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I have a wonderful husband/best friend who supports me in all my life goals and helps me strive for excellence
My passion and love is in animals my life revolves around my 4 year old pug Freddie and my 2 year old tortie cat Abbigail
I currently quit my job in retail management to go back to school to become a bio technologist
I LOVE this site,I have had my own ups and downs in life and struggled through a lot of the issues mentioned on this site.I love to influence people to make the right decisions and go in the right direction.
Life is like multiple choice
If you make a mistake get up and try it again,
learning from your mistakes make you stronger.
-myself
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My girlfriends super jealous of my best friend who is a girl!
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything for the most part has been great (we have our wedding colors picked out lol) but i just started my senior year of college 3 weeks ago and a problem has surfaced. last year, i realized that all...
A. 23 September 2010: This girl seems to be trying to control your life and being a hypocrite at the same time
anybody who tries to control anyones life needs to be ditched out of your life
maybe letting this one go would be your best option
your friend see... (read in full...)
What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?
Q. Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass g...
A. 21 September 2010: well.. seeing he is a guy flowers would probably mean nothing to him no offence
try a teddy bear (make sure it's boyish though)
chocolate everyone likes chocolate!!!
a funny t shirt
a card with a picture of yourself or you and him in it... (read in full...)
How far should the shaved area go?
Q. Hello, Ive recently decided to start shaving my penis, balls, and that general area. My question to the ladies is how far should the shaved area go? Do I shave my thighs too? I know it's up to me but I'm seeking ideas. Thanks to you!...
A. 21 September 2010: TRIM! i would not suggest shaving it ALL off it just looks wierd all shaved off in my opinion
don't shave the legs leg hair is manly and to shave the manlyness off is like shaving your man hood away lol!
it's just a girl thing to do!!!
hair... (read in full...)
How can I choose?
Q. When two boys wish for you to be their girlfriend how does one choose?...
A. 19 September 2010: either go with your guy on which one you like more or choose neither seeing that they may start to fight
... (read in full...)
On the pill and I keep getting thrush!
Q. i have been on the pill for 2months and i keep getting thrush now. a was just on it because of i had really heavy periods i havent had sex in about 6weeks and my periods have been normal should i stop being on the pill? or should i go to the doctors ...
A. 19 September 2010: This is extremly common.. i used to get yeast infections/thrush all the time on the pill and i kept having to change too different BC pills because everyone i tried would give me the same problem
I tried probably about 10 different kinds of birth... (read in full...)
My girlfriends super jealous of my best friend who is a girl!
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything for the most part has been great (we have our wedding colors picked out lol) but i just started my senior year of college 3 weeks ago and a problem has surfaced. last year, i realized that all...
A. 17 September 2010: You have two options..
tell your girlfriend relationships are based on trust and if you wanted your bestfriend "that way" you would have been with her a LONG ago and if she can't accept that that this relationship will NOT last
OR
You dit... (read in full...)
How do I prepare for my first period?
Q. Hi I know I ask a lot of questions but hear me out. I haven't had a period ever. I am 13 and at a bigger than average weight. Lots of girls at my school have started theirs. Even some of the ones younger than me. I started having frequent stomach ...
A. 17 September 2010: honestly alot of people that i have talked to said they never felt it coming. i for one got mine at school when i was 12 and thought i was dieing
i had to go to the nurse
Always be prepared at school
you are at the age where this could... (read in full...)
Very irregular periods at 13?
Q. I am 13 and 1/2 and i have been gettign my period for about 3 years now and when i first started for the first 2 years it was very regular about 25 days apart right, now for the past year it isnt anymore. Between 40-50 days apart and sometimes ...
A. 14 September 2010: When i was 13 the doctor told me to use birth control to make me have
regular periods because i was going through the same thing you are
birth control just isn't used for "birth control" alot of women are on it for the the fact they regulate per... (read in full...)
Why do guys watch porn while they are in a stable relationship?
Q. Why do guys watch porn WHILE they are in a stable relationship? I found TEEN porn on my bf's computer. That makes me feel not good enough. Why do guys watch it, what is so interesting. I cant stand the thought that my bf is watching at other ...
A. 14 September 2010: like a previous poster said..the "teen" porn is just his flavour my fiance's is blow job video's and my brothers is anime(don't ask me how i know that)
my step dad watches interracial(don't ask me how i know that either) and i have a few friends ... (read in full...)
Why do guys watch porn while they are in a stable relationship?
Q. Why do guys watch porn WHILE they are in a stable relationship? I found TEEN porn on my bf's computer. That makes me feel not good enough. Why do guys watch it, what is so interesting. I cant stand the thought that my bf is watching at other ...
A. 14 September 2010: Myself and my fiance watch porn together or by ourselves we have a very healthy active sex life
in the end he is still coming to me for sex so i really don't care what he is looking at as long as he is not going out and getting it
surpris... (read in full...)
