being selfish or am I?
Q. now i have a problem i come on this site to help other people and i seem to have found myself in a horrible situation ever since i started dating my current boyfriend we have been together for a year things have just been messed in my opi...
A. 10 June 2008: he asked me to get an abortion when we got pregnant( which im not complaning about because we are to young to have children RIGHT NOW in the future maybe but not now expecially since we are broke lol) but what bothers me is the reason why he ... (read in full...)
Is his mom being selfish or am I?
Q. now i have a problem i come on this site to help other people and i seem to have found myself in a horrible situation ever since i started dating my current boyfriend we have been together for a year things have just been messed in my opi...
A. 10 June 2008: i also dident add that when i went to meet his family they were very rude to me like i wasent good enough for there son i try very hard i just be myself smile and nuthing i cryed in the car at the hospital his grandmother was staying at because ... (read in full...)
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