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I have a wonderful husband/best friend who supports me in all my life goals and helps me strive for excellence
My passion and love is in animals my life revolves around my 4 year old pug Freddie and my 2 year old tortie cat Abbigail
I currently quit my job in retail management to go back to school to become a bio technologist
I LOVE this site,I have had my own ups and downs in life and struggled through a lot of the issues mentioned on this site.I love to influence people to make the right decisions and go in the right direction.
Life is like multiple choice
If you make a mistake get up and try it again,
learning from your mistakes make you stronger.
-myself
You have enemies? Good, That just means you have stood up for something in your life.
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How do I get over a miscarriage and an abortion? Therapy isn't helping!
Q. maybe a few people can help me once again!! i had an abortion about 7 months ago and i cant let it go a lot of people were very influencial and it happend so fast that i dident even have time to think about it i was still in shock ...
A. 19 January 2009: update!!! i stopped going to therapy it just wasn't helping.. BUT I can cope now. It still hurts a lot to think about it but my boyfriend has become very supportive since I told him it was really really bothering me, he reassures me al... (read in full...)
How do I go about dating the girl everyone hates?
Q. There's a girl who most of my friends dont like. She knows I like her. I dont know If I should ask her out or just be friends and not risk losing my other friends. What should I do?...
A. 15 July 2008: who cares what your friends think its what you like about her that counts and you'll make her feel special to know that you like her and want to be with her despite what everyone thought
in school there was this girl everyone hated and the most... (read in full...)
My fiance started making out with his ex...he knew I was in the same room!
Q. My fiancé went to his ex-girlfriend's place. He says their "just friend". It never bother me that they "friends" until now. Later he called asking me to pick up because his drunk and couldn't drive himself home (we're living together). When I got ...
A. 15 July 2008: you did the right thing , drunk or not it's still not right and he knew what he was doing if he knew to call you to pick you up because he was to drunk then he knew he was making out with his ex in front of you.. it is not your fault he is just a ... (read in full...)
I get a burning feeling when I pee. Can anyone suggest what's causing it?
Q. ok, I have a big problem. Im suppose to start my period today, and well i kinda did. But the thing is i have to pee or feel as though i have to pee every few mins. But when i pee it burns, and its very litely bloody. I dont know what to make of ...
A. 12 July 2008: I know for a fact this is a bladder infection all of what your saying is the symtoms of a UTI urinary tract infection
i had the same thing and i had blood in my urine and it just got worse
you NEED to go to the doctor right away and get ant... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my boyfriend and my best friend?
Q. do you think im just been paranoid or could there be something going on. :S basicly ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, im 16 and hes 18 we got together on the 22-05-2006 and i adore him, i love him with all my heart, but recently i ...
A. 9 July 2008: i would talk to her more about it since you are best friends as any best friend should be would be understanding
maybe she is jelouse because you have a boyfriend and she doesn't?
you can't pry him away from his friends just because... (read in full...)
She gets text messages from an ex. I'm not comfortable wiht it. Should I feel this way?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. The whole time, she would get these random text messages from an unsaved phone number. It turns out it is a person (an X for lack of a better term) she had a fling with (before me), and found ...
A. 8 July 2008: her explanation is just like the other poster said BULL**** she is keeping him on the rebound so if things so go sour with you she can run back to him
now is the time to tell her look its either our relationship or this guy no if ands or buts she... (read in full...)
How can I prevent from getting a rash after shaving my bikini line?
Q. Just a quick question, when I shave my bikini line I always seem to get a rash which is not very attractive. What can I do to prevent this from happening? Is it even normal? Thanks :) x x x...
A. 7 July 2008: its normal its ingrown hairs usually it happends when you scratch because its itchy my best method is always been DON"T SCRATCH! lol if you scratch you get a rash and it gets that redness if you shave consistently your body will get used to it and ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I have cancer
Q. Im really scared that I have cancer when I go to the toilet for a number 2 there is blood there it is bright red and it can be quite alot. Also there is mucus there too quite a bit of it and when I need to pass wind there is always mucus that comes ...
A. 6 July 2008: it could be a fissure my boyfriend had the same problem the first doctor told him he had hemroids and the bleeding just didn't subside so he went to a professional and they were talking croans disease but its not as bad and the name for it is ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to calm down morning sickness??
Q. I'm almost 18 and i'm 11 weeks pregnant. I'm getting really bad morning sickness all day and i can't eat anything ive tried all the methods they say in the books to help it but it dosnt work has any one got any advice how to help calm it down....
A. 6 July 2008: i got the same problem with both my pregnancy's
before you step foot out of bed in the morning eat soda crackers and/or soup crackers
eat them through out the day as a snack food
you need to learn which foods you can eat and which fo... (read in full...)
Can you be in a relationship without desire or attraction? Should I finish my first relationship?