Does this mean the pill isn't effective?
Q. hi. im on the first week of my second pack of loestrin 24... i keep having cervical mucus on my underwear and its always wet and whiteish/clear and stretchy. i dont know what it all is it happens often. does anyone know what it could be coming form? ...
A. 13 September 2010: believe it or not this is perfectly normal when your on a birth control pill
here is a good site to explain what this is
http://www.wdxcyber.com/mvagina.htm
if it becomes itchy it may be a yeast infection which is also very common when yo... (read in full...)
Why does he cum so fast?
Q. Hello! me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for a year. we were both virgins before we met. when we have sex he cums within the first few minutes. so i dont have a chance to even start enjoying it really. why does this happen? ...
A. 13 September 2010: Men who are not circumcised** pardon my spelling... (read in full...)
Why does he cum so fast?
Q. Hello! me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for a year. we were both virgins before we met. when we have sex he cums within the first few minutes. so i dont have a chance to even start enjoying it really. why does this happen? ...
A. 13 September 2010: is he circumcised? men she are not circumcised tend to be more sensitive down there leading them to ejaculate a lot faster
OR he is just super turned on and can't hold himself back
are you using condoms? if you are not try using them they ... (read in full...)
How can I remind myself to take my birth control pill?
Q. What are some ways to remind your self to take your birthcontrol? so far I have an alarm on my laptop and an alarm on my phone and my Ipod dock and Ipod it's self and sometimes I STILL forget. What are some other ways incase I am not around a...
A. 13 September 2010: put it somewhere you know you will see it when you wake up ... (read in full...)
Does this sound like a friction burn?
Q. Can someone help me i have a sore penis the side and under the head is red and sore. I had unprotected sex with my gf. In the middle I of the session I could keep her stubble rub against my penis it kind of hurt but I didnt think anything of it at ...
A. 12 September 2010: Too much sex or sex without enough lube can cause this
... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can be substituted for fruit?
Q. Hi, I'm a 19 year old female and unfortunately a bit of a picky eater. I eat vegetables but hate fruit. I'm terrified of cancers and what state my body will be in when I'm older and starting a family etc. I'm taking centrum vitamin supplements and ...
A. 11 September 2010: this site explains what I'm trying to tell you better than i can =)
http://www.1awesomeb17site.com/... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can be substituted for fruit?
Q. Hi, I'm a 19 year old female and unfortunately a bit of a picky eater. I eat vegetables but hate fruit. I'm terrified of cancers and what state my body will be in when I'm older and starting a family etc. I'm taking centrum vitamin supplements and ...
A. 11 September 2010: B17 is actually ban in Canada and in the U.S because it helps prevent cancer in the future (my father in law is in remission from cancer right now and he has had cancer for 20 years and has been taking b17 for 17 years) my whole family takes it ... (read in full...)
We broke up now I am pregnant!
Q. Well me and my boyfriend had sex. BUT we used a condom anddd i was on birth control. We broke up a week ago and i just found out i'm pregnant!!! i dont know what to do. He is already dating someone new. What should I do?! Im thinking about getting ...
A. 8 September 2010: P.s person 1234 was right about the the methods of abortion they will give you a councilor if you need it and there are other options beside them removing it from you
they do have medications for you to abort on your own mind you if it doesn't ... (read in full...)
We broke up now I am pregnant!
Q. Well me and my boyfriend had sex. BUT we used a condom anddd i was on birth control. We broke up a week ago and i just found out i'm pregnant!!! i dont know what to do. He is already dating someone new. What should I do?! Im thinking about getting ...
A. 8 September 2010: LLindy87 probably said it best but one thing is wrong about abortions
even if you do get an abortion this DOES NOT decrease your chances of getting pregnant..this i know from first hand experience.
i got pregnant when i was 16 and got an abort... (read in full...)
My parents hate my boyfriend to death! Help!
Q. Hello everyone I have a little confusion going on...i want some advise from people that have gone through it or any wise suggestion. I'm in love with this guy ive been dating for 2 years...he means a lot to me. This person my family hates to death ...
A. 8 September 2010: well i was the one hated from my fiance's side..all i can say it that if YOU love him and he loves you that's all that matters and who cares what your family thinks
stand up for yourself and for him!
i'm sure it is probably more awkward for... (read in full...)
Cursing...
Q. Would you allow your boyfriend to curse at you and call you a bitch during an argument? ...
A. 8 September 2010: hmm..I'm sure a lot of people are going to have different opinions on this one my dear
but when my fiance called my a "slut" one night(jokingly) i slapped him in the face
no one calls me that and even if it was a joke it is uncalled for
... (read in full...)
How do I get over feeling duped?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 10 years. When we first started living together she expressed her dislike for certain things in bed. She said she didn't care for sex toys, porn, and oral sex, among other things. We have a healthy sex life, ...
