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I have a wonderful husband/best friend who supports me in all my life goals and helps me strive for excellence
My passion and love is in animals my life revolves around my 4 year old pug Freddie and my 2 year old tortie cat Abbigail
I currently quit my job in retail management to go back to school to become a bio technologist
I LOVE this site,I have had my own ups and downs in life and struggled through a lot of the issues mentioned on this site.I love to influence people to make the right decisions and go in the right direction.
Life is like multiple choice
If you make a mistake get up and try it again,
learning from your mistakes make you stronger.
-myself
You have enemies? Good, That just means you have stood up for something in your life.
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Is his mom being selfish or am I?
Q. now i have a problem i come on this site to help other people and i seem to have found myself in a horrible situation ever since i started dating my current boyfriend we have been together for a year things have just been messed in my opi...
A. 19 January 2009: Well i know its been awhile but i thought it be about time for an update SO!!
lets get started
we have been living together for about hmm i think its been about 10 months so anyways we decided to get a puppy he is a pug and i guess that was t... (read in full...)
Should I feel insecure for my boyfriend going to meet an ex?
Q. Would you feel insecure if your boyfriend went out to meet his ex girlfriend of 6 years with plausable reason? he says he had the intention of you going with him....he is still friends with her and all of his friends are her friends....what advice ...
A. 10 June 2008: i personally would feel uncomfortable... my boyfriend is still friends with his ex and it bothers me she asked him to go play pool with her (knowing full well i lived an hour away) he said he would... i told him that i dident want him too
so r... (read in full...)
I'm distraught, help is seriously needed!
Q. hi. 4 days ago my boyfriend of just over a year broke up with me over the phone, since then, he has deleted me from online (msn etc) and has bought a new phone, so i dont call him. after thinking about it, ive realised that i was completely s...
A. 10 June 2008: all you can do sweetheart is just hang in their and if he said like you said he will come to you and that he is finding it hard to get over you then just hope he comes back to you and then you can prove to him you have changed (if you can)
good... (read in full...)
My girlfriend can't have kids and wants me to leave her!!
Q. Hi guys its me again I'm a 20 yaer old in a long distance relationship with a 27 year old girl,today she foen out tha she won't be able to have kids and wants me to leabe her and move on,but I love her unconditionally no matter what I can't leave ...
A. 10 June 2008: it sounds to me like she is saying this because she feels worthless and she wants to hear you say you love her no matter what and have you comfort her having children for a woman is very big and when a woman finds out she cant have them its heart ... (read in full...)
I love someone else and I don't know what to do!
Q. I am already in a relationship from past 2 years. but i started loving someone else as my boyfriend did not have time for me and someone else entered my life.I am very happy with my new love and my boyfriend came to know about this.he is very hurt ...
A. 10 June 2008: same thing happend to me i was with my ex for 3 and 1/2 years and our relationship kept going down hill seeing he was a skizomaniac his disease was just getting worse and i asked him to take meds and he refused so i started a new job and ... (read in full...)
Is his mom being selfish or am I?
Q. now i have a problem i come on this site to help other people and i seem to have found myself in a horrible situation ever since i started dating my current boyfriend we have been together for a year things have just been messed in my opi...
A. 10 June 2008: he asked me to get an abortion when we got pregnant( which im not complaning about because we are to young to have children RIGHT NOW in the future maybe but not now expecially since we are broke lol) but what bothers me is the reason why he ... (read in full...)
Is his mom being selfish or am I?
Q. now i have a problem i come on this site to help other people and i seem to have found myself in a horrible situation ever since i started dating my current boyfriend we have been together for a year things have just been messed in my opi...
A. 10 June 2008: i also dident add that when i went to meet his family they were very rude to me like i wasent good enough for there son i try very hard i just be myself smile and nuthing i cryed in the car at the hospital his grandmother was staying at because ... (read in full...)