Q. I'm 23 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. I came from a overly protected background and therefore did not have a boyfriend till I was 18-19 at uni. I have been with him since and we have overcome a lot: i.e my parents (different ...
A. 5 July 2008: the reality of the situation is that he sounds like not the right guy for you my dear the way you complain about him
it also sounds like your just with him because you don't want your parents to frown upon you
well its your life if you... (read in full...)
I'm furious at what I found on his Facebook account. Am I over reacting?
Q. I need advice. I have been married for 15 years and we have 4 children. My husband recently got a facebook account. He has added old friends and even an old girlfriend. I didnt like that much but she also added me as a friend so I did not let...
A. 5 July 2008: the only advice i can give you is you have every right to be insecure i know if i found stuff like that on my boyfriends account id be angry too and i have found stuff like that his friend he would send hugs and kisses too but then he explained ... (read in full...)
Is our long distance relationship going anywhere?
Q. I've been in this sort of long distance relationship with this girl for 9 months now and recently we've run into this "recession". We live 1.5 hours away from each other and we've both agreed to wait for each other until I go to college. Then we...
A. 5 July 2008: my boyfriend and i were in a 10 month long distance relationship he lived an 1.5 hours away and at first we talked on the phone for hours on end then it went to like 15 minutes a day he would call me because i hated calling him due to his family ... (read in full...)
I'm sore after having sex, what could be the problem?
Q. I've been having a problem lately with my sex life. both my boyfriend and i love making love to each other but the problem is that I'm always sore afterwards and i don't know why. when we first started having sex it didn't hurt as much but t...
A. 25 June 2008: too the first poster we don't use condoms because I'm sensative to latex
and for the going slow i have told him to go slow when we start and then after a while he goes faster because he can't get off if he doesn't maybe thats why?
we use ... (read in full...)
My period is 2 days late, pregnancy test is negative, am I pregnant?
Q. I think I may be pegnant. the last time I had my period was may 23-28. i should have gotten my period on June 22 or somewhere around that.I'm really not 100% sure because my cycle is kinda irregular. me and my bf did have unprotected sex once a ...
A. 25 June 2008: i wouldn't stress because stress causes the period to be late or missed and you wouldn't want that just relax i've had unprotected sex before got really stressed thought i was pregnant and then 4 days later (after freaking and buying like 4 ... (read in full...)
When should I have my first pap smear?
Q. I just need some clarification about when you should have your first pap smear. I found on a web site that it says: "All women who have ever had sexual contact should commence having Pap smears between the ages of 18 - 20, or within two years ...
A. 25 June 2008: no as soon as you start having sexual activity see a doctor and they will schedule an appointment and you are suppose to get one ever 6 months!!! to check for the HPV virus and just regular check ups to make sure your ovories are OK ... (read in full...)
How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?
Q. How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?...
A. 25 June 2008: maybe because she's your brothers wife and your like 16? 17?... (read in full...)
A friend and I were discussing how long it can take a committed relationship to start
Q. In my experience (I've had 5 serious girlfriends and I'm 29 yrs old), if a guy approaches a girl, asks her out, she agrees and they start seeing each other, within 1-2 months either a committed relationship starts or they decide to be friends. How ...
A. 25 June 2008: well it depends on the person really and how comfortable they feel in the relationship my boyfriend and i dated for 4 months before he said he was committed to me completely(as in he wanted to be with me for a long time) he said he was committed to ... (read in full...)
When do I tell my ex about my new boyfriend?
Q. I recently split up with my boyfriend of 4 years because things hadnt been working out for me for a while and I'de actually met someone else. It came as a complete shock to him though and he was absolutely devestated and heart broken. I didn't tell ...
A. 23 June 2008: i was in the EXACT situation as you its almost mind boggling how exact it is.. i dragged it on and i didn't tell him for like 6 months i was serious with my current boyfriend (he still had hopes for us) and he was devistated when he just found out ... (read in full...)
Does he have anger issues, or do most guys act like that?
Q. Is it normal for a 21 year old guy who is a total video game freak, to get really - and I mean really upset when he is losing in a game? He starts cursing so bad, over and over and then punches the couch if he loses. When I say "that sucks I'm sorr...
A. 23 June 2008: its a competative streak some guys have... maybe he needs to get some anger management or just tell him he is the best!... (read in full...)
When I go down on my girl she gets all wet and sticky!
Q. This is quite disgusting, but however much I love my girlfriend very much - and so on and so forth, but everytime I go down on her this sticky foul stuff just comes out and it's eugh. I looked it up and I think it's discharge by why is there so ...
A. 20 June 2008: if it smells bad then its probably an infection you need to get her to see someone before it gets worse!!
she has every right to be subconciouse about that it may be all sorts of stuff like a yeast infection or a bladder infection or if she h... (read in full...)
I have a small lump on my penis - what should I do??