A. 8 September 2010: I really do not know how to say it much better than the previous posters had
he is her ex for a reason and she is with you for a reason sex is a huge part of a relationship and she LEFT HIM
think about it! seriously if it was that good with h... (read in full...)
Masturbation and women.
Q. It has been written and surveys have been done that men and women do masturbate.It came out clear that men are likely to admit to having masturbated rather than women.So it begs the question why do they deny having done it.In my opinion i think it ...
A. 8 September 2010: all the woman i know personally all admit to masturbation
family,friends every one i know
it's nothing to be ashamed of and it personally bothers me when woman say they don't because we all know you have "touched" your self down there weathe... (read in full...)
My boyfriends family does not like me, what do I do?
Q. I am having the same problem, im 18 and have been with my boyfriend 6 years, since 7th grade. we are deeply in love and happy together. we've had a lot of ups and downs considering the fact that we only have been with eachother. his family for some ...
A. 7 September 2010: i have the exact same problem my fiance's family hated me when i first showed up in the picture they thought i was not good enough for their son (his mom in particular) his step brother said some nasty things to him about me on facebook and his ... (read in full...)
Did I pop my cherry or is something else wrong?
Q. This is kind off embarassing, I was masturbating the other day using an electric toothbrush, then I hve a really great sensational feeling, but suddenly there was a sharp painful feeling and the tootbrush was bloody.... now my stomache feels like ...
A. 7 September 2010: masturbating is perfectly healthy unless of course you put something up there that should not be up there
try buying a sex toy or if you don't feel comfortable putting anything in there anymore buy a clitoral stimulator
one bad experience ... (read in full...)
What did he mean by saying I'm not pregnant yet?
Q. Okay. So I have a crush on my friends brother, who is one year older than me. I was at their house yesterday and and said Guess What? My friend said: Uh.. You're pregnant? I said: No. Her brother said: not YET anyways" Whats that supposed to mean!...
A. 7 September 2010: i honestly do not think it was what you thought it was( if you thought he wants to get you pregnant that is)
..i believe he may have been being sarcastic,rude, or even like the previous answerer said.. calling you a "slut"
i really hate that... (read in full...)
Did I pop my cherry or is something else wrong?
Q. This is kind off embarassing, I was masturbating the other day using an electric toothbrush, then I hve a really great sensational feeling, but suddenly there was a sharp painful feeling and the tootbrush was bloody.... now my stomache feels like ...
A. 7 September 2010: It's hard to tell really the situation is a complex one
have you had sex before?
was this your first time masturbating?
was it the brush side inside you? or the handle?
if it continues to bleed or hurt i would strongly advise a trip to ... (read in full...)
Help, my man cheated on me.. with a man!
Q. Heres my story. I started dating my best friend of several years just about a year ago. Everything was going fine untill a few months ago when he started agruing with me over everything. He is always canceling plans and ditching me to go do drugs ...
A. 7 September 2010: PLEASE do not stoop that low, you will just be as low as him if you do decide to get revenge
2 wrongs don't make a right
in your case 5 wrongs don't make a right
if you are that angry with him to the point you believe you deserve "5 f... (read in full...)
Could taking plan b caused my late period?
Q. Hi i have a question me and my boyfriend had sex last month and it wasnt planned so we didnt use anything even though he didnt cum inside of me and i washed my slef right away i decided to take plan B on the third day i got my period a couple of ...
A. 6 September 2010: Yup I've actually taken Plan B a few times once i got pregnant even thought i took it twice within 72 hours
and the other times i also thought i was pregnant because my period was so late
my doctor told me sometimes in rare cases some woman... (read in full...)
Is 17 too young to move out?
Q. hey i have a question and i hope you all can help me out.. ok so my question is that if im 15 now and i have a job that pays very well im saving the money that i earned to move me in to an apartment when im 17..my family thinks its bad for me to ...
A. 2 September 2010: Well.. this is tricky
I personally moved out on my own when i was 16 too a whole different province(i live in canada lol)
it all depends on the laws really..in canada you can live on your own at the age of sixteen and your parents can not ... (read in full...)
Is this normal, or should I see a dr?
Q. Well i started not feeling good today.. i had terrible cramps and my lower back hurt really bad. It's two weeks before my period is supposed to start, and this really isn't normal for me. I'm on the pill, but i did forget one during the beginning of ...
A. 2 September 2010: YES this is completely normal.. when i was a teen i used to forget to take my birth control pill and usually a few weeks before i was suppose to get my period i would get HORRIBLE pains all down my back and in my abdomen almost to the point i ... (read in full...)
Have I started my period?
Q. MOD NOTE; OP's own title. help, i am 14 almost 15 and have just had brown discharge for three days (on and off) i have all the signs of development and think that i should have started by now. is there anything i can do to help my period start...