I feel hopeless right now, I want to split up but the dogs are keeping me with him!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and living together for 6 years. We have 3 beautiful dogs together. He has made it clear recently that he does not want to get married or have children even though he knows I want children more ...
A. 10 June 2008: my suggestion is that if you don't want to be with him anymore then you can discuss or consider "just" being roomates until you can find another place to stay that is convienent for you and then together since the dogs are both yours and his you ... (read in full...)
All my mates have done things with boys but I'm really scared to do things
Q. Hello well im a girl at the age of 15 and all my mates have done things with boys but im really scared to do things what could i do about it?? i wouldnt mind doing things with boys but not sex at the age please help me write back please x ...
A. 9 June 2008: just because your friends have done things(which they may be lieing) doesent mean you have to.. do things when you are ready if your scared it means you arent ready... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my ex or stay with new boyfriend?
Q. ive been suffering with this mix emotion,where should i stay with my ex bf for almost 2 yrs that he can gve me all he hve but the mean problem he dont trust me,we kept on arguing with my past..he never stop unless im goin to tell the truth.which im ...
A. 9 June 2008: Your new man loves you and doesn't care about your past he seems to be the one for you! The other guy will never change, and if he does it won't be until he is way older and more matured in his relationships... (read in full...)
Where can I communicate with lonely females without paying a fee or getting hooked up with the spam message?
Q. Does anyone know where you can communicate with lonely females without paying a fee or getting hooked up with the spam mess? I like to email back and forth about whatever, maybe adult content sometimes maybe other stuff. thanks...
A. 9 June 2008: plenty of fish! www.plentyoffish.com! its great site! orrrr
www.ratemybody.com its also a great site to meet lonely people
or www.lostcherry.com... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity just recently and my inner thighs hurt very much. Any way to stop this?
Q. I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend, and although (after the initial pain went) it felt good, my inner thighs hurt like hell. Sorry if this sounds crude, but every time I have a guy between my legs it kills! Will this go after we've ...
A. 9 June 2008: this is natural the same thing happens to me every now and then when to much pressure gets put on them after i lost my virginity my inner thighs hurt like hell just like you say yours do it goes away in a few days it just means that your body ... (read in full...)
We had sex and I made her bleed, am I a normal size for my age??
Q. i made love to my girlfriend a few days ago and I made her bleed a little inside. she says it's because i'm well endowed and it went right up her. I'm now worried that when we do it again that i might hurt her again. she says that i'm 9" when erect. ...
A. 9 June 2008: first question i have to ask is... is she a virgin? if so that may explain why she is bleeding! if not
then it also may be because she hasent had sex in awhile
now to answer your question.. you are above average for a male your age average ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about the intimate moments as he is one of my best friends and has a girlfriend...
Q. Recently,i went to this party...a lad was there who i have liked for a very long time.He is 17 and im 14.A few things happend between us on this night and and although it was nothing serious i feel guilty as he is one of my best friends and has a ...
A. 9 June 2008: if you felt awful about it then it tells you that you are a very good person considering the fact he has a girlfriend now because you fell awful you must ask your self this do you want to be with him as a friend or more then a friend i... (read in full...)
Flirty emails from my husband to my best friend have me asking, should I just carry on as normal?
Q. I have been with my husband for 16 years and we have been married for 6 years, we have 2 children. Last week I was looking on his e-mail and found e-mails from him to my best friend. These went on for an afternoon and were very flirty. I have spo...
A. 9 June 2008: I am not married myself but ill try to do my best to help you!! i would confront my best friend about it again and say "its really bothering me that you would even consider flirting with my husband in the first place, you are suppose to be my... (read in full...)
Am I gay or Bisexual?
Q. I was at a party and got real drunk. I was barely able to walk, and my friend helped me into the bathroom to pee. He undid my pants, pulled out my penis and held it for me to urinate. I started to get an erection, and after I was done peeing, he ...
