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reader, Alaiz  +, writes (2 August 2010):
I'm 16 and still a Virgin and I don't regret or get embarrassed at all, even though some of my 16 year-old female friends told me that they lost it, some took it seriously, some for fun. But better take it seriously!
I have exes and currently a BF, and never have i even made out (even though i'd like a try), but I was just too scared its gonna lead into having sex, because i also feel the lust and arousal to be honest, but I'm glad i can control it and that all of my bf's did not force me :)
Save it to the right time and the right guy and when you are REALLY ready and you know you both love each other FOR REAL!
Good luck! 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): i was 13 and i was forced into it, i didnt like losing it at the age of 13 and i cant even look at the guy anymore and he cant look at me... shouldnt of happened but its in the past now... i think the time to lose it is when you feel comfortable with the person you do it with and neither of you are forced is the right time to do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): 16, no regrets, we're still in love now; he was so gentle and looked after me that first time. and since, too. he's the best thing that ever happened to me, so yeah, no regrets at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): Im 14 and I dont have plans of loosing it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Age 23 the first time. With a lady I worked with. She was common law married and she did it with me to get back at her husband. No matter what I did, I couldn't finish and she wouldn't finish me. I think it was the worst time I ever had sexually.
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reader, megadancer  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 I'm 17 and proud to still be a virgin. I want to wait till I'm with a boy that I know loves me, and won't pressure me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): 14 just turned.
With a Guy Wen i was Drunk :(
Rong Thing To Do
Shouldve Waited alot longer
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): 15
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reader, miss-innocent  +, writes (2 September 2008):
i haven't lost mine yet and i'm 21
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reader, Littleun :)  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 when i was 15 n not long turned n it wasnt with the boy i wonted it to be with i went out with him to make my best friend jealous (it worked) but it went to far and evern tho at the time it didnt feel like it was the wrong thing to do it really was n then i broke up with him to be with my best friend and altho we started having sex (when we were still 15) im still with him now and i always intend on being with him but i still think that we could have waited
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): 14 and still a virgin... *sigh*
oh well! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): 18 and i was totally pressured into it. i am still with the same guy (and he was my first) but i wish i would have waited until i was ready...guys suck
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reader, somebloke +, writes (28 August 2008):
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 i was 14 turning 15 in two weeks i lost it to my ex who just turned 18 and after wards i was with for almost 4 years engaged and almost 2 kids later(which i lost both) 1 at 16 and 1 at 18 im 19 now and with my current boyfriend whom had lost his virginity at 18 to me he is now 19 almost 20 i regret loosing my virginity so young but i had the time of my life with that guy and my first time felt right and at the right moment ... i was ready and the spot was right
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): i was 13, far too young to deal with sex on an emotional level, dont reccommend it i wish i had waited for a loving relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): I was 19.
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reader, julie ann  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 I was 16 when i lost mine. He was my first boyfriend.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 August 2008):
 18 and that was way too young as I look back on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): i was 15 just turned, my first time seemed like the best time of my life, but i ended up pregnant, i was 16 in april and now have a gorgeous little girl, yeah i love her and wouldnt be without her but my boyfriend left me just 3 weeks after i found out i was pregnant and i do wish id have waited. i know ya probably just curious BUT it only took me once, keep safe! (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): I was (and still am) 15 when I lost mine. It was about 4 months ago now.
It didn't hurt all that much but I wish I'd have waited longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): 18 (two years after the age of UK consent)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): 18
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): 16
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reader, desperate_angel +, writes (26 August 2008):
 im 25 when i lost it but no regrets i love that guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): 15.Not so long ago...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): I was 27.
It hurt physically.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): 17 in the back of a car. It was awful and hurt a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): I was 13 when I lost mine, and it was with someone I wanted to be with very much and had a relationship with for some time. I don't really regret it because I was willing and I did really like the guy, but at the same time I wish someone would have encouraged me to wait. Now, I feel like I was too young to deal with those feelings and I feel like I took so many risks of becoming pregnant at such a young age and possibly catching diseases. I also feel like I am ashamed to tell my boyfriend the truth of how young I was because he will think badly of me.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (26 August 2008):
 I was 17 when I lost my virginity. Couldn't have asked for a better guy to do it with, I'm still with him now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): About a week shy of nineteen, and if anything I wish I'd waited longer. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): 16
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): I was 16 on the later side of it and it was the wrong decision it was with a 34 year old man who I havent seen since - I am now 20. I regret it so if you lose it - if you havent already - do it with someone you care about and who cares about you - when it's right. x hope this helps
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