Q. I have a small lump on my penis but I amafriad that if I go to the doctor that my penis could go hard. What should I do?...
A. 20 June 2008: it happend's to some men and for some men it doesn't my boyfriend was afraid to go see the doctor for the same reason and he didn't go and he just got sicker so eventually he went and he didn't get hard because it wasn't a turn on for him in the ... (read in full...)
Should I shave my dick??
Q. I am 14 and wondering if i should shave my dick what do you girls pefer most?...
A. 20 June 2008: it will itch like crazy if its too bushy then trim it neatly
besides i know a lot of woman including myself like their men hairy down their!!... (read in full...)
Vaginal hygiene - Am I going about it right?
Q. I wash my vagina with a scrubie poof thing and soap. Is this bad? Like, is it the same as douching?...
A. 20 June 2008: it is not the same and as for douching you aren't suppose to douche to much or you'll get bladder infections or yeast infection since i have sensative skin i cant use soap down there and i would recommend for other woman not to use soap down ... (read in full...)
Another girl bought my boyfriend an expensive Birthday gift and I feel jealous!
Q. My bf's birthday was last Thursday. I didn't have much money, so I bought him 3 sets of cheap guitar strings. He needed guitar strings, and he really doesn't care about quality as he always ends up breaking them anyway. He himself doesn't like ...
A. 17 June 2008: i think you are thinking to hard hunny lol its just "rum" its the thought that counts no need to be jealous there are plenty more times to give presents and there are plenty more gifts out there to give
as far as the rum goes guys are just lik... (read in full...)
Do you think it's okay for a 19 year old to party till late or travel to a different city with friends?
Q. I would like to know your opininon for the following question 1) Do you think its okay for a 19 year old to party out with her friends until late in the night (say about 3 am) 2) Does she have the right to plan a trip with her friends to a dif...
A. 17 June 2008: I traveled all over the place without my parents with my ex and my current boyfriend from the age of 16-19 once you become 18 you are an adult and are considered one and are to make your own decisions in life... (read in full...)
We're not even engaged yet. Am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we practically live together. We have done since more or less day one of our relationship. Before we got into a relationship, he was renting a house off his mum but she needed to rent i...
A. 15 June 2008: you are being selfish ive been in two serious relationships one was for three and a half years a was engaged after two years and planning on getting married after the fourth and when we broke up me and my current boyfriend have been together a ... (read in full...)
Am I the selfish one?
Q. Hi I need help, about three years ago I left my husband of 10years to move in with my present partner who left his partner of 23 years, I have four children from a previous marriage and he had two children with his partner, my husband and I had not ...
A. 15 June 2008: YOU are not being selfish HE is you need to have a serious talk with your man and let him know how you feel everything you just said you need to tell him that and you need to force him to listen and if he doesn't seem to get it then you deserve ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex. Help please!
Q. Hi, my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me at the moment. Its been since last sunday that we had sex. I am really frustrated, but trying not to let it show. I asked her what was wrong and she claims that she has no sex drive. 2 days ag...
A. 15 June 2008: its called a period most girls dont like to have sex during them because of the mess also the cramping just wait it out!
good luck... (read in full...)
Should the child always come first before a relationship?
Q. Should the child always come first before a relationship? I am dating a widowed guy with a kid who prefers to give up sex with me if his daughter (seven) wants to sleep in bed with us that night. He doesn't ask me if I mind first. Every major li...
A. 15 June 2008: an 8 year old should be old enough to sleep alone and should be told to sleep alone like the last poster said
a child's needs ALWAYS come first but what the child wants is different and i would explain that to your boyfriend he needs to know ... (read in full...)
Pains. I have an appointment to see the doc, but I'd like to know what anyone else thinks it might be
Q. Hi all, Before i start, id like to say i have booked to see my GP, but i just want to see other peoples views. Ive just finished my AS Level exams (i'm 17), and have been experiencing quick pains (they arnt very painful, if you get my meaniing) in ...
A. 13 June 2008: i get the same thing in my chest and i talked to my doctor about it because it was worrying me (like yourself) and she told me it was stress and to put a warm cloth on the area it hurts and if its in your head close your eyes and put a cloth on ... (read in full...)
I don't want my 2 regular girlfriends to find out about my girls on the side, but 2 of them are now pregnant!
Q. I'm in need of some serious help. I have been in a long-term relationship with a wonderful girl for the past five years and with another equally beautiful girl for two. The first girl I met through friends, the second in a strip club. I know som...
A. 13 June 2008: like the last poster... id stick with one and where were you raised?????
you better get tested for STI's and AIDS if your sleeping around like that!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a mean sister-in-law!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together now for a few years and I am afraid his sister-in-law (brothers wife) has never liked me. She is very insecure and feels threatened by me - she will make rude comments towards me and always make it clear how ...