A. 2 September 2010: Yes this is your period brown blood is a sign of old blood this occurs before you start your period and also after it ends (sometimes through out the whole period cycle) this occurs in my period sometimes. sometimes for me it is just regular blood ... (read in full...)
Yeast infection pain!
Q. I'm a 14 year old girl and I just recently got over a Yeast Infection about a week or two ago. About 5 days ago I started itching real bad in my vagina area and I do trim down there so I just figured it was from the hair maybe starting to grow back. ...
A. 31 August 2010: hun..take a nice long warm bath NO bubbles
soak yourself
it sounds like you have irritated the skin 'down there'
i used to get yeast infections ALL the time when i was young
it's very painful itchy and annoying..so before bed take a b... (read in full...)
I am afraid I may lose my friends if I brake up with him!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with the same guy for a little over 5 years, we used to have sex all of the time but over the last two years I have lost interest in having sex with him. I'm not sure what to do about it, I know it's caus...
A. 30 August 2010: If you brake up with your boyfriend and your friends stop being friends with you.. they are not true friends to begin with and you are wasting your time trying to be there friends
If you are not happy in the relationship which you have repeated... (read in full...)
If my stomach makes weird noises, could that mean I'm pregnant?
Q. im very stressed and worried i had sex with my bf on a saturday aug. 21 and i just got off my period on thurday aug. 19. he left it in me about 2 times and now my stomach has been making weird noises. is there any why that means i could be ...
A. 26 August 2010: highly unlikely
1) i know before i get my period my stomach rumbles a lot.. it just means your period is about to come
2) its to early to have symptoms like that if you were
august 21 was 4 days ago.. it just does not happen that fast swe... (read in full...)
Once a Mummys' Boy, Always a Mummys' Boy?
Q. Hey, I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years, we're both serious about each other, and we've talked about having a serious future together. However, in a recent argument he text me saying "well guess what my mother is far more important than ...
A. 26 August 2010: My fiance was a HUGE momma's boy and she knew it and loved it
needless to say he is NOT a mama's boy anymore
when he moved out of her house she was devistated
he would call her ALL the time to tell her were he was and vice versa even... (read in full...)
Is it too early to start talking Marriage??
Q. Hey everyone i have a dilemma when i was in the 5th grade i met my first love we broke up in sixth grade and started back talking in high school about 3years ago but he was very conceited and stuck up now we are both 20 and now he have a daughter ...
A. 24 August 2010: OOOH sweetheart don't think that way about her having his child and you not
children are tough to take care of and if you want a child someday with him and things work out you will have that opportunity
don't rush things
one thing you h... (read in full...)
Is it too early to start talking Marriage??
Q. Hey everyone i have a dilemma when i was in the 5th grade i met my first love we broke up in sixth grade and started back talking in high school about 3years ago but he was very conceited and stuck up now we are both 20 and now he have a daughter ...
A. 24 August 2010: You do not know someone till you live with them..you may think you do but you don't
i would say try living with this man a few months and if you are satisfied MENTION marriage but don't force it on him
a man that is pressured tends to wait lo... (read in full...)
Should I come clean? or live with the guilt?
Q. i was out one night with some friends and i got really drunk and i didnt really know what i was doing. i ended up having sex with this boy but i have a boyfriend who ive been with for over a year now and i love and care for him, so should i come ...
A. 24 August 2010: sweetheart you need to OWN UP!
I cheated early on in my relationship(long story i don't have any excuses for it )
my boyfriend respected the fact i told him he was VERY upset with me and refused to talk to me for the rest of the day
i we... (read in full...)
My friend is on birth control and I'm not sure she's using it correctly!
Q. My friend and I both went to the public clinic about three months ago to start on Birth Control. I went on the Nuvaring, she's on the Evra patch. She's very sexually active with her boyfriend, and we are very open and honest about this kind ...
A. 24 August 2010: you CAN get pregnant on birth control my cousin had two beautiful children while she was on birth control
i got pregnant on birth control but lost it due to a miscarrage
id STRONGLY advise she get a test because if she is and she keeps taking... (read in full...)
Shaving down there...
Q. Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...
A. 24 August 2010: Some woman prefer to shave some woman don't prefer to shave..i go on what my fiance wants..
if he wants me to shave i will if he doesn't i don't
Alot of people may say "ew not shaving is gross"
but it really is not back in the 60's that wa... (read in full...)
Why does it feel different?
Q. Hello i have notice wen i rub my pussy very hard it gets very sensitive as i cum which i cnt be able to touch. and when my bf make me cum it doesnt feel the same as i cum during intercourse. why do i experience different orgasm?...
A. 22 August 2010: one may be clitoral stimulation and the other vaginal g spot stimulation
feels more sensative during clitoral orgasms more so than vaginal g spot orgasms
... (read in full...)
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