A. 9 June 2008: you sound bisexual to me but its to early to tell... in a relationship people usually wait to have sex maybe you just arent ready to go that far yet if you like women as well then its obvious that you are bi.. or not.. some people just like to ... (read in full...)
Embarrassing skin rash that won't stop itching! Help
Q. Can somebody help me? For the past two weeks or so now, I have felt this horrible itching downstairs. As a result, this has developed into some sort of skin rash. This isn't the sort of thing I want to seek help about from a doctor, so does ...
A. 9 June 2008: what i dident mention earlier is that men can get yeast infections too and ministat is the came as canestin what another poster explained to get it works for males just as much as females they also have jock itch cream EXPECIALLY made for jock itch ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for first cousins (both male) to have sex with each other?
Q. is it ok for 1st cousins (both male) to have sex with each other...
A. 9 June 2008: its not illigal its incest but if your both male thier is no chance in inpregnation so no harm to a child is going to happen..so as weird as it is i guess its ok?... (read in full...)
Embarrassing skin rash that won't stop itching! Help
Q. Can somebody help me? For the past two weeks or so now, I have felt this horrible itching downstairs. As a result, this has developed into some sort of skin rash. This isn't the sort of thing I want to seek help about from a doctor, so does ...
A. 9 June 2008: yeast infection maybe?
try some monistat cream its for vaginal itch if that doesent clear up the itch try chaffing cream its also for vaginal itch if that doesent work you should go to your doctor right away!! no if ands or buts he /she will... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and don't know how to finger myself.
Q. hi, im 12 and i am very horney i have tried to finger myself but it hurt so i just cross my legs and it feel nice , i but i feel like im not normal baeace i cant finger myself is it normal? help me plz...
A. 9 June 2008: you are at the age that your hormones are up their masturbation is normal if it hurts then don't do it till you are older or at least more comfortable
because you have already tried i can't really say your to young ( i tried masturba... (read in full...)
My wife is troubled by her stretch marks, what can she do?
Q. This is a question for my wife.she has had 2 kids the youngest is 5. She had to have c sections with both. the problem is she has strech marks that she wants to get rid of. The c section scars are hiden but her belly is were the problem is. She is ...
A. 9 June 2008: they have creams and stuff she can use you can buy it at a drug store im not sure how much it costs but i hear it helps ALOT!!
or you can be a gentalmen and reasure her she the most beautiful thing on the face of the planet! ;D
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Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 9 June 2008: this is what i dont understand about girls getting angry about finding porn on their man's comps or finding videos under the bed or stuff like that i mean its natural where do you think they learn the stuff they do to you??
my boyfriend an... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend's boyfriend and now I'm pregnant.
Q. i need help and quick. im 13 and about three months ago i had sex with my best friend's boyfriend. i regret it, because im pregnant. i dont know how to tell people. let alone my best friend. please help....
A. 9 June 2008: you have options you tell the father first(if your sure its your best friends boyfriend) and you discuss together if you want to go ahead with it(its your choice) not anyone elses
2) you can get an abortion(its up to you whether or not to tell ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed about my boyfriend's ex's!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 and 1/2 years now, I love him very much but I can't seem to stop hurting him! I live very near to him, and all of his ex's! There is the problem. Although he doesn't talk to any of them, I'm obsessed tha...
A. 8 June 2008: Hi ladies I was in the same situation with two of my relationships.. it deff takes time to get over
my first relationship was very serious i was with my ex for 3 and a half years he was older then me by 3 years and had had sex with 3 girls be... (read in full...)
I am obsessed about my boyfriend's ex's!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 and 1/2 years now, I love him very much but I can't seem to stop hurting him! I live very near to him, and all of his ex's! There is the problem. Although he doesn't talk to any of them, I'm obsessed tha...
A. 8 June 2008: Hi ladies I was in the same situation with two of my relationships.. it deff takes time to get over
my first relationship was very serious i was with my ex for 3 and a half years he was older then me by 3 years and had had sex with 3 girls be... (read in full...)
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