A. 12 June 2008: first of all i really hope nothing is going on between them... i think you should confront her if your boyfriend is defending her so much and i would tell her straight out to stay out of yours and his business it has nothing to do with her and she ... (read in full...)
I can't perform in the bedroom (I'm disabled) but its too embarrassing to tell her that I can't make love to her...what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend's fallen out with me and won't talk to me properly and I was wondering if anybody could offer me some advice. I'm disabled and really can't perform in the bedroom... my ex-girlfriend saw other guys on the side for that so there wa...
A. 11 June 2008: there are other ways to please your woman.. your mouth tongue hands fingers toys (if it has something to do with your penis that it)
if she cares about you, you should let her know the truth and dido if you care about her she deserves the... (read in full...)
A question about trust in a relationship....
Q. Hi my question is about trust.If you get cheated on, is that it, has your trust gone forever. Are all future relationships reduced to phone and email checking. What of the cheater do they retain their ability to trust? ...
A. 11 June 2008: be understanding if you are an understanding person and truely love the person give them a chance if they ask for it
if they do it again then you have EVERY right to be upset and not trust that person... (read in full...)
Should I be patient with him?
Q. QUESTION: Should I be patient with him? I'm a 'single' 30 year old female (with 2 sons ages 8 and 9 - different fathers) and have dated men older than myself (e.g.45yrs) in the past. Been out of a relationship for 2 yrs...was not 'looking' for an...
A. 11 June 2008: i agree with what you say i belive that if you want communication you should seek it from him ask questions make conversation even if it has nothing to do with anything explain to him you want a commitment dont pressure him though you have to ... (read in full...)
Forbidden love with my best friend! Any advise?
Q. Im 16 and Ive had a boyfriend for 5 months now.I dont believe i understand the full meaning of love at this young age so i think its fair to say im not 'in love' but i do have alot of feelings for him.he is always on my mind and he makes me tingle ...
A. 11 June 2008: i would tell her how you feel if the feelings get stronger explain these feelings to her and explain that you dont want to jeprodize your friendship with her ever girl at one point or another gets an urge to possibly experiment and its usually ... (read in full...)
I slept with my husbands friend! What do I do now?
Q. So yeah last night i went out with a mutal friend for mine and my husband. Granted there has always been some sexual tention there, never intented to act on it but did entertain the idea on occastion . We go to the bar and have a good time just some ...
A. 11 June 2008: i personally think you should end it do to the fact that he IS a close friend to your husband and if he was to find out it would just lead to a horrible mess that would leave everything even more confusing and upsetting for everyone
sexual n... (read in full...)
How do I get over a miscarriage and an abortion? Therapy isn't helping!
Q. maybe a few people can help me once again!! i had an abortion about 7 months ago and i cant let it go a lot of people were very influencial and it happend so fast that i dident even have time to think about it i was still in shock ...
A. 10 June 2008: to the last poster about the cheating on my boyfriend like i said it was a complex situation and my current boyfriend and i had worked things out and he understands why
at the time i was confused wether i should go back to my ex (whom i was go... (read in full...)
Should I be patient with him?
Q. QUESTION: Should I be patient with him? I'm a 'single' 30 year old female (with 2 sons ages 8 and 9 - different fathers) and have dated men older than myself (e.g.45yrs) in the past. Been out of a relationship for 2 yrs...was not 'looking' for an...
A. 10 June 2008: he is 23 and you are 30 and have two children he is still pretty young maybe you should look for someone more older one that is ready for commitment and is ready to be a father figure or even has his own kids that way you can both be happy and ... (read in full...)
Where can a teenage girl who likes porn get it for free?
Q. i know that im gonna get alot of smart answers to this.. But im a 16 year old girl, and i'd like to try masturbating to porn.. are there any good free sites? apart from redtube?...
A. 10 June 2008: ooo i know lots..
www.dump.com
www.megarotic.com
www.youporn.com
www.badjojo.com
www.myhomeclip.com
www.pornotube.com
those are my favorite!~
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Can you love more than one person?
Q. hello! can somebody loves more than more than one person? thank you for answering my question! Cathy...
A. 10 June 2008: when i broke up with my ex and got with my new boyfriend (which i had left him for) i was still in love with my ex but in love with my new boyfriend...
ive been with my new boyfriend for a year now i love him with all my heart (madly) ... (read in full...)
Should I feel insecure for my boyfriend going to meet an ex?
Q. Would you feel insecure if your boyfriend went out to meet his ex girlfriend of 6 years with plausable reason? he says he had the intention of you going with him....he is still friends with her and all of his friends are her friends....what advice ...
A. 10 June 2008: i personally would feel uncomfortable... my boyfriend is still friends with his ex and it bothers me she asked him to go play pool with her (knowing full well i lived an hour away) he said he would... i told him that i dident want him too
so r... (read in full...